Life is full of twists and turns. Relationships falter, careers fizzle, health fades. We may be faced with choices we never wanted to make or have situations pushed upon us we'd never expected. Yet, in all of it, God is at our side--even when he feels far away.
Drawing on her extensive research into women of the Old Testament, novelist Jill Eileen Smith turns her pen to the lessons in trusting God that we can learn today from women like
- Eve - Noah's wife - Sarai - Hagar - Lot's wife - Rebekah - Rachel - and more
Readers will learn from what these ancient women did right--and even what they did wrong--when faced with dashed expectations and deferred dreams. And they'll come away with the confidence that ours is a faithful God who loves us and is forming us through our trials into the women he longs for us to be.
Jill Eileen Smith is the bestselling, award-winning author of the Wives of King David series, the Wives of the Patriarchs, Daughters of the Promised Land, Heart of a King, Star of Persia, Miriam's Song, The Prince and the Prodigal, Daughter of Eden, and The Ark and the Dove. Her research has taken her from the Bible to Israel, and she particularly enjoys learning how women lived in Bible times.
When she isn’t writing, she loves to spend time with her family and friends, read stories that take her away, ride her bike to the park, snag date nights with her hubby, try out new restaurants, or play with her lovable cats Kody and Kaelee. Jill lives with her family in southeast Michigan.
I have read a handful of books from this author. I am a fan of Jill's fiction books based on women of the Bible. This new book is not too different from those books on the fact that it does feature women of the Bible. However, Jill does provide readers a very in depth look into the lives of these women of the Bible and how their lives translate to present day.
Jill really breaks down different aspects of each woman and relates it to how she would react. Than towards the end of each chapter, the author asks the reader to spend some time in mindful devotion thinking about how these women translate to our own lives. Some of the women's stories did resonate more with me. However, this does not mean that I did not take away something from each one. This book actually should be read and enjoyed more as a devotion guide. Not just to be read straight through but to take time to reflect. This book would make a good Bible study book.
"He doesn't withhold the fulfillment of our dreams to hurt us. Sometimes He delays our dreams to teach us to trust Him. We trust Him by surrendering those dreams into His care."
I don't read much non-fiction. I read the Bible, some commentaries on the Bible, and the occasional books that we read for our church group gatherings. When Jill Eileen Smith released a "non-fiction" Christian living book based on 12 women of the Bible, I wasn't sure about the book but knew that the author would have wonderful, fresh insight into what lessons we can learn from these Biblical women. So I dove in. Wow, am I glad I did. The book is incredibly well-written, with the author's trademark writing style that flows so easily, engages from the first sentence, and leaves the reader pondering and praying long after the last page is read.
Each chapter begins with "If I Were ___" that puts the reader in first person narrative into the heart of each woman. Then the chapter transitions into "In Our World" to put the same issue the Biblical woman wrestled with into our current day. The imaginative Biblical scene again comes to life in the next section entitled "Imagine with Me" where the author takes the reader further down in the Biblical woman's life and then the chapter concludes with a lesson learned (such as "From Regret to Freedom" and "From Duplicity to Trust") and points to ponder, as well as questions to take the lesson further. The book spans such well-known women like Eve, Sarai, Hagar, Rebekah, Rachel, and Leah but also focuses on the lesser known or celebrated women like Adah (Noah's wife), Melah (Lot's wife), Dinah, Aneksi (Potiphar's wife), Tamar, and Zipporah. No matter how or why life has derailed for each of these women, it is clear that God has been there through it all and there is always hope in Him.
This is a book that will have you running to the store to buy for your sisters and friends. This is a book that will stay on my bookshelf for many years to come so that my daughters, when they are of age, can read and glean from the heartbreaking lessons written on the pages.
I was given a copy of the book by Revell (Baker Publishing Group) and was under no obligation to post a favorable review. All comments and opinions are solely my own.
This book dives into a unique research of the women in the bible, particularly in the Old Testament. You will see how God moved in the lives of women like Rachel, Hagar, and Sarai. God took their trials and turned them into testimonies.
This is a book that will surely remind you of God’s love for you and with the confidence that he is doing something new in your life each and every day.
