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The Simple Difference: How Every Small Kindness Makes a Big Impact
We've all got a lot of questions these In a world marked by division, how do we create bridges of meaningful connection? When despair runs rampant, is real hope possible? When competition is elevated, is compassion still relevant? And at the end of the day, can one person really make any impact at all?
When the world's problems loom large and your ordinary life stretches you thin, it is still possible to be a difference-maker--one small, intentional, extravagant act of kindness at a time.
Rather than telling you to do more, The Simple Difference shows you how to see more of the people in front of you, more of God's lavish love for you, more of his power within you. The Simple Difference will help you
- stop getting buried in busyness and distraction and discover countless opportunities for impact right where you are
- remove your perceived limitations and learn to see that your "not-enough" is exactly what the world needs
- discard expectations of what it takes to make a difference and delight in the life-changing power of simple kindness
The Simple Difference isn't about totally changing the course of your life; it's about letting God change you and work through you in the midst of your ordinary days. To say, As I go on my way, Lord, have your way with me. Be a part of The Simple Difference movement--your life and the world will never be the same.
When the world's problems loom large and your ordinary life stretches you thin, it is still possible to be a difference-maker--one small, intentional, extravagant act of kindness at a time.
Rather than telling you to do more, The Simple Difference shows you how to see more of the people in front of you, more of God's lavish love for you, more of his power within you. The Simple Difference will help you
- stop getting buried in busyness and distraction and discover countless opportunities for impact right where you are
- remove your perceived limitations and learn to see that your "not-enough" is exactly what the world needs
- discard expectations of what it takes to make a difference and delight in the life-changing power of simple kindness
The Simple Difference isn't about totally changing the course of your life; it's about letting God change you and work through you in the midst of your ordinary days. To say, As I go on my way, Lord, have your way with me. Be a part of The Simple Difference movement--your life and the world will never be the same.
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Published October 5, 2021
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June 4, 2023
Very good and convicting in several parts. She offers a reminder to live like Jesus and points out what might be getting in our way.
September 27, 2021
The Simple Difference: How Every Small Kindness Makes a Big Impact by Becky Keife
In The Simple Difference, Becky walks us through different ways we can show people kindness in small ways. She gives real life examples of things she has witnessed, kindnesses she was given and some that was given to her.
All through the book we read about how small acts of kindness can change someone's life or perspective. This can be a prayer, a gift, a note, text..anything that shows a person he/she is not alone.
We learn how Jesus was the kindest man who ever lived and he is who we should be living up to. Many of the well known accounts of what Jesus did are recounted with a focus on his kindness. Our kindness needs to come from the fact that all people are created in His image, so when we are kind to others, we worship him in obedience.
This book is a quite convicting. You'll ask yourself questions like, "How kind am I? Do I really see people as I go about my life? Is there someone I can show kindness to and let them know they are seen and loved?" We are challenged to pray, be present, keep our eyes open, and remember that God gives us all we need to help others and offer kindness.
It's a very easy read and the end of each chapter has some action suggestions you could do to be kind to someone right now.
The Simple Differece releases on October 5, 2021. You can pre-order it anywhere books are sold. Becky also wrote a Bible study, Courageous Kindness, that is also releasing and available for pre-order. (I have not done this yet, but plan to in the next few weeks)
*I was given a Advanced Reader Copy as part of the launch team.
In The Simple Difference, Becky walks us through different ways we can show people kindness in small ways. She gives real life examples of things she has witnessed, kindnesses she was given and some that was given to her.
All through the book we read about how small acts of kindness can change someone's life or perspective. This can be a prayer, a gift, a note, text..anything that shows a person he/she is not alone.
We learn how Jesus was the kindest man who ever lived and he is who we should be living up to. Many of the well known accounts of what Jesus did are recounted with a focus on his kindness. Our kindness needs to come from the fact that all people are created in His image, so when we are kind to others, we worship him in obedience.
This book is a quite convicting. You'll ask yourself questions like, "How kind am I? Do I really see people as I go about my life? Is there someone I can show kindness to and let them know they are seen and loved?" We are challenged to pray, be present, keep our eyes open, and remember that God gives us all we need to help others and offer kindness.
It's a very easy read and the end of each chapter has some action suggestions you could do to be kind to someone right now.
The Simple Differece releases on October 5, 2021. You can pre-order it anywhere books are sold. Becky also wrote a Bible study, Courageous Kindness, that is also releasing and available for pre-order. (I have not done this yet, but plan to in the next few weeks)
*I was given a Advanced Reader Copy as part of the launch team.
