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Instant Connection - How to Build Rapport with Anyone Instantly!
The Instant-Series Presents "Instant Connection"
How to Build Rapport with Anyone Instantly!
Remember the last time you met somebody you really liked, you got along with, and you wanted to connect with, but they wouldn't budge or, worse, distance away from you, didn't want anything to do with you?
Whether that was a potential friend, member of the opposite sex, crucial client, valuable network, or important boss...that hurt, didn't it? Or at least made you felt rejected and unworthy.
Look, just because they turned you down doesn't make you less significant or mean you're of little value. It could have been how you came across, or might not even have anything to do with you, but they were having a bad day.
Whatever the case may be, the truth is, you need to be able to build connection with people.
Creating rapport and building connection with people is a must. Just ask anybody who is successful in friendship, love, and work.
Within "Instant Connection":
* How to build instant connections with people doing some of the simplest things you can imagine.
* How to make yourself somebody who can just easily turn strangers you meet into connections.
* What are ways to work on building rapport everyday so you when you see people, you know what to do.
* What is the one most important skill you need to develop in order to connect with anybody.
* What to do after you establish the connection, and how to maintain it so it becomes a lasting connection.
* Plus, custom practical "how-to" strategies, techniques, applications and exercises to making connection with people.
...and much more.
Establish rapport and build your connections now with " Instant Connection "!
How to Build Rapport with Anyone Instantly!
Remember the last time you met somebody you really liked, you got along with, and you wanted to connect with, but they wouldn't budge or, worse, distance away from you, didn't want anything to do with you?
Whether that was a potential friend, member of the opposite sex, crucial client, valuable network, or important boss...that hurt, didn't it? Or at least made you felt rejected and unworthy.
Look, just because they turned you down doesn't make you less significant or mean you're of little value. It could have been how you came across, or might not even have anything to do with you, but they were having a bad day.
Whatever the case may be, the truth is, you need to be able to build connection with people.
Creating rapport and building connection with people is a must. Just ask anybody who is successful in friendship, love, and work.
Within "Instant Connection":
* How to build instant connections with people doing some of the simplest things you can imagine.
* How to make yourself somebody who can just easily turn strangers you meet into connections.
* What are ways to work on building rapport everyday so you when you see people, you know what to do.
* What is the one most important skill you need to develop in order to connect with anybody.
* What to do after you establish the connection, and how to maintain it so it becomes a lasting connection.
* Plus, custom practical "how-to" strategies, techniques, applications and exercises to making connection with people.
...and much more.
Establish rapport and build your connections now with " Instant Connection "!
67 pages, Kindle Edition
First published October 24, 2014
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For instant results, this is the INSTANT-Series. No fluff. No joke. No horsing around. No monkey business. No time to waste. Just instant fast overnight results.
We know how precious your time is, or lack thereof. That's why we created the INSTANT-Series Guides to provide immediate solutions for common problems.
Our mission is to produce the success you want in the quickest shortest amount of time possible. Quick and to the point, without the pointless fluffs, useless theories, and same old common sense cliché everybody knows, but real practical actionable information that work, that are even only available to those who are paying a fortune for top-notch professionals to know.
Now you can figure them all out in the INSTANT-Series, without losing a leg, for less than a few bucks.
Be sure to check out our other INSTANT-Series Guides.
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December 5, 2014
Instant Connection: How to Build Rapport with Anyone Instantly! is an appropriate book for those who lack social skills, or who find their shyness holding them back in life. As such, I could picture my awkward teenage son reading it and finding helpful tips such as:
• Looking at your phone or the TV instead of making eye contact with the person you’re speaking leads to poor connections and relationships
• The ripple effect that good posture has on confidence and how people perceive you
• The importance of asking questions of others and not just talking about yourself
• Taking the time and effort to write down, or journal about another person and how you can improve that relationship
From the perspective of a more mature audience, I would like to know the author’s expertise or credentials in relationship building, or some statistics, or research to shore up such concepts as:
“It is true that social interactions are much easier for some people than others. This may be something innate…but is also learned.”
