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The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide

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New York Times bestselling author J.R. Ward delivers a behind-the-scenes look at her “to die for”( Publishers Weekly) Black Dagger Brotherhood series—and a brand-new short story starring Zsadist and Bella.

This is a book no Black Dagger Brotherhood fan should miss—an insider’s guide that will seduce readers as powerfully as the sexy band of Brothers and the world they live in. And also included is an original short story about stars Zsadist and Bella!

This comprehensive guide features insider information on the Brotherhood, their dossiers, stats, and special gifts. Readers will savor interviews with their favorite characters, deleted scenes, exciting material from the J.R. Ward message board and the answers to their burning questions. They’ll learn what it’s like for J.R. Ward to write each installment of the series, and in a fascinating twist, read an interview with the author—conducted by the Brothers. Plus readers will get a sneak peek at the much anticipated next book in the Black Dagger Brotherhood series, Lover Avenged.

478 pages, Paperback

First published October 7, 2008

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J.R. Ward

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J.R. Ward is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of numerous novels, including the Black Dagger Brotherhood series. She lives in the South her family.

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1,352 reviews1,460 followers
October 5, 2008
I'll start by stating the obvious--this book is a must-have for all BDB fans. It is filled with so much fun "stuff" and will keep you occupied and entertained while you await the May '09 release of the latest in the BDB saga, "Lover Avenged".

Chief among the goodies is a short story about Zsadist, Bella, and baby daughter Nalla, called "Father Mine". In it, we see Z and Bella having marital problems, coping with being new parents and all the adjustments that entails, and watch Z struggle to bond with the baby he adores, yet is afraid to love. We see how Z finally is forced to face and deal with his past in order that he may finally have a happy future.

I loved this glimpse into Z and Bella's life, even though it was sad to see how Z still struggled with his horrific past. ****spoiler ahead****The fact that Bella considered leaving Z because he refused to have anything to do with baby Nalla had me panicking for a minute, because I knew Z wouldn't be able to go on without Bella in his life.******* I was very glad when Z finally faced his fears, and was surprised by the person he was able to open up to and get help from.

This was a very satisfying, sometimes sad, but ultimately happy read (and with some really hot moments too), and it convinced me that Zsadist, Bella and Nalla would be a very happy family in the future.

I also loved the 'dossiers' on the Brothers. There were lots of fun factoids revealed as the Brothers filled out questionnaires from the author. Some of the questions asked were: Height and Weight? (these guys are huge!); What's in your closet?; Sexiest part of a female?; Last book read?; Favorite TV show?; Boxers or briefs?; Last time you cried? Most romantic thing you've ever done? All fun stuff, and the Brother's different personalities are revealed by their answers.

Maybe my favorite part of the whole book is a look into how JR Ward felt while crafting the whole BDB series. We see how she came up with the whole idea, read the original BDB book proposal, and hear her thoughts about each of the characters. We find out who her favorite is, who makes her blush, who she thinks is "monster hot", which book she's most proud of, which character she doesn't quite get along with, and which book gave her the most trouble. She also confesses about the one book she wishes she could make changes to.

I loved getting a peek into the mind of JR Ward, and reading this autobiographical part of the book was riveting. It's fascinating reading, and shows just how much work and absolute dedication it takes to be a successful writer.

This book is filled with tons of other fun stuff, and I'm sure there is something for everyone here. There's some 'slices of life' segments that were originally posted on her message board. If you're like me and find her message board somewhat hard to navigate and not exactly easy on the eyesight, you'll appreciate these scenes of everyday life in the Brotherhood reprinted here. There's also some deleted scenes included from some of the books, advice for writers, a Q & A section, the Brothers interviewing JR, a touching interview with Tohr and Wellsie, and finally an excerpt from the upcoming "Lover Avenged".

If you're a fan of the BDB, you don't want to miss this book. I found it loads of fun, and it provided many hours of fascinating reading. The only bad part is that it will make you impatient to read the next installment of the BDB series! Love those Brothers! Enjoy!
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378 reviews143 followers
October 10, 2008
Here's the thing: there are people who read books, and there are people who are "readers." People who read enjoy books. Readers take that to an almost insane degree. They don't just read books, they immerse themselves in them. And, to the extent that they have a "favorite" book or author, they can get lost for days....or longer. Readers read favorites over and over (and over) again. It isn't so much about the words that are put on the page, although those can be very good. It is more about how you feel when you read that book or that author. People who read roll their eyes when I mention this. Readers understand completely.