December 30, 2021
In this study on kindness, Becky Keife introduces Jesus as the ultimate model as she shares her gentle wisdom, humor, and real-life examples from family and others with a transparency that draws readers into introspection and action. The following twelve chapters focus on such topics as “Every Word Counts,” “Hardest at Home,” “Undeserved,” “Unexpected Teachers,” and “It’s Not About You.” Each ends with “Three Keys to Living the Simple Difference” consisting of PRAY IT BOLD (a prayer to accompany the theme of the chapter: “God, in times of crisis, I want to be a helper”), LIVE IT NOW (practical ways to take action: “Give a stranger a genuine compliment or word of encouragement”), and SAY IT LOUD (an affirmation to encourage readers: “Showing up always makes a difference”). In current times when so much of our spirit is being crushed by negative forces, it’s inspiring to be encouraged to do small acts of kindness that make a tremendous difference on those around us as well as ourselves. Thank you, Becky, for your excellent book! (I received an ARC, and my opinions are honestly given.)
February 1, 2024
The things that really stuck out to me from this book were:
- Oftentimes when God uses us, it will be awkward and uncomfortable. Do I love His people enough to persist anyway?
- When all I have is a simple offering, I must trust God will use it to do more than I can imagine. God can transform my “not enough” into abundance.
I got a little bogged down with all the stories towards the end, but ultimately liked the big-picture theme that shone through the book.
- Oftentimes when God uses us, it will be awkward and uncomfortable. Do I love His people enough to persist anyway?
- When all I have is a simple offering, I must trust God will use it to do more than I can imagine. God can transform my “not enough” into abundance.
I got a little bogged down with all the stories towards the end, but ultimately liked the big-picture theme that shone through the book.
January 28, 2024
A very thoughtful and lighthearted book. Becky loves Jesus and is passionate about spreading kindness far and wide.
First, I greatly appreciate whenever a writer says “me too.” Becky makes it clear all throughout the book that she is still working on being kind, too. She assures us that she has not fully arrived, and demonstrates that by sharing personal stories of where she has fallen short. We are reminded that we are not alone, we are in this together.
Second, I do want to note that it is so very important to keep Christ at the center of kindness. We are kind because He is kind to us and He empowers us to make the choice to be kind when we’d rather not. Becky does emphasize this in portions of the book, but perhaps the emphasis could have been stronger throughout parts of the book that described acts of kindness. Going back to my previous point, we must never think that any kindness we show comes from our own hearts. Credit goes to the Lord working through us, and our goal in showing kindness must always be to point people to Christ.
First, I greatly appreciate whenever a writer says “me too.” Becky makes it clear all throughout the book that she is still working on being kind, too. She assures us that she has not fully arrived, and demonstrates that by sharing personal stories of where she has fallen short. We are reminded that we are not alone, we are in this together.
Second, I do want to note that it is so very important to keep Christ at the center of kindness. We are kind because He is kind to us and He empowers us to make the choice to be kind when we’d rather not. Becky does emphasize this in portions of the book, but perhaps the emphasis could have been stronger throughout parts of the book that described acts of kindness. Going back to my previous point, we must never think that any kindness we show comes from our own hearts. Credit goes to the Lord working through us, and our goal in showing kindness must always be to point people to Christ.
October 8, 2021
This book is so good! Becky reminds us the importance of kindness and I love how she encourages us to spread kindness. She shares her own stories and walks us through the simple difference kindness makes!
October 6, 2021
In the Simple Difference, Becky shows us different examples from real, daily life and from Scripture just how important being kind truly is. We have all had a crazy last 2 years and all need kindness shown to us. In the same breath, we need to show kindness to each and every person we come into contact with. This book will serve as both encouragement and as a reminder of how the smallest act of kindness will change someone’s whole outlook. “Reaching out and letting others know they are thought of makes a difference” (pg. 99). I received an advanced reader copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
February 28, 2022
Beware: This book comes from a completely fundamentalist Christian approach. We chose it for a book club book and it isn't until page 24 when author Becky Kiefe implores us to continue reading because Jesus isn't afraid of skepticism and neither is she.
Let me state clearly: I identify as Christian. have led many bible studies, taught Sunday School for more than two decades and Becky's approach really bothers me. It really bothered the book club that I am in. I am sure the book is excellent for MOPS groups (Moms of Preschoolers) and Young Married Sunday School classes, but to not proclaim Jesus up front seems rather sneaky and I don't know how happy Jesus would be about that.
There are good ideas for us all to implement. After spending 5 weeks on this book, the book club agreed we took away a few gold nuggets, but we also were frequently annoyed by the heavy-handed approach... even those of us who spend time with Jesus, his Dad and the Holy Spirit every day.
