A captivating, heartrending novel about a Korean American teen navigating grief and first love who agrees to accept money from her estranged father in exchange for letting him get to know her—for fans of Nina LaCour, Kathleen Glasgow, and All My Rage.
Each night, Winter Moon counts her earnings dreaming of escape. Once she’s saved enough, she and her grandmother can finally take flight and disappear. But when her spiteful mother steals her money and blows through it all in one day, Winter is forced to turn to her estranged father, who recently reappeared in her life after being absent for more than a decade. They agree upon a simple contract: she spends time with him in exchange for payment.
It’s not easy reconciling the past and the present, though, and when she’s struck with a sudden loss, Winter flounders in grief and rage. The only person offering a hand is Joon, the new boy at school who sees Winter when no one else does.
When Winter discovers a secret her father has been keeping from her, things get even more complicated. As she navigates grief, first love, and forgiveness, Winter begins to forge connections, new and old, that make her question her future, her conviction to disappear, and what it really means to be family. Winter knows that broken things can never be fixed, but can they come back together in a different way?
Joanne Yi grew up in Orange County, California, and currently resides in Los Angeles. She graduated from the University of California San Diego and holds an MFA in creative writing from Antioch University. When she’s not writing, she enjoys baking, horror films, Korean dramas, and spicy food. All the Tomorrows After is her first novel. You can visit Joanne online at JoanneYi.com and on Instagram @WritingJoJo.
“Do the difficult things while they are easy and do the great things while they are small. A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step.” – Lao Tzu
Winter Moon wants nothing more than to travel with her beloved halmoni. She’s been saving her money so they can experience the beauty and excitement the world has to offer them. It doesn’t matter if she hates her job. As long as she has her dream and her grandmother to keep her going, nothing is impossible.
But when her mother steals her money for her own selfish desires, Winter has no other choice but to connect with her estranged father and agrees to spend time with him, for a price. Because nothing in this life is free, right? Especially not love, forgiveness, and trust. But when tragedy comes and turns her world upside down, Winter navigates grief and anger as she experiences her first love with a new boy at school, discovers a secret her father is trying desperately to hide, and reconciles with people she has pushed away over the years or who have abandoned her.
Will Winter ever find happiness? Does she get to fulfill her dream of traveling the world? Will she learn to forgive those who hurt her and accept healing from those who are willing to offer it?
This was such an impactful and heartbreaking book! 😭 And it’s a debut novel? Yup, I’m just sobbing at this point.
I don’t think I have ever related to a character as much as I did with Winter Moon. I, too, want to travel the world and see all the places I’ve read about and researched. But, like Winter, I think my desire to travel is hiding the truth of what my real desire is: to run away from something or someone, which in all likelihood, is me. 😅 I also have a grandma who suffered a stroke, and she has good days and bad days. It hurts to see her unable to do the things she loves to do, so I completely understood Winter’s heartache and grief. I usually get annoyed with characters who are stubborn in their thinking and perception of the world, but I found Winter to be a relatable and flawed character who felt human and real. I wanted her to be happy and fulfill her dreams. ❤
And I’d like to take a moment to appreciate Joon, the new boy at Winter’s school. He was such a sweet, kind, and gentle soul. 🥹 I smiled whenever he showed up and tried to befriend Winter. Even though he was a side character, he had such an impact on the story and on Winter’s life. ❤
Heck, all of the characters, actually, were in the story for a reason and added to the plot. I don’t think I found anything wrong with the book. The writing was excellent, easy to read, and very engaging. The plot was intriguing, well-structured, and the ending was somewhat predictable yet satisfying. And I loved learning about Korean culture and food. All in all, I highly recommend this book, and I cannot wait for more books by Joanne Yi! 😁🫶🏼
Thank you to Simon and Schuster Children’s Publishing for the arc via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review! All opinions and statements are my own. 📕
❗Content Warnings❗ Death & grief. Swearing: Yes Spice: No (closed-door)
Young Adult coming of age; All the Tomorrows After by Joanne Yi
A sad and poignant novel of becoming your own person. Knowing your parents did the best they could, forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation. First love, and knowing you are lovable. Life has not been easy for Winter Moon, her mother is selfish and cold, clearly resenting her daughter for what her life has become. Winter’s grandmother is loving but very old and sick. After being robbed and then fired, she makes contact with her long estranged father who wants to get to know her.