To that end, this is a book for readers. If you're a casual fan of J.R. Ward, this probably isn't the book for you. Yes, there is new material in it, but you're not going to buy this book just for the original short at the beginning. The majority of this book consists of a lot of insider baseball, which is great if you're a major league fan. I started in the middle, skipped around things I'd already seen on the website, and then went back and read Father Mine the original short story. Finally, I read the preview of the upcoming book about Rehvenge. May can't get here fast enough!

I recommend the short story to everyone who is even remotely interested in the Brotherhood and JR Ward. It is really very good. If you only have a passing curiosity about the rest, check this out from the library. But, if you're a big fan, you won't need me to tell you to buy this book. In fact, you probably already have it!
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1,302 reviews119 followers
March 8, 2023
Relectura 2022: Creo que Padre mío es un relato que cala hondo, si no quieren leer la Guía por cualquier razón, ese relato se lo merece mucho.
Para quienes han disfrutado de esta lectura, a la altura actual de la saga sería muy interesante encontrarse con una nueva guía.

P.D.: Esas hojas finales In memoriam💔

Relectura 2020: Esta no es una guía más, es una guía que nos muestra mucho del corazón de los hermanos y de cómo han nacido y cómo viven, pelean y sienten. A lo largo de todo lo que conforma esta guía podemos encontrar unos cuantos momentos que remueven muchos sentimientos y que nos hacen pensar, creo definitivamente que todo aquel que se embarque en el mundo de la hermandad no debería dejar pasar este libro. Muy recomendable.
Profile Image for Anna.
484 reviews372 followers
August 20, 2014
http://www.jrward.com/bdb/slices.html

❤❤❤

More. More. More.

TRUE. TRUE. TRUE.

But sometimes it’s just because you’re looking into the eyes of your lover and your gratitude for having them in your life overflows... because you showed them what was on the inside and they didn’t run scared or turn away, they accepted you and loved you and held you in the midst of your passion or your fear... or your combination of both.

❤Wrath
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552 reviews692 followers
June 20, 2011
~AN ABSOLUTE MUST-HAVE FOR BDB FANS~
This is essential reading for BDB fans. Zsadist and Bella's 81 page short story alone is worth the price of admission. Huge insight is given into each book in the series and the Brotherhoods world, as well as a ton of other information. JR interviews each of the Brothers getting them to fill in a question/answer sheet with hilarious results, giving us a greater understanding of their characters. I actually came away from this feeling like the Brothers were real people.

Imagine if you will moonlight fly fishing with Wrath or driving with Zsadist in his Porsche to Target and doing some shopping. You'll also get to ride along with Butch in a golf cart and launch rockets at the mansion. Who knew Rhage did yoga? And John Mathew's true identity is finally revealed. This book although an insiders guide felt more like book #7 in the series, with focus given to all the characters. There are some spoilers for the next book,Lover Avenged and many *sigh* moments. The Brothers even go to JR Ward's house to interview her and I found the writers guide particularly interesting.

The insiders guide includes;
82 PAGE NOVELLA- (Father Mine: Zsadist and Bella's Story)- About Zsadist, Bella and Nalla. Covering the birth and months afterward, concentrating on Z's adjustment into fatherhood) sigh, this is heart wrenching.

THE BROTHER`S STATS- (personal questions/answer sheet) age, weight, weapon of choice, favourite TV show, what do you fear most? Most romantic thing you've ever done and J.R's personal interview with each Brother while out and about.

WRITERS GUIDE- For those who want to know about breaking into the publishing business. Included is the proposal for the Brotherhood series that was sent through JR's agent to her publishes.

DELETED SCENES- Exerts that for one reason or another never made it into the books, including; Zsadist & Bella, John, Butch, V, Phury, and Cormia. These are fantastic.

KICKS AND GIGGLES- Amusing quotes from the books.

BROTHERS ON THE BOARD- (JR Wards website discussion board) Imagine that the brothers are regular posters on a discussion board. Includes some very funny scenes filled with unmerciful teasing and Phury and Cormia's mating ceremony.