I haven't seen any reviews mention Jesus nor does the preview show pages that help us to discern how the content is so Jesus heavy with many very familiar bible stories such as loaves and fishes, Mary and Martha with a Lazarus cameo appearance and my personal favorite Apostle, Peter. Becky even shares the requisite "tsk, tsk, God bless that Peter" that so many folks do as well.
I appreciated the format of chapter followed by three keys to living so hopefully readers will apply the kindness nuggets to their lives.
You may glean from the wisdom here - I simply hope people are aware this book has an unmistakeable target audience and if you are not in this audience, it might make you angry if you spent money on the book without knowing.
Let me state clearly: I identify as Christian. have led many bible studies, taught Sunday School for more than two decades and Becky's approach really bothers me. It really bothered the book club that I am in. I am sure the book is excellent for MOPS groups (Moms of Preschoolers) and Young Married Sunday School classes, but to not proclaim Jesus up front seems rather sneaky and I don't know how happy Jesus would be about that.
There are good ideas for us all to implement. After spending 5 weeks on this book, the book club agreed we took away a few gold nuggets, but we also were frequently annoyed by the heavy-handed approach... even those of us who spend time with Jesus, his Dad and the Holy Spirit every day.
I haven't seen any reviews mention Jesus nor does the preview show pages that help us to discern how the content is so Jesus heavy with many very familiar bible stories such as loaves and fishes, Mary and Martha with a Lazarus cameo appearance and my personal favorite Apostle, Peter. Becky even shares the requisite "tsk, tsk, God bless that Peter" that so many folks do as well.
I appreciated the format of chapter followed by three keys to living so hopefully readers will apply the kindness nuggets to their lives.
You may glean from the wisdom here - I simply hope people are aware this book has an unmistakeable target audience and if you are not in this audience, it might make you angry if you spent money on the book without knowing.
October 4, 2021
The Simple Difference is exactly what we need right now. This book is an easy, quick read to fill you with hope at the simple difference you can make in the world around you through kindness. Becky Keife shared stories and Scripture to show how others have made an impact for the kingdom through their kindness. She doesn’t shy away from hitting you hard with a good look at why we don’t choose kindness in every situation. Two areas that I found particularly convicting were avoiding awkward social interactions or reacting with irritation when feeling stressed (especially at home with loved ones). Yet this book is so uplifting and helps show ways we can make a difference.
Each of the twelve chapters ends with three keys for living the simple difference. I hope that many people get their hands on this book and make a positive impact on their communities!
Note: I was gifted an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
Each of the twelve chapters ends with three keys for living the simple difference. I hope that many people get their hands on this book and make a positive impact on their communities!
Note: I was gifted an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.
October 7, 2021
Thank you in advance to the publishers, Revell and DaySpring, for providing an advanced review copy through the author’s launch team. A positive review was definitely not required or requested in any way; all words are my own.
This is something that I VERY OFTEN talk about in my home – kindness. It’s not just going over the top with big things – it is the small things that really do make a HUGE impact. It might be something simple like asking if one needs a drink when you’re at the refrigerator; taking someone else’s plate into the kitchen with yours (if they’re done eating).
It could be as simple as listening patiently to the message someone is trying to convey as opposed to judging their examples or words.
There are so many examples of small acts of kindness to practice.
Keife writes the book in a conversational mode. She starts off with some advice from Mr. Rogers – “won’t you be my neighbor” – something we can all practice. We all want that acceptance, but do we give it?
Using elements, and some stories from the bible and Jesus’ teachings, the author walks us through examples of simple kindness:
After each chapter, there are “three keys to living the simple difference”:
#1 – Pray it Bold: a prayer to conclude the section
#2 – Live it Now: steps to put the lessons in action
#3 – Say it Loud: an affirmation
Chapter 5’s “Hardest at Home” definitely resonated with me. Keife walks us through the reasons why we might experience difficulty acting kindly.
From my own dealings with certain family members, her list is spot on with somethings:
Fear
Defensiveness
Competition
Hurt
Sarcasm
Disappointment
Anger
Irritation
Selfishness
Inconvenience
These are just a few examples. As she says – our roommates, parents, siblings, and spouses get the realest version of our selves while we can push the issues to the side for strangers.
The questions about our moods influencing us was so surreal, it was as if she’d overheard some conversations in my own home.
Keife’s experiences makes this relevant and very useful – not as a one-time read, but a handy reference.
This reinforces the kindness approach I’ve already been practicing.
While this is mostly rooted in Christian faith principles, I do believe almost anyone could benefit from the principles in this book.