Melancholic.
TW: Parental neglect, ALS diagnosis, death of a grandparent
i received a digital review copy from the publisher as part of their influencer program. i am leaving this review voluntarily.
content warnings: grief, death of loved one, ALS, parent estrangement, emotional & physical abuse from parent
every night, winter counts her savings to one day disappear with her halmoni. but when her mother finds these savings and blows through them in one day, winter starts to feel like she’ll never escape. luckily for her, her estranged father’s wife finds her and offers to pay winter to get to know her father. winter needs the money, but she finds it difficult to put the past behind her, especially when new hurts begin to pop up. as she navigates grief, first love, and forgiveness, winter begins to evaluate her future plans and what family really means.
i love books exploring the theme of grief, so i knew i had to read this one. i thought this book portrayed grief so realistically, from the ugly moments of lashing out at people, to the lovely moments of sharing memories of the person who passed, to the numbness and confusion and everything else in between. ALS was represented through one of the characters, and i could tell even before reading the author’s note that this was something personal to the author due to how intimate the details of this diagnosis were.
there was also the depiction of having toxic and estranged parents. as the blurb points out, winter’s mom steals her savings, but she was somehow worse than that. her mother was young when winter was born, and became a single parent not too long after, and it’s clear she takes out her regrets on winter. i appreciated how, at least in my opinion, the narrative didn’t attempt to excuse the bad things winter’s mom put her through. as for winter’s dad, i was very skeptical of him at first, especially since he sent his wife to talk to winter rather than going himself. however, he made up for the lost time as much as he could (both monetarily and emotionally). winter also gained a stepmom and half-sister through getting to know him, which i loved.
while this book primarily focused on familial relationships, there was some romance, as well. not in a way that makes this a romance book, but enough to comment on. i thought that winter and joon’s relationship was done well and was realistic to their age and personal situations. joon was such a good guy, and it was really sweet to see how he was there for winter along the way.
overall, this was a great read exploring themes of grief, family, and first love. i recommend this to any YA reader, as long as you are okay with the content.
What a beautiful, gut-wrenching and heartbreaking read!
Winter Moon is going through the motions…all she wants to do is save up enough money and spirit herself and her grandmother away to places unknown…However, unexpected circumstances cause her terrible mother to steal her hard earned money and aid comes in the form of her absentee father who agrees to pay her in exchange for spending time with him.
What a beautiful and devastating book this is! The grief felt here is so heartwrenching that I cried off/on throughout the book. Told in the POV of Winter who is a prickly kind of character that you can’t help but root for. She pushes people away in the fear of getting hurt and feels like she does not deserve any goodness for being a “bad” person. Yet, she clings to the only family she ever knew, her halmoni (her grandmother), who she has to care for due a stroke that leaves her grandmother wasting away. She resents her grandmother for not trying harder to stay alive and for leaving her on her own - Gahhh, this one hit a little too close to my current circumstances where my mum recently passed from cancer!
Her relationship with Melody, her best friend, was real and raw…with them pushing each other away and slowly mending their relationship as Winter slowly lets Melody in again. I adore her relationship with Joon, her first love as he accepts her as who she is and she was brave enough to let him go and refuse to tether him down even when she wants to be with him - the agonyyyy!!! And her relationship with her mum, Sunny is sad and heartbreaking to see, causing her home circumstances to be in turmoil and leading her to be in a constant state of depression and just going through the motions to escape her current life.
I love how real the family dynamics is portrayed here…especially with the return of her absentee father, Sung along with her stepmother, Helena and stepsister, Avery. The resentment she felt for Sung is complex and emotional. I cried when they finally spoke about the why and how she does end up forgiving him. My heart broke when she found him only to face the possibility of losing him again due to unexpected circumstances
The story is beautiful and accompanied with the loveliest writing full of lyrical elements and metaphors. The pacing was great and the chapters were short and easy to digest. I read this in one sitting and could not put the book down especially throughout the last half of the book. Then, I had to sit for 2 days with these feelings to process this beautiful read while I built these character boards…
While this book is YA, it does hit some mature themes like the many facets of grief and complex family dynamics and would be an enjoyable read. I would recommend having a box of tissues nearby just in case!