**Disclosure**This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
About the Book:
Life is full of twists and turns. Relationships falter, careers fizzle, health fades. We may be faced with choices we never wanted to make or have situations pushed upon us we'd never expected. Yet, in all of it, God is at our side--even when he feels far away.
Drawing on her extensive research into women of the Old Testament, novelist Jill Eileen Smith turns her pen to the lessons in trusting God that we can learn today from women like
- Eve - Noah's wife - Sarai - Hagar - Lot's wife - Rebekah - Rachel - and more
Readers will learn from what these ancient women did right--and even what they did wrong--when faced with dashed expectations and deferred dreams. And they'll come away with the confidence that ours is a faithful God who loves us and is forming us through our trials into the women he longs for us to be.
My Review:
Life certainly has a way of kicking you while you are down. everything in the world could be going wrong and you will hear something in your head say, "I tried to tell you this was a mistake, but you just had to have this life". I'm sure many women of the Bible had the same thoughts from time to time. One example was Eve, she made a weighty decision that not only cost her but all of humanity. Poor Lot's wife, she just looked back for a second and thats all it took and she was gone that instant.
Jill Eileen Smith, takes what she knows from the Bible and she focuses in on a few of those ladies that didn't have all the answers but knew who did. The same ladies that ran to God when life took a toll. Or when they knew they needed to be protected because all hell was going to break loose and they needed that hedge of protection from the Ultimate Protector.
The ladies she highlights are Eve, Adah, Sarai, Hagar, Melah, Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Dinah, Aneksi, Tamar, and Zipporah. Each woman unique yet just like the rest. All these ladies are in need of comfort and saving in their own unique and individual way. The author takes us step by step into a fiction based on Biblical study through a day in the life of these remarkable women so that we can learn more about what molds and shapes them.
I’m not normally a fan of nonfiction books, but this book blew me away! It was so spot on about different aspects of our lives. Jill Eileen Smith did a great job of taking the stories of these Old Testament women and bringing them to life. She used their lives as examples and ties it in to modern life. Some of our problems that we face aren’t that different. This book moved me in so many ways! I highly recommend it for all women!
I received a complimentary copy from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are mine alone.
Known for her best-selling biblical fiction series, Jill Eileen Smith brings biblical women and characters to life in her fictionalized stories of 12 women of the Bible in "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams"--Eve, Sarai, Hagar, Lot's Wife, Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Tamar, Zipporah, Potiphar's Wife, Noah's Wife and Dinah. Each of these women led lives they wouldn't have designed for themselves, but their lives bring lessons to those of us who have lived with disappointment of one type or another.
Because of Smith's insight into the lives of women who didn't live out their dreams, we can learn so many things from their stories. Each new chapter brought a new favorite story--one I could find myself in. Maybe not exactly--Lord, help me not to turn into a pillar of salt or chase after a servant in my husband's employ--but I can relate to Lot's wife when I want to hold on to something God tells me to release, or to Potiphar's wife when I react to rejection in a way that brings out the worst in me instead of allowing myself to be accepted by God--the only One who matters.
The story of Rachel and Leah intrigued me the most. I had never captured their story in my imagination until Smith told it in a new and creative way. It really touched my heart. These two stories are my favorite ones.
Are you struggling with dreams that never came to fruition? Does your life not match what you had hoped for? If the women in the Bible can teach us anything, it is how to deal with disappointment even if we are only learning from their mistakes.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free as part of Jill Eileen Smith's "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams" Launch Team. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
Jill Eileen Smith pens an excellent assortment of tales based on a deeper dive into what might have been the thoughts, feelings, and situations experienced by 12 beloved females who lived during Biblical times, creating a book that is fictional and solidly non-fiction at the same time. While many are familiar with the story of Adam and Eve, how many of us have taken the time to ponder on how Eve must have felt after being deceived by the serpent, whose actions resulted in the introduction of sin for all time? How does one bounce back from that? Jill manifests what a “day in the life” may have looked and felt like for Eve, Adam (Noah’s wife), Sarai, Hagar, Rebekah and 7 other biblical favorites and how those thoughts, feelings and struggles were likely very similar to those women experience today; guilt, feeling abandoned, invisible, unloved, betrayed, empty. At the end of each vignette, Jill poses real-life questions for discussion and invites readers to reach beyond the words in this book to study The Bible for solutions to centuries-old, yet similar and relevant problems pertaining to the heart, relationships, and our world today.