This is something that I VERY OFTEN talk about in my home – kindness. It’s not just going over the top with big things – it is the small things that really do make a HUGE impact. It might be something simple like asking if one needs a drink when you’re at the refrigerator; taking someone else’s plate into the kitchen with yours (if they’re done eating).
It could be as simple as listening patiently to the message someone is trying to convey as opposed to judging their examples or words.
There are so many examples of small acts of kindness to practice.
Keife writes the book in a conversational mode. She starts off with some advice from Mr. Rogers – “won’t you be my neighbor” – something we can all practice. We all want that acceptance, but do we give it?
Using elements, and some stories from the bible and Jesus’ teachings, the author walks us through examples of simple kindness:
After each chapter, there are “three keys to living the simple difference”:
#1 – Pray it Bold: a prayer to conclude the section
#2 – Live it Now: steps to put the lessons in action
#3 – Say it Loud: an affirmation
Chapter 5’s “Hardest at Home” definitely resonated with me. Keife walks us through the reasons why we might experience difficulty acting kindly.
From my own dealings with certain family members, her list is spot on with somethings:
Fear
Defensiveness
Competition
Hurt
Sarcasm
Disappointment
Anger
Irritation
Selfishness
Inconvenience
These are just a few examples. As she says – our roommates, parents, siblings, and spouses get the realest version of our selves while we can push the issues to the side for strangers.
The questions about our moods influencing us was so surreal, it was as if she’d overheard some conversations in my own home.
Keife’s experiences makes this relevant and very useful – not as a one-time read, but a handy reference.
This reinforces the kindness approach I’ve already been practicing.
While this is mostly rooted in Christian faith principles, I do believe almost anyone could benefit from the principles in this book.
October 6, 2021
Becky Keife won me over with her first book, 𝘕𝘰 𝘉𝘦𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘔𝘰𝘮 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘑𝘰𝘣: 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘊𝘰𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 (𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘋𝘰𝘯'𝘵 𝘍𝘦𝘦𝘭 𝘊𝘶𝘵 𝘖𝘶𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘐𝘵), and my appreciation for her message continued with her second book, 𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘋𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦: 𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘚𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘒𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘔𝘢𝘬𝘦𝘴 𝘢 𝘉𝘪𝘨 𝘐𝘮𝘱𝘢𝘤𝘵. Becky has a sincerity and a humility about her that are incredibly inviting to her readers. She doesn't claim to have everything figured out and is quick to knock herself off of any pedestal people might put her on. She is a normal person living a normal life, but she very much desires to make a difference in other people's lives along the way.
𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘋𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 is an invitation to each of us to look for ways to show small kindnesses to those around us as we go through our everyday lives. Becky gives us practical tips, ideas, and motivation for doing this but also encourages us to tap into our own gifts, strengths, and creativity as we look for ways to show kindness. The emphasis is not on how much time or money we spend in doing so; instead, the emphasis is put on the person who is on the receiving end of this kindness. It is so important for people to be seen, heard, and loved, and we are invited to take a very real part in that. We are invited by God to see and to serve His image-bearers.
If you have ever been the one on the receiving end of a small kindness, you know the impact it can make. Becky encourages us not to get shy or get in our own way, doubting any impact we can make, but instead to listen to the Holy Spirit's leading as we go through our daily lives looking for ways to love, serve, and encourage others--even people we don't know! We don't have to be perfect or wealthy or even have lots of free time in order to show simple kindness to the people around us. We need only be willing, aware, and active.
If you're feeling small and insignificant in our big, big world, read this book to help you start looking outside of yourself for ways you (Yes, YOU!) can make a difference in the lives of the people you encounter every day.
𝘛𝘩𝘦 𝘚𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘋𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 is an invitation to each of us to look for ways to show small kindnesses to those around us as we go through our everyday lives. Becky gives us practical tips, ideas, and motivation for doing this but also encourages us to tap into our own gifts, strengths, and creativity as we look for ways to show kindness. The emphasis is not on how much time or money we spend in doing so; instead, the emphasis is put on the person who is on the receiving end of this kindness. It is so important for people to be seen, heard, and loved, and we are invited to take a very real part in that. We are invited by God to see and to serve His image-bearers.
If you have ever been the one on the receiving end of a small kindness, you know the impact it can make. Becky encourages us not to get shy or get in our own way, doubting any impact we can make, but instead to listen to the Holy Spirit's leading as we go through our daily lives looking for ways to love, serve, and encourage others--even people we don't know! We don't have to be perfect or wealthy or even have lots of free time in order to show simple kindness to the people around us. We need only be willing, aware, and active.