Fun fact: I was crying off/on while reading this book that my husband questioned me. When he found out this book was the cause, he almost took it away on the excuse of it being unhealthy and questioned why I would read such sad books…Men!!!
Thank you, Simon & Schuster Ca for the wonderful physical arc. It was so lovely to be able to annotate this copy.
Ps: I created character boards for all the characters and these can be found on my bookstagram post @lebookwormbunny!
This was a wonderful debut novel by this author and I look forward to reading more by her in the future. It is about a teenage girl, Winter Moon, who from the outset, you’re not really sure you’re going to like. She lives a pretty solitary existence, and she is fine with that. What you see is what you get, and most of the time, it’s not very nice. But as the story unfolds, we learn why she is the way she is. She sabotages all of her relationships because she feels that she isn’t worthy of anyone’s attention. Her father left the family when she was 4 years old, and all throughout her life, her mother never had anything nice to say to her. You find yourself rooting for her as a young boy comes into her life and just lets her be the way she is. A transformation begins in her that you honestly can’t put the book down until you see how everything pans out. There were quite a few moments that brought tears to my eyes.
Wow. This book just wrung me out. It has one of the most unlikeable, angry, prickly characters who isn't not really seen but also is aware of not being seen. She has a dying grandmother, a neglectful mother and a missing father. And, when her father comes back into her life, she's just angry and lashes out. Winter has a lot to deal with and maybe has a first love. This interrogates anger and grief so well, as well as the complications of being a caretaker. This book, along with Claire Osongco's Midnight With You, and Xixi Tian's All the Way Around the Sun, are books that all should read.
I received an arc from the publisher but all opinions are my own.
4.75 Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for an advanced readers copy in exchange for an honest review. This name is a heartbreaking coming of age story. Exploring all the different kinds of complicated family dynamics that many people face. Winter is a main character that will have you rooting for her despite her flaws. The relationships she has with the people around her feel so real and so raw that reading this book felt like reading someone’s diary i shouldn’t have been reading. I don’t know much about ALS but this portrayal was so heartbreaking that I really felt the full weight the disease had on everyone in the novel. All of the characters had their flaws but they felt so real that this story just felt so personal. Even though this book is technically a YA the story is very mature and i think it would be enjoyable to all ages. If you plan to read this be sure to have a tissue box nearby because you are going to need it. I highly recommend everyone pick this book up and give it a try.
This book surprised me in the best of ways. When I first started reading, I was unsure whether I would be able to make it through--the characters were hard and unlikable. But as I got further into the story, I became completely engrossed. This is a high interest story that gives students exposure to Korean words, Korean food, and some traditions, as well as more universal experiences of American teenage-hood. I really appreciate everything about the journey the characters go on and the ways in which they learn to navigate their different communities. A great read for a unit on identity development, personal voice, and/or community.
There are some slightly (appropriately, realistically) spicy moments that would be good to warn students about ahead of a recommendation as well as some abuse and mentions that are within the realm of suicide/suicidal ideation. A definite recommend for 9-12 graders.
Sometimes a book just unexpectedly knocks you off your feet. This is one of those books.
Winter is understandably complicated and frustrating at times, pushing people away and maintaining a single-minded focus, but it pays off as you see her create and rebuild connections over the course of the story. While there is some romance, I think the heart of the book is the elements of family, grief, and forgiveness. I actually had to pause reading this several times because I was out in public and was afraid I was going to start crying! I absolutely understand the desire to preserve your memory, to want to be remembered as you were and not as you are after battling illness or age. There is power in being able to make your own decisions, but there is also power in allowing yourself to be surrounded and supported by loved ones.
This book contains parental abandonment, physical/emotional abuse, terminal illness, and the death of a grandparent and parent, so take care of yourself when reading.
