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The Message Game: A Guide To Dating At The Touch Of A Button
The Message Game is about many things. It's not just a dating guide for men to get dates quickly and efficiently through dating apps like Tinder, or social media. It's about becoming a good communicator, knowing how to lead conversations and being able to set up genuinely fun activities that maximize your sexual results and relationships.
With hundreds of analyzed screenshots collected from dedicated Message Game followers and Ice White himself, this is a visual guide with real stories of sex and adventures, and real conversations that have provided an understanding of successes and failures. All the learning has been done for you and compiled into a structured guide that can answer all your possible questions. From maximizing how many contacts and phone numbers you get to setting up dates quickly, from getting dates to getting laid, and from logistics to escalation.
The book also features special sections that are especially useful, such as:
The Situation Index - A table of common situations with references to every single page that has explained or showed the given situation. She isn't responding? She doesn't want anything serious? She says she is busy? She is only visiting your town or city? She thinks you just want sex? Whatever it is, we have the pages.
Frequently Asked Questions - A summary of many common questions, such as how long you should wait to reply, how iften you should message someone, if you should use Tinder superlikes, if you should swipe a certain way on Tinder, and SO MUCH MORE.
Without hesitation, this book is your own personal guide to getting the dates you want as frequently as possible.
With hundreds of analyzed screenshots collected from dedicated Message Game followers and Ice White himself, this is a visual guide with real stories of sex and adventures, and real conversations that have provided an understanding of successes and failures. All the learning has been done for you and compiled into a structured guide that can answer all your possible questions. From maximizing how many contacts and phone numbers you get to setting up dates quickly, from getting dates to getting laid, and from logistics to escalation.
The book also features special sections that are especially useful, such as:
The Situation Index - A table of common situations with references to every single page that has explained or showed the given situation. She isn't responding? She doesn't want anything serious? She says she is busy? She is only visiting your town or city? She thinks you just want sex? Whatever it is, we have the pages.
Frequently Asked Questions - A summary of many common questions, such as how long you should wait to reply, how iften you should message someone, if you should use Tinder superlikes, if you should swipe a certain way on Tinder, and SO MUCH MORE.
Without hesitation, this book is your own personal guide to getting the dates you want as frequently as possible.
231 pages, Kindle Edition
Published January 10, 2020
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About the author
Ice White
1 book36 followersIce White is a dating coach known for his work on The Message Game, which originally grew from a single Google Document with advice being shared among thousands of people by word of mouth. Ice specializes in getting men dates online and turning them into successes offline, with a very solid no-bullsh*t approach and an emphasis on simplifying everything instead of overthinking. He spends his time between North America and South America.
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April 26, 2020
Ice. Brother. I haven't gotten laid since October 2019. I bought your book 2 days ago and a girl I met on bumble just left my apartment 5 mins ago. I forgot that girls love to have sex. I feel my vitality coming back. Thank you so much. And two dates for tomorrow. Wtf bro!!
November 24, 2020
I came across Ice White's original 2018 Message game and was quite happy when he released his updated version. So much so that I've bought copies as gifts for friends, during these unprecedented times you must adapt or die. In comes The Message game.
The book is easy to read, with examples and questions that will make you (if your mind is open) question your own mind set and habits when it comes to texting/messaging
For me, I wasn't having fun messaging girls, messaging became a chore, they just leave you on read or put no effort into replying. Really hurts the ego.
Once I got it through my head that I was going to have fun (also giving off that image in my profile to match) and have a purpose for my messages, the responsiveness shot through the roof.
5/5 would buy another copy.
The book is easy to read, with examples and questions that will make you (if your mind is open) question your own mind set and habits when it comes to texting/messaging
For me, I wasn't having fun messaging girls, messaging became a chore, they just leave you on read or put no effort into replying. Really hurts the ego.
Once I got it through my head that I was going to have fun (also giving off that image in my profile to match) and have a purpose for my messages, the responsiveness shot through the roof.
5/5 would buy another copy.