If you're feeling small and insignificant in our big, big world, read this book to help you start looking outside of yourself for ways you (Yes, YOU!) can make a difference in the lives of the people you encounter every day.
September 28, 2021
I loved The Simple Difference. I think what we all need right now is more kindness, making Becky Keife's book very timely. God gave the idea of this book to Becky long before a pandemic hit and the timing of the release could not be more relevant.
...our small, sometimes barely perceptible acts of love, kindness, and encouragement can not only put a little ripple in the currents of hate and blame, division and dysfunction they are enough to actually change the tide.
The Simple Difference is told in a first-person conversational tone. It feels like we are sitting down with Becky, talking over a cup of coffee, and being real with one another. Becky does not approach this book as one who has it all together, but as one who has made plenty of mistakes, and learned from them.
We are all born to be difference makers.
Becky shares many stories, not just her own, of how kindness has made a difference in the lives of others. She talks about why kindness matters and how sometimes it can be awkward, or even hard. In a lot of ways, it is an act of trust to step out with whatever we have to offer kindness to someone. I especially love the story of Beth Moore included in the story. I had heard it before but the impact is like hearing it the first time.
At the end of each chapter, Becky inspires the reader with three keys to living The Simple Difference, which includes a prayer, living it now, and saying it loud. This is a book that you will not want to miss. In a world that is divided over all.the.things. we need people to be The Simple Difference. Are you willing? I am, I am in, all the way in.
Thank you to Revell and the author for the opportunity to read this book. I was not required to leave a positive review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
...our small, sometimes barely perceptible acts of love, kindness, and encouragement can not only put a little ripple in the currents of hate and blame, division and dysfunction they are enough to actually change the tide.
The Simple Difference is told in a first-person conversational tone. It feels like we are sitting down with Becky, talking over a cup of coffee, and being real with one another. Becky does not approach this book as one who has it all together, but as one who has made plenty of mistakes, and learned from them.
We are all born to be difference makers.
Becky shares many stories, not just her own, of how kindness has made a difference in the lives of others. She talks about why kindness matters and how sometimes it can be awkward, or even hard. In a lot of ways, it is an act of trust to step out with whatever we have to offer kindness to someone. I especially love the story of Beth Moore included in the story. I had heard it before but the impact is like hearing it the first time.
At the end of each chapter, Becky inspires the reader with three keys to living The Simple Difference, which includes a prayer, living it now, and saying it loud. This is a book that you will not want to miss. In a world that is divided over all.the.things. we need people to be The Simple Difference. Are you willing? I am, I am in, all the way in.
Thank you to Revell and the author for the opportunity to read this book. I was not required to leave a positive review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
October 4, 2021
The Simple Difference acts as a companion manual to the Courageous Kindness Bible study. It can be read on its own or with the study. It is not needed for the study but enhances it.
The Simple Difference is a guide, walking us through ways to show more kindness to those around us without overextending ourselves. Very often, we may want to do something but don’t know what to do. We get stifled, then usually don’t do anything at all or think what we do is meaningless. Not so. This book shares heart-felt and insightful stories about how small acts of kindness impacts someone’s life and accumulated, they can make big changes in the world around us.
At the end of each chapter is a prayer and a call to action, listing some ideas that we can do to show more kindness. It briefly dives into why people may be unkind and what to do so we can grow in kindness, especially in our home, to our family, which is where it all starts, then branches our from there. Each chapter has a different focus: feeling awkward, using your words, times of crisis, using what you have where you are, the undeserved…to name some.
The read is not heavy or long and enjoyable. It won’t take a long time to get through it.
I think the biggest take away for me is no act is too small. We may never see the positive results of our actions but we are the planters of these seeds of kindness and God is responsible for the harvest. We’re partners with God. The next time I feel that oomph, that pull, draw, to do something, I will not think about it but will act on it. It may not make sense to me. I may like an idiot not understanding why I feel the call but God may be using me to do something that the other person needs.
The Simple Difference is a guide, walking us through ways to show more kindness to those around us without overextending ourselves. Very often, we may want to do something but don’t know what to do. We get stifled, then usually don’t do anything at all or think what we do is meaningless. Not so. This book shares heart-felt and insightful stories about how small acts of kindness impacts someone’s life and accumulated, they can make big changes in the world around us.
At the end of each chapter is a prayer and a call to action, listing some ideas that we can do to show more kindness. It briefly dives into why people may be unkind and what to do so we can grow in kindness, especially in our home, to our family, which is where it all starts, then branches our from there. Each chapter has a different focus: feeling awkward, using your words, times of crisis, using what you have where you are, the undeserved…to name some.
