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The Last Lecture
Librarian's Note: Alternate cover edition for ISBN 10: 1401323251, ISBN 13: 9781401323257.
"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand."
--Randy Pausch
"We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand."
--Randy Pausch
A lot of professors give talks titled "The Last Lecture." Professors are asked to consider their demise and to ruminate on what matters most to them. And while they speak, audiences can't help but mull the same question: What wisdom would we impart to the world if we knew it was our last chance? If we had to vanish tomorrow, what would we want as our legacy?
When Randy Pausch, a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon, was asked to give such a lecture, he didn't have to imagine it as his last, since he had recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. But the lecture he gave--"Really Achieving Your Childhood Dreams"--wasn't about dying. It was about the importance of overcoming obstacles, of enabling the dreams of others, of seizing every moment (because "time is all you have...and you may find one day that you have less than you think"). It was a summation of everything Randy had come to believe. It was about living.
In this book, Randy Pausch has combined the humor, inspiration and intelligence that made his lecture such a phenomenon and given it an indelible form. It is a book that will be shared for generations to come.
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First published April 8, 2008
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Randy Pausch
15 books1,451 followersI am flattered and embarassed by all the recent attention to my "Last Lecture." I am told that, including abridged versions, over six million people have viewed the lecture online. The lecture really was for my kids, but if others are finding value in it, that is wonderful. But rest assured; I'm hardly unique. Send your kids to Carnegie Mellon and the other professors here will teach them valuable life lessons long after I'm gone. -- Randy
Randy Pausch was a Professor of Computer Science, Human-Computer Interaction, and Design at Carnegie Mellon University (CMU) in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States and a best-selling author, who achieved worldwide fame for his "The Last Lecture" speech on September 18, 2007 at Carnegie Mellon University.
In August 2006, Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He pursued a very aggressive cancer treatment that included Whipple procedure surgery and experimental chemotherapy; however, in August 2007, he was told the cancer had metastasized to his liver and spleen, which meant it was terminal. He then started palliative chemotherapy, intended to extend his life as long as possible. At that time, doctors estimated he would remain healthy for another three to six months. On May 2, 2008, a PET scan showed that his cancer had spread to his lungs, some lymph nodes in his chest and that he had some metastases in his peritoneum and retroperitoneum.
On June 26, 2008, Pausch indicated that he was considering stopping further chemotherapy because of the potential adverse side effects. He was, however, considering some immuno-therapy-based approaches.
On July 24, 2008, on behalf of Pausch, his friend (anonymous) posted a message on Pausch's webpage indicating cancer progression further than what was expected from recent PET scans and Pausch becoming more sick than ever. It was announced that his family had sent him into a hospice program — palliative care to those at the end of life.
On July 25, 2008, Diane Sawyer announced on Good Morning America that Pausch had died earlier that morning.
Randy Pausch was a Professor of Computer Science, Human-Computer Interaction, and Design at Carnegie Mellon University (CMU) in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States and a best-selling author, who achieved worldwide fame for his "The Last Lecture" speech on September 18, 2007 at Carnegie Mellon University.
In August 2006, Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He pursued a very aggressive cancer treatment that included Whipple procedure surgery and experimental chemotherapy; however, in August 2007, he was told the cancer had metastasized to his liver and spleen, which meant it was terminal. He then started palliative chemotherapy, intended to extend his life as long as possible. At that time, doctors estimated he would remain healthy for another three to six months. On May 2, 2008, a PET scan showed that his cancer had spread to his lungs, some lymph nodes in his chest and that he had some metastases in his peritoneum and retroperitoneum.
On June 26, 2008, Pausch indicated that he was considering stopping further chemotherapy because of the potential adverse side effects. He was, however, considering some immuno-therapy-based approaches.
On July 24, 2008, on behalf of Pausch, his friend (anonymous) posted a message on Pausch's webpage indicating cancer progression further than what was expected from recent PET scans and Pausch becoming more sick than ever. It was announced that his family had sent him into a hospice program — palliative care to those at the end of life.
On July 25, 2008, Diane Sawyer announced on Good Morning America that Pausch had died earlier that morning.
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July 27, 2008
I sat down to write my review of “The Last Lecture” on Friday July 25th. Before I started to write, I decided to check Randy Pausch's website for any updates on his condition. He had died that morning at the age of 47. The book, and the lecture itself, now take on new meaning.
For those who aren't aware, Randy Pausch was a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon University. The university has a tradition of inviting professors to give a lecture where they pretend that it is their last chance ever to talk to their students. What would you say? What wisdom would you impart? What are your lessons in life? For Randy, this was not a hypothetical question. Barely a minute into the lecture he introduced “the elephant in the room”: advanced pancreatic cancer that would kill him in a matter of months. With this revelation out of the way, he gave a talk about achieving your childhood dreams and enabling the dreams of others. The lecture was so full of optimism, clarity, hope, humour, and sincerity that the YouTube video went viral and a few months later it was published as a book. “The Last Lecture” contains everything that Randy covered in the lecture, plus some other anecdotes and pearls of wisdom from his life and experience.
Like the lecture, the book is earnest and straightforward. Randy tells a story then gives us the moral in case we missed it. He fills his stories with humour, occasionally laugh out loud. What comes across most strongly is his deep love for his wife and children who he knew he would be leaving behind. It's hard to read this book and not have a good impression of the author. He seems like a great guy, someone that you would love to have as a mentor or friend. I think this is reason that the lecture was such a success; his personality makes a watcher puts more stock in his words. This still comes across in the book, although not as strongly as in the lecture. In fact, without seeing him on video and hearing him speak the words, reading the book can almost get a bit tiring. I recall thinking on a number of occasions: “Ok, we know that you're a really smart guy who works really hard and never gives up, you don't need to keep telling me”.
Some of the advice in the book, especially that which goes beyond what he said in the lecture, can be a bit tough to swallow. For example, his advice to always carry 200$ in cash in your wallet; does he think that only the upper middle class are going to read this book? Similarly, he often speaks of the great mentors, friends, and supporters that he has had through his life; not everyone goes to a university where the professors have such extensive connections to facilitate their student's careers. Finally, his advice to never give up (“Brick walls are not there to keep us out, they are there so we can show how much we want something”) sometimes comes across as as sense of entitlement. He never says to expect something for nothing, but does imply that anything you want to achieve is possible if only you work hard enough at it. Advice like this sometimes crosses the line into sappiness and glurge. Fortunately these moments are fairly rare, and as long as you don't read the book in a single sitting (which is quite possible) then you probably won't feel too overwhelmed.
Interestingly, shortly after I watched the last lecture on YouTube a student of mine asked me a similar question to the topic of the last lecture. What do I consider my most important lesson in life so far? It is quite a difficult question to answer. I'm sure that I don't have the life experience to give a good enough answer, but it's quite possible that this student was bright enough to recognize that and learn something from the incompleteness of my relatively uninformed response. I hope that someday I can have the kind of perspective that Randy shows in the lecture and the book. We need people like Randy, who have a clear picture of what they have learned in life and who are willing to share it. Regardless of whether you or I agree completely with his advice, what shines through is that this was a man who lived his life according to principles that he believed in, and that he thought others would benefit from hearing. His life, lecture, book, and his death remind me of a quote from Dr. Howard Thurman: "Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive”. Even as he lived the last few months of his life, I know that Randy was truly alive.
For those who aren't aware, Randy Pausch was a computer science professor at Carnegie Mellon University. The university has a tradition of inviting professors to give a lecture where they pretend that it is their last chance ever to talk to their students. What would you say? What wisdom would you impart? What are your lessons in life? For Randy, this was not a hypothetical question. Barely a minute into the lecture he introduced “the elephant in the room”: advanced pancreatic cancer that would kill him in a matter of months. With this revelation out of the way, he gave a talk about achieving your childhood dreams and enabling the dreams of others. The lecture was so full of optimism, clarity, hope, humour, and sincerity that the YouTube video went viral and a few months later it was published as a book. “The Last Lecture” contains everything that Randy covered in the lecture, plus some other anecdotes and pearls of wisdom from his life and experience.
Like the lecture, the book is earnest and straightforward. Randy tells a story then gives us the moral in case we missed it. He fills his stories with humour, occasionally laugh out loud. What comes across most strongly is his deep love for his wife and children who he knew he would be leaving behind. It's hard to read this book and not have a good impression of the author. He seems like a great guy, someone that you would love to have as a mentor or friend. I think this is reason that the lecture was such a success; his personality makes a watcher puts more stock in his words. This still comes across in the book, although not as strongly as in the lecture. In fact, without seeing him on video and hearing him speak the words, reading the book can almost get a bit tiring. I recall thinking on a number of occasions: “Ok, we know that you're a really smart guy who works really hard and never gives up, you don't need to keep telling me”.
Some of the advice in the book, especially that which goes beyond what he said in the lecture, can be a bit tough to swallow. For example, his advice to always carry 200$ in cash in your wallet; does he think that only the upper middle class are going to read this book? Similarly, he often speaks of the great mentors, friends, and supporters that he has had through his life; not everyone goes to a university where the professors have such extensive connections to facilitate their student's careers. Finally, his advice to never give up (“Brick walls are not there to keep us out, they are there so we can show how much we want something”) sometimes comes across as as sense of entitlement. He never says to expect something for nothing, but does imply that anything you want to achieve is possible if only you work hard enough at it. Advice like this sometimes crosses the line into sappiness and glurge. Fortunately these moments are fairly rare, and as long as you don't read the book in a single sitting (which is quite possible) then you probably won't feel too overwhelmed.
Interestingly, shortly after I watched the last lecture on YouTube a student of mine asked me a similar question to the topic of the last lecture. What do I consider my most important lesson in life so far? It is quite a difficult question to answer. I'm sure that I don't have the life experience to give a good enough answer, but it's quite possible that this student was bright enough to recognize that and learn something from the incompleteness of my relatively uninformed response. I hope that someday I can have the kind of perspective that Randy shows in the lecture and the book. We need people like Randy, who have a clear picture of what they have learned in life and who are willing to share it. Regardless of whether you or I agree completely with his advice, what shines through is that this was a man who lived his life according to principles that he believed in, and that he thought others would benefit from hearing. His life, lecture, book, and his death remind me of a quote from Dr. Howard Thurman: "Don't ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive and then go do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive”. Even as he lived the last few months of his life, I know that Randy was truly alive.