Jill Eileen Smith puts her knowledge of the Bible and her gift for weaving engaging stories together in When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams. This the perfect book for study groups, or for your own personal study time.
We’ve all dealt with disappointment, loss, suffering, and pain. But it brings me comfort to know that, within the ‘cloud of witnesses’, I have sisters who’ve traveled similar roads long before I was born.
Smith doesn’t take liberties with the stories we’re familiar with in Scripture. Instead, she takes the bones of the life lived and adds fresh life with her creativity. I saw things I had never considered before now, like...
What did Eve’s sin do to her own life? Her marriage? How did it affect her children, and ultimately affect her?
Noah was commissioned by God to preach and to build a boat. But his wife? She was just along for the ride! Kinda of like a pastor’s wife might be. And why in the world did Lot’s wife look behind her?
Jill Eileen Smith gives us carefully crafted examples from the lives of 12 women, women who lived, moved, and had their lives defined by God. We’ve got a lot to learn about our Biblical sister’s, and ourselves, and Smith’s newest book is the perfect companion for this journey we call life.
Tiešām iesaku. Šie 12 sieviešu stāsti man lika paraudzīties daudz dziļāk un pārdomāt pilnīgi citādāk. Palīdzēja Bībeli ieraudzīt daudz reālāk. Ieraudzīt tās līdzības ar mums un mūsu līdzcilvēkiem. Nu ļoti patika.
Every women should read this book. Jill Eileen Smith took twelve women from the Bible that went through the same feelings and problems that we still have today. Each chapter has study questions at the end. This would make a wonderful bible study. Thank you Revell via NetGalley for the ARC copy of this awesome book. This is my honest opinion.
When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams by award winning biblical fiction author Jill Eileen Smith is an inspirational non-fiction book perfect for women of all ages. Jill Eileen Smith uses her extensive biblical research and the stories from the Bible to allow her readers to relate the situations that twelve women from Old Testament faced with struggles that women today encounter in society. This book encourages readers to use the lessons from the women of the Old Testament to reflect on their own lives and to always trust in God.
The women from the Old Testament included in this book are Eve, Adah (Noah’s Wife), Sarai, Hagar, Melah (Lot’s Wife), Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Dinah, Aneksi (Potiphar’s Wife), Tamar, and Zipporah. Each chapter begins with a section titled, “If I were…” and tells the story from the Bible from each of the twelve women’s point of view. Jill Eileen Smith’s detailed descriptions included in the “Imagine with me” sections allow the readers empathize with each of the women from the Old Testament and get a better understanding of what the women experienced.
She also connects each of the stories to current events and real-life stories of her own that readers can relate to. The chapters conclude with statements to ponder and thought-provoking questions for self-reflection. These discussion questions can be used individually to further the reader’s own spiritual growth or can be used in a group setting as a book club discussion. This fascinating book will truly be a inspiration to every woman who reads it. I definitely recommend this book!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from Revell and NetGalley and was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are mine.
I knew immediately I'd like this book after just the first page. Told partly in each woman's point of view, it was a joy to get to know them better. There was something about Jill's writing ability that made these women and their lives so much more real. I definitely shed a few tears and smiled largely with them.
As we go through the stories of these twelve women, we imagine how their lives would have be different if they'd not made the choices they did, if they'd not made the mistakes they had. How different would their lives be? How different would ours be?
While I didn't always agree with everything Jill wrote, she did bring up some very interesting ideas and points. Some things dragged on a bit but still a very enjoyable book. And it was great for the author's first nonfiction book!
The author regaled us with relative stories and lessons and trusting God with the outcome of every situation we're in.
My favorite story in this book would have to be Lot's wife, whom we call Melah. I related to the story and feelings Jill imagined for her and I related to the stories Jill told of her own life,and how she relates to the woman who couldn't help but look back.