The read is not heavy or long and enjoyable. It won’t take a long time to get through it.
I think the biggest take away for me is no act is too small. We may never see the positive results of our actions but we are the planters of these seeds of kindness and God is responsible for the harvest. We’re partners with God. The next time I feel that oomph, that pull, draw, to do something, I will not think about it but will act on it. It may not make sense to me. I may like an idiot not understanding why I feel the call but God may be using me to do something that the other person needs.
May 2, 2023
Last year some time Milinda @milindareads recommended The Simple Difference and of course I ordered it right away and then it sat on my tbr stack forever. Well, I’m so glad I made a point to read it this month. It was just the book I needed to redirect my grumpy mood and remind me what my purpose or goal should be in life.
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. “ And “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Becky writes in her book you don’t have to make a grand gesture, you can start simple in your own home and neighborhood. “Be a Blessing” to those closest to you. Look for simple ordinary ways you can bring kindness and love to those closest to you. Be intentional about your kindness and show compassion to those around you. That’s what Jesus did.
“Learning to recognize opportunities to be kind at home is training your heart to love others over loving your comfort.” That means maybe doing the extra step even when you are tired and grumpy. Putting on a smile for your family even though you really just want to take a nap.
I never heard this quote by Mother Teresa but I really love it, “If you want to change the world, go home and love your family.”
I highly recommend this book if you are interested in spreading kindness to those around you and you are religious. It ties a lot of Bible readings in with practical suggestions on how to be kind to those closest to you.
“Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. “ And “Love your neighbor as yourself.”
Becky writes in her book you don’t have to make a grand gesture, you can start simple in your own home and neighborhood. “Be a Blessing” to those closest to you. Look for simple ordinary ways you can bring kindness and love to those closest to you. Be intentional about your kindness and show compassion to those around you. That’s what Jesus did.
“Learning to recognize opportunities to be kind at home is training your heart to love others over loving your comfort.” That means maybe doing the extra step even when you are tired and grumpy. Putting on a smile for your family even though you really just want to take a nap.
I never heard this quote by Mother Teresa but I really love it, “If you want to change the world, go home and love your family.”
I highly recommend this book if you are interested in spreading kindness to those around you and you are religious. It ties a lot of Bible readings in with practical suggestions on how to be kind to those closest to you.
September 12, 2021
Simple Difference
As the world struggles to find answers to the hatred, fighting, dissension, and anger that is destroying us we find the answer is simple. This great book shows us we already have the answer. Jesus gave us the answer in his greatest commandment. The simple difference is explained in detail in this book. There are examples, stories, guides for living out this simple difference. A simple book that is easy to read, it fills the reader with hope. Yes you, one person, truly can make a difference in the world. The Simple Difference is well written, includes Scriptures that apply to the concept, and readers will find it hard to put the book down. The author, Becky Kiefe writes in a way that is entertaining, real, and encouraging. Every person should read this book! We can create a great wave with simple acts to positively impact our world. This is a message God needs you to hear and act on. Applicable for all, even if you have never touched a Bible or read Christian books, you will enjoy this book. We all need hope and joy in our lives and I think you will find just that in the pages of this book. ( I was fortunate to receive an advance copy)
As the world struggles to find answers to the hatred, fighting, dissension, and anger that is destroying us we find the answer is simple. This great book shows us we already have the answer. Jesus gave us the answer in his greatest commandment. The simple difference is explained in detail in this book. There are examples, stories, guides for living out this simple difference. A simple book that is easy to read, it fills the reader with hope. Yes you, one person, truly can make a difference in the world. The Simple Difference is well written, includes Scriptures that apply to the concept, and readers will find it hard to put the book down. The author, Becky Kiefe writes in a way that is entertaining, real, and encouraging. Every person should read this book! We can create a great wave with simple acts to positively impact our world. This is a message God needs you to hear and act on. Applicable for all, even if you have never touched a Bible or read Christian books, you will enjoy this book. We all need hope and joy in our lives and I think you will find just that in the pages of this book. ( I was fortunate to receive an advance copy)
September 29, 2021
What can I say about the Simple Difference that hasn't already been said? The Simple Difference was unexpected, inspiring, and provided both valuable insight and simple application. I thoroughly enjoyed the personal stories and experiences, but also not just how we're encouraged to show up and be kind, but the why we should be kind and how we should be kind. Jesus was our living, breathing, walking, shining example of love, life, living, and kindness. From the Good Samaratin Parable, to how Jesus led, I now have practical applications and examples. The truth is being kind doesn't have to cost you a thing, it's more about loving and compassion, empathy. I am encouraged to silence my mindless chatter and listen to God's leadings and promptings more when he encourages me to do something that is out of my comfort zone, because the reward is always going to be how you made the person feel, seen, loved, heard, and valued. The Simple Difference is a must read and much needed for such a time as this.