June 12, 2008
My review of this book will not be popular, but I must be honest. I'm halfway through this book, and although I appreciate a positive voice, it's really not that interesting or helpful. If I could sum up this book in three words, they would be "yay for me". The author tells us how great his childhood was, then that he accomplished all his childhood dreams, got the girl of his dreams...etc etc etc. It's really not a book how to better your own life, as much as it him telling us how great his life has been. Yes I realize it was born from a lecture, but maybe every life, achievement, and event in this world doesn't necessarily need a book to be made about them.
Having said all negative stuff, Mr. Pausch sounds like a good guy.
Having said all negative stuff, Mr. Pausch sounds like a good guy.
June 9, 2022
what wisdom would you impart to the world if you knew it was your last chance? if you were gone tomorrow, what would you want to be your legacy?
carnegie mellon university is known for its last lecture series, in which professors are invited to give a talk where they consider their demise and ruminate on what matters most to them, essentially answering those very questions. randy pausch was one of those professors and this book was his last lecture.
i have found it rather difficult to critique a dying mans thoughts and words to his wife and children. because of the nature of this book, i cant review this how i normally would with a novel. so i am only left with the option of sharing how i felt after i closed the final page.
i will admit, i have never given much thought about dying. but more regretfully, i have never given much thought about living. in most aspects, i am content. im healthy, i have a loving family, i received a wonderful education, i can provide for myself, i have travelled, i have hobbies that make me happy. what more is there to life?
i could be kinder. i could be more grateful. i could complain a little less. i could be more patient. i could reach out more to others. i could be more curious. i could set more goals for myself. i could be more optimistic.
there is nothing wrong with contentment, but there is also nothing wrong with seeing how we can better improve ourselves. we are all works in progress and we should continually strive to be the best possible versions of ourselves, living a life that inspires us daily.
randy pausch had months to live when he spoke/wrote similar thoughts about what it means to live life. i dont want to wait until the end of my life to realise i never focused on the importance of really living. i need to start today.
you know how to pick great books, john!
↠ 4.5 stars
carnegie mellon university is known for its last lecture series, in which professors are invited to give a talk where they consider their demise and ruminate on what matters most to them, essentially answering those very questions. randy pausch was one of those professors and this book was his last lecture.
i have found it rather difficult to critique a dying mans thoughts and words to his wife and children. because of the nature of this book, i cant review this how i normally would with a novel. so i am only left with the option of sharing how i felt after i closed the final page.
i will admit, i have never given much thought about dying. but more regretfully, i have never given much thought about living. in most aspects, i am content. im healthy, i have a loving family, i received a wonderful education, i can provide for myself, i have travelled, i have hobbies that make me happy. what more is there to life?
i could be kinder. i could be more grateful. i could complain a little less. i could be more patient. i could reach out more to others. i could be more curious. i could set more goals for myself. i could be more optimistic.
there is nothing wrong with contentment, but there is also nothing wrong with seeing how we can better improve ourselves. we are all works in progress and we should continually strive to be the best possible versions of ourselves, living a life that inspires us daily.
randy pausch had months to live when he spoke/wrote similar thoughts about what it means to live life. i dont want to wait until the end of my life to realise i never focused on the importance of really living. i need to start today.
you know how to pick great books, john!
↠ 4.5 stars
January 18, 2009
No doubt Randy Pausch was a nice guy. But this book is smarmy, self-indulgent crap--which is ok given the circumstances under which he gave this lecture. But it is not worth reading.
This is typical 1980's individualistic, unreflective advise on how to succeed in life. Alas, Professor Pausch does not realize that he was born white, male, middle income, in exactly the time in the 20th century where he could avoid confronting WWI, WWII, the depression, Korea, Vietnam, urban riots of the 1960's, the civil right movement,and the women's movement because he was too young. And he got to miss all of the problems of Bush 1 and Bush 2 in the middle east because he was too old and affluent.
So he has the privilege and lack of social awareness to totally ignore the entire social context that provided and constructed his wonderful, if unfortunately short, life. Thus he leaves out the advise that was most important to his success. Have the pre-natel intelligence to be born male at the right time, in the right place, to parents who are racially privileged citizens of a superpower in ascendance during a brief window of peace at a time of expanding educational opportunity for middle-income working people in an expanding economy. Then these individualistic platitudes, if you are also very, very fortunate, may possibly help--but then again, they may not.
Nice guy, sweet sentiment, save your money.
This is typical 1980's individualistic, unreflective advise on how to succeed in life. Alas, Professor Pausch does not realize that he was born white, male, middle income, in exactly the time in the 20th century where he could avoid confronting WWI, WWII, the depression, Korea, Vietnam, urban riots of the 1960's, the civil right movement,and the women's movement because he was too young. And he got to miss all of the problems of Bush 1 and Bush 2 in the middle east because he was too old and affluent.
So he has the privilege and lack of social awareness to totally ignore the entire social context that provided and constructed his wonderful, if unfortunately short, life. Thus he leaves out the advise that was most important to his success. Have the pre-natel intelligence to be born male at the right time, in the right place, to parents who are racially privileged citizens of a superpower in ascendance during a brief window of peace at a time of expanding educational opportunity for middle-income working people in an expanding economy. Then these individualistic platitudes, if you are also very, very fortunate, may possibly help--but then again, they may not.
Nice guy, sweet sentiment, save your money.
August 12, 2009
While this man has a 5-star attitude, I can only give the book two.
yeah, everyone is raving about this guy...
Five star attitude... the author gets diagnosed with terminal cancer. He refers to this as "an engineering problem" (understated and true) has 3-6 months to live, tops. Has 3 small children (ages 6 and under)who will never know him. he was scheduled to give a "last lecture", ya know, how to live your life as if you were dying... (irony) and he writes it in such a way that it's a celebration of his life. his children will know who he was and what he believed in. a story of how life can throw brick walls in your way and you have a choice, to stop or go around them. play the cards you get dealt instead of bitching about them...
I applaud the great attitude he takes to enjoy the time he has left and focus on what matters. But is this earth shattering? Is any of this a surprise?
yeah, everyone is raving about this guy...
Five star attitude... the author gets diagnosed with terminal cancer. He refers to this as "an engineering problem" (understated and true) has 3-6 months to live, tops. Has 3 small children (ages 6 and under)who will never know him. he was scheduled to give a "last lecture", ya know, how to live your life as if you were dying... (irony) and he writes it in such a way that it's a celebration of his life. his children will know who he was and what he believed in. a story of how life can throw brick walls in your way and you have a choice, to stop or go around them. play the cards you get dealt instead of bitching about them...
I applaud the great attitude he takes to enjoy the time he has left and focus on what matters. But is this earth shattering? Is any of this a surprise?
March 27, 2012
It's hard to criticize a dying man. I think this is a great book for his wife, family, children, and friends to read, and although it has some good life lessons that are not revolutionary but do need repeating from time to time, this book is not well written. At points while I was reading I found myself actually disliking Pausch and his way of presenting himself, but then I realized that this would perhaps make me a horrible person. Maybe I am. I very much prefer Tuesdays With Morrie for a similar message that is presented in a more eloquent way.
January 30, 2009
I think this was one of those books where knowing the criticisms before starting it ultimately upped my enjoyment factor.
Randy Pausch, the author, was one of those people who became wildly popular in 2008 thanks to the internet. He was a popular professor at Carnegie Mellon and was invited to give a “last lecture”, a tradition of sorts where a professor is urged to give a specially prepared lecture as though it were the last s/he were to ever give. And so they are encouraged to break down all the knowledge learned in their lives and during their careers into one hour-long presentation and say, “this is the best of what I know, here you go.” But for Randy Pausch, his Last Lecture became somewhat of a sensation because shortly before he was scheduled to give his presentation, he learned that he had late-stage pancreatic cancer and he only had 3-6 months left to live.
Throughout it all, he remained very upbeat, he was charismatic and his nerdy persona was infectious. And so copies of the lecture spread and spread and spread over the internet and suddenly Pausch was an overnight sensation. Only in America. :)
Given his shortened life span at the time of publication, I can understand why the book felt so rushed. There are some chapters that are little more than a couple paragraphs with a random anecdote that doesn’t really have anything to do with anything. And many of the longer ones appear to be run-ons. About halfway through the book I realized that each chapter of this book reminded me of a blog entry. Then I realized that that may be some of the appeal to this generation, because as a piece of literature, this book is just…well…no.
This book came highly recommended to me by my sister and my mom who love it. My mother-in-law has read this book and also loves it. And at the time I write this review, 8,197 4-star and 5-star reviews on GR and there are fewer than 500 ratings that are 2 stars or less, so Pausch’s story has clearly touched the lives of a lot of people. Since discovering this site, I almost always scan some of the top-vote-getting reviews before starting a book. Whether someone loved it or hated it, I’m always curious to know why. And in the case of this book, since there were so many glowing reviews, I found myself focusing on the negative ones if only because they appeared to be in the minority and the minority has always intrigued me.
Most of the complaints had to do with:
--the fact that Pausch sucks as an author
--Pausch’s personality
--what did this guy do so differently that he actually deserved a book?
--the book is too preachy
--it’s too Hallmarky
--it’s too Disney
So going into the book expecting these faults, I found myself focusing on what is probably the most important thing about this book: Randy Pausch (who isn’t alive anymore) had three children under the age of five who may not remember that once upon a time, he was their father who loved them very much.
And realizing that this year, next year, five, 10, 15, 45 years from now, his children will still have a record of who he was and what he stood for (whether I agree with all of it or not) is an unbelievably beautiful thing. My husband was a teenager when his mother died unexpectedly and years later, we still have items in our home that belonged to her: a set of water-color paintings she’d had since college, a hand-written recipe on a post-it note, a baby book full of hand-written notes and stories and photographs.
Having that connection to the past is a tangible reminder not only of what was lost, but of where we come from. And losing a parent before their time makes that connection even more powerful. And so I can’t help but feel glad and happy for Randy Pausch’s children because they will grow up knowing that their dad’s life inspired so many millions of people. I hope that will be a tremendous source of pride for them. They can’t have their dad, but the legacy he left them was the best he had to offer in the short amount of time he was given to work with.