July 24, 2020
Used to never got meet ups or know how to move it forward. Now in quarantine I have 2 to 3 dates a week.
Get your pics right, follow the rules, and you'll get dates.
Get your pics right, follow the rules, and you'll get dates.
May 6, 2020
I used to live with the author actually, back in London from the summer of 2017 to early 2018. To give you an idea, the house we lived in was affectionally called the "degenerate house" by our landlord (in the best sense of the word, if a best sense can be given to the word degenerate). Ice bringing girls home every other week had something to do with it. When he released this book, I figured it would have value, knowing that he has also personally been mentored with some of the top dating coaches in the industry. This book is great, and honestly surpasses some of the other material made by said coaches on the topic in conciseness and brevity, while retaining the essential elements. I had to admit I was really not putting a lot of effort in this field, and wasting not just my time, but the time of the few girls who would match me on these sites. If you want to build a healthy circle of intimate partners to cherish and ravish while under quarantine, look no further
September 30, 2021
I did not even know that texting could be this powerful. I started using online dating for the first time very recently. One month in, and I did not get any results although I was getting many matches every day. So no dates. I finished reading this book last week, I read it in 2 days, and the results were crazy. I got a date two days ago with like 5 text messages. Today I have another one and later this week probably 2 more (all with different girls). The tips in this book were like gold to me. I updated my profile and girls started texting me first, which was great. It was one of the most useful books I have ever read.
- Francesco
- Francesco
April 30, 2020
Honestly, this is probably THE most useful book i've ever reas. I like psychology, i love human interactions, i love hooking up with girls, this thing puts all of that in a single package + a lot more and puts it in an amazing format, easy for everyone to understand. I am only 40% into the book, and my game is already on a whole diffrent kind of level. In the past 2 days, even during these corona times, this book works like a charm. It wont just teach you how to speak to girls and what to say, but how to formulate your own unique mindsety to pull them 10/10 will read again.
November 26, 2020
Have been using an online game for a little while and have been gradually tweaking my profile over time to improve my conversion rates of swipes > chatting and from chatting > face to face.
It's practical and makes you understand the underlying dynamics behind text communications. This book has tips for all levels to bring you up to speed and get you spending more time away from the keyboard and more time trying to close a live scenario. This book is a small price to pay for the long term value received.
It's practical and makes you understand the underlying dynamics behind text communications. This book has tips for all levels to bring you up to speed and get you spending more time away from the keyboard and more time trying to close a live scenario. This book is a small price to pay for the long term value received.
January 7, 2021
Whether you are seasoned at messaging or a newbie this guide is a complete A-Z that anybody interested in raising their conversion rates with women should own.
I also used it in my business to help convert clients on LinkedIn during instant messaging sessions as it gives a lot of practical examples in an easy to read and understand format.
I also used it in my business to help convert clients on LinkedIn during instant messaging sessions as it gives a lot of practical examples in an easy to read and understand format.
September 9, 2020
This is the most comprehensive book on how to message girls, that I have found. Thumbs up
November 25, 2020
The problem for me was that i had a girlfriend since high school( 17yrs old) and we broke up 4 years later. During the relationship I only talked to women as friends and had no “game training”. The book helped me change my attitude from being the nice guy to making girls prove that they deserve my time. I have also come to the conclusion that this might be the reason my relationship fell apart.
Coming out of the relationship really felt like being a dating virgin all over again and it sucked. This book helped me set my values and standards together with eliminating the "league" mindset. Thank you Ice!
Coming out of the relationship really felt like being a dating virgin all over again and it sucked. This book helped me set my values and standards together with eliminating the "league" mindset. Thank you Ice!
January 2, 2021
After 9 years, returning to the dating game was alien. At first I fumbled through online dating with no success. Having found Ice's group on Facebook I learnt of this book and it turned the tide for me, even in the middle of the Covid pandemic.
This book teaches you how to screen potential dates, navigate around girl's tests and the quickest ways to get her number.
