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Shannon
Dec 05, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: lulz, queer
This book is seriously hilarious. Not just because of the "Oh, I'm so gay listen to some of my gay antics" part (though that is there too, especially in the beginning few chapters of the book, about knitting and cheerleading etc.). But also because, as the book goes on more and more of his insights have, really, nothing to do with his gayness. Ultimately his book shows that even someone who is (by their own admission), a flaming stereotype.. is not JUST that. I mean, obviously. I know this, most ...more
Scott
Sep 07, 2009 rated it it was ok
This book put me on a bit of a roller coaster. I was definitely rolling my eyes (why did I get on this crappy ride), giggling along with the humor (oohhh, this is better than I thought it would be), and then ready to get off (the ending was just that up-down-up-down to finish it off).

The start of the book was annoying - too much bitchy queen, too much cover-my-insecurity-with-funny(hateful) remarks. The worthwhile part of the book is the middle when the author opens up and comes off with more ho
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Cameron
May 12, 2008 rated it really liked it
Shelves: queer
Though I knew I would have to bow to Joel Derfner's assertion that he himself is the gayest person ever, and that I could not claim that title for myself or risk being labeled a mimetic fraud, I was quickly mollified by his absolutely charming prose and deft wit with words. I about orgasmed when he inserted adroitly my absolute favorite signifier of logophilia: the word "shibboleths." Transcending catty and tawdry avowals of boys past and socks knit, Derfner explores many subjects that seem on t ...more
Joel Derfner
Jun 20, 2008 rated it it was amazing  ·  (Review from the author)
treehugger
Jun 27, 2008 marked it as to-read
Natalie
Aug 14, 2008 rated it it was ok
Steven
Feb 24, 2009 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: queer, memoir, non-fiction
Blue Jello Elf
Mar 29, 2009 marked it as not-finished
Kolin
Apr 21, 2009 marked it as to-read
Joel Derfner
May 24, 2009 rated it it was amazing  ·  (Review from the author)  ·  review of another edition
Tynan Power
Sep 09, 2009 marked it as to-read
Shelves: memoir, queer
Nancy
Jan 23, 2010 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Cazz
Feb 07, 2010 marked it as to-read
Parker
Oct 01, 2011 rated it really liked it
Ben
Apr 10, 2012 marked it as to-read
Kevin
Apr 02, 2015 marked it as to-read
Sara
Jun 10, 2015 marked it as to-read
Lindsay
Jun 20, 2015 marked it as to-read
Megan
Jul 06, 2015 marked it as to-read
Fr. Andrew
Nov 25, 2015 marked it as to-read
Thomas
Aug 18, 2017 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Debbie
Sep 17, 2019 marked it as to-read