Randy Pausch, the author, was one of those people who became wildly popular in 2008 thanks to the internet. He was a popular professor at Carnegie Mellon and was invited to give a “last lecture”, a tradition of sorts where a professor is urged to give a specially prepared lecture as though it were the last s/he were to ever give. And so they are encouraged to break down all the knowledge learned in their lives and during their careers into one hour-long presentation and say, “this is the best of what I know, here you go.” But for Randy Pausch, his Last Lecture became somewhat of a sensation because shortly before he was scheduled to give his presentation, he learned that he had late-stage pancreatic cancer and he only had 3-6 months left to live.
Throughout it all, he remained very upbeat, he was charismatic and his nerdy persona was infectious. And so copies of the lecture spread and spread and spread over the internet and suddenly Pausch was an overnight sensation. Only in America. :)
Given his shortened life span at the time of publication, I can understand why the book felt so rushed. There are some chapters that are little more than a couple paragraphs with a random anecdote that doesn’t really have anything to do with anything. And many of the longer ones appear to be run-ons. About halfway through the book I realized that each chapter of this book reminded me of a blog entry. Then I realized that that may be some of the appeal to this generation, because as a piece of literature, this book is just…well…no.
This book came highly recommended to me by my sister and my mom who love it. My mother-in-law has read this book and also loves it. And at the time I write this review, 8,197 4-star and 5-star reviews on GR and there are fewer than 500 ratings that are 2 stars or less, so Pausch’s story has clearly touched the lives of a lot of people. Since discovering this site, I almost always scan some of the top-vote-getting reviews before starting a book. Whether someone loved it or hated it, I’m always curious to know why. And in the case of this book, since there were so many glowing reviews, I found myself focusing on the negative ones if only because they appeared to be in the minority and the minority has always intrigued me.
Most of the complaints had to do with:
--the fact that Pausch sucks as an author
--Pausch’s personality
--what did this guy do so differently that he actually deserved a book?
--the book is too preachy
--it’s too Hallmarky
--it’s too Disney
So going into the book expecting these faults, I found myself focusing on what is probably the most important thing about this book: Randy Pausch (who isn’t alive anymore) had three children under the age of five who may not remember that once upon a time, he was their father who loved them very much.
And realizing that this year, next year, five, 10, 15, 45 years from now, his children will still have a record of who he was and what he stood for (whether I agree with all of it or not) is an unbelievably beautiful thing. My husband was a teenager when his mother died unexpectedly and years later, we still have items in our home that belonged to her: a set of water-color paintings she’d had since college, a hand-written recipe on a post-it note, a baby book full of hand-written notes and stories and photographs.
Having that connection to the past is a tangible reminder not only of what was lost, but of where we come from. And losing a parent before their time makes that connection even more powerful. And so I can’t help but feel glad and happy for Randy Pausch’s children because they will grow up knowing that their dad’s life inspired so many millions of people. I hope that will be a tremendous source of pride for them. They can’t have their dad, but the legacy he left them was the best he had to offer in the short amount of time he was given to work with.
April 15, 2017
The Last Lecture is Randy Pausch's last hurrah- a final note to the world and his family about how to live, love and let go. It is beautiful.
I think that we're all here for a reason and have stories to tell. How fortunate for us all that Randy had the time and ability to tell his particular story.
I recommend this book for fans of memoirs, computer engineering and heart-felt narratives. I listened to the audiobook and it was excellent.
Then, once I finished the book, I looked up Randy's actual last lecture on YouTube. Bring your kleenexes, friends.
I think that we're all here for a reason and have stories to tell. How fortunate for us all that Randy had the time and ability to tell his particular story.
I recommend this book for fans of memoirs, computer engineering and heart-felt narratives. I listened to the audiobook and it was excellent.
Then, once I finished the book, I looked up Randy's actual last lecture on YouTube. Bring your kleenexes, friends.
September 13, 2017
The Last Lecture, literally, for a professor with a terminal illness. Taken from a speech that he wanted to impart to his students, family, friends, - really everyone as he came to grips with his condition.
This is about as emotionally charged and spiritually powerful as you may expect, the author is exploring territory that we all face, but he was at the edge of existence when he put this together. Randy Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and had months to live, from this perspective he shares with us what is most important.
Read it, discuss it, share it.
This is about as emotionally charged and spiritually powerful as you may expect, the author is exploring territory that we all face, but he was at the edge of existence when he put this together. Randy Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and had months to live, from this perspective he shares with us what is most important.
Read it, discuss it, share it.
May 28, 2008
I was first "introduced" to Mr. Pausch while watching the Oprah show in the fall. My father in law was in the hospital at the time, fighting melanoma that had metastacized to his lungs. Simply stated, I stopped folding clothes and cried so hard during that show. Soon after, the emails began to circulate with links to the last lecture on utube and I watched every link I got and cried even more. I read all the internet articles and was touched every time. When I saw the book was coming out, I jumped on board and knew I had to read it. I never knew how emotional this book would be for me. The day (August 15, 2007) Randy Pausch got the devistating news that his cancer had spread and there was nothing the doctors could do anymore, is the same day that we arrived at MD Anderson with my father in law, knowing things were not right. I came across this in the book and had to put it down for days. This was just hitting too close to home for me. I finally was able to pick it back up and continue. This book and Mr. Pausch's stories are so touching and true that we can all find something in there that will help us want to be a better person. We can all find some bit of wisdom that can be carried into our lives. I cried so many times reading this, but I laughed several times too! Anyone who has had their life touched by cancer will benefit from the optimism Mr. Pausch has, but it will be a very difficult read just because of the seriousness of the issues at hand. Just the sheer optimism in such a negative world is very uplifting.
I ran across several quotes from the book that I felt were so important that I needed to use my trusty post it notes to mark them for future reference. Here they are:
Pg. 51- "The brick walls are there for a reason. They're not there to keep us out. The brink walls are there to give us a chance to how how badly we want something." Mr. Pausch refers to the brick walls so many times, but it is so true!
pg.111- "Time is all you have. And you may find one day that you have less than you think." This has been a major realization in my life this past year. We thought we had so much time with my father in law. And we lost him so quickly. Take the time to do the things you want and never put them off.
pg. 119- "Luck is indeed where preparation meets opportunity." This goes back to my old Girl Scout motto "Be prepared."
pg.148- "Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted." Glad to know I've gotten something! And now it makes sense.
pg.156- "A lot of people want a shortcut. I find the best shortcut is the long way, which is basically two words: work hard." Wow! If we could all stop taking the shortcuts and work a little harder, could imagine what might happen?!?!
pg.159- "All you have is what you bring with you" This is the chapter title and it sure says a lot.
I ran across several quotes from the book that I felt were so important that I needed to use my trusty post it notes to mark them for future reference. Here they are:
Pg. 51- "The brick walls are there for a reason. They're not there to keep us out. The brink walls are there to give us a chance to how how badly we want something." Mr. Pausch refers to the brick walls so many times, but it is so true!
pg.111- "Time is all you have. And you may find one day that you have less than you think." This has been a major realization in my life this past year. We thought we had so much time with my father in law. And we lost him so quickly. Take the time to do the things you want and never put them off.
pg. 119- "Luck is indeed where preparation meets opportunity." This goes back to my old Girl Scout motto "Be prepared."
pg.148- "Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted." Glad to know I've gotten something! And now it makes sense.
pg.156- "A lot of people want a shortcut. I find the best shortcut is the long way, which is basically two words: work hard." Wow! If we could all stop taking the shortcuts and work a little harder, could imagine what might happen?!?!
pg.159- "All you have is what you bring with you" This is the chapter title and it sure says a lot.
August 27, 2016
THIS BOOK BLEW ME AWAY!!! Yeah I really won't be able to give a coherent review.
Suffice to say that this is human beings at their best. You might not agree with all of Randy's lessons, but he tells you from the get go that this is what he thinks and he did it all for his kids.
Towards the end I cried because there really isn't another word to describe the whole thing but genuine. The book was published when he was still alive, but I read it when he had already passed away so it was even more heartbreaking.
We can all learn from what Randy has to say. I can't believe that's all I have to say but it is. The book can speak for itself.
Suffice to say that this is human beings at their best. You might not agree with all of Randy's lessons, but he tells you from the get go that this is what he thinks and he did it all for his kids.
Towards the end I cried because there really isn't another word to describe the whole thing but genuine. The book was published when he was still alive, but I read it when he had already passed away so it was even more heartbreaking.
We can all learn from what Randy has to say. I can't believe that's all I have to say but it is. The book can speak for itself.
December 31, 2012
I am writing this review with barely 4 hours to go before 2013. I picked this book up to inspire me to face another year. I learned about this book when I took our company-mandated safety leadership training last month. Our corporate safety manager talked highly of this as he related Randy Pausch's very personal experience with what one person's ultimate objective in life, i.e., what should really matter to each of us in the training room.
For those who are not familiar with this 2008 bestselling book, Randy Pausch (1960-2008) was an American computer science professor who died of pancreatic cancer at the age of 47. At the time of his death, he left his three small children aged 6, 4 and 1. He learned about his condition in Sept 2006 so he was able to use his last 22 months to prepare. The highlight of this preparation was his last lecture delivered in the university where he used to teach, Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburg, Pennsylvania. That last lecture is basically what this book is all about.
The book is divided into 6 parts: (1) the last lecture; (2) his six childhood dreams that he basically achieved prior to his lecture; (3) various anecdotes that taught him life lessons; (4) how he inspired others to achieve their dreams; (5) his list of advices for better living and (6) his final messages to his family - 3 kids and wife Jai.
Overall, the book had that inspiring effect on me but it was far from mind-blowing. I think I've read too many similarly situated characters in both fiction and non-fiction works that I found Pausch's situation less heart-wrenching. Fact: people die everyday and Pausch's condition was a lot better than the people who had to die here in the Philippines. Why Pausch was even able to buy a brand new house and lot for the family he was leaving behind few month's before his eventual death. Very few of us in a third-world country would be able to do that. So, this is not to criticize Pausch and his better life situations were not his fault, it's just that I found it harder to empathize with him. There are a lot of worse situations around here in our country.
His writing is also less moving that those written by non-writers during the last years of their lives. I even found the memoir The Time of My Life (3 stars) jointly written by Patrick Swayze (1952-2009) and his wife Lisa Niemi detailing Swayze's fight against the same kind of cancer more engaging and interesting. For one, The Last Lecture at times seems too self-absorbed as Pausch talks about himself, himself, himself. This only stopped in Part 4 but very briefly. I am not judging Pausch but looks like he was telling the truth that he was self-centered and took highly of himself, e.g., finishing other people's sentences, when he was still young and healthy. That's why that part where he was supposed to tell how he was able to inspire others was short and somewhat less affecting.
