Be a winner in your personal and professional life with this pull-no-punches guideLet's face it: to become a winner in the face of unpredictable times requires hard work and a determined mindset. Winners choose to be winners. Whiners let others control their fate. Which one do you want to be?
In "The Top Ten Distinctions between Winners and Whiners," Keith Cameron Smith reveals the secrets to becoming a winner in both your professional and personal life. Discover powerful exercises you can start immediately that will make a positive and lasting change in your life.Master the 10 vital principles and move past the status quo and up the ladderCreate positive meaning and build relationships
Hundreds of top producers from many network marketing companies as well as upper managers from several Fortune 500 companies are using The Top 10 Distinctions between Winners and Whiners to inspire their teams.
Take responsibility for your success and steer clear of naysayers and negativity with "The Top Ten Distinctions between Winners and Whiners."
A short book. If you have no important work in hand, then read this small one quickly. At least reading something is always better than mindless swapping and screen gazing.
يمتلك الفائزون قناعات وسلوكيات محدده تمدهم بالقوة اللازمه و النتائج التي يحصلون عليها ما هي الا انعكاسات للخيارات التي يتخدونها ولكن ما تقدمه لنا الحياه يفوق ما يمكن لاي منا ان يراه بمفرده لدى من خلال ممارسة رؤيا الحياه من عدة زوايا سيمكنك ان تتغير لتصبح شخصا افضل و تذكر ان العزيمه والاصرار هما القوه التي تدفعك الى المثابره.
عليك ان تتعلم ان تستمتع بموقفك الحالي وان تواصل الاجتهاد ولكن لا تجعل سعادتك تتوقف على الانجاز فنحن نشعر بالسعاده حينما نصبح افضل ما بوسعنا ان نكونه وان الرغبات قادره على ان تقود البشر للجنون فمن المهم ان تتعلم كيف نفرق بين ما نرغب فيه وما نحتاج اليه حقا وما تعتقد انه قد يجعلك سعيدا و ان ما تقدمه لنا الحياه يفوق ما يمكن لاي منا ان يراه بفرده اذن فمن خلال ممارسة رؤيا الحياه من عدة زوايا سيمكنك ان تتغير لتصبح افضل.
Sept 2011 - Good book by Keith Cameron Smith. Simple and to the point regarding winning vs. whinning attitudes. My favorite quote was the 20-40-60 principle. "When you are 20 years old, you care what everyone thinks of you. When you are 40, you dont' care what anyone thinks. At 60, you finally realize that nobody was thinking about you at all." Chapters include: Winners take responsibility / Whiners play victim. Winners can have what they want / Whiners want what they cannot have Winners find a way / Whiners find an excuse. Winners brighten a room by entering / Whiners brighen a room by leaving Winners listen twice as much as they talk / Whiners talk twice as much as they listen Winners enjoy life's journeys/ Whiners put their joy in the destinations. Winners build friendships / Whiners destroy friendships Winners think big / Whiners think small Winners are focus-minded / Whiners are scannterbrained Winners crate positive meanings / Whiners create negaive meanings.
I felt I needed to skip read the rest of this book because after awhile it feels as though it's repeating itself. I like what I've learned from it, but I feel I don't really need to finish it to know what it's all about. It's pretty clear even a quarter in.
It's a pretty good self-help book but at times I felt that there was a bit of preaching going on (mostly when the God issue was used as an example). I don't mind God being used as example, per se, but after a few mentions of how if you become enough of a winner you might even be able to communicate with Him, it started to feel a little like proselytizing. Not much, and that wasn't the reason why I put the book down, it's mostly just an observation.
Imagine someone spent a while gathering every platitude and piece of wisdom they could find and then gathered it into a book about being a winner. This is what you'd get - a mixed bag. Some insights were helpful, others were too simplistic, and a few were actually insulting.
If you deal with complex problems (disabilities, psychological problems, stuff that you can't change with your attitude), you might find this amazingly simplistic and not all that helpful. Most of the advice is do-it-yourself - just change your attitude or your way of thinking or something simple and then WHAM! your life will be better.
A book with good content, but a better page layout with more intuitive line breaks, subheadings, etc. would have given it more character, made it more enjoyable to read, and made the information easier to retain. I found myself re-reading many sections of the book because the author jumps from Winner to Whiner and back again with great frequency. If this book had a better editor and page designer, I would have given it 4-stars. It's a quick read at a slim 93 pages, so it's worth a read (even if you have to re-read a few lines in order to make certain you comprehended a passage correctly.)
Good points but a lot of generalizations without enough examples to clarify; though most of the points are pretty straight-foward. The read cheered me up a lot after having a rough few weeks with inner struggles.