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I think Georgiana Longstaffe's story will be interesting, certainly Roger's, and Felix it seems is now forced to use his brain (for good or evil we know not yet). And I am beginning to see that Marie Melmotte and Dolly Longstaffe will have a voice.
This story is dealing with many of the same factors in society than my other two Trollopes were, but this story has so much more of a biting quality than those did. It is certainly captivating.


This reminded me of the Titanic movie and how people looked on "Unsinkable" Molly Brown. She was "new rich", and it seemed like most people looked down on her.
I do find it interesting in this second section how much people think the Melmottes are horrible people, but they sure don't mind their money! Perphas that is part of the commentary we are supposed to gather reading between the lines of the title of the book?

Yes, "the way we live now" as maybe a catch-phrase even. And we actually hear it directly from none other than Matilda in chapter 30. She herself is feeling miffed, although forgiving, but still not quite right with "Mr. Melmotte's Promise." She can't help longing for a real friend, possibly Roger? But Roger..."was old-fashioned, and knew nothing of people as they are now. He lived in a world which, though slow, had been good in its way; but which, whether bad or good, had now passed away."
This story is so identifiable and it brings up a timeless question -- we move with the times, with the changes, we take up new ways. But how often do we ask if we actually NEED the changes we embrace?
It reminds me of the question I discuss with friends often -- now that we live in the big box store, Walmart society, is this what we really wanted? Did we need so much stuff and were we so under-supplied by smaller, regular stores in decades past? We were so swayed by the "practicality" of one-stop shopping and now we have no neighborhood stores? We were lured away by money and "savings." So maybe those who are circling around Melmotte are so lured by the money too, but don't realize what they are giving up.
And isn't it interesting that Melmotte is continuously referred to as a brute, vile (by Paul), and "the general enemy" (by everyone in his own household)?
Have you noticed how Trollope portrays some of the characters as using such bad grammar? The Melmottes especially, but even Felix and his crowd. Showing how much they lack any refined ways maybe?

Below are three observations from Chapters 17-33.
1. Felix is living up to his role.
It seems Felix is fully embracing the idea of the new English gentleman, which inludes spending money he doesn't have, having a mistress on the side, and he believes deception is ok. I prefer Roger's example.
2. Mr. Melmotte isn't a fool.
Mr. Melmotte clearly understands Felix doesn't have any money and cannot offer his daughter anything in the marriage other than a title. He knows Felix isn't in this for love, and it doesn't seem Mr. Melmotte really loves his daugther either.
3. Marie may be a good fit for Felix
I was really surprised that Marie wants to elope with Felix and steal her father's money! It seems Felix is the one dreaming about how much it would be, estimating at least L50,000. Do you think she really has access to the money, or is she just trying to trap Felix into marriage?

I will come back later and read all the comments....

Kyle, I believe that Marie does have that money, (although complications can always arise I am sure.) Because almost immediately the plot turns so that Felix is offered the choice to drop Marie and take up Melmotte's helping hand. I think Melmotte realizes she is really sold on Felix, will run away, and she does have access to the hidden money. You are right, every bit of it reads like a business deal. Felix has no real emotion for Marie, nor does Melmotte -- she has been used as a tool to weave himself more into the circle and now he is beginning to control the circle and doesnt even really need Marie.




Of course he was not a fool. As SarahC wrote - it is exactly the passage I had underlined in my book!!! - Roger..."was old-fashioned, and knew nothing of people as they are now. He lived in a world which, though slow, had been good in its way; but which, whether bad or good, had now passed away."
They're not able any more to rule this changing world, but the new leading class is no better at all...
I liked john Crumb; all in white because of his work. He is what he does.

There was so much happening within these chapters as Trollope kept on enlightening us with all of the characters' faults and traits. As I said above, Felix is a cad. He is despicable even with his dealings with Ruby. (making a date and then knowingly not showing up!) I am certainly looking for him to get his comeuppance.
I do think too, that Marie does have access to her father's money. I will be interested in seeing how she does (or if she does) acquire it. I also hope that she finds out about Felix. In so many ways, I can see why he has turned out the way he has with Lady Carbury as his mother.

It seems that most of the women we encounter in this story do each in thier own way have thier own streak of rebellion within them and strive for independence but how thier efforts are oppressed both by the world they live in and the men in their lives, either fathers, husbands, potential husbands, suites, and so forth.
In the case of Marie while Mr. Melmotte acknowledges that his daughter does not need his permission to marry he does hold his money over her head as a way to keep her prisoner by refusing to give her his money if she should marry agasint his wishes. And while Felix is not whom she thinks he is, and she