SLICES OF LIFE- Short stories JR posted on her discussion board. IncludesMovie Night, Wrath and the Letter Opener(hot), In the Nature of Phury, and theThe Interview That Never Happened, Ah Vishous. (These are really good)

QUESTION AND ANSWER WITH JR- The WARDen answers some questions from her message board and Yahoo group, interesting.

TIME LINE OF THE BROTHERHOOD- From 1600 to present. When they were born, transitioned, met each other and joined the Brotherhood.

TABLE OF ABBREVIATIONS- (FYI) We finally learn what (WTF) the Brothers are talking about.

Pictures of what the 'OLD LANGUAGE' looks like.
The Brotherhood INTERVIEW JR at her house, Ah Zsadist.
IN MEMORIAM- Wellsie and J.R talk.
EXERT FROM LOVER AVENGED- Book #7, Rhevenge's story.

Recommended for fans of Wrath, Rhage, Vishous, Butch, Phury and especially Zsadist. I wouldn't recommend this guide unless you've read the first 6 books in this amazing series.
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2,503 reviews941 followers
March 22, 2011
I cannot believe how long I waited to get this book. If you're a member of J.R.'s official BDB forum, then you may be familiar with some of the pieces in this compilation, such as the Slices of Life pieces and the Brothers on the message boards. But even if you are, that doesn't mean you should skip out on this one. There is a ton of stuff to indulge in that will satisfy your hunger of the Brothers until the next book comes out.

One of my favourite parts of this book is the deleted scenes. Ward gives us a glimpse of scenes that have been removed or altered from its book form. I think my favourites one are the ones of Cormia and Phury. God, they are just perfect for one another aren't they? That scene made me blush and the one that takes place five years later is precious.

Another one of my favourites is the questionaire that the Brothers fill out. It's kind of interesting to see their answers and bash on one other (Rhage is king when it comes to that). Cracking open the spine of this book is like diving into the mansion and experiencing the macho frat boy atmosphere along with the Brothers. You feel it, you know?

What can I say? Father Mine tore me apart. It was so beautiful and elegantly written. I felt so humble that I could experience something so personal and so important between Z and Bella. Their interactions with Nalla are what brought on the tears. With Z's guilt pushed aside and Bella there to comfort him, Nalla now as the chance to love her father as she was meant to from the beginning. So, so touching.

Speaking of heartbreaking moments, another one is the interview with Tohr and Wellsie. My God, they are beautiful, aren't they? Their chemistry is as potent as ever and I am saddened to know the future outcome for them. Though that does not take away the validity of their love. They belong to one another. Forever. Period.

And what a cool thing to add: helpful tips for aspiring writers. Being one myself, I was totally and completely entranced by this section. To be honest, I want to be J.R., as stalker-ish as that sounds. It's the honest truth. So the fact that she is willing to share her tips and successes with fans is great.

Bottom Line? If you're dying for more Brothers, this one is a no-brainer.
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1,160 reviews7 followers
December 25, 2024
Okay this guide is awesome!! If you think you have a feel for the Brothers through reading their stories, then you will feel even closer to them reading this. I found myself at times kinda forgetting these guys are fictional characters while reading this. Which has never happened to me while reading fiction.

Yes, getting lost in their world and stories for sure, happens and that's cool. But you always know these are not real people. For some reason reading this guide/series, and I don't know how Ward did it, but I just feel like these guys are real people sometimes.

The short story "Father Mine" about Zsadist & Bella & Nalla is a must read for Zsadist fans for sure. The extra info, deleted scenes, interviews and insights etc., are great too.

I highly recommend the series as well as this Insider's Guide... Make sure you check out the hot Novella The Letter Opener in this one as well. It's about Wrath & Beth
HAWT!!!!

Disclaimer Update: I'm a diehard fan of this book and the series it's attached to, up until about book 17 or 18 when I stopped reading the series. I believe there are 22 or 23 books out now.
IMHO Ward should have ended this series at about book 14.(By this time, I had a lot more misses than hits with this series) So I stopped auto buying and reading it religiously by then.
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1,130 reviews574 followers
October 3, 2015
"Padre mío" ha sido tan bonito. ¡Ay!
Profile Image for Anna.
484 reviews372 followers
August 21, 2014
http://www.jrward.com/bdb/slices.html

Seriously this is a slice of Phury heaven ❤

For Phury, the nature of the Do Not Have, the Cannot Have, the Never Possible, the Unfulfilled is taking him into darker places than he could have predicted. I think he assumed that if Z ever healed a little, that his own suffering would be over.
Profile Image for Rocio Voncina.
556 reviews160 followers
January 29, 2025
Titulo: La guía secreta de la Hermandad de la Daga Negra
Autor: J.R. Ward
Motivo de lectura: #LCRobbie
Lectura / Relectura: Lectura
Fisico / Electronico: Electronico
Mi edicion: -
Puntuacion: 4/5

Un paseo por el camino de la memoria, donde Ward vuelve a revisitar los libros, entrevista personajes y cuenta algunos detalles sobre la saga.