There are tips and examples for dating apps, social media and texting that are invaluable.
It is a must for dating in this age of technology.
This book teaches you how to screen potential dates, navigate around girl's tests and the quickest ways to get her number.
There are tips and examples for dating apps, social media and texting that are invaluable.
It is a must for dating in this age of technology.
October 29, 2020
I used to think there was a "process" of building rapport and such in texting something new. This book helped me re-frame that belief where the purpose of texting is to lead the interaction for a meet-up. Ice eloquently puts his philosophies in layman's terms and breaks down what you should do with great example conversations. I definitely recommend this book for anyone who struggles with texting.
June 16, 2021
I've read many books loaded they are loaded up with futile filler data and just about a few percentiles of real content.
Interestingly, every page of the message gamebook is loaded up with esteem. I got the chills so many times toward the end of this book. It completely blew my mind. It managed to surpass my high expectations AND be nothing at all like I expected.
Interestingly, every page of the message gamebook is loaded up with esteem. I got the chills so many times toward the end of this book. It completely blew my mind. It managed to surpass my high expectations AND be nothing at all like I expected.
May 21, 2020
The last time I dated before my LTR, Tinder didn't even exist. Now I'm single again and I wanted to make the best out of it. This book gave me a clear, easy to follow guide to the take the right steps into getting more contacts and have the right attitude when messaging with women.
September 29, 2020
I've always wanted to advance my game, I always sucked at it but this book has turned the tables for me, I am really greatful Ice, this is really a masterpiece.
Jessey..
Jessey..
October 1, 2020
Exactly as advertised. This book will level up your message game, tenfold. Ice white is an amazing communicator and I would love a sequel on effective communication in general from him.
February 13, 2021
I was looking for a comprehensive guide on text and message game and found one in this book. This book provides practical, easy to follow steps to take things from the dating app into the real world.
It explains why certain lines works so you can learn from it to improve your game overall. It provides different examples on how to follow up on your opener depending on what the girl responds and covers almost every situation.
Above everything it is effective, it works and it doesn't consume too much time, thus it is also efficient. When you're reading the book, because of the structured approach it feels like the auther knows what he is wtiting about as those lines came through years of expereince and trial and error.
It explains why certain lines works so you can learn from it to improve your game overall. It provides different examples on how to follow up on your opener depending on what the girl responds and covers almost every situation.
Above everything it is effective, it works and it doesn't consume too much time, thus it is also efficient. When you're reading the book, because of the structured approach it feels like the auther knows what he is wtiting about as those lines came through years of expereince and trial and error.
October 22, 2020
I'd like to point out that regardless who you are, or how good your text game is there is always potential for improvment. Whether you are just starting out in the field of text game, or already have some experience, this book will teach you things you didn't know, solidify good habits and destory bad ones. This book has got me out some sticky situations, whilst also, putting me into some amazing life experiences. I highly recommend it, especially since during covid times pretty much everything is done over the internet.
Don't be a pussy, be a better you!
Don't be a pussy, be a better you!
April 29, 2020
This book changes the foundations of messaging girls. A must read for everyone.
Ice has given the base of how and why you are messaging a girl and has shown a multitude of examples and actual texts to explain everything and various scenarios. This will definitely change the your “Message Game” for the better.
Ice has given the base of how and why you are messaging a girl and has shown a multitude of examples and actual texts to explain everything and various scenarios. This will definitely change the your “Message Game” for the better.
February 16, 2021
Ignore other Haters ... this is real life "Book Of Love" from American Pie
Won't bore you with long ass review. Go through each chapter thoroughly and it will make a significant improvement in how to text other human species. It won't turn you into a Panty dropper finger blastHER keyboard warrior ... but will get you pretty close to it.
Long story short, it works!
Won't bore you with long ass review. Go through each chapter thoroughly and it will make a significant improvement in how to text other human species. It won't turn you into a Panty dropper finger blastHER keyboard warrior ... but will get you pretty close to it.
Long story short, it works!