I understand that the author’s focus is on the learning aspect and behavior modification, but the author does not touch upon the idea that innately, some people are introverts and are happy not making any extra efforts at rapport building. I think if the author were to acknowledge and explore this opposing idea, it would provide a more balanced view. For young people, in particular, who may not know they are introverts, the implicit message; that to function well in society one must strive toward extroversion can be damaging. In other words, it can lead to further frustration and unhappiness if they push themselves in a direction that goes against their authentic nature. But this is my personal introversion versus extroversion soapbox.
This book is valuable for those wishing to improve their relationship skills with tips and exercises to: increase confidence, show a keen interest in others, maintain good humor, journaling, and the daily challenge to work on relationship maintenance.
• Looking at your phone or the TV instead of making eye contact with the person you’re speaking leads to poor connections and relationships
• The ripple effect that good posture has on confidence and how people perceive you
• The importance of asking questions of others and not just talking about yourself
• Taking the time and effort to write down, or journal about another person and how you can improve that relationship
From the perspective of a more mature audience, I would like to know the author’s expertise or credentials in relationship building, or some statistics, or research to shore up such concepts as:
“It is true that social interactions are much easier for some people than others. This may be something innate…but is also learned.”
I understand that the author’s focus is on the learning aspect and behavior modification, but the author does not touch upon the idea that innately, some people are introverts and are happy not making any extra efforts at rapport building. I think if the author were to acknowledge and explore this opposing idea, it would provide a more balanced view. For young people, in particular, who may not know they are introverts, the implicit message; that to function well in society one must strive toward extroversion can be damaging. In other words, it can lead to further frustration and unhappiness if they push themselves in a direction that goes against their authentic nature. But this is my personal introversion versus extroversion soapbox.
This book is valuable for those wishing to improve their relationship skills with tips and exercises to: increase confidence, show a keen interest in others, maintain good humor, journaling, and the daily challenge to work on relationship maintenance.
March 26, 2015
This book tends to be the kind of book that can help people in a very positive way and
can be what people need when it comes to improving connection with individuals.
Connection is a solid factor in our everyday lives and also what helps
us express our feelings and have a really massive impact on the way we talk
to each other.
Chapter 1: Is the chapter that teaches us the basics of why we need to communicate
and that does a good job of letting us understand the purpose and meaning of it.
It also provides details about why connection is important in a married couples life.
Chapter 2: The chapter itself is really the most useful chapter in my opinion
it is very detailed and tells us step by step on how to make a deep
connection , that will make us have confidence and believe in ourselves and why
that is a really key factor.
Chapter 3: Going by the chapter heading this informs us on how to develop socially and
gives you some information and what is expected to come.
Chapter 4: This chapter is focused on exercises that can be magnificent i order
to develop socially into the person you want to be. It also is constructed to
a high level that contains exercises like looking in the mirror and also walking around with
a book on your head which can be really useful.
Chapter 5: Keeping a connection is important and that is something the book goes over and tells
us how to do it and don’t be surprised if it is a difficult task.
Chapter 6: This is the final chapter goes and tells you and tells you a lot of needed information
and what can help you make connections.
I recommend purchasing the book because of the values and lessons taught in it.
can be what people need when it comes to improving connection with individuals.
Connection is a solid factor in our everyday lives and also what helps
us express our feelings and have a really massive impact on the way we talk
to each other.
Chapter 1: Is the chapter that teaches us the basics of why we need to communicate
and that does a good job of letting us understand the purpose and meaning of it.
It also provides details about why connection is important in a married couples life.
Chapter 2: The chapter itself is really the most useful chapter in my opinion
it is very detailed and tells us step by step on how to make a deep
connection , that will make us have confidence and believe in ourselves and why
that is a really key factor.
Chapter 3: Going by the chapter heading this informs us on how to develop socially and
gives you some information and what is expected to come.