Definitivamente es un libro para los fans, donde el mínimo detalle nuevo te hace sonreír.
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347 reviews206 followers
September 26, 2022
Exceptuando algunos momentos, este libro se sintió como perder el tiempo: fue ridículo e innecesario. ¿Aporta algo a la trama principal? Si los personajes no te importan taaanto, no lo creo.
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4,470 reviews35.8k followers
April 20, 2015
Just a few paragraphs about my boy's and their shellans hanging out ;))
Profile Image for Cyndy Aleo.
Author 10 books72 followers
May 20, 2011
When I was finally done with J.R. Ward's Black Dagger Brotherhood (BDB) series, I felt a sense of accomplishment for making it through all of them, even the bad ones. Then, however, another friend informed me of The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide. Never one to read hokey "companion" books, I thought nothing of it until I was told it contained a novella about Zsadist and Bella involving the birth of their child. Naturally, I had to borrow it, just to make sure I'd read everything, right?

::: Contents :::

The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide starts off with the novella, called Father Mine, which tells the story of Lover Awakened's couple, Zsadist and Bella, as they adjust to being first-time parents. It's a typical romance story with some angst, some arguing, and then the make-up sex, but nothing that's crucial to the plot of the series.

After the novella comes "Dossiers" of the brothers with a fact sheet, an "interview" with the author, and bits and pieces of their character development.

Ward includes a section for aspiring writers including her initial proposal for the series and some answers to questions sent in by her readers.

Following the writers' section are deleted scenes, outtakes, an interview with Ward, a timeline for the series, abbreviations, a key for the "old language" alphabet, an interview with Ward "conducted by" her characters, and then an interview with a character who was dead even at the time of the book's release.

::: Wow, That's Some Ego You Have There :::

I'll make no apology; books like the BDB series are guilty pleasures for me: mindless summer reading that are like potato chips. I don't view them as any great work of literature, and I always hope that the author views them as tongue-in-cheek as I do.

Judging by The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide, J.R. Ward takes herself really seriously, as must a lot of her fans. However, as a casual fan of the series, the ego involved in this book was enough to choke me.

The interviews with the Brothers and then theirs with her are hokey at best. She inserts herself into her stories in this way (something I almost always hate), and sees herself as something of a bad*ss, judging by the dialogue she writes for herself here. I spent most of the interviews face-palming and muttering "vampire. romance. novel."

The novella is sweet, if not terribly compelling, and the timeline is helpful. Outtakes and deleted scenes are always welcomed by a fan base, but many other authors provide those on their Web sites for free as a thank you to fans for buying their books in the first place. The schlockiest of all is the interview with (spoiler if you haven't read the series) Tohrment and Wellesie, "conducted before her death." Really? Come on. Put out novellas about your dead characters if you must (Stephenie Meyer, I'm looking at you), but conducting interviews with them after you've killed them is just plain silly.

Diehard fans of the series may enjoy this, but I spent my time cringing at the worst parts and skimming a lot of it. Had I paid money for it, I'd likely be incensed, but as it is, I simply wish I had the time back that I spent reading it.

This review originally published on Epinions: http://www.epinions.com/review/Book_T...
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1,069 reviews292 followers
October 30, 2008
WOW! I'm just not sure what else to say about "The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide" by J.R. Ward. For those who have gotten caught up in this series, it's an absolute 'must buy' for your keeper shelf!

Ward has included, among other things: a shiny, new short story about baby Nalla; the original proposal for Dark Lover which started the whole series; some deleted scenes (different from the ones originally available on her website); some of her favorite quotes from each book; a teaser scene from the upcoming "Lover Avenged"; some hilarious sequences from her website boards starring the brothers; new interviews with each of the brothers (different from those originally available on her website); dossiers on each brother, and a whole lot more.