September 29, 2021
Finally! A book about kindness. True, selfless kindness. As we go about our day, do we respond with kindness when annoyed or go out of our way to love our neighbor just for the sake of being kind? As someone who loves to love on people, I’m always eager to read and learn more about kindness. The Simple Difference lays out tangible ways that we can truly love our neighbor as well as helps readers to move past common hindrances which prevent acts of kindness. Becky also delves into various facets of kindness and how they play into different seasons and stages of life. She provides incredible insight into how simple acts of kindness can create, what she calls, “a ripple effect to grow into big waves of change.” In a world where kindness isn’t always our first choice in how we respond to those around us, I encourage you to create waves of kindness. A good start is to read, The Simple Difference.
October 5, 2021
This book has been the most gentle, yet life impacting, book I have read this year. Becky’s story telling moved my soul to tears almost every chapter. Maybe it’s the fact that genuine kindness doesn’t seem all that tangible anymore, or maybe we are all just starved of it, or maybe her writing is simply that beautiful. The concept of our small kindnesses making a big impact in our world, was one my heart truly needed encouragement in. I appreciate that she speaks to the importance of prayer as our first and most important course of action and all else as secondary, yet still beautifully impactful. Needless to say, I recommend this book be read by all, especially as we enter holiday season, with neighborhood and family gatherings and school events all right here before us. This will be the perfect reminder of how to posture our heart and see with eyes like Jesus.
September 28, 2021
The title of this book by Becky Keife is perfect -- the book reminds us of a simple concept that can make a deep impact. Kindness and Being Kind is trendy right now but what I typically see is a couple words on a plaque, tshirt, or marketing materials. Becky takes time to remind us that Jesus used teaching to describe kindness and through His personal example of loving us is the ultimate example to follow. She also offers practical discussion to specific areas like why is it that we can make ourselves be calm and polite to a stranger like a grocery store bagger but when we get home we snap at those we love over small stuff. I found my awareness was much higher after reading the book even days later and have enjoyed looking at people differently.
October 5, 2021
Timely, practical, enjoyable, and challenging
Becky Keife has written a book that is easy to read, like chatting around a cup of coffee with a friend, while also challenging the reader to think about the ways we choose ourselves over offering kindness to the people God puts in our path. Sometimes we think not being unkind is enough, but what opportunities we miss when we stop there. I was both convicted and encouraged by Becky’s personal examples, scripture references, and practical suggestions for sharing simple kindnesses our daily living. One of the most important takeaways for me was the importance of intentionally seeing people and meeting their need with kindness. I highly recommend this well-written, excellent book.
Becky Keife has written a book that is easy to read, like chatting around a cup of coffee with a friend, while also challenging the reader to think about the ways we choose ourselves over offering kindness to the people God puts in our path. Sometimes we think not being unkind is enough, but what opportunities we miss when we stop there. I was both convicted and encouraged by Becky’s personal examples, scripture references, and practical suggestions for sharing simple kindnesses our daily living. One of the most important takeaways for me was the importance of intentionally seeing people and meeting their need with kindness. I highly recommend this well-written, excellent book.
September 25, 2021
Becky Keife is one of my favorite writers because she writes so eloquently. I thoroughly enjoyed this book and if I could I would give it six stars!
The world is a broken place, Becky says, and we are powerless to fix it. But what we can do are simple acts of kindness. Helping a friend or stranger in need, providing support to a friednd in crisis, etc. These little acts of kindness may not seem much, but to the recipient they mean everything.
I enjoyed Beck’s ability to provide stories and Scripture that espouse what kindness is and how gratifying it is to commit a act of kindness. It is a simple difference we can make
The world is a broken place, Becky says, and we are powerless to fix it. But what we can do are simple acts of kindness. Helping a friend or stranger in need, providing support to a friednd in crisis, etc. These little acts of kindness may not seem much, but to the recipient they mean everything.
I enjoyed Beck’s ability to provide stories and Scripture that espouse what kindness is and how gratifying it is to commit a act of kindness. It is a simple difference we can make
October 5, 2021
“…..the expression of authentic, love-driven kindness will look different for each of us”
Becky Keife’s book The Simple Difference is a great reminder that every simple act of kindness has a ripple effect in our world.
Becky gives us some great examples we can live out everyday, like letting another person know you see them, or sharing a word of encouragement with another, or a little more challenging…being kind to those in our own home.