I thought that it would have been better if Pausch hired a seasoned writer to assist him in writing the book. The idea of the book was a surefire hit but he sounded mostly preachy and self-absorbed. His better life situations than most of us have alienating instead of engaging effect at least for me. If I could leave those luxuries to my family and achieve that celebrity status, I would have been happy to trade places with Pausch and die with smile on my face anytime.
Overall, I liked this book still because of some important reminders that I was able to pick up:
Happy New Year everyone! I wish you more books, books, books!
For those who are not familiar with this 2008 bestselling book, Randy Pausch (1960-2008) was an American computer science professor who died of pancreatic cancer at the age of 47. At the time of his death, he left his three small children aged 6, 4 and 1. He learned about his condition in Sept 2006 so he was able to use his last 22 months to prepare. The highlight of this preparation was his last lecture delivered in the university where he used to teach, Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburg, Pennsylvania. That last lecture is basically what this book is all about.
The book is divided into 6 parts: (1) the last lecture; (2) his six childhood dreams that he basically achieved prior to his lecture; (3) various anecdotes that taught him life lessons; (4) how he inspired others to achieve their dreams; (5) his list of advices for better living and (6) his final messages to his family - 3 kids and wife Jai.
Overall, the book had that inspiring effect on me but it was far from mind-blowing. I think I've read too many similarly situated characters in both fiction and non-fiction works that I found Pausch's situation less heart-wrenching. Fact: people die everyday and Pausch's condition was a lot better than the people who had to die here in the Philippines. Why Pausch was even able to buy a brand new house and lot for the family he was leaving behind few month's before his eventual death. Very few of us in a third-world country would be able to do that. So, this is not to criticize Pausch and his better life situations were not his fault, it's just that I found it harder to empathize with him. There are a lot of worse situations around here in our country.
His writing is also less moving that those written by non-writers during the last years of their lives. I even found the memoir The Time of My Life (3 stars) jointly written by Patrick Swayze (1952-2009) and his wife Lisa Niemi detailing Swayze's fight against the same kind of cancer more engaging and interesting. For one, The Last Lecture at times seems too self-absorbed as Pausch talks about himself, himself, himself. This only stopped in Part 4 but very briefly. I am not judging Pausch but looks like he was telling the truth that he was self-centered and took highly of himself, e.g., finishing other people's sentences, when he was still young and healthy. That's why that part where he was supposed to tell how he was able to inspire others was short and somewhat less affecting.
I thought that it would have been better if Pausch hired a seasoned writer to assist him in writing the book. The idea of the book was a surefire hit but he sounded mostly preachy and self-absorbed. His better life situations than most of us have alienating instead of engaging effect at least for me. If I could leave those luxuries to my family and achieve that celebrity status, I would have been happy to trade places with Pausch and die with smile on my face anytime.
Overall, I liked this book still because of some important reminders that I was able to pick up:
(1) Live simple life - don't buy things to impress othersIf there is one lesson that I consider the best advice I got from Randy Pausch, this should be it: (12) If I could give three words of advice, they would be "tell the truth." If I got three more words, I'd add: "All the time."
(2) Never make a decision until you have to.
(3) Even if in a position of strength, whether at work or in relationships, you have to play fair. Just because you're in a driver's seat, doesn't mean you have to run people over.
(4) Parents should make their love known to their children. They don't need to be alive to do this.
(5) If your car has a dent, you don't have to have it removed. It could be a statement of who you are. Not everything needs to be fixed.
(6) Don't finish someone's sentences. And talking louder or faster doesn't make your idea any better.
(7) If you wait long enough, people will surprise and impress you.
(8) Not what they do, not what they say.
(9) Whether you think you can or can't, you're right.
(10) A lot of people want a shortcut. I find the best shortcut is the long way, which is basically two words: work hard.
(11) Proper apologies have three parts:A) What I did was wrong
B) I feel badly that I hurt you
C) How do I make this better?
Happy New Year everyone! I wish you more books, books, books!
June 10, 2008
I couldn't bring myself to finish this book. Perhaps the author's buildup to the ultimate last lecture raised my expectations too high, but I found myself working hard to try to maintain interest as I plowed through a series of anecdotes and trite observations. I suspect I would have enjoyed the book more if he had simply written about his work at the university, but I did not feel a connection to the author, despite his obvious courage in the face of a terminal illness.
I suppose a reader can't help but consider what they would do under similar circumstances, if they knew they had only months to live. When I look at the picture on the back cover of the book, showing the author with his kids, I think, "that's the audience to whom one should devote their last days". To pull oneself away from family at such a time and dedicate so many hours to developing a final lecture, one would expect that lecture to contain profound insights or world-changing revelations. I didn't find that here. No doubt this book will be treasured by the authors friends and family, for the personal insights and memories, but I wouldn't recommend it to a broader audience.
I suppose a reader can't help but consider what they would do under similar circumstances, if they knew they had only months to live. When I look at the picture on the back cover of the book, showing the author with his kids, I think, "that's the audience to whom one should devote their last days". To pull oneself away from family at such a time and dedicate so many hours to developing a final lecture, one would expect that lecture to contain profound insights or world-changing revelations. I didn't find that here. No doubt this book will be treasured by the authors friends and family, for the personal insights and memories, but I wouldn't recommend it to a broader audience.
October 1, 2024
GRAB THE TISSUES! Although this book was merely 200 pages, there were so many great topics about living and life itself. Randy, who was diagnosed with terminal cancer, gave his life lessons and phenomenal quotes all in one place.... His last lecture. Although there were parts that could be described "boring" when he talked about computer software or his life, the good parts that were eye-opening and heart-warming made up for it. Anyone and everyone will be able to get at least 1 valuable takeaway from this book. It is small but mighty!
April 4, 2011
لا أقول أن " راندي بوتش " قد أحسن الوصف أجمل من باولو كويلو في " فيرونيكا تقرر الموت " لكنه كتب لا كروائي " كحال باولو " بل كحال إنسان يعيش الواقع .. في لحظاته الأخيرة !
حين قرأت وصية بقراءة كتاب المحاضرة الأخيرة .. بادرت للشراء لثقتي بذوق من وصاني باقتنائه .. والحق أنني وجدته أجمل مما توقعت بمراحل !
راندي بوتش .. إنسان يعيش أيامه الأخيرة وهو محاضر جامعي في جامعة كارنيجي ميلون أصيب بمرض سرطان البنكرياس وأخبر أنه لن يعيش أكثر من ستة أشهر بالكثير .. دُعي لإلقاء محاضرة " أخيرة " وأعد لها كما لم يعد لمحاضرة قبلها ولن يعد لمحاضرة بعدها !
محاضرة راندي بوتش .. شكلت ظاهرة في أمريكا كون الرجل لم يجعلها كما يتوقعه الكثير مليئة بالحزن والكآبة واستجلاب الدموع ومفعمة بالمواعظ والتذكر .. بل جعل المحاضرة تنبض بالمرح والذكاء والفطنة وكيف كان يتعامل وفق منهجية جعلت منه رجلاً يحقق أحلام الطفولة بكل يسر وسهولة !
الكتاب يقع في الحجم الوسط .. أعطيه أعلى مما يمكن تصوره من الدرجات .. فيه الكثير من النقاط التي تلفت الذاكرة وتحيي في المشاعر التفاؤل .. شخصية راندي أثرت بكل من عرفها وكل من قرأ له بعد ذلك !
قرأت في الكتاب أو فيما بين السطور .. رسالة راندي لأبنائه الصغار الذين لن يروا أباهم بعد أن يكبر !
كان راندي يشعر أن الرسالة الأخيرة .. لابد أن تختصر حياة كاملة .. لابد أن تضع فيها عصارة فكرك وأن تربي أبنائك من بعدك ليروا بنور كنتَ تحلم أن تنيره لهم في حياتك .. أن يدرسوا من كلماتك تجاربك ويتعلموا من تصرفاتك وآرائك طموحك وأحلامك .. راندي كان يقول : الناجحون هم الذين يحققون أحلام الطفولة .. يقول ذلك ويسرد قصص طويلة كانت أشبه بأحلام الطفولة وكيف كان يحققها ويسترد هذا الحلم بعد كل نجاح يحققه !
تعامله البسيط .. سحرني وأذهلني بحق .. ولا أخفيكم أنني ضحكت كثيراً وأنا أقرأ عن أمره لأبناء أخته بسكب الصودا على المقعد الخلفي من سيارته الجديدة .. فقط ليزيل الأثر النفسي الكبير عنهم بسبب " خناق " وزجر أمهم الدائم للحذر من سكب أي شيء على مقاعد السيارة !
واحد وستون فصلاً .. تقرأ في كل فصل شخصية مرحة ظريفة قريبة " صريحة " .. يصرح راندي أنه كان متغطرساً ومغروراً ويأتي بحكم والده العميقة .. وكيف كانت لحظات والده الأخيرة ..
كما يأتي بقصص مختلفة عن بداياته مع زوجته وكيف اختلفا وكيف وقعت في نفسه .. ثم تزوجا وفي آخر يوم " وهو يوم ميلادها " أبى إلا أن يجعل الاحتفال بعيد الميلاد في داخل المحاضرة !
ومن أجمل ما قرأت في كتابه .. قصص مساعدته لنجاح الآخرين !
فهو ليس ناجح في ذاته فحسب .. بل كان المفتاح لنجاح الكثير ممن درسوا عنده في الجامعة في فتح آفاق واسعة أمام أعينهم وتوجيههم وفق ما يرى .. بنظرة ثاقبة ورؤية عميقة ..
شخصية راندي شخصية مغامرة من الطراز الأول .. وأراه يتقين مقولة " إن لم تغامر فأنت لم تعش بعد ! " فهو يرى في المغامرة نوعاً من صناعة " الأكشن " في الحياة .. ولا يخفي حبه الدائم لألعاب المغامرة في ديزني !
بطفولة وبراءة .. يعلن راندي بوتش حبه للدببة الكبار !
ولا يخفي اقتناؤه للكثير منها .. ورغم أن الموت يهد جسده ويلعب بخلاياه لكن راندي لم يتوقف عن بناء البيت والجلوس أطول وقت مع أبنائه حتى يعوض عنهم الفقد الذي سيكون بعد وفاته .. راندي كان يعدّ لمحاضرته الأخيرة وكان يسقط مرة ويقف مرات .. وفي كل مرة يضحك ويبتسم للحياة كونه يشعر أن الحياة وإن كانت قصيرة فصبغك لها صبغة كئيبة ستجعلك أقصر عمراً !