I gnawed on this one like a chocoholic at Godiva's! Don't miss it, or the brothers...
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Author 5 books1,340 followers
June 11, 2010
Reviewed for THC Reviews
Father Mine Father Mine is yet another incredible story in the Black Dagger Brotherhood series. It fills in the blanks for Zsadist and Bella, covering the events that occurred in their lives between the final chapter and epilogue of Lover Awakened. It relates the narrative of Nalla's birth, and the subsequent return of Z's nightmares of his horrific past. Z is one of my favorite brothers, because he is tough as nails on the outside but broken and vulnerable inside. He is such an amazing character, I could read dozens of stories about him and never get tired of them. Z is extremely complex and multi-layered which is one of the things I love about him. I liked that J. R. Ward didn't make the end of Lover Awakened the end for Z. In real life, recovery from abuse is never, in my experience, something that is miraculously overcome, and there may be unexpected things that can trigger unpleasant memories even after one thinks they've been put to rest. With this in mind, it made perfect sense that the birth of Z's daughter would reawaken some of his past issues, and it became an opportunity for him to take the next step in the healing process. I had been somewhat disappointed that the effects of Bella's abuse at the hands of the lesser in Lover Awakened was not really explored, so it was nice to see how she had been able to get closure as well. Father Mine was a beautifully told story in which Z and Bella, once again, show the unfathomable depth of love they have for one another, and now for their new daughter as well. All of the brothers except Butch put in an appearance in this novella, as well as Mary and Jane. There was a little hint of what the future may hold for Rhage and Mary as well, and I'll be interested to see how that plays out. Father Mine was a sweet, tender, romantic story. It was a definite keeper for me, and in my opinion, a must-read for fans of the series. I've been away from the brothers for far too long, and I'm glad to be back, anxiously looking forward to reading the rest of this book, and continuing the series. Although it doesn't have an official book number, Father Mine falls between Lover Enshrined and Lover Avenged in the series ordering. Rating: *****

Other Content – I thoroughly enjoyed the Brotherhood Dossiers. The questionnaires and J. R.'s interviews with the brothers are a combination of sweet and LOL funny just like the brothers are in the novels. As I read these sections, I alternated between cracking up at their jokes (my hubby asked me what was so funny) and feeling touched by how genuinely real these characters seem to me. It must have been a challenge for J. R. Ward to play herself plus get in character to play each brother in turn at the same time. I really appreciated her efforts on this, because I had a blast reading each one.

Ms. Ward's craft comments on each book gave me a lot of insights into her personality as both a person and a writer. She also made me think about certain aspects of the stories and characters in a deeper way, so that I now understand a few things about the world she has created even better than I had before. I love time travel in stories, but strangely hadn't really considered how the Scribe Virgin and the Omega had altered the space-time continuum in this series. I'm glad Ms. Ward brought that up, because I had a fun, mind-blowing time pondering all that.;-) I was thrilled to discover that some of my favorite scenes are also hers, and that some of her self-critique mirrored my own critique of her books in my reviews of them. It seems that we think quite a bit alike which I've come to conclude must be one of the reasons I love the Black Dagger Brotherhood series so much.

As a newly aspiring author myself, I found Ms. Ward's advice for writers section to be both helpful and inspiring. It was comforting to know that I am already on the right track in some areas, and I learned several new things that could be invaluable in the future if I decide to attempt to publish. I also really appreciated the story of her meeting with Suzanne Brockmann at the RWA convention and her feelings that she could never live up to the writing standard that Ms. Brockmann had set. When I sit down to my computer to write, I've had these same feelings usually in regards to J. R. Ward herself and other authors that I really admire. Ms. Ward sharing that small part of herself touched my heart and encouraged me in ways that are difficult to express.

The Black Dagger Brotherhood proposal was very interesting. I enjoyed seeing all the little things that changed between the original concept and the finished manuscript. At the same time I was amazed by how well fleshed out everything was right from the start and that so few changes were made. I think the most major character difference was that Phury had a different backstory, and he and Zsadist weren't brothers. The biggest storyline difference was how Dark Lover ended. From the perspective of an aspiring writer and a big fan of the series, it was all was rather fascinating and a really fun walk down memory lane.