I chose All the Tomorrow’s After on a whim because I needed an add-on book from BOTM for my book club. I’ll admit, none of the August titles seemed appealing to me at first, but I went with All the Tomorrow’s After because I read in the description that it was a coming-of-age story. In the past, I’ve realized that many of my favorite reads have been coming-of-age novels, so I decided to give it a chance.
I know it’s only August, but All the Tomorrow’s After might be my favorite book of 2025 so far, and it’s a YA novel. I’m not sure what exactly qualifies a book as YA. Maybe it depends on the characters’ ages or the subject matter, but either way, I think readers of any age will love this one.
This is a story that will stay with me for a long time, and the ending made me sob like a baby. It’s hard to put into words what this novel made me feel because I saw so many parts of myself in it… Winter Moon’s relationship with her ill father toward the end, the experience of falling in love for the first time, navigating normal teenage life while dealing with deep trauma, and managing everyday struggles in a nontraditional household.
I know I’ll be going back to highlight some of my favorite lines and re-reading this book very soon. Joanne Yi’s writing is absolutely beautiful.
This book was a true gem, and I’m so glad to have it on my bookshelf forever and ever. 💜
Winter has a challenging life. Not only does she have normal teenage issues to deal with, she also is the primary caretaker for her ailing grandmother since her own mother can’t be bothered to help. It’s been just the three of them since her dad abandoned them years ago. Eventually it becomes two…Winter and her mother. Until one day a strange woman tracks her down, determined to bring Winter and her father together again. But it’s not that simple. There are a lot of issues and feelings to wade through, and Winter isn't sure if she’s willing to put in the work. This book is full of emotions. Anger and resentment, sorrow and hope. It’s a story about honesty and forgiveness and being true to yourself. Definitely five stars!
This book has everything going for itself to not be a drag: short chapters, good writing and a protagonist that is extremely evocative of that of the early 2010's YA but despite all of this, the first quarter of the novel still reads like the first chapter. In fact, even at the last page, it almost feels like it never actually started, just 400-pages worth of an overlong stay at the initium. I'm a little bummed out because I was so excited to receive the ARC. However, I'll be looking out for more books by the author, this one just wasn't for me unfortunately.
My heart was broken and mended so many times during this story that it physically ached afterwards. At one point, I had tears streaming down my face continuously for 30 minutes. All that to say--what a masterfully told story. What a beautiful and heart wrenching journey of grief and forgiveness. Wow. I am in awe of the way the author told this story. I felt like I was reading someone’s real life. I felt with Winter through her trials and was so happy to see her allow herself joy. I will be picking up whatever Joanne Yi writes next.
Thank you to the publisher for providing me with an e-arc in exchange for my honest review.
This book surprised me in the best way possible! I know it’s marketed as YA but it is so well written that anyone would enjoy it. I love Winter’s character and her coming of age story. She has been through so much yet she perseveres. Her mom is horrible, her grandmother is adorable, and I love the relationships with her best friend, Melody, and with Joon. The relationship with her dad, though arguably most important, is a rollercoaster ride and I think it is so important that she goes through all the feelings that she experiences with him and his new family. All in all, this is a wonderful debut novel that should be cherished.
All the Tomorrows After is a beautifully written young adult novel that stays with you long after the last page. The main character navigates grief, complicated family bonds, and the fragile hope of belonging. Joanne Yi’s lyrical, fast-paced writing makes this both an emotional and unforgettable read, one that deeply explores the meaning of family.
4.5 ★ incredibly beautiful story. there were so many quotes from this book that really touched me. amazing character development of every single character. i love how winter truly found something in other people and herself by the end of the story
I love the realness of this story, the difficult things in Winter’s life were not resolved with a neat bow all tied up perfectly. Reality of estranged parents, loss, love, grief, and growing up and choosing your life were so well done.
This book has easily become my favorite Young Adult novel. I was so invested in Winter from the beginning and her journey to discover self-love through heartbreaking grief and complicated relationships. I cried multiple times and truly felt like I was inside Winter's heart and mind as she struggled through loss and disappointment.
As a Korean American child of immigrant parents, I was predisposed to love "All the Tomorrows After" (my bias), but I've never felt more seen reading a book before.