The book made me stop and say, "It's not just me?" and realize that I'm really not alone.
Did you ever read a book that gave you a new passion for living? For having a relationship with Christ? This book was that book for me.
(page 55, Sarai) Christians are messy too. Because the truth is, we're all broken people with pasts we can't erase and sometimes can't forgive. When we choose not to forgive, however, we set ourselves up for a life of bitterness and merciless judgment of others. We lose all ability to live the grace we were given when we first believed
With God there is hope. God, who can calm the stormy seas, is also very capable of calming our turbulent emotions and healing our hurting pasts--if we'll ask Him. (Page 121, Rachel.)
Thank you so much to Revell for a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. *All thoughts and opinions expressed are purely my own, I was not required to leave a good review. *
Book Review of "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams" by Jill Eileen Smith Hope for Today from 12 Women of the Bible
"When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams" is a book every women can relate to in some way, as without a doubt most of us have encountered a similiar life situation that one of these 12 biblical women faced, because, as most of us will agree, life does not always go according to what we hope, plan or dream for.
Yet, this book shows us that even though life often doesn't play out the way we thought it would, we can still keep hoping and dreaming, for everyday is a new day and a new chance, for our God is an Awesome God who can work ALL things together for good in our lives.
Of the 12 Women in this book, some might be more familiar to you than others, but all of them were real women. Sometimes when reading the bible and its stories, we tend to forget it is about real people. It's stories about real people who lived real lives and went through real life experiences like we do, the only difference is that it was many years ago.
Have you ever wondered when reading about Adam and Eve's story, what Eve might have been thinking and feeling? After all, she was the one who got enticed by the serpent and caused Adam to join her in eating the forbidden fruit. Ever wonder why she did that, or what was going on in her mind to cause her to do such a thing and how she felt about dealing with it all afterwards?
And what about Noah's wife, ever wonder how she felt about the whole Ark building venture? The bible doesn't tell us much about her, but her in Jill's book we can imagine what she felt and thought about all that was going on in her life at that time and after the flood.
And many others, like Lot's wife, why did she look back when she was warned not to? Or Potiphar's wife who seemingly had it all, yet risked everything to try to win Joseph? This book looks at women who faced abandonment, betrayal, lonliness, and wrong choices. Women who had to live with consequences of actions done by them in desperation, or done to them by others. Women who took risks and lost, or lived with regret, women who made the best of what they had and trusted God, women with problems just like you and me.
This book imagines what these women might have thought and how they may have reacted and dealt with their circumstances and life choices. I believe it shows us that there is always hope for the future even though our life doesn't end up being the life we dreamed about, we can still have hope for the future, because we have God and He will help us if we ask Him to.
I think this is a book that you will find yourself relating to in many ways, and one which you will want to read again and again.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author, but I was not expected to give a favorable review. All thoughts are my own.
Jill Eileen Smith is a well-known writer of Biblical fiction, though somehow I have missed reading her books thus far. Unmatched dreams, though -- now that's something I'm more familiar with. Like most Christian women, I've read plenty about the ladies in the Bible, but something about this book seemed a little different. For one, Smith picks women from early in the Old Testament -- all these women come from either Genesis or Exodus. I don't know about you, but for all I've seen on the more popular Biblical women, I've never read anything that included an in-depth look at the wives of Lot or Potiphar. Hmm!
In another unique twist, Smith includes portions in each chapter when she dives into first-person fictional slices of that woman's life. This really sets the scene and gets you thinking about these stories in ways you might not have before. How willing a participant was Leah in tricking Jacob to marry her? What went through the mind of Lot's wife as she hosted the men who predicted the destruction of her city? These are questions for which we'll never know the answer, but Smith does an excellent job drawing out each woman's voice and perspective on the way things might have been.
I hadn't even reached the end of the first chapter before I began collecting quotes form this book. The first one I wrote down? "The details of our hurts don't matter so much as the fact that we have them." Ooh, that is good! I kept writing them down all throughout the book. Another of my favorites came from Chapter 8: "Never be afraid to ask for grace."