I absolutely loved the deleted scenes. A couple presented extra character development on John Matthew, Butch and Vishous, as well as a far-distant future epilogue for Phury and Cormia. The others were smokin' hot love scenes, one between Zsadist and Bella and the other between Phury and Cormia, both of which were altered before the final draft. I loved reading every one of them. They were so good, I wish that they could have remained in their respective books.

The Kicks and Giggles section was pretty fun to read. The brothers have always had their own special brand of dark sarcasm that frequently makes me laugh, so having all their best humorous scenes and one-liners collected together in one place was a treat that kept a smile on my face almost the whole time I was reading this part.

The Brothers on the Board section is edited interactions between the brothers and the fans on J. R. Ward's website. The first half is similar to the Kicks and Giggles section in that the brothers are in fine form, pulling pranks on one another and letting their silly sides show. The second half is more serious and actually gives some insights into Lassiter's relationship with the brothers. In this part the alpha posturing is pretty intense. I think the brothers definitely need their females to balance them out, otherwise all that testosterone would be pretty overwhelming. The final bit detailed the absolutely lovely mating ceremony of Phury and Cormia which brought a few tears to my eyes. I always seem to cry at weddings.;-)

The Slices of Life section was really good and almost like deleted scenes. The first story was written in a casual "this is what the characters did today" sort of way. The second story about Wrath was written more formally and did feel like an extra scene that might have been in one of the books, not to mention it was quite steamy. The last two were written from J. R. Ward's perspective when Phury came to “visit” her, and when she went to “visit” V and Butch. In my opinion, all of them added even more depth to the characters who were a part of the stories. I know that this section and the Brothers on the Board section can both be found on J. R. Ward's website, but I had never read them before. Even if I had, I think it was nice to have them neatly edited and gathered together in one place, so that I don't have to go searching for them online.

There were some great questions in the Q & A with J. R. section which added insights to the stories already told and a few hints of what might be coming in the future. The Time Line of the Brotherhood, Table of Abbreviations and The Old Language were great references. The Old Language was particularly nice, because I can now visualize the shellans names on the brothers backs. If only I had known that the Old Language was in this book, I wouldn't have had to decipher it in Lover Avenged, but then again, geek that I am, it would have taken all the fun out of it for me.;-)

The Brothers Interview J. R. was a total riot, and not unlike her interviews with them. The In Memoriam was a beautiful family moment with Tohr, Wellsie, and John Matthew which really underscored the loss of Wellsie and the disappearance of Tohr, and what a huge hole was left without them.

Overall, I absolutely loved reading The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide, and in my opinion, it is a must-have for die-hard fans of the series like me. There is so much extra info here that is simply not to be missed, and although the brothers already felt like they truly existed somewhere before, they feel even more real now. For me, reading this book was also a great way to reintroduce myself to the Brotherhood's world after a long absence, and now I'm really stoked to read Lover Avenged. Rating: *****
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759 reviews823 followers
February 10, 2021
Father Mine
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Main reason I gave in and bought this was for the short story about Zsadist Bella and Nalla. I can't get enough of those three. Adorable angsty gorgeous little family. <3 I've been really dying to see more scenes of Zsadist interacting with baby Nalla. This definitely fed my curiosity but I want more. WAY MORE. I love the father-daughter sweet-as-hell bonding moments. Ward could you please give us more of that?? Anyways seeing Zsadist's personal demons and struggles to be a good father play out was really great and heartbreaking. The entire story was perfection it's hard to pick out fav moments. But when Z confessed his darkest fear to Bella?
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Gah. Heartbreaking and wonderful at the same time. Loved Bella even more with how devastated and gutted she was for her hellren, her reaction to his anguish is just what makes these two so wonderful and perfect together. I loved how they managed to come together (and what a reunion *fans self*) and work out Z's problem together. Really poignant story that I'm so happy Ward wrote. Also loved the scene with Dr. Walker, Z's reaction to him was really sweet and endearing. I loved how Z found common ground and a connection with the human doctor. It was the first time seeing one of the brothers and his shellan interacting with the outside human world. I loved it. Oh and getting the doctor's POV and reaction after seeing Z and Bella together for the first time? Awesome. Like I said before you don't really get to see these characters through the eyes of anyone else (let alone a human) outside the compound. So it was a nice shift.

