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Yes I also had a hard time understanding her reasons to hide her new job from her family. I've never been in such a situation before, where I felt I needed to hide something like that, so I couldn't relate at all. But then again, I did other unreasonable things as a teenager. I think Mallory puts a lot of guilt on herself and pressure to keep the family afloat and that must be very stressful already. I can't imagine having to provide for 3 other people and a mortgage at such a young age


She has put herself in a very stressful situation but that is still not a reason for her lies and adds to the stress. It is an example of what we tell ourselves not being accurate. She is taking on the parent role while even though her mother needs assistance she is still capable.

Yasmine wrote: "Ohh I just read this book last week, can I still join in in the discussion? I'd love to talk about it because I really enjoyed the book :D"
Of course!
Of course!


YA Romance is not my first choice for genres but sometimes I am pleasantly surprised😃


I felt it was more of her choices to take on these roles. She seemed to just take over without discussion with her family which would have made things easier.

I totally agree!

Why can't Mal tell her family about her job? Why can't they discuss chess? Is there some horrible thing about her father?
Definitely see the misogyny in the chess world in this story.


I felt the same. There doesn’t really seem to be any reason for her lies.

I did like Nolan, he was sweet, caring and honestly a good boyfriend.
It was good to see Hazelwood addressing the extra pressures and judgment on a woman in male-coded fields while inspiring young women to embrace their hobbies and strengths and achieve in whatever they want to do.

I agree with you on this part. A lot of her struggles were thinking she had to take on more than she did and refused to communicate anything with her mother.
Honestly I felt myself quickly skimming the chapters that contained more of the family stuff and then lingered longer on the sections with Nolan and Mallory.
Most of her troubles where self imposed, but probably handled them the same way any 18 year old would who felt like she had to hold everything together for the people around her.



My first time. Not really my genre. I prefer mystery and thrillers
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overall I enjoyed this one!
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Initially reading I thought that was an awfully lot for anyone to expect of a teenager....making sure the bills are paid, the younger siblings are taken care of with school and all other things, and that she was responsible for her mother's care.
The more that I read, the more I realize that all those things are self-imposed and that Mallory thinks she is "the cause" of so many things that were out of her control. AND, this family does not talk to each other about anything!!
The more that I read, the more I realize that all those things are self-imposed and that Mallory thinks she is "the cause" of so many things that were out of her control. AND, this family does not talk to each other about anything!!
I absolutely loved the section with Nolan showing up at Mallory's and having dinner with her family.
The family may not be open about important topics but apparently sex is not one of the topics that stays in the dark! LOL It was hilarious to hear the 12 year old sister spouting off about Mallory's sex life, her sexual preferences and how often she practices!! All with their mother at the table.
The family may not be open about important topics but apparently sex is not one of the topics that stays in the dark! LOL It was hilarious to hear the 12 year old sister spouting off about Mallory's sex life, her sexual preferences and how often she practices!! All with their mother at the table.
bamaace83 wrote: "I wonder if anyone else has read it this month. I love all the different opinions. Just random, was this anyone's first time reading Hazlewood or have y'all read her before?"
This was my first book of Hazelwood's but YA romance isn't my favorite or go-to read. I will say that I was pleasantly surprised with this one - but I think it is mostly due to the chess tournaments and talk about the game. I did like Nolan's character best of all of them....except maybe the 12 year old sister!
This was my first book of Hazelwood's but YA romance isn't my favorite or go-to read. I will say that I was pleasantly surprised with this one - but I think it is mostly due to the chess tournaments and talk about the game. I did like Nolan's character best of all of them....except maybe the 12 year old sister!
I really thought that the mother had to know about all that Mallory was doing, especially with all the tournament activity being recorded, televised and on social media. (view spoiler)

I have read a couple of her books, but I feel the same way. I tried to read the Love Hypothesis and Love Theoretically back to back and stopped reading Love Theoretically because it was too similar. I still haven't picked it back up yet lol

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Totally agree with everything you said here. This is my first Ali Hazelwood novel. I also usually avoid YA romances like the plague, but this one was great. I read through it like a breeze! Before I knew it, I already finished the book.
I absolutely love Darcy. She's such a smartass in a not-annoying way. But I like the main supporting cast in general, particularly because of how they all helped knock some sense into Mallory.

While reading the book, I'd been thinking that. How did Mallory think she could hide all that publicity? Even if her mom lived under a cave, it's just impossible lol. I was pretty relieved when her mom finally had a talk with her.

I did like Nolan, he was sweet, caring and honestly a good boyfriend.
It was good to see Hazel..."
The chess bits honestly flew over my head. Thankfully, Hazelwood didn't get too technical about it beyond the openings. But that research concerning internalized misogyny in the chess world was really interesting. It reminded me of this short clip I watched long ago about a female grandmaster who wasn't as famous as her male peers even though she was in the top ranks and cut back on her activity in the chess world because it wasn't that profitable.

Her books are pretty similar. I had to break those two books up also. This one was a little different but her STEM ones are following similar story lines for me.

I also think the mom knew more than she let on but she was so into her own world at times that she just wasn't present. It would be pretty hard to be totally out of touch with all the social media stuff around.
Books mentioned in this topic
The Love Hypothesis (other topics)Love on the Brain (other topics)
Check & Mate (other topics)
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