Two chapters in this book that really spoke to me were the ones on Hagar and Leah, women who went through a great deal of pain and were despised for various reasons. All the chapters were really good, and the truths on display are applicable to today's world. I'd recommend this for women everywhere, especially those in need of knowing they are not alone in whatever they may be facing. The women of the Bible were just as real as you and me, and the God who was involved in their lives is the One who cares for us even now.
I received my copy of the book from the publisher. All opinions in this review are my own.
Jill Eileen Smith talks to us as if in conversation, helping us to apply lessons learned from these real life women who lived in ancient times to our own lives. We are compelled to step into their shoes, drawing reflections and conclusions that may help us when we are tempted, regretful, inclined to lie or to be controlling, feeling ignored or rejected, etc. Through fictional scenes drawn from her extensive research, Ms. Smith paints a believable picture of each of the 12 women, some familiar, some rarely written about. In her "If I were…" and "Imagine with me" segments about each woman, the author digs deep into the motivations that drive each person portrayed, making them human so that even today we can grasp their dilemma. For example, in the story of Eve, we come to sense her tremendous guilt for having caused the Fall, her longing for a do-over, and how she never felt she measured up. The "In our world" segment of each chapter prompts self-reflection about the feelings and thoughts of the characters and relates their story to present-day issues. The high point of each study is when Ms. Smith helps us think about how we could "solve" the issues we face with the help of God's wisdom, freely given in the Bible through His Word for our lives. For example, in the story of Sarai, who was expected to lie for the safety of her husband, this section is called "From Duplicity to Trust." We are reminded of God's word again in the "Ponder This" part, and "Taking it further" provides questions for us as individuals, or for group discussions. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in reading a compelling book written by a well-researched author. Jill Eileen Smith's vast knowledge of scripture is distilled into the pages of this book in the studies of these intriguing women of Genesis. The fact that Ms. Smith combines fictional accounts with non-fiction reflections makes this a very unique book. The book could be appealing to those who have never even done a Bible study, as the fiction aspect makes it very readable and relatable to our own lives. If you want to step into the shoes of some very intriguing women who actually lived, this is the book for you! I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher and was under no obligation to post a review. The opinions expressed are my own.
I have always loved the fiction books by Jill Eileen Smith so much. They are stories that stick with me and, as much as I read, this really says something about her writing. When I saw this non-fiction book by her, I knew I had to read it because the title spoke to something in my heart. As I was reading this, not only did the title speak to my heart but each and every word in this book did!
Jill takes the lives of twelve women of the Bible and puts us in their shoes. I actually loved this concept of the book because it made me think about what these women were actually thinking and feeling as they went through the difficulties of their life. I think sometimes I forget that the people of the Bible had the same types of thoughts and feelings that I do in my own life.
As we explore each woman, Jill then explores our own world and how we might feel and navigate through our own difficulties. I loved how she shares her own feelings about disappointments in life. It made me feel as though I'm not the only one feeling the same feelings. I really love how she ties the past with the present and reminds us how God cared for these women and how He cares for us now.
My favorite part of this book was the questions at each chapter. These helped me to really hone in on my own thoughts about my life and what I really believe. They also helped me to strengthen my faith in God as I remembered all that He has done for me.
I absolutely love this book! It's such a gentle reminder to not regret how our life turned out but to remember that God has been in control and cares about us. It was also a reminder to me that I'm not alone in any way in my life. This is a book that every woman should read! I give it 5 stars.
*This book was provided to me by Revell. I received a copy of this book to review but I was not financially compensated in any way. The opinions expressed are my own and are based on my observations while reading this book.
I was so excited when I saw that Jill Eileen Smith had written this book, a Christian Living title, as I have read every single novel she has written and have come away with a deeper, and clearer knowledge and understanding of various individuals who are in the Bible. This new book, "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams," is an obvious choice to read, because when does life ever go exactly how we have planned?! We each have our own ideas of how life should be, but God is the one who decides and has our lives all planned out and He is always right there with us. However, that does not mean that we are not going to experience lows or have moments of feeling alone. Jill's purpose for this book is to provide us with hope, to remind us that God is in control and He is by our side through it all. Each chapter is this book focuses on a specific woman from the Bible, some that are well known (Eve), others not so much (Noah's wife). Jill states the passage from the Bible as to which each chapter is based upon and then the story and the details that really "complete" the story are shared. Each chapter has a section of applying the story to the world today, to our life right now and also thoughts to ponder and questions to reflect upon. I really enjoyed each of these chapters as I feel like I have a better understanding of these women and what their lives would have been life, and also I am left feeling hopeful and reminded of God's role in my life. My two personal favorite chapters were the ones that focus on Noah's wife and Potiphar's wife; two lesser known individuals, but filling such big roles. I highly recommend this as a book to read on your own or even with a small group.