There were so many touchpoints between Winter Moon, the people in her orbit, and myself that made the reading that much more meaningful. The joys and hardships of diaspora life, the loss felt as both children and parents in death, and so much more. Yet all the places where our experiences diverged reinforced the necessity and value of these books--from spectacles of the insanely affluent to quieter stories like Winter's.
At its heart, "All the Tomorrows After" is an exploration of grief and loss set against the backdrop of Winter Moon's senior high school year in suburban California. Winter is rendered with meticulous care and fine detail, much like the woodworking that features prominently in the story. Though Winter's mom Sunny may not show love for her, it was a simple thing to empathize with Winter's sorrow and understand her flawed choices as someone who has been forced to take on responsibilities beyond her age and ability.
The writing is spare and elegant, conveying Winter's personality so fittingly as the story unfolds in efficient one-to-two page chapters that close with a gut-punch of an emotional observation as often as a surprising plot development. Winter's voice comes across as detached and indifferent, yet it's impossible to miss the tenderness and longing that bleeds through as she navigates so many kinds of loss.
This story is filled with messy characters dealing with hard circumstances that feels wholly authentic yet gentle as well. Not a Korean drama but a Korean American one, which resonated so much with me. Lots of things happen in the plot, but much of the story happens in the spaces between as Winter tries to find herself and her place in a world that seems to stop for no one. She can't dam the flow of time with reclaimed memories or fragile hopes of reconciled relationships, so she finds her way by redeeming the past to propel herself forward.
And boy, oh boy, did it make me cry, which the characters of the book would wholly endorse.
Language: R (94 swears, 25 “f”); Mature Content: PG13; Violence: PG13 Sung, Winter’s father, left her with her mother and grandmother when she was a child and seemingly never looked back. A senior in high school now, Winter longs to run away like he did and is saving up to do just that, but then the stepmother Winter didn’t know existed shows up begging her to come see her father and unintentionally gets Winter fired. Winter is desperate enough to make a financial arrangement with her estranged father—how desperate is he for a relationship he turned his back on years ago? Reading Winter’s story is painful because the weight of loss is something that we all understand. No matter how much she tries to enforce her protective shell of solitude, Winter cannot escape the pain of everything going wrong and losing pieces of her heart. To read her story is to recognize that every kind of loss and grief is painful and that it’s okay to allow yourself to not be alone, to allow yourself to make more connections despite the risk of more loss later. Her story cannot be described as enjoyable but it is worth it. Winter is Korean American. While the book takes place in California, the majority of characters that Winter interacts with are also Korean. Melody is described as bi. The mature content rating is for underage drinking, mentions of drugs, illegal activity, kissing, partial nudity, innuendo, and sex. The violence rating is for assault, child abuse, and mentions of suicide. Reviewed for https://kissthebook.blogspot.com/
4.5 — I have to sit on this one, it could be a five star
Wow—this is Joanne Yi’s debut novel? I can’t wait to see what she writes from here. This book was an incredible journey of grief, self-discovery, family, life, and love. This book delivers exactly what is promised in the synopsis and does so beautifully. This book made me smile. It made me laugh. It made me ache. Yi’s writing is gorgeous. Her takes on grief (especially grief related to the loss of a father #deaddadclub) are stunning. “In science, everything has a name. Body parts, plants, animals, chemicals, all the strange and interesting phenomena that arise in nature. But grief is just grief, and within grief is a universe of complex, nameless creatures that shift and coil and attack. There is no map to guide me.” Someone please tattoo this on my forearm — no, I want this on my headstone. I am actively talking myself into a five star rating.
This book delivers everything it says it will but it does it in a breathtaking, aching sort of way. Everything ends up exactly how one might predict and yet not that at all.
ETA: actually I’m not done — I loved how the author resolves one of the main conflicts in this book. There’s a trend that went around along the lines of “it’s my mom/dad’s first time living too” and this book encapsulated that but it didn’t excuse anything. Joanne Yi — I’m signing up for every notification to ensure I’m ready to preorder on your next release (this is not a threat)
I love reading books about other cultures and I have not read enough about the Korean culture. Her description of Korean food made me google repeatedly and I found myself getting hungry for Korean food. I’ve been to Korean restaurants and they were delicious. It’s time to go back.