I found myself highlighting so many phrases in this book, and now look for opportunities to practice kindness in the world around me.
A truly encouraging read!
Becky Keife’s book The Simple Difference is a great reminder that every simple act of kindness has a ripple effect in our world.
Becky gives us some great examples we can live out everyday, like letting another person know you see them, or sharing a word of encouragement with another, or a little more challenging…being kind to those in our own home.
I found myself highlighting so many phrases in this book, and now look for opportunities to practice kindness in the world around me.
A truly encouraging read!
October 6, 2021
I'm so grateful for the author, Becky Keife to share this book with the world but especially me. Being able to see the world differently and to see how we can make a difference in others lives as we do so! Chapter five is sooooo good as it speaks right to my heart (Hardest at Home). The last page of each chapter really helps you to gain an understanding of what you read and how you can apply it to your life. The author has helped us with three simple steps... "Pray it bold. Live it loud. Say it now." "Kindness is not possible when I'm being critical." Yes, there are so many great nuggets in this book. Again, I'm grateful!!
December 27, 2021
Do you want your life to make a difference? Do you want to have an impact on others? What if I told you that every small act of kindness makes a big impact? This is the theme of the book, The Simple Difference by Becky Keife. I love the Simple Difference Prayer in her book as well as what Becky shares about what to do with our “Not Enoughs”. I know this is a common struggle to think we don’t have enough time or resources. I definitely recommend this incredible book!
If you want to hear more about this book, you can check out my conversation with Becky on episode 110 on the Depth Podcast. https://jodirosser.com/depth-podcast-...
If you want to hear more about this book, you can check out my conversation with Becky on episode 110 on the Depth Podcast. https://jodirosser.com/depth-podcast-...
October 1, 2021
The Simple Difference.
The last couple of years have been defined by division, hate, and political and racial issues. Becky Keife’s book is so timely. Her stories of simple kindnesses given and received, by herself and others, show how one person can make a difference. We can make a difference by showing God’s love to our families, neighbors, and strangers by small acts of kindness. Becky give examples and each chapter ends with inspiring steps to help us implement kindness in our daily lives.
The last couple of years have been defined by division, hate, and political and racial issues. Becky Keife’s book is so timely. Her stories of simple kindnesses given and received, by herself and others, show how one person can make a difference. We can make a difference by showing God’s love to our families, neighbors, and strangers by small acts of kindness. Becky give examples and each chapter ends with inspiring steps to help us implement kindness in our daily lives.
October 3, 2021
Excellent! Excellent! Excellent! Just what we need in this world today. Becky is so real and practical, her vulnerability in sharing examples from her own personal life are so relatable and are a kindness in themselves—letting you feel seen and understood without any condemnation or judgment. Her ideas for making the simple difference and sharing kindness are challenging and easy at the same time I hope everyone gets their hands on this book and we start to see a kindness revolution in our sorely lacking world!!
October 5, 2021
The Simple Difference is a beautiful and convicting devotional that will inspire small acts of kindness. There are amazing personal stories, biblical truths and verses to prompt us in our daily living with kindness. You just never know what some small kindness will mean to another person. Jesus is our example in how loving others can inspire us daily and this devotional guides us how to do just that!
Thank you to the publisher for including me in the launch team! I was not required to leave a review!
Thank you to the publisher for including me in the launch team! I was not required to leave a review!
October 6, 2021
This special book is bringing me so much encouragement! To me it has been like a devotional because it inspires me to make a daily habit of making kindness a priority. At the end of every chapter, Becky Keife includes "Three keys to living" where she lists a personal prayer, new and practical tips to apply/practice kindness, and 1 "Say it loud" sentence to really drive our intentions. These along with personal stories and biblical truths make this a wonderful book. It's definitely one to reread, and one to give!
October 7, 2021
I thought I new what kindness meant until I read this book. I have a whole new perspective now. Thank you to the author Becky Keife for such a beautiful book that I will keep handy so I can constantly make sure I’m doing all I can to show people they matter in simple, small ways. So many quotes throughout this book that I have added to my repertoire. “Be bold, be awkward, be inconvenienced”This book was so very relatable, so very much needed during these unsettling times and should be a part of everyone’s collection.
October 13, 2021
This is a well written book of how to follow the example of Jesus in sharing simple kindnesses with others. Beck encourages you to consider how small individual acts can be like ripples in a pond spreading out to others. This book comes at a time when we sorely need to remember kindness and to be kind in the current turmoils of our nation. Her stories and willingness to show the awkwardness and reality of doing this. She makes you feel good about doing your part to make a difference in this small way that can grow.
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