April 22, 2020
A no-bullshit guide that delivers results.
No fancy magic tricks. No over-the-top techniques. Put simply, this is how it works.
Haters will say it's too simple. But texting SHOULD be simple. With this book and a basic grasp of the English language, your dating results will improve.
No fancy magic tricks. No over-the-top techniques. Put simply, this is how it works.
Haters will say it's too simple. But texting SHOULD be simple. With this book and a basic grasp of the English language, your dating results will improve.
April 28, 2020
Great product, used this to improve my Tinder texting skills. Teaches you how to meet someone in as few texts as possible without falling into the trap of validation like most other guys. Highly recommend for individuals looking to improve their ability to text and meet beautiful women
January 12, 2021
This book is a useful reference with examples of good text game. The premise is to keep things short and simple with the intention of actually meeting up. From what to do and what not to do in various texting situations, I can easily say that the book has my recommendation.
May 20, 2020
Extremely practical and helpful, really enjoyed the The Situation Index - looking forward to putting in practice.
September 22, 2020
The best book I have read about text game
September 22, 2022
Very good book for everyone, who wants to learn how to communicate online with the girl, you like. Countless examples and explanations will make your communication more clear and effective.
October 8, 2020
This book is a must read for guys who don't have much of an experience in the texting game. Sending efficient text messages and lead the conversation to dates has always been a challenge for a lot of guys using online dating apps, including me. After going through the book, I understood how many mistakes I have been doing and how ignorant I were in texting. I used to tell stories/ send a lot of useless messages/ and talk too much about my self in my conversations and I was under the impression that I build attraction by doing that, how naive I were!! This book helps me to go from just a match on the dating app to a potential partner, and it helps also on how to avoid being needy or clingy in texting. The messages included in the book are effective to go from a match to a date, and it dives into how to improve your profile, and how to act in hypothetical scenarios. This book is a must read for guys who are into online dating apps.
January 16, 2022
The book is for the guys who didnt got any knowledge about how to talk to women online, the book is for the guys who got good matches on dating apps but always end up not meeting any women, the book is for the guys who want to improve your texting.
I was one of the guy who use to get matches but didnt know how to talk to strangers, used to always end up ghosted. Came across Ice and his book earlier last year. For the start i thought it wont help me out its just a long book with no information but somehow i managed to complete it and came across so many mistakes i was making and not only the mistakes but also got solutions about it.
Its a good read, youll see a great improvement in your texting after reading and taking actions.
Thank You Ice for penning such information down!!!
I was one of the guy who use to get matches but didnt know how to talk to strangers, used to always end up ghosted. Came across Ice and his book earlier last year. For the start i thought it wont help me out its just a long book with no information but somehow i managed to complete it and came across so many mistakes i was making and not only the mistakes but also got solutions about it.
Its a good read, youll see a great improvement in your texting after reading and taking actions.
Thank You Ice for penning such information down!!!
April 4, 2022
Simple, effective, and gets results. Before reading this book I would try to have a whole conversation over text, thinking I needed to put in "x" amount of time before going for the meetup. More often than not this would end with the conversation dying out. After seeing countless examples throughout the book of Ice doing just the opposite, I gave it a try and have had notably more success. The best part is, I am constantly improving as I practice implementing the strategies from this book. Definitely recommend to anyone who is tired of feeling like they put in so much effort for little to no results. It saves you time and helps filter out the women who are actually interested in meeting, vs those who just want a pen pal.
May 24, 2022
The book has some really solid and useful insight into messaging but I do wish there was more of that, and less of which communication platform to use after you get off Tinder, which I personally didn't find any use for and just skipped past that part of the book. After reading about 1/4 of it though I went straight into a Tinder interaction and had her over at my place the next day after not having any success with Tinder in like 2 months. Yes, that ended very well. that was last night. Yes, I'm doing the same thing tomorrow with another Tinder match. This is my first week applying what I know from the book. Wish the book was a bit longer and just had more to it but Vol. 2 will no doubt see the light of day someday.
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