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96 pages, Paperback
First published April 23, 2019
"What is the essence of being a woman?” He said that Sushmita answered that the ability to bear a child is what makes a woman. That’s not the exact answer, but the beauty queen did say, “The origin of a child is a mother, and is a woman.” We understand how someone would come to the conclusion that Sushmita meant bearing a child made a woman. However, she didn’t specify childbirth. Becoming a mother doesn’t just mean you should carry a baby in your womb, adopting a child and/or being a motherly figure to someone also count.
That said, equating Angela’s womanhood to being able to bear children is an archaic way of thinking. What about the cisgender women who are unable to get pregnant? Does that make them less of a woman, too? Additionally, a woman shouldn’t be expected to be a mother as the end goal. Many don’t want children, and that’s okay. There are also those who want to focus on their careers rather than start a family, and that’s fine too. They claim that “being gay” doesn’t qualify her to join, that her “femininity” isn’t enough to warrant a crown. In the same breath, they preach about equality in the world.
Angela isn’t gay, she is a woman. Her circumstances may be different than yours but, as she said, “My identity is here [points to temples], not down there.” If you want equality, take a long hard look in the mirror to make sure you’re practicing what you’re preaching."
"There's no right or wrong way to be gay, straight, male, female, or whatever you are. Don't put yourself in another box, you just came out of one!"How ironic that I've learned so much from one of my most greatest phobia--snails. Bubblegum hues and bubblegum smiles. This graphic novel really is a quick and easy guide to understanding the LGBTQ spectrum. It easily breaks down every crucial misconception we have of them.
Every person is worthwhile and valuable in their own way and if you are able to make some sort of peace with yourself while on your transitional journey that will definitely ease the burden.