I just finished reading Jill's latest Book " When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams"and must say that I thought it was an excellent read. It is based on twelve woman from the Bible. Some of which include Eve, Noah's Wife, Sarai, Lots Wife, Rebekah and Rachel. Some we know more about than others, but all of great importance, if mentioned in the Bible. We often, try to understand how these women might have felt during their their lives, but have little to no imagination to comprehend, which is why Jill's take often brings life to these Biblical Scriptures and women and helps us to understand that these woman were real, not simply , just another character in a book. This Book looks at the some of the decisions each of these woman possibly faced, some decisions harder than others and some made out of raw emotion and how those decisions may have effected the remainder of their lives. IE: How did Eve feel after she convinced Adam to eat the apple? Did she feel Remorse? Regret? Anger? I believe any woman can read this book and relate to at least one of the 12 woman written in this book. I found Jill's raw honesty about her own struggles in life touching and her Points to Ponder Sections, with well intent, thought provoking. It made me take a deeper look into recognizing certain things about myself. I'm hoping that by bringing other readers to the same place that she brought me, that we can all help each other with each of our own brokenness thru kindness and knowing that we have a God who truly loves each and everyone of us. If we think we have made mistakes along the way, which we clearly have, also know that even woman in the Bible who proceeded before us did also, yet God Loved them and continues to love each of us.
Thank You, Yet again Jill for a wonderful book, I look forward to your next one.
Memo: I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author, however these opinions are strictly my own.
What a fantastic read! I know Jill Eileen Smith for her biblical historical fiction. This book takes it one step further, merging fiction and non-fiction. This book takes the lives of 12 old testament women (nearly all from Genesis) and relates their mistakes and things that happened to them to life today.
Each chapter begins with a fiction piece that incorporates the story in scripture - "If I were.... " and tells the story from that woman's perspective. After the fiction, there's a section titled "in our world" that brings each woman's plight home to us and compares to modern day trials. The next section of each chapter is "imagine with me", where we go back to the fictional story (again, grounded in scripture) and see how the issues have played out. The next section is titled something different for each chapter, depending on the circumstance of each woman. I'll touch on those in a moment. The next section is "ponder this", which gives deeper thought to the issue, and "taking it further" which includes follow-up questions to consider in your own life. The 12 women (and their individual sections) are as follows: Eve - From Regret to Freedom Noah's Wife - From Chaos to Hope Sarai - From Duplicity to Trust Hagar - From Invisible to Noticed Lot's Wife - From Clinging to Releasing Rebekah - From Controlling to Trusting Rachel - From Wounded to Forgiving Leah - From Risk to Faith Dinah- From Loss to Acceptance Potiphar's wife -From Rejection to Denial Tamar - From Broken Promises to Restoration Zipporah - From Fighting to Freedom
If you have ever felt the first word in each woman's chapter and need to get to the last word (with the exception of Potiphar's wife), I would encourage you to read this book and mine it for all of its hidden treasures. I love the references to these women in scripture and how they managed to still get to where God called them, in spite of their circumstances.
Special thanks to Revell publishing and the author for providing an advanced copy of this book. I was not required to write a review. The thoughts and opinions contained herein are my own.
