On Sydney Sage and body image

I recently heard someone trashing The Hunger Games, saying: "Sorry, I just don't think it's right having children try to kill each other for TV entertainment." The implication was that Suzanne Collins actually endorses those activities, which of course isn't true. She's simply telling a story, not an autobiography, and if anything, her books make a pointed commentary on the extremes our own society goes to for entertainment.

Anyway, it brings up something I see often, this idea that characters' actions or thoughts are what the author believes is THE RIGHT THING. Sure, some authors are preaching a message, and yes, being relatable and likable are important in characters. But that doesn't always mean characters are doing the right things or that they're telling you the right things. Like I said, authors are telling stories, and flawed characters are more interesting than perfect ones.

Which brings me to my main point: Bloodlines. Now, I'm going to talk about stuff in the book, and while it doesn't give away any big plot spoilers, purists who haven't read the book might want to skip this. When Bloodlines came out, I got a few upset emails from people about how *I* was saying that Sydney's size 4 (or 2 in the ARC) figure was too big. But I'm not saying that. Sydney is saying that. She isn't all-knowing or perfect (just really smart), and when she looks in the mirror, she thinks she needs to be a size smaller. Is that true? No, and it's clear from some of the comments others make about her. She looks great, but she doesn't see it that way. She just knows that she doesn't look like those super tall, super slim Moroi. And her dad isn't helping matters!

While I don't like unhealthy body images, I do like that Sydney has this flaw. She's so remarkably observant about the world but blind when it comes to herself. Many of us are, unfortunately, especially with looks. This is an issue that will be revisited in the series, one that she's going to have to work on. This also means you can't always trust Sydney to tell you the truth. That's not to say she's lying to you or that she's not reporting events around her correctly. But, she's telling the story through her eyes, and it's colored by her perceptions. She's our filter. This is true of all books. You can never trust any first person narrator to be telling an objective story, any more than you can in real life. Don't take their opinions as gospel--or as the author's opinion. :)

That's my deep thought for this snowy, icy day in Seattle. I actually meant to write about this months ago, to make sure there weren't readers out there taking the message the wrong way! Bloodlines came out the week my son was born, and like so many other things, this post got delayed. One of these days I'll catch up on all that I want to do...probably when he goes to college...
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message 1: by Toni (new)

Toni i loved what you said :)
every one has there own opinion and no-one's opinion should be taken as gospel and every one has a flaw no matter who they are in real life or in book.
i also think author's go to such great trouble to bring us wonderful book's to read and it's not something every body can do that i think people just need to get over them self and just enjoy the book for what it is.


message 2: by Kaitlin (new)

Kaitlin Smiffy Smith Toni wrote: "i loved what you said :)
every one has there own opinion and no-one's opinion should be taken as gospel and every one has a flaw no matter who they are in real life or in book.
i also think author..."


I agree


message 3: by Zoe (new)

Zoe If there was a 'love' button, i would have pressed it:) I love your blogs, they're so deep and meaningful:) Like a Zen life lesson as 'R.H' would have said:DD


message 4: by Kaitlin (new)

Kaitlin Smiffy Smith Zoe wrote: "If there was a 'love' button, i would have pressed it:) I love your blogs, they're so deep and meaningful:) Like a Zen life lesson as 'R.H' would have said:DD"

Hahaha that is like soo true!! :D


message 5: by Danielle (new)

Danielle Toni wrote: "i loved what you said :)
every one has there own opinion and no-one's opinion should be taken as gospel and every one has a flaw no matter who they are in real life or in book.
i also think author..."


Well said. I loved this book and I didn't take it like that. I just took it as part of the story. People just have to find something to criticize all the time because they have nothing better to do.


message 6: by Jacqui (new)

Jacqui I think that people should realize that when an author writes, the ideas are not a reflection on the authors viewpoint or opinion; it is a story, and character or plot flaws are part of the story and what makes it more real. If every book displayed the perfect character or setting then I probably would not enjoy reading anymore.


message 7: by A. (new)

A. This is incredibly true.


message 8: by Jeannie (new)

Jeannie Bowles I agree with you 100%. I think there are just to many negative people in this world that look for anything negative to say. I look at the positive and just stating a fact that you and suzanne are both awesome writters.


message 9: by [deleted user] (new)

I love Hunger Games, VA and Bloodlines... Totally agree with you Richelle...
In the words of Eminem - Rain Man "I say your all just too god damn sensitive, It's censorship".


message 10: by Tiffany (new)