راندي بوتش .. ظاهرة تستحق الدراسة .. وكما ذكر المترجم " إن هذا الكتاب ستتناقله الأجيال القادمة جيلاً بعد جيل " حيث يشكل نقلة نوعية في سرد رؤية الإنسان " الناجح " للحياة وبنظرة أخيرة ..!
أصعب شيء في الدنيا .. حين تطلب من إنسان ناجح أن يقول لك كيف نجح في حياته ..
أو تطلب من إنسان متفوق .. كيف السبيل إلى التفوق !
أصدقكم القول .. حزنت وأنا أقرأ أن راندي بوتش قد خسر معركته مع سرطان البنكرياس في 25 يوليو عام 2008 م .. لكني أجزم أن شخصاً كمثله يكفيه فخراً في الحياة وبعد الممات أنه كتب كتاباً سيبقى فريداً من نوعه لسنين طويلة .. بل وربما لن يؤلف مثله بعد ذلك ..
حين قرأت وصية بقراءة كتاب المحاضرة الأخيرة .. بادرت للشراء لثقتي بذوق من وصاني باقتنائه .. والحق أنني وجدته أجمل مما توقعت بمراحل !
راندي بوتش .. إنسان يعيش أيامه الأخيرة وهو محاضر جامعي في جامعة كارنيجي ميلون أصيب بمرض سرطان البنكرياس وأخبر أنه لن يعيش أكثر من ستة أشهر بالكثير .. دُعي لإلقاء محاضرة " أخيرة " وأعد لها كما لم يعد لمحاضرة قبلها ولن يعد لمحاضرة بعدها !
محاضرة راندي بوتش .. شكلت ظاهرة في أمريكا كون الرجل لم يجعلها كما يتوقعه الكثير مليئة بالحزن والكآبة واستجلاب الدموع ومفعمة بالمواعظ والتذكر .. بل جعل المحاضرة تنبض بالمرح والذكاء والفطنة وكيف كان يتعامل وفق منهجية جعلت منه رجلاً يحقق أحلام الطفولة بكل يسر وسهولة !
الكتاب يقع في الحجم الوسط .. أعطيه أعلى مما يمكن تصوره من الدرجات .. فيه الكثير من النقاط التي تلفت الذاكرة وتحيي في المشاعر التفاؤل .. شخصية راندي أثرت بكل من عرفها وكل من قرأ له بعد ذلك !
قرأت في الكتاب أو فيما بين السطور .. رسالة راندي لأبنائه الصغار الذين لن يروا أباهم بعد أن يكبر !
كان راندي يشعر أن الرسالة الأخيرة .. لابد أن تختصر حياة كاملة .. لابد أن تضع فيها عصارة فكرك وأن تربي أبنائك من بعدك ليروا بنور كنتَ تحلم أن تنيره لهم في حياتك .. أن يدرسوا من كلماتك تجاربك ويتعلموا من تصرفاتك وآرائك طموحك وأحلامك .. راندي كان يقول : الناجحون هم الذين يحققون أحلام الطفولة .. يقول ذلك ويسرد قصص طويلة كانت أشبه بأحلام الطفولة وكيف كان يحققها ويسترد هذا الحلم بعد كل نجاح يحققه !
تعامله البسيط .. سحرني وأذهلني بحق .. ولا أخفيكم أنني ضحكت كثيراً وأنا أقرأ عن أمره لأبناء أخته بسكب الصودا على المقعد الخلفي من سيارته الجديدة .. فقط ليزيل الأثر النفسي الكبير عنهم بسبب " خناق " وزجر أمهم الدائم للحذر من سكب أي شيء على مقاعد السيارة !
واحد وستون فصلاً .. تقرأ في كل فصل شخصية مرحة ظريفة قريبة " صريحة " .. يصرح راندي أنه كان متغطرساً ومغروراً ويأتي بحكم والده العميقة .. وكيف كانت لحظات والده الأخيرة ..
كما يأتي بقصص مختلفة عن بداياته مع زوجته وكيف اختلفا وكيف وقعت في نفسه .. ثم تزوجا وفي آخر يوم " وهو يوم ميلادها " أبى إلا أن يجعل الاحتفال بعيد الميلاد في داخل المحاضرة !
ومن أجمل ما قرأت في كتابه .. قصص مساعدته لنجاح الآخرين !
فهو ليس ناجح في ذاته فحسب .. بل كان المفتاح لنجاح الكثير ممن درسوا عنده في الجامعة في فتح آفاق واسعة أمام أعينهم وتوجيههم وفق ما يرى .. بنظرة ثاقبة ورؤية عميقة ..
شخصية راندي شخصية مغامرة من الطراز الأول .. وأراه يتقين مقولة " إن لم تغامر فأنت لم تعش بعد ! " فهو يرى في المغامرة نوعاً من صناعة " الأكشن " في الحياة .. ولا يخفي حبه الدائم لألعاب المغامرة في ديزني !
بطفولة وبراءة .. يعلن راندي بوتش حبه للدببة الكبار !
ولا يخفي اقتناؤه للكثير منها .. ورغم أن الموت يهد جسده ويلعب بخلاياه لكن راندي لم يتوقف عن بناء البيت والجلوس أطول وقت مع أبنائه حتى يعوض عنهم الفقد الذي سيكون بعد وفاته .. راندي كان يعدّ لمحاضرته الأخيرة وكان يسقط مرة ويقف مرات .. وفي كل مرة يضحك ويبتسم للحياة كونه يشعر أن الحياة وإن كانت قصيرة فصبغك لها صبغة كئيبة ستجعلك أقصر عمراً !
راندي بوتش .. ظاهرة تستحق الدراسة .. وكما ذكر المترجم " إن هذا الكتاب ستتناقله الأجيال القادمة جيلاً بعد جيل " حيث يشكل نقلة نوعية في سرد رؤية الإنسان " الناجح " للحياة وبنظرة أخيرة ..!
أصعب شيء في الدنيا .. حين تطلب من إنسان ناجح أن يقول لك كيف نجح في حياته ..
أو تطلب من إنسان متفوق .. كيف السبيل إلى التفوق !
أصدقكم القول .. حزنت وأنا أقرأ أن راندي بوتش قد خسر معركته مع سرطان البنكرياس في 25 يوليو عام 2008 م .. لكني أجزم أن شخصاً كمثله يكفيه فخراً في الحياة وبعد الممات أنه كتب كتاباً سيبقى فريداً من نوعه لسنين طويلة .. بل وربما لن يؤلف مثله بعد ذلك ..
April 30, 2008
It may be that I am particularly sensitive to certain topics, but I didn't enjoy this book. I realize that the author is trying to cram all that he has found to be important in life in 200 pages, which is automatically going to make it seem preachy. Maybe it's that I didn't like what he was preaching. He spent too much time encouraging people to scale brick walls on the paths to their dreams. Then he started describing other people as brick walls and he lost me. Sometimes no means no, and boundaries have to be respected. I'm not sure that calling the admissions office at the college one wants to attend but didn't get into every day until they finally say ok, we'll take you is a good plan, or much of a claim to fame. Wearing others down until they give in is not overcoming obstacles in your path; at best, it's jumping the line and at worst it's blatantly disrespectful. Since the author did not mention choosing battles wisely, I'm left to assume that this is his behavior all the time. I have the kind of imagination that makes me extrapolate out the idea of overcoming brick walls; if everyone thought no meant try harder, the chaos would be incredible.
April 7, 2008
I'm appending this with the review I wrote for my paper: http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/08097/...
I read this because I am doing continuing coverage on the author, a Carnegie Mellon University professor who is dying of pancreatic cancer and who gave a last lecture that has been viewed on the Web by more than 6 million folks.
For what it is -- essentially an expanded version of the lecture about his life story and his advice on how to live a fulfilling life which can all be read in a sitting -- it is very good.
It's highly readable, in part because of Randy's own communication savvy and personality, but also undoubtedly because of the crafting it got from Wall Street Journal columnist Jeffrey Zaslow.
Most of the things I highlighted were items I didn't already know from the lecture, but in any case, here are just a couple tidbits.
As a professor, Randy would put his students in teams and everyone would give feedback to the other team members on how well they were doing, particularly in their ability to work well with the group. He recalled one student who, when told he was in the bottom quartile on the feedbacks, was sure that he was near the top of the quartile, which meant he really wasn't that far from being 50-50 on people skills. That's when Randy said the kid was at the very bottom. This answer shocked the student, but Randy said "I used to be just like you. I admit it. I'm a recovering jerk. And that's what gives me the moral authority to tell you that you can be a recovering jerk, too."
In a segment on the importance of hand-writing thank you notes, this otherwise completely high-tech guy recalled one instance where an applicant to his master's program in entertainment technology didn't quite have the grades or accomplishments to make it in, until he found a thank you note she had written, not to any of the program leaders, but to a support person who had helped her make arrangements for an on-campus visit. It turned the tide for her. "She came to the Entertainment Technology Center, got her master's degree and is now a Disney Imagineer," he said, which is his idea of the ideal job.
It's not all homilies and advice. When describing the strength and love of his wife, Jai, who will be left to raise their three preschool-age children, he talked about how his cancer diagnosis had given him the time to have vital, open conversations with her that wouldn't have been possible if he had died suddenly. He talked about how well she was coping and how she was doing it without the attention and even adulation he has been receiving. And then he revealed that when he gave his last lecture and surprised her with a birthday cake, and she came on stage to kiss and hold him, what she whispered in his ear was: "Please don't die."
That made the book as real and powerful to me as anything else.
So even if you're not normally drawn to self improvement books or memoirs, try this one: It will give you a lot to think about on what your life's priorities are and what you might say to the people you love if you had to leave them behind. It will probably make you want to kiss your kids or your partner and call your parents, too.
I read this because I am doing continuing coverage on the author, a Carnegie Mellon University professor who is dying of pancreatic cancer and who gave a last lecture that has been viewed on the Web by more than 6 million folks.
For what it is -- essentially an expanded version of the lecture about his life story and his advice on how to live a fulfilling life which can all be read in a sitting -- it is very good.