I was honored to take part in the launch team for this book, which looks at the lives of twelve Biblical women and discusses how they relate to the modern-day woman. I didn’t connect with every story, but some were certainly relatable. Readers are likely to find this to be the case with at least one woman and her struggle. For Christians, the women and their stories will likely be familiar, but Smith provides a lot of things to ponder in this book. The women and topics included are:
• Eve: From Regret to Freedom • Noah’s Wife: From Chaos to Hope • Sarai: From Duplicity to Trust • Hagar: from Invisible to Noticed • Lot’s Wife: From Clinging to Releasing • Rebekah: From Controlling to Trusting • Rachel: From Wounded to Forgiving • Leah: From Risk to Faith • Dinah: From Loss to Acceptance • Potiphar’s Wife: From Rejection to Denial • Tamar: From Broken Promises to Restoration • Zipporah: From Fighting to Freedom
Each chapter starts with a fiction story (“If I Were…”) that’s told from the Biblical woman’s perspective. Then, “In Our World” moves the reader to how things relate to modern-day life. “Imagine with Me” shows how the fiction story (blended with Scripture verses) played out. Each chapter has a “Ponder this,” which provides time for reflection and “Taking it further” section for questions.
Smith provides the reader with an opportunity to walk in these women’s shoes and share in their disappointment and choices that shaped their lives. Scripture is woven throughout. Smith helps the reader see that there are lessons to be learned in each case, and discussion questions are included to help with this, making it a good resource for individuals or small groups.
Disclaimer: I received a complimentary copy from the publisher, but I wasn’t required to leave a positive review.
I have loved and learned from every work Jill Eileen Smith has written, but When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams: Hope for Today from 12 Women of the Bible is one of those books I can sincerely recommend to every woman. In it, Smith shares the background and struggles of a dozen women from the Bible’s Old Testament: Eve, Adah (Noah’s wife), Sarai, Hagar, Melah (Lot’s wife), Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Dinah, Aneksi (Potiphar’s wife), Tamar, and Zipporah. She tells each woman’s story from what we might imagine would have been her own unique perspective. Like us, all these women were imperfect and faced situations they never expected. But God loved them through all their challenges, just as he loves each of us and is shaping us through our trials. I was impressed with how well Smith connected these historical women and their stories to modern times. In doing so, she prompted me to reflect on my own life situations and reminded me that God is with me through all my ups and downs, even on my darkest days. As it is in each of Smith’s books, the extensive research she did in putting this manuscript together is readily evident. Each reader will likely have a different take-away from the book, depending upon her unique life experiences and trials. However, I believe that, like me, nearly every reader will find comfort in knowing she is not alone in her struggles and will be encouraged in spiritual growth. I highly recommend this book for personal reading or for use in a small-group study. I received a complimentary copy from the publisher but was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I’ve expressed are entirely my own.
Jill Eileen Smith is a popular Biblical fiction author and her in-depth research into ancient times is obvious in When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams. She presents 12 women of the Bible, paralleling fictional accounts of their lives along with contemporary issues we may have faced or are facing now. Even though life doesn’t always live up to what we dreamed about, God is faithful. In the midst of life’s crazy twists and turns and sorrows and joys, it is God who we depend on, who we draw strength from, who is shaping us into the women he wants us to be. He never leaves us or forsakes us.
At the end of each chapter there is a thought to ponder along with a few questions to get us thinking about what might be shaping our lives. Self-examination is a good thing and the questions are relevant and thought provoking. I didn’t expect When Life Doesn’t Match Your Dreams to be such weighty reading. It’s an interesting book that I had to consume in small doses.
I was provided a copy of the book by the publisher. No review was required. No compensation was received.
I've been reading Smith's biblical fiction books for several years and so appreciate her writing gift. I've also followed her on Facebook for some time and am inspired by the things she shares there as well. When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams is Smith's first non-fiction book. And it is apparent Smith has not only done her research but wrestled with many of the spiritual truths she shares in the book. The depth of spiritual truth and challenge Smith presents readers is a treasure. The chapters are organized in an easily digestible manner. Smith begins with an "If I were ___" section, moves through some devotional thoughts to an "Imagine With Me" section and ends each chapter with "Ponder This" and "Taking it Further". I especially appreciated the "Ponder This" section and found it to be a great journaling prompt. In "Taking it Further", Smith poses some great questions that motivate a deeper study of each biblical character presented. The book could be read devotionally, as a character study, or would be a great small group study resource.