Tiffany Agreed. I knew while I read Bloodlines that Sydney's body image wasn't what you thought but what SHE saw herself as. She may be intelligent, resourceful, etc but she has her flaws and a big one is her view of her own body. People just like to find something to complain about and sadly complain on items they have no clue what they are talking about.


message 11: by Karina (new)

Karina Seriously some people need to get a life.! It is just a book. Take it for what it is. I personally LOVED the Hunger Games Trilogy (and cant wait for the movie).!!! Equally loved the Bloodlines book. People are voicing complaints re a body image in a book about vampires and alchemists?? So drinking blood from willing humans doesn't concern them? Just the thought of someone not liking the way they look in a mirror. Keep up the great stories!!!!


message 12: by Danielle (new)

Danielle I am super excited about the hunger games movie as well!!!


message 13: by Renee (new)

Renee It was such an amazing series and looking forward to the movies too!


message 14: by Becky (new)

Becky Richelle,
I loved what you have to say, and this mini battle that Sdyney is having with herself makes her more real in my eyes. it takes the whole story and makes me more emotionally invested in her,and makes me take her off that high place at I tend to put main characters as well! I didn't think of this when I read the books but thanks for pointing out the dad. He is another reason for sydney being the way that she is and the pressure that is on her! Being a girl and working with girls of all different size I know the daily battle that we all have to be smaller, to be perfect, to be beautiful...it crazy! It even blows my mind that I see these amazing ladies who I think are gorgeous (and not a size 0-10)and to find out that they think that they're not enough. Sydney's character opens eyes and says that even if you achieve that size 0 will you be happy?... I hope that as the books go on sydney continues to brake free and find her confidence! and wow what an amazing author you are Richelle from going from Rose (who has bucket loads of confidence) to Sydney who needs it and both characters still grab me to the point I can't put the book down! i would love to see "bigger" girls come into YA stories but I thank you for not fanning the unspoken flame of your nothing if you aren't perfect!
thanks
Becky


message 15: by Liz (new)

Liz Amen. :)


message 16: by Kami (new)

Kami Exactly!


message 17: by Daniele (new)

Daniele Lanzarotta Well said. Can you imagine if all characters were flawless and always made the right choices?


message 18: by Kaitlin (new)

Kaitlin Smiffy Smith Daniele wrote: "Well said. Can you imagine if all characters were flawless and always made the right choices?"

two words "Boring Book"


message 19: by Azazel (new)

 Azazel   Malave Some times people, don't like to accept the reality of what's going on in the world. And when they realize what their doing they just dont want to admit it


message 20: by Read tilludrop (new)

Read tilludrop It's just a book. I think some people take it to heart or something. Purely for entertainment, it has acomplished that and more. I love Hunger games VA and bloodlines!!


message 21: by Kathy (new)

Kathy Davie Karina wrote: "Seriously some people need to get a life.! It is just a book. Take it for what it is. I personally LOVED the Hunger Games Trilogy (and cant wait for the movie).!!! Equally loved the Bloodlines b..."

Girl, you are too funny!!! And you make an excellent point about why the idiot wasn't more concerned about drinking...gasp...blood!


message 22: by Rea (new)

Rea K I'm good with Sydney whining about what size she wears. It's not like she keeps going on about it 24/7. I'm really horrible with blood, I've come close to puking when I read some of the graphic descriptions about blood-sucking that some authors go into. I prefer Vampire Academy, cos these guys seem normal and not very blood-sucking.


message 23: by Tara (last edited Jan 23, 2012 07:13PM) (new)

Tara Blumberg I completely agree. People who say things like that make me crazy. They're usually hypocrites beacause I'm sure they watch or read plenty of things that aren't whats considered good. I quess people who take what caracters say in books to be what the author thinks and doesn't like it shouldn't read, watch tv, or any other type of entertainment. Creating a world so we can escape from the real one, requires interesting characters and situations. If they weren't flawed we wouldn't read or watch TV.


message 24: by Esther Tai (new)

Esther Tai Thanks for this post Richelle! <3 I really appreciated it when I read about her body image issues in the book, it's a real issue that a lot of girls can relate to.


message 25: by Kathy (new)

Kathy Davie If anything, I think it's a good thing that Sydney is obsessing about her portly size 2 or 4--whatever it happens to be! It's a realistic comment upon our current society and reading about it from a fictional character's perspective can sometimes help people to understand this obsession we have with size. If it is an issue with which that reader is suffering then maybe "hearing her own voice" reflected back at her may help her acknowledge her own issues. At the very least, it makes other readers aware that this can be a problem.