It's highly readable, in part because of Randy's own communication savvy and personality, but also undoubtedly because of the crafting it got from Wall Street Journal columnist Jeffrey Zaslow.
Most of the things I highlighted were items I didn't already know from the lecture, but in any case, here are just a couple tidbits.
As a professor, Randy would put his students in teams and everyone would give feedback to the other team members on how well they were doing, particularly in their ability to work well with the group. He recalled one student who, when told he was in the bottom quartile on the feedbacks, was sure that he was near the top of the quartile, which meant he really wasn't that far from being 50-50 on people skills. That's when Randy said the kid was at the very bottom. This answer shocked the student, but Randy said "I used to be just like you. I admit it. I'm a recovering jerk. And that's what gives me the moral authority to tell you that you can be a recovering jerk, too."
In a segment on the importance of hand-writing thank you notes, this otherwise completely high-tech guy recalled one instance where an applicant to his master's program in entertainment technology didn't quite have the grades or accomplishments to make it in, until he found a thank you note she had written, not to any of the program leaders, but to a support person who had helped her make arrangements for an on-campus visit. It turned the tide for her. "She came to the Entertainment Technology Center, got her master's degree and is now a Disney Imagineer," he said, which is his idea of the ideal job.
It's not all homilies and advice. When describing the strength and love of his wife, Jai, who will be left to raise their three preschool-age children, he talked about how his cancer diagnosis had given him the time to have vital, open conversations with her that wouldn't have been possible if he had died suddenly. He talked about how well she was coping and how she was doing it without the attention and even adulation he has been receiving. And then he revealed that when he gave his last lecture and surprised her with a birthday cake, and she came on stage to kiss and hold him, what she whispered in his ear was: "Please don't die."
That made the book as real and powerful to me as anything else.
So even if you're not normally drawn to self improvement books or memoirs, try this one: It will give you a lot to think about on what your life's priorities are and what you might say to the people you love if you had to leave them behind. It will probably make you want to kiss your kids or your partner and call your parents, too.
October 14, 2016
کتاب فوق العاده ای بود، مجموعه آخرین سخنرانی رندی پاوش استاد دانشگاه کارنگی ملون که در سن 47 سالگی متوجه می شه که یک سرطان کشنده داره و 6 ماهی رو بیشتر زنده نیست. آخرین سخنرانی مجموعه حرفه های او هست که در کنفرانسی در دانشگاه بیان می کنه که یک مجموعه ی عالی از خرد، دانش، و تجربه هست که در اختیار همه قرار می ده
رندی پاوش با خودش میگه خیلی ناراحت کننده هست که نمی تونم پیش بچه هام باشم و در زنگی هدایتشون کنم، به همین خاطر مطالب آخرین سخنرانیش رو طوری تهیه می کنه که مجموعه کاملی باشه از درس ها و اصول زندگی که خودش یاد گرفته و در موفقیتش تاثیر به سزایی داشته.
کتاب خیلی خوبی بود پیشنهاد می کنم حتما بخونید. نمونه های کوچکی از مطالب کتاب و درس هایی که گرفته:
The break walls in your way are to assess how badly you desire something
موانعی که در مسیر به آنها بر می خوریم به این خاطر هستن که نشون بدیم چقدر طالب و خواستار آنچه پشت آن است، هستیم
Instead of complaining, work harder and think for solution
جای شکایت کردن و ناله کردن، به فکر راه حل باشید و تلاش کنید. زمان و انرژی محدود است، آن را با ناله و شکایت هدر ندهید.
Ignore whatever people say, pay attention to what they do
این یکی از درس هایی هست که من بارها مصداقش رو دیدم، آدما همیشه از چیزی که دوست دارن باشن حرف می زنن نه چیزی که واقعا هستن. حقیقت شخصیت آدم ها رو از اعمالشون بفهمید نه گفتارشون.
It's not how hard you hit, it's how hard you get hit but still keep going
مهم نیست چقدر محکم ضربه بزنید، مهم ایسنت که وقتی یک ضربه محکم می خورید چه طور ادامه می دید
And many many more ...
رندی پاوش با خودش میگه خیلی ناراحت کننده هست که نمی تونم پیش بچه هام باشم و در زنگی هدایتشون کنم، به همین خاطر مطالب آخرین سخنرانیش رو طوری تهیه می کنه که مجموعه کاملی باشه از درس ها و اصول زندگی که خودش یاد گرفته و در موفقیتش تاثیر به سزایی داشته.
کتاب خیلی خوبی بود پیشنهاد می کنم حتما بخونید. نمونه های کوچکی از مطالب کتاب و درس هایی که گرفته:
The break walls in your way are to assess how badly you desire something
موانعی که در مسیر به آنها بر می خوریم به این خاطر هستن که نشون بدیم چقدر طالب و خواستار آنچه پشت آن است، هستیم
Instead of complaining, work harder and think for solution
جای شکایت کردن و ناله کردن، به فکر راه حل باشید و تلاش کنید. زمان و انرژی محدود است، آن را با ناله و شکایت هدر ندهید.
Ignore whatever people say, pay attention to what they do
این یکی از درس هایی هست که من بارها مصداقش رو دیدم، آدما همیشه از چیزی که دوست دارن باشن حرف می زنن نه چیزی که واقعا هستن. حقیقت شخصیت آدم ها رو از اعمالشون بفهمید نه گفتارشون.
It's not how hard you hit, it's how hard you get hit but still keep going
مهم نیست چقدر محکم ضربه بزنید، مهم ایسنت که وقتی یک ضربه محکم می خورید چه طور ادامه می دید
And many many more ...
September 26, 2018
Letting go.
I am at the same place as Randy, wanted to read this book and learn. Didn't want to miss something. Glad my boys are all grown up and I'm 75. Love reading, but medications making me not to connect, read parts of the story again and again. But as to find some relief in these last days from his lecture didn't happen.
I am at the same place as Randy, wanted to read this book and learn. Didn't want to miss something. Glad my boys are all grown up and I'm 75. Love reading, but medications making me not to connect, read parts of the story again and again. But as to find some relief in these last days from his lecture didn't happen.
August 13, 2019
I agree with many who say this is a meaningful and eye-opening novel, but I'm also tempted to say that many of the "tips" given by Pausch are things I've already heard of before. Still... This is a touching book about remembering what's important in life and to always chase your childhood dreams, no matter what.
August 19, 2016
“Are you a Tigger or an Eyore?”
― Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture
― Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture
August 21, 2021
I have picked up this book three times in the last 3 months and I just cannot get into it. I really wanted to love this memoir but I just couldn't connect with it.
It turned out to be something really like a repetitive self help book which again sounds a lot like some fiction written bad. And yes, it's a autobiographical non-fiction.
The worst I felt when reading the book was I just couldn't feel anything about the author or the memories he was talking about. It seemed so disconnected. I had to DNF this one. I was saving to read this book for years. Am I disappointed? Yes. But it's okay. No, it's...my heart is breaking for a different reason now.
It turned out to be something really like a repetitive self help book which again sounds a lot like some fiction written bad. And yes, it's a autobiographical non-fiction.
The worst I felt when reading the book was I just couldn't feel anything about the author or the memories he was talking about. It seemed so disconnected. I had to DNF this one. I was saving to read this book for years. Am I disappointed? Yes. But it's okay. No, it's...my heart is breaking for a different reason now.
February 20, 2009
I will probably burn in hell--well, okay, suffer a few extra millenia in purgatory, maybe--for only giving this book two stars. It's one of the top gift books of 2008, if you didn't yet view "The Last Lecture" on YouTube you probably heard about it via Oprah or friends or co-workers: a talented computer science prof at Carnegie Mellon with three adorable little toddlers and a loving wife learns he has pancreatic cancer and about six months to live, so he gives a farewell lecture to his students, his university, and the world, to give us some life guidance before he passes away.
He's a smart man with a beautiful family and a great job. And now he must deal with death--the Grim Reaper we must all ultimately confront. But he chooses to be upbeat, and empowering, using positive energy to help us all be better folks. Why then do I not like this book??
There's something about the way he does it that strikes me as being knowingly and calculated self-focused on his part, even while he claims he is trying to only reach and help others. I know I should cut him some slack--my God, the man was dying, he is dead now as I write!--but the whole set up of the lecture, and then the book that reworks a lot of the lecture, is to make us feel incredible pity even as he tells us not to. He tells us in the beginning of the lecture it won't be about his wife and kids and how much he loves them--but of course that's exactly where he ends, so we are totally consumed in sympathy and crying our eyes out at the end (if we have any compassion at all).
As a cathartic reading for families and caregivers dealing with terminal illness, this book could probably be an effective salve, but as a homily of wisdom for the ages (or common sense to live by, take your pick as it works as both) this book offers many of the same platitudes one would find in any wise sermon or self-help essay. A lot of these pearls of wisdom are offered here, again and again, within a framework of "see how great I was" or "see how great my family was" or "see how successful I have always been." He does share that in college he was thought of by many as a self-centered jerk, that some had acccused him of the sin of arrogance. I suspect that as much as he tries to adopt the voice of an Everyman and claim we could and should all adopt his maxims of wisdom, I see some of that old arrogance that he probably still retains as he tells anecdote after anecdote where he turns out the star.
I can tell he was a very good teacher who truly cared about his students. You can easily see how much he loves his kids, and he keeps re-iterating this whole "Last Lecture" and then the follow-up book marketing campaign were really supposed to be gifts to them. Perhaps if he had been a bit more honest about how much personal pleasure he got out of all this limelight and attention at the end, that indeed a good part of this was to make himself be the center of attention one last forceful time, I would have felt even more respect than I already have. But if you've seen the video, I really don't think you need to read the book. And if you do decide to read it anyway, consume it in small bites--don't read it straight through in one sitting, as I did. The advice (which is often quite sensible and praiseworthy) will probably go down easier, and remain with you longer.
He's a smart man with a beautiful family and a great job. And now he must deal with death--the Grim Reaper we must all ultimately confront. But he chooses to be upbeat, and empowering, using positive energy to help us all be better folks. Why then do I not like this book??
There's something about the way he does it that strikes me as being knowingly and calculated self-focused on his part, even while he claims he is trying to only reach and help others. I know I should cut him some slack--my God, the man was dying, he is dead now as I write!--but the whole set up of the lecture, and then the book that reworks a lot of the lecture, is to make us feel incredible pity even as he tells us not to. He tells us in the beginning of the lecture it won't be about his wife and kids and how much he loves them--but of course that's exactly where he ends, so we are totally consumed in sympathy and crying our eyes out at the end (if we have any compassion at all).