I have nothing but praise for "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams" by Jill Eileen Smith. I have loved every book that I've read that she's written, but this one really is the best. Maybe because she uses twelve woman from the Bible to show us that whatever we are going through in life is nothing that others haven't experienced and shows us that hope is available through our Lord. I so wish I could afford this book for every woman I know, because I believed every woman should have this book available to them whenever they think they can't go on in the trials and struggles that life gives, whether it's their fault or the results of others.
I think all women will find a little of herself in each of the twelve women stories. I know the situations and facts will be different but the reasons and feelings are familiar to all of us women at one time or another.
I think if I had to choose one book that was all I was allowed to read and keep, and never read another book, It wouldn't be hard to choose, I would most definitely choose "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams" by Jill Eileen Smith. I can say that now but I am all ready for her second book about twelve more women from the Bible.
This book is twelve stories and also Jill Smith shares some of her personal struggles.
I received a complimentary copy from the author. These opinions are my own.
Some stories in the Old Testament, we tend to skim over. Others we read with interest, but never take the time to really think about the characters spoken of, especially the women. We never take a moment to pause and think of what their day to day lives were like, what their hopes and dreams were, what they feared, or what they loved. Jill Eileen Smith does all of this and more in her newest book "When Life Doesn't Match Your Dreams". Jill has a unique talent for making even the obscure characters come to life. She takes you into their very hearts and brings them to life and light. In this latest book, she not only brings them to life, but she molds your thoughts around how their lives parallel and reflect our own. She pulls the deep truths from their stories and shows you how to apply them to your own life in very practical ways. Each book I've read by Jill Eileen Smith has registered among my all-time favorites, and this one does no less. In fact, I believe she's out done herself this time, and this book may quite possibly become my "forever" favorite. I highly suggest reading this if you're even the least bit curious about how some of our Old Testament favorites lived, and what they believed. Men and women alike will benefit from this book!
This is such an interesting book that take us into the imagined background of several different women of the Bible. I enjoyed imagining how Noah's wife may have felt as he was following God's direction, as well as many others throughout scripture. Jill Eileen Smith brings these characters to life and makes them easy to relate to as we also learned how to apply some of these characteristics to our own lives.
For some time now, I’ve enjoyed Jill Eileen Smith’s series of novels based on the lives of women in the Bible. Because of her excellent Biblical research, I always learn an aspect of their story that I had never known or considered before.
This is a Christian non-fiction devotional book by this author. Through short “first person” accounts, she imagines what twelve different Old Testament women would say to us about their difficult situations. In each case, life did not match their hopes and expectations. Some turned to God in love and trust, some did not. By reading about their situations and considering how they might have felt, we’re able to look at our own life situations through the eyes of faith. I especially liked the chapter on Noah’s wife; and I also liked viewing Rachel’s and Leah’s situation from both of their viewpoints.
I enjoyed reading the author’s thoughts on all twelve ladies’ lives and also her willingness to be open about situations in her own. As I finished reading this book, I found myself comforted, encouraged, and challenged to view every situation in my life through the lens of the Bible.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
I was recently given the opportunity to read this book prior to its release date free of charge. There was no pressure on me to give it a positive or negative review. But after reading the entire contents I will say this book is worth the purchase.
Jill has a way of making these people come to life, of bringing their short biblical stories and adding to them without taking away from scripture, and then applying their stories to our every day lives, like no one I have ever read before.The Author takes 12 women from the bible and applies her imagination to their life stories, all of which have lives they never dreamed they would, and then applies that knowledge to our lives today helping us to learn from their lives.
I love Christian Fiction, but whether you do or you don't I can guarantee you will love this Christian Fiction meets non fiction book.
This book tells the story of 12 women from the Bible. The author has written their stories, complete with thoughts and feelings that we can relate to, that are part of human nature. After telling their story, she goes into detail about why they likely felt the way she had portrayed them and shows that the problems we have today are the same as they were thousands of years ago. I loved how she brought the women to life, explaining their thoughts and feelings. In some cases, it made me realize that those women likely weren’t the “evil” people I had believed them to be. If we were put in their situation, would we react differently? In many cases, probably not.
I received a complimentary copy from the publisher. I was not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are mine alone.