Brothers Interviews
I didn't think I would read the rest but I actually really loved the questionares each of the brothers filled out. Too cute. So many fun, playful and hilarious answers. I also liked the one-on-one interviews between Ward and each brother. Didn't think I would. Lots of hilarious wise-crack moments. And the messageboard dialogues b/w the brothers was ridiculously funny. Jesus. The quick dialogue and snark come backs were awesome and so very them. I don't think I will ever get tired of their banter and hysterical pranks and jabs they pull on one another. It sounds silly and when I first got the book and skimmed through my reaction was kinda WTH? messageboard banter between fictional characters and fans?? But honestly Ward did a wonderful job capturing the characters in 'real time' I literally could picture them sitting at computers verbally sparring online and pulling pranks. Great fun!

Slices of Life
Wrath and the Letter Opener and Movie Night? BEST THINGS EVER!

Deleted scenes
I do think some of the deleted/revised scenes that Ward put in here were so much more compelling and successful then the ones that made it in the books IMO. I'm really wishing she put them in the books. One in particular was the alternate good-bye sex scene between Z and Bella. Wow! *fans self* So so soooo much better then the version in the book. It made me incredibly frustrated and kind of sad when I went back and re-read the revised scene in the book and compared the two. There was a HUGE difference in tone, dialogue and actions when you compare the two. The original deleted scene was so much more intense and poignant IMO. Much more meaningful and made Z come off more emotional and conflicted which was more appropriate for the scene and the story. I remember being really frustrated with the scene in the book because the actions and things that needed to be said and done weren't. Z intentionally tried to brush off Bella and be cold to her to get her to leave instead of telling her how he really felt (which IMO was the right time to tell her). I just felt really cold after that scene and not happy. Ward should have definitely followed her gut on this one.

Another was the deleted love scene between Phury and Cormia, this scene should have definitely been put in Lover Enshrined considering how little personal one-on-one time the couple shared, a big issue that made the overall story suffer. Would it have added to the story? Not really but it was definitely needed for the couples struggling relationship and connection that wasn't really highlighted as much in the book. For me there wasn't enough intimate moments between them in the book, this would have definitely helped. The deleted love scene was about them and Phury's attraction to her, not his drug problem or personal demons like it played out in his book. And that deleted epilogue? ADORABLE. Be still my heart. I understood why she kept it out but her 'vision' of where they would end up in 5 years was really wonderful and what I've wanted for Phury & Cormia. And Z, Bella and Nalla? An added bonus. <3 I disagree with her editor and critique buddies who talked her out of keeping it in the book. Mistake IMO and makes me raise a brow at the advice considering how incredibly underdeveloped and shaky this particular couple's love story was in their book. I don't understand the decision or agree but eh. I'm hoping she gives those two a novella.

Anways, great fun easy read. If you are a BDB fan who wants a little more extra moments then I'd recommend it. Some of the filler stuff I do think could have been replaced with more short stories IMO. Cause paying for something that's already posted on messageboards and her website seems like a waste of money. But I had fun reading this. I want more of her novellas!
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989 reviews10 followers
March 25, 2018
Rileggere questa guida - a distanza di tre anni - è stata un'emozione indescrivibile. Il racconto che vede protagonista Zsadist con la dolce Nalla si è preso ancora una volta il mio cuoricino, le simpatiche interviste ai Fratelli e i consigli agli scrittori esordienti sono delle piccole perle ma ciò nonostante il mio voto resta immutato. La Ward avrebbe potuto impiegare diversamente queste pagine, approfondendo molti punti che nella serie sono rimasti sul vago a maggior ragione perché dal titolo si evince che questa è e resterà l'unica guida definitiva.
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1,724 reviews150 followers
December 1, 2016
A ver, hubo partes como la historia corta de Zsadist, algunas entrevistas y ciertas cosas que estaba genial pero hay otras que sobraban completamente. A veces, muchas y demasiadas, se enrollaba como una persiana jaajaj sigo enamorada de Zsadist y así será hasta que llegue el libro de Lassiter claro ajajajaja
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15 reviews
October 14, 2008
How can I not give five stars to Wrath fly fishing??

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11k reviews176 followers
July 12, 2025
The Black Dagger Brotherhood: An Insider's Guide by J.R. Ward
Genre; Insiders guide/Information
3 Stars

Includes the novella Father Mine which I read Jan. 16th, 2015. That one I originally gave 4 stars to. I liked it.

Mostly this is just a companion type book to give you a little more behind the scenes to the BDB.