As a cathartic reading for families and caregivers dealing with terminal illness, this book could probably be an effective salve, but as a homily of wisdom for the ages (or common sense to live by, take your pick as it works as both) this book offers many of the same platitudes one would find in any wise sermon or self-help essay. A lot of these pearls of wisdom are offered here, again and again, within a framework of "see how great I was" or "see how great my family was" or "see how successful I have always been." He does share that in college he was thought of by many as a self-centered jerk, that some had acccused him of the sin of arrogance. I suspect that as much as he tries to adopt the voice of an Everyman and claim we could and should all adopt his maxims of wisdom, I see some of that old arrogance that he probably still retains as he tells anecdote after anecdote where he turns out the star.
I can tell he was a very good teacher who truly cared about his students. You can easily see how much he loves his kids, and he keeps re-iterating this whole "Last Lecture" and then the follow-up book marketing campaign were really supposed to be gifts to them. Perhaps if he had been a bit more honest about how much personal pleasure he got out of all this limelight and attention at the end, that indeed a good part of this was to make himself be the center of attention one last forceful time, I would have felt even more respect than I already have. But if you've seen the video, I really don't think you need to read the book. And if you do decide to read it anyway, consume it in small bites--don't read it straight through in one sitting, as I did. The advice (which is often quite sensible and praiseworthy) will probably go down easier, and remain with you longer.
January 17, 2022
An extraordinary book. How can a man dying from pancreatic cancer be so upbeat and write such useful advice? Read on!!
Randy Pausch was a professor at Carnegie Mellon in Pittsburgh, PA. His areas of expertise were computer science and virtual reality. He worked for Disney as an Imagineer. In that capacity he was responsible for designing and building Disney theme parks, resorts, cruise ships, and other entertainment venues at all levels of project development.
From Will Schwalbe's book, The End of Your Life Book Club, I gleaned the following:
(His story began) with an article by the Wall Street Journal staff writer Jeffrey Zaslow about Pausch, who’d been asked by his university, Carnegie Mellon, to deliver what used to be called a “Last Lecture,” the idea being that you would speak about the things you would speak about if you were giving the last lecture you would ever give. The irony in the case of Randy Pausch was that he knew that it would, indeed, be that—and he used the speech to impart lessons he’d learned, not just for the people listening, but for an audience that was extremely important to him: his young children.
That speech was videotaped and went viral on YouTube. Randy spoke and he poured his heart out for over an hour.
I challenge the reader of this review to read the passages I have highlighted from his book. I hope you are as impressed as I am.
5 stars
Randy Pausch was a professor at Carnegie Mellon in Pittsburgh, PA. His areas of expertise were computer science and virtual reality. He worked for Disney as an Imagineer. In that capacity he was responsible for designing and building Disney theme parks, resorts, cruise ships, and other entertainment venues at all levels of project development.
From Will Schwalbe's book, The End of Your Life Book Club, I gleaned the following:
(His story began) with an article by the Wall Street Journal staff writer Jeffrey Zaslow about Pausch, who’d been asked by his university, Carnegie Mellon, to deliver what used to be called a “Last Lecture,” the idea being that you would speak about the things you would speak about if you were giving the last lecture you would ever give. The irony in the case of Randy Pausch was that he knew that it would, indeed, be that—and he used the speech to impart lessons he’d learned, not just for the people listening, but for an audience that was extremely important to him: his young children.
That speech was videotaped and went viral on YouTube. Randy spoke and he poured his heart out for over an hour.
I challenge the reader of this review to read the passages I have highlighted from his book. I hope you are as impressed as I am.
5 stars
March 31, 2018
I had read a small excerpt from The Last Lecture online a few years ago and enjoying what I read, added the book to my TBR list. Today while I was browsing the bookstore, [because the 19 books at home waiting to be read aren’t enough - a “problem” I know many of you can relate to! ;)] it was on display on a table so I picked it up and started reading...
While the book is small, it’s filled with wise words. Despite receiving news of a terminal illness, Randy’s story is one of optimism more so than tragedy. Don’t get me wrong - My heart broke as he talked about not being around for most of his kids’ childhoods, but he makes a choice to make the most of what time he has left, in life and for his family, and this is his story.
The Last Lecture offers wisdom and tips to achieve your dreams and goals, using Randy’s experience to share them. A lot of the information is, in my opinion, common sense, however it still serves as a good reminder to be kind and to remember what’s really important in life. Our mental state, specifically attitude, plays a vital role in our achievements.
Big takeaways are: brick walls are designed to keep people who don’t want something bad enough out; just ask for what you want - it never hurts; and time is finite, so make the most of it.
”That is what it is. We cannot change it. We just have to decide how we’ll respond. We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.”
Everyone can gain something from this book, and it’s something I think his children will be able to reread and reflect on, numerous times. I enjoyed The Last Lecture and highly recommend it.
While the book is small, it’s filled with wise words. Despite receiving news of a terminal illness, Randy’s story is one of optimism more so than tragedy. Don’t get me wrong - My heart broke as he talked about not being around for most of his kids’ childhoods, but he makes a choice to make the most of what time he has left, in life and for his family, and this is his story.
The Last Lecture offers wisdom and tips to achieve your dreams and goals, using Randy’s experience to share them. A lot of the information is, in my opinion, common sense, however it still serves as a good reminder to be kind and to remember what’s really important in life. Our mental state, specifically attitude, plays a vital role in our achievements.
Big takeaways are: brick walls are designed to keep people who don’t want something bad enough out; just ask for what you want - it never hurts; and time is finite, so make the most of it.
”That is what it is. We cannot change it. We just have to decide how we’ll respond. We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand.”
Everyone can gain something from this book, and it’s something I think his children will be able to reread and reflect on, numerous times. I enjoyed The Last Lecture and highly recommend it.
September 22, 2015
This book grew out of the desperation of a computer professor, when he discovered that he had terminal cancer, and he wanted absolutely to leave a manual of guidance for his little kids. It's this fact about this book that drew me, because, in terms of parental guidance, I haven't been one of the lucky ones.
I was surprised by the vividness and vivacity of the writing. The pages kept turning as if by themselves, and I was disappointed that the book ran out so soon.
Authentic and practical wisdoms that come not from the brain but from the heart of a devoted father. How I wish I had one book like this when I was growing up. A perfect example of how a man on death trip becomes immortal through the keenness of his soul.
I was surprised by the vividness and vivacity of the writing. The pages kept turning as if by themselves, and I was disappointed that the book ran out so soon.
Authentic and practical wisdoms that come not from the brain but from the heart of a devoted father. How I wish I had one book like this when I was growing up. A perfect example of how a man on death trip becomes immortal through the keenness of his soul.
July 19, 2008
WOW!!
This book is right up my alley in my latest/favorite reads or movies watched; Animal, Plant, Vegetable (Barbara Kingslover), Into The Wild (movie), and now The Last Lecture.
The book is about Randy Pausch, also the author, who is diagnosed with terminal cancer and has 3-6 months to live. With that information, he decides to take part in writing a Last Lecture for Carnegie Mellon, where he is a professor. After much thought, he decides to write about "living". About what he is leaving his 3 very young children and his wife. About how he lived his life and fulfilled his childhood dreams. About what matters most to him and how influences have shaped who he is. And of course, what he can leave his family for the future without him.
It's a reminder to all parents, young and old, that you never really know when your time is up. That you cannot take for granted each and every day. To cherish your family, your friends, your children, and your wife/husband. It's a reminder about dreams no matter how big or small can be achieved if you truly believe in your self. It's a reminder to us all to be "who we really are" and let all else fade away. It's a reminder that all brick walls can be scaled. It's a reminder of many things in our lives - it's Life's Little Lesson Book and I will keep this one handy because there are things that reminded me that I need to do...starting now!
Randy Pausch died today - 7/25/08.
This book is right up my alley in my latest/favorite reads or movies watched; Animal, Plant, Vegetable (Barbara Kingslover), Into The Wild (movie), and now The Last Lecture.
The book is about Randy Pausch, also the author, who is diagnosed with terminal cancer and has 3-6 months to live. With that information, he decides to take part in writing a Last Lecture for Carnegie Mellon, where he is a professor. After much thought, he decides to write about "living". About what he is leaving his 3 very young children and his wife. About how he lived his life and fulfilled his childhood dreams. About what matters most to him and how influences have shaped who he is. And of course, what he can leave his family for the future without him.
It's a reminder to all parents, young and old, that you never really know when your time is up. That you cannot take for granted each and every day. To cherish your family, your friends, your children, and your wife/husband. It's a reminder about dreams no matter how big or small can be achieved if you truly believe in your self. It's a reminder to us all to be "who we really are" and let all else fade away. It's a reminder that all brick walls can be scaled. It's a reminder of many things in our lives - it's Life's Little Lesson Book and I will keep this one handy because there are things that reminded me that I need to do...starting now!
Randy Pausch died today - 7/25/08.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
August 29, 2008
I enjoyed watching his last lecture, which was extremely touching, but reading this book was even more touching. I actually teared up numerous times while reading it.
As far as I'm concerned, this guy is a hero. He was happy, and yet he achieved so much. He was diagnosed with cancer, and instead of just letting it put him down, it was a motive for him to leave this last lecture, a lasting legacy.
I do recommend that everyone read this book.
As far as I'm concerned, this guy is a hero. He was happy, and yet he achieved so much. He was diagnosed with cancer, and instead of just letting it put him down, it was a motive for him to leave this last lecture, a lasting legacy.
I do recommend that everyone read this book.
November 22, 2015
"so many will get the chance to say goodbye,BUT It's never too late to think of the value of your life " Randy was trying to tell us that , and he did it in a great way !
It was more than a lecture ! and it's not fair to write a review about this great work .. Actually it was an every day's lecture ..
I was completely in , I cried with him and laughed with him, I was amazed by his courage, faith and pride , I liked how he decided to help his wife in raising the kids after his death .
he was a great father , husband and partner when he wrote
" I was trying to put my self in a bottle that would one day wash up on the beach of my children . If I were a painter, I would have painted for them , But I'm a lecturer , so I lectured "
I do agree that he was arrogant in some way or other , but I got the most beautiful life lessons ever .
The part of his childhood is the one I loved the most , it reminded me of mine !