Personally, I could seriously stand to lose half my size and when I hear others whining about needing to lose 10 pounds. I'm okay with that because each of us has our own image problems. "Your" 10 pounds is as much a problem for "you" as my 150 pounds is for me.


message 26: by Kristy (new)

Kristy Turner I completely agree. I have never looked at a fiction book as being the opinion of the author. I like well rounded characters. Vampire academy, bloodlines, and hunger games are in my top picks for books. My hats off to you Richelle awesome post!!!!!!


message 27: by Page (new)

Page You're a fantastic storyteller and your characters have such depth. I fully appreciate the fact that you'd even put in such a small quirk - I can't get behind characters who are too preachy or too perfect. No one is perfect - perfection is boring.

Any avid reader knows a work of fiction is exactly what it says it is... fiction. People just like to complain.

Keep writing the way you do - there are plenty of us who will keep reading your work, flaws and all.


message 28: by Samantha (new)

Samantha Mullins OMG what you said was so true


message 29: by Zarmal (new)

Zarmal Zoe wrote: "If there was a 'love' button, i would have pressed it:) I love your blogs, they're so deep and meaningful:) Like a Zen life lesson as 'R.H' would have said:DD"
so truee :)


message 30: by Sue (new)

Sue You should never have to defind anything you've written. You do an excellent job. People should start worry about the reality of life...not the fiction


message 31: by Alysha (new)

Alysha B Azazel Yorie wrote: "Some times people, don't like to accept the reality of what's going on in the world. And when they realize what their doing they just dont want to admit it"

I completely agree with you


message 32: by Sophie (new)

Sophie This falls into my 'freedom of speech w/o responsibility' category ;) It's unfortunate you have to defend/explain yourselves when the genre itself says "Fiction", but it's important to bring a healthy/smart perspective to the mix. Appreciate ya, as always!


message 33: by Nichola (new)

Nichola connor seriously some people really should get a hobby or even a life they are books,nobody says that they have to read them and if they really dont like them fine dont read them Simple!! however some of us really enjoy your stories and characters and although not everyone has the ability and imagination to escape into these kind of stories and away from some of the harsh realities that are happening all around us doesnt mean that they should slate what others do enjoy.I myself have loved all of your vampire academy bloodlines & hunger games trilogy and look forward to your next installments. pay no attention to silly people that have no idea what the words fantasy or fiction mean. keep bringing us fantastic stories that we want to read. we loves them...many thanks


message 34: by Deanna (new)

Deanna See this is why you are one of my favorite authors. I agree with everything you said and I read a lot of material that I disagree with but it helps me understand other peoples beliefs or helps me understand diversity better. I never read your books and say this is Rochelle's belief it is a story just like you said and I feel that it takes a talented author to be able to look at all things from different angles to tell a great story. It would be a very boring book if everything was one sided. Books would be very boring if there was nothing but perfection and no flaws. Keep doing what you do best!!!!


message 35: by Mikaela (new)

Mikaela Richelle Mead, you are a great author. I've read all the VA books and Bloodlines and cannot wait till the Golden Lily. I wrote a review on Vampire Academy, and i don't know if others can read it but, i hope you can read it.


message 36: by Lucylyn (new)

Lucylyn Goense I find the fact that Sydney has this flaw one of the only reasons I REALLY liked her in the first book as opposed to just liked her enough to get through it. As you and many other people have already pointed out, it helps to make her seem more real and more relate-able.


message 37: by Namida... (last edited Feb 03, 2012 12:14PM) (new)

Namida... I didn't miss Rose's narrative so much until I read bloodlines, it's still a good book, though lacking in good action and climax again due to loss of rose...I still liked it though, and I must say the fact that Richelle could move from Rose's shoes to Sydney's shoes that efficiently is really amazing
Some people hated The Hunger Games because of the ending, 'how could she do that to katniss!' I heard it too many times, what can I do to convince them that this is a book, this is drama, this is about war, I'm not a sadist for having thought the ending was brilliant and for admiring Bellatrix Lestrage's character :)


message 38: by Cel (new)

Cel Jel It is hard that the thought police do not realise that novels are fiction, and can be used to provide a mirror on society and make us think. As a response to the novel and its making us think we may act to make the novel less relevant for we have changed society for the better.
Reading the novel fully would give the balance of the view taken by one sentence in the novel.


♥ Ashleigh ♥  Contrary to popular belief I'm not actually mad! well said!


message 40: by Danielle (new)

Danielle Couldn't have said that better myself! don't people realize that? THat it's a story?!?


message 41: by Danielle (new)

Danielle Totally aree with you, I mean I basically don't read the book if the characters have no flaws, thats not something that i can look up to!


message 42: by Danielle (new)

Danielle Couldn't have said that better myself!


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