Winter Moon is a senior in high school and lives in a small apartment with her selfish mother and a beloved grandmother. Her father left them when she was young. They struggle to make ends meet each month. After over a decade of not being in Winter’s life, her father wants to get to know her again. Winter is resentful and only agrees if he pays her.
The story explores themes of grief, introspection, and the boundaries of forgiveness. It was an emotional and well written novel. Thank you. @NetGalley for the advanced e-copy of this book. All opinions expressed are my own.
This book stole my heart. It was so hard reading each page. Not because it’s poorly written or even that some of the characters are highly unlikable. It’s because it’s so goddamn relatable, and I’m experiencing every emotion known to man. Including gut-wrenching, nasty sobs to cause me to stop reading until I can see through the tears. All the Tomorrows After tackles so many important topics such as abandonment, neglect, abuse, declining health in family members, grief, depression, heartbreak, etc. It was a beautiful take on how life is constantly throwing hardships, but all it takes is the right support system to help push one forward. A brilliant example of how forgiveness allows us to continue on, instead of letting the hate and resentment take root and keep us in the past. 10/10 would recommend.
Wow! This is my new favorite book. It has been a long time since a book made me cry. I can’t believe it’s Yi’s debut novel. I will forever read whatever she releases.
It was so refreshing to read about a fully developed Asian American character. We are so often reduced to fit in a box of what’s expected from Asians in books or movies. Yi kept it authentic without being too hard to follow, as someone who is not Korean. You become fully immersed in Winter’s world. It was so sad, but so beautiful.
I’m not always a fan of YA or depressing subject matter, but this story just has everything it needed to pull at your heart in the best way. The end didn’t leave you hanging in a frustrating way, but left it open ended enough that you could keep imagining what good things you hope happen for Winter.
I’ll be recommending this book to anyone who asks!
Joanne Yi’s writing captured and communicated emotions so throughly that I was sucked into the story immediately. I read half of it in my first sitting and could have easily finished the whole book if other responsibilities didn’t get in the way. It follows Winter’s life which is slowly being wrenched from her hands as she struggles to hold on for just a bit longer. She dreams of all of the places she will go once she gets just a bit more money. When her mother finds her money and spends it, Winter is devastated. Back to square one she is forced to reach out and make a deal with her estranged father. This story really takes you on the roller coaster through anger, grief, first love and so many more emotions as Winter slowly tries to figure out what she wants out of life. Told through short chapters that pack a strong emotional punch.
This book actually really surprised me in many ways as it book was beautiful and fragile. The emotions that throughly sucked you into the story surrounding a young Korean woman trying her best to deal with the culture and values of within her family. It takes you through an insane roller coaster ride of angry, grief, first love and countless more that we experience in life. In the end, Winter tries her best to put the pieces together in her own emotional life. Definitely a story that holds a punch to life.
This felt like a new classic as far as YA coming-of-age goes. Winter’s challenges and growth are so relatable. Young love, grief, family dynamics, peer relationships, everyday high school experiences, personal strength, and the idea of home are explored in such an earnest and honest way. I appreciated the way that Winter being Korean is not just used as a description but her culture and identity are instead laced throughout the novel. I picked this as a BOTM pick and was so excited to see it on Libro.fm as an Educator ALC; the narration was very well done. This will definitely be added to my classroom library when I can get another copy. Thank you to Libro.fm for the ALC!
This BOTM pick truly caught me by surprise! I really enjoyed this more than I anticipated. I love how YA can take you back to a time of adolescence and the author truly helps you understand Winter! This is a story about forgiveness, love, and choosing yourself. For an authors first book I’m impressed! Truly moving story.
This book properly wrecked me! I was not expecting to cry my eyes out but here we are! If you like Kristin Hannah, you’ll probably enjoy this heartfelt debut by Joanne Yi. It’s a young adult book but is a little dark and mature. I’d say it’s okay for teens to read, there is implied sex, but nothing graphic. Really a beautiful book, I highly recommend this one!!!