Me too, I was raised in a family that need the dictionary to get through dinner :P ,and I was allowed to paint my room and create my own colorful world :D
and I was the one to break the rules in every possible way !
I liked this book , and I recommend it to everybody !
It was more than a lecture ! and it's not fair to write a review about this great work .. Actually it was an every day's lecture ..
I was completely in , I cried with him and laughed with him, I was amazed by his courage, faith and pride , I liked how he decided to help his wife in raising the kids after his death .
he was a great father , husband and partner when he wrote
" I was trying to put my self in a bottle that would one day wash up on the beach of my children . If I were a painter, I would have painted for them , But I'm a lecturer , so I lectured "
I do agree that he was arrogant in some way or other , but I got the most beautiful life lessons ever .
The part of his childhood is the one I loved the most , it reminded me of mine !
Me too, I was raised in a family that need the dictionary to get through dinner :P ,and I was allowed to paint my room and create my own colorful world :D
and I was the one to break the rules in every possible way !
I liked this book , and I recommend it to everybody !
August 1, 2010
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قد يتبادر هذا السؤال على ذهنك بعد قراءة كتاب “المحاضرة الأخيرة” لـ راندي بوتش، البروفيسور في علوم الحاسب والبرمجة في جامعة كارنيجي ميلون الذي رحل عن عالمنا في يوليو 2008 بعد إصابته بسرطان البنكرياس الذي انتشر في جسمه وأمهله أشهراً قليلة ليحدثنا فيها عن حياته وطفولته وأحلام طفولته وإنجازاته الكثيرة التي حققها في فترة زمنية بسيطة!
راندي بوتش الذي كانت أحلام طفولته أهم ما يملك، وهو بذلك يشكر والديه الذين ساعداه على أن يحلم! كيف استطاع أهل راندي بوتش جعل ابنهم يحلم ويتمكن من تحقيق أحلامه فيما بعد؟
قد يكون الجواب بسيطاً لكنه عميقاً جدا: كانوا عوناً له في أن يكون ذو أفق واسع، وخيال لا محدود، يستند على قاعدة معلوماتية اكتسبها لأن أسرته تقرأ الموسوعة بعد العشاء!
هل تريد أن تكوّن أسرة مثقفة تنتج أبناء مبدعين؟!
راندي بوتش نشأ في أسرة تعشق المعرفة ومتابعة إصدارات موسوعة الكتب العالمية، أسرة كان شعارها “إذا كان لديك سؤال فابحث عن إجابة له في الموسوعة“.. لذا كان يحلم أن يكتب فيها، ومرت السنوات لنجد اسمه تحت حرف الـ V في الموسوعة بعد أن طُلب منه الكتابة عن الواقع الافتراضي.
راندي بوتش كان يحلم بأن يحلق في الهواء بعيداً عن الجاذبية الأرضية، وتحقق هذا الحلم بعد أربعة عقود حين أصبح أستاذاً في الجامعة بعد أن احتال ليحقق حلمه، فالأحلام لا يمكن التنازل عنها بسهولة!
راندي بوتش في المحاضرة الأخيرة التي كانت تقليداً تنتهجه جامعة كارنيجي ميلون وغيرها من الجامعات؛ حيث يلقى البروفيسور خلاصة تجاربه وما تع��مه من الحياة إلى زملائه وطلابه قبل موته، لم يكن يريد أن يتحدث إلينا نحن الذي استمعنا إلى محاضرته الموجودة على موقع YouTube، والمرفقة على CD مع الكتاب ولا إلى الحضور الذين تجاوزوا 400 شخص، لقد كان يريد أن يبقي هذه المحاضرة وهذا الكتاب إرثاً لأطفاله الثلاثة الصغار الذين قد لا يعون شيئاً من كلمات هذا الكتاب بعد رحيله مباشرة، ولكنهم حين يكبرون سيعرفون كيف كان والدهم يحبهم وكيف كان بإمكانه أن يقدم لهم الكثير لو كان معهم من نصائح وخبرات.
“المحاضرة الأخيرة” كتاب يشرق بالتفاؤل والاستمتاع بالحياة رغم كل شيء، فمصابك لن يكون أصعب من مصاب شخص يعلم أنه سيفارق هذه الحياة بعد أشهر معدودة ويترك زوجته وحبيبته وأطفاله الصغار، كتاب في فن التعامل مع الآخرين مهما اختلفت مراحلهم العمرية والدراسية والفكرية، وكيف يمكن أن تقدم لهم فكرة أو مساعدة قد تغير حياتهم كثيراً، كتاب يعلمك كيف يكمن أن يصل الاحترام بين الزوجين، أن تعلم أن هذا الكتاب وهذه المحاضرة ما كانت لتتم لو أن زوجته قالت لا، لا تنشغل عنا فيما تبقى لك من عمر!
“المحاضرة الأخيرة” كتاب في التربية الحديثة، وكيف أنك من الممكن أن تجعل الأطفال يتعلمون باللعب بفكرة أسماها “خداع الرأس”! ويعود الفضل في ذلك إلى والديه الذين استخدموا معه هذا الأسلوب حين أجبره والده على أن يلتحق بفريق كرة القدم، صحيح أنه لم ينجح في أن يكون لاعباً جيدا، لكنه تعلم العديد من الخبرات؛ منها القدرة على العمل كفريق، والمثابرة والقدرة على تحمل الصعاب، وتعلم حكمة جميلة مفادها “أنك حين ترتكب خطأ وتفتقد توجيه الآخرين، فمعناه أنك أصبحت خارج دائرة اهتمامهم“.
“المحاضرة الأخيرة” لـ راندي بوتش من إصدارات مكتبة جرير، يقع في 270 صفحة من القطع المتوسط.
http://ebtessam.wordpress.com/2010/03...
قد يتبادر هذا السؤال على ذهنك بعد قراءة كتاب “المحاضرة الأخيرة” لـ راندي بوتش، البروفيسور في علوم الحاسب والبرمجة في جامعة كارنيجي ميلون الذي رحل عن عالمنا في يوليو 2008 بعد إصابته بسرطان البنكرياس الذي انتشر في جسمه وأمهله أشهراً قليلة ليحدثنا فيها عن حياته وطفولته وأحلام طفولته وإنجازاته الكثيرة التي حققها في فترة زمنية بسيطة!
راندي بوتش الذي كانت أحلام طفولته أهم ما يملك، وهو بذلك يشكر والديه الذين ساعداه على أن يحلم! كيف استطاع أهل راندي بوتش جعل ابنهم يحلم ويتمكن من تحقيق أحلامه فيما بعد؟
قد يكون الجواب بسيطاً لكنه عميقاً جدا: كانوا عوناً له في أن يكون ذو أفق واسع، وخيال لا محدود، يستند على قاعدة معلوماتية اكتسبها لأن أسرته تقرأ الموسوعة بعد العشاء!
هل تريد أن تكوّن أسرة مثقفة تنتج أبناء مبدعين؟!
راندي بوتش نشأ في أسرة تعشق المعرفة ومتابعة إصدارات موسوعة الكتب العالمية، أسرة كان شعارها “إذا كان لديك سؤال فابحث عن إجابة له في الموسوعة“.. لذا كان يحلم أن يكتب فيها، ومرت السنوات لنجد اسمه تحت حرف الـ V في الموسوعة بعد أن طُلب منه الكتابة عن الواقع الافتراضي.
راندي بوتش كان يحلم بأن يحلق في الهواء بعيداً عن الجاذبية الأرضية، وتحقق هذا الحلم بعد أربعة عقود حين أصبح أستاذاً في الجامعة بعد أن احتال ليحقق حلمه، فالأحلام لا يمكن التنازل عنها بسهولة!
راندي بوتش في المحاضرة الأخيرة التي كانت تقليداً تنتهجه جامعة كارنيجي ميلون وغيرها من الجامعات؛ حيث يلقى البروفيسور خلاصة تجاربه وما تع��مه من الحياة إلى زملائه وطلابه قبل موته، لم يكن يريد أن يتحدث إلينا نحن الذي استمعنا إلى محاضرته الموجودة على موقع YouTube، والمرفقة على CD مع الكتاب ولا إلى الحضور الذين تجاوزوا 400 شخص، لقد كان يريد أن يبقي هذه المحاضرة وهذا الكتاب إرثاً لأطفاله الثلاثة الصغار الذين قد لا يعون شيئاً من كلمات هذا الكتاب بعد رحيله مباشرة، ولكنهم حين يكبرون سيعرفون كيف كان والدهم يحبهم وكيف كان بإمكانه أن يقدم لهم الكثير لو كان معهم من نصائح وخبرات.
“المحاضرة الأخيرة” كتاب يشرق بالتفاؤل والاستمتاع بالحياة رغم كل شيء، فمصابك لن يكون أصعب من مصاب شخص يعلم أنه سيفارق هذه الحياة بعد أشهر معدودة ويترك زوجته وحبيبته وأطفاله الصغار، كتاب في فن التعامل مع الآخرين مهما اختلفت مراحلهم العمرية والدراسية والفكرية، وكيف يمكن أن تقدم لهم فكرة أو مساعدة قد تغير حياتهم كثيراً، كتاب يعلمك كيف يكمن أن يصل الاحترام بين الزوجين، أن تعلم أن هذا الكتاب وهذه المحاضرة ما كانت لتتم لو أن زوجته قالت لا، لا تنشغل عنا فيما تبقى لك من عمر!
“المحاضرة الأخيرة” كتاب في التربية الحديثة، وكيف أنك من الممكن أن تجعل الأطفال يتعلمون باللعب بفكرة أسماها “خداع الرأس”! ويعود الفضل في ذلك إلى والديه الذين استخدموا معه هذا الأسلوب حين أجبره والده على أن يلتحق بفريق كرة القدم، صحيح أنه لم ينجح في أن يكون لاعباً جيدا، لكنه تعلم العديد من الخبرات؛ منها القدرة على العمل كفريق، والمثابرة والقدرة على تحمل الصعاب، وتعلم حكمة جميلة مفادها “أنك حين ترتكب خطأ وتفتقد توجيه الآخرين، فمعناه أنك أصبحت خارج دائرة اهتمامهم“.
“المحاضرة الأخيرة” لـ راندي بوتش من إصدارات مكتبة جرير، يقع في 270 صفحة من القطع المتوسط.
http://ebtessam.wordpress.com/2010/03...
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