Chapter 4: This chapter is focused on exercises that can be magnificent i order
to develop socially into the person you want to be. It also is constructed to
a high level that contains exercises like looking in the mirror and also walking around with
a book on your head which can be really useful.
Chapter 5: Keeping a connection is important and that is something the book goes over and tells
us how to do it and don’t be surprised if it is a difficult task.
Chapter 6: This is the final chapter goes and tells you and tells you a lot of needed information
and what can help you make connections.
I recommend purchasing the book because of the values and lessons taught in it.
November 2, 2015
First, background: my very nature is a shy introvert that is socially awkward; I never know what to say or do, hug or handshake, duration of eye contact. My friends would never guess this as I appear to be the social butterfly, but as I move on starting my own full time business, I must network more and around strangers who are judging my interaction hard and the difference in their perception is shown financially on my bottomline :( Harsh
Given that: This book, well laid out, easy to read, includes examples and stories that are relatable, and even includes bits of humor along with exercises and goals to complete through your journey.
I found this book best used in pieces; do a quick scan read, then read one chapter at a time prior to attending a networking even and really focus on just the ideas and themes of that chapter in depth and the included exercises. By the time I was at Chapter 4, and went to my 4 networking lunch, between practice and sheer repetitiveness, there was a clear difference in my elevator speech delivery and my ability to build rapport on a surface level with strangers.Included are several list making activities to help you in that easy as 123 kind of way to build your conversation starters.
I still struggle with the humor the author discusses. The book covers studying comedians, practicing in the mirror, or even picking a couple of jokes that can be utilized in normal conversation without sounding scripted or cheesy - but my delivery is still off. By far the most critical chapter covered Keeping a Connection and was the one I read several times over to revert to memory. Overall, this book has been quite helpful, is easy and fairly quick to read, to get you going before your next event with people.
Given that: This book, well laid out, easy to read, includes examples and stories that are relatable, and even includes bits of humor along with exercises and goals to complete through your journey.
I found this book best used in pieces; do a quick scan read, then read one chapter at a time prior to attending a networking even and really focus on just the ideas and themes of that chapter in depth and the included exercises. By the time I was at Chapter 4, and went to my 4 networking lunch, between practice and sheer repetitiveness, there was a clear difference in my elevator speech delivery and my ability to build rapport on a surface level with strangers.Included are several list making activities to help you in that easy as 123 kind of way to build your conversation starters.
I still struggle with the humor the author discusses. The book covers studying comedians, practicing in the mirror, or even picking a couple of jokes that can be utilized in normal conversation without sounding scripted or cheesy - but my delivery is still off. By far the most critical chapter covered Keeping a Connection and was the one I read several times over to revert to memory. Overall, this book has been quite helpful, is easy and fairly quick to read, to get you going before your next event with people.
November 6, 2014
"Instant Connection" has excellent advice about creating and maintaining relationships with all kinds of people in your life (women, co-workers, clients, family, etc).
The tips and strategies are very useful and do not take forever to read. This book gets right on straight to the point on how to build connection with people with plenty of stuffs you can do such as figure out what's interesting about yourself and mirror exercises.
It talks a lot about how to communicate with others, but more important on how to build that rapport within communication. What I like is that it doesn't just leave it just on building connection, but what happens and what to do after once the connection is built because I agree what's the point of creating pointless relationship if you can't maintain it plus how you can practice it.
I got the book for specific advice about making connections with business clients, but I learned a whole lot more than I expected
The tips and strategies are very useful and do not take forever to read. This book gets right on straight to the point on how to build connection with people with plenty of stuffs you can do such as figure out what's interesting about yourself and mirror exercises.
It talks a lot about how to communicate with others, but more important on how to build that rapport within communication. What I like is that it doesn't just leave it just on building connection, but what happens and what to do after once the connection is built because I agree what's the point of creating pointless relationship if you can't maintain it plus how you can practice it.
I got the book for specific advice about making connections with business clients, but I learned a whole lot more than I expected
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