I originally downloaded it to find info that a friend of mine said was in here. I got so bored I kept skipping. I'm not good with these types of books. And, I never found what my friend was talking about 🙁.

A lot of the info is interesting, but...... A lot of it was not.
I did like the way it is formated.

Just wish I had found what I was looking for.
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1,213 reviews13 followers
November 4, 2008
I am CRAZY about these guys ... or else I'm just crazy! When I'm in the world of the BDB, I'm really IN it - do you know what I mean? I totally buy everything and everybody in each book, and when I finish one, I'm more than a little let down that I have to return to reality, true? Of course, Ward perpetuates these feelings, what with her "interviews", board postings, etc., further adding to the ease with which you can slip into believing these guys are living and loving in Caldwell, NY! Not many books draw me in and make me care as much as these do ("Outlander" is one other that comes to mind). Suffice it to say that I'll be pre-ordering "Lover Avenged" long before May 2009! [And BTW, did anyone else cry over the interview with Wellsie and Tohr?]
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1,256 reviews252 followers
August 20, 2014
This was very short but I loved it!!!

Sooooooooooooo that was movie night (day). Next one is going to be an Aliens marathon. And yeah, Rhage is going to insist on acting out the alien out of the stomach routine on the floor in front of the TV. *sigh* Hollywood's just like that, you know?
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1,949 reviews85 followers
May 19, 2025
I really enjoyed this. I wasn't sure what to think at first, but I liked getting the info on all the characters and some background. I also loved (cried) at the end with Wellsie's portion. Gah, I really loved her and cried like a baby when she died.

I do recommend this for all Black Dagger Brotherhood fans.
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1 review
October 26, 2021
I am disappointed with this book. I don't feel that I have gained anything by reading it, the book is almost written in two types that alternate throughout - the first being that JR Ward is a person in the BDB world who visits them in their own surroundings and holds individual interviews with each brother. Then it changes and is written in the 1st tense from the author and includes all her ramblings, and her style and rules of writing. Firstly I don't like the way it indicates that they are allowing someone - an outsider/ a human - into their world and to know everything about them, to hold interviews and write about them, It goes against everything the BDB is about - solitary and protective over their race and not at all interested in the world of humans. Secondly, to be honest I am not interested so much with the authors favorite scenes, her golden rules of how she writes, edits, thought processes or how she came up with all the books. I love how the BDB series and world feels so real when I read them and this just brings it back to feeling fictional to me and I would have rather not read it. in fact I have stopped reading half way through as it feels like a chore and I want to remember the BDB series for what I read in each 'normal' book, not the ramblings and inner thoughts of the author.
*I should add that I read the Z and Bella short story seperately a while back which is worth reading but the rest of this book is not in my opinion*
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935 reviews19 followers
June 24, 2009
Huh. Well I just finished this and I am not sure what to say. The woman needs a shrink but I also think she is clever as hell with her self promotion. I at times thought The ego of this woman while I read this. Having the characters in your books interview you? Having 80 pages of the book being message boards from your fan site? I don't know. I enjoyed reading it but I just could NOT lose myself in this.

I did think a few times about stopping. I admit it. I think this book pulled back the curtain and showed too much of the little man working the machines. And even though the woman is shameless in her self promotion her naked insecurity left me cold. I get it. You like to go for runs. Your a perfectionist. Blah blah blah.

Yeah. I can't say I am a fan of this. Parts were entertaining - but. Yeah. It left me kind of cold.
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99 reviews27 followers
August 15, 2020
Jane: "Oh per l'amor di Dio. V. riesce a essere così stronzo."
J. R. Ward: "Il che spiega perché il romanzo Possesso è dedicato a te."
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3,772 reviews4,727 followers
August 30, 2009
5 stars – Vampire Romance

This features the BDB short novella Father Mine: Zsadist and Bella's Story that is such a beautiful, emotionally moving tale of what happens after the HEA. I (like so many other BDB series fans) love Zsadist and Bella and their against all odds love story. It's J.R. Ward at her very best and makes the BDB Insider's Guide truly worth the buy/read!
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246 reviews21 followers
May 12, 2016
Das einzig gute und interessante war die Kurzgeschichte über Z & Bella, der Rest war wirklich unnötig und überhaupt nicht das, was ich von dem Buch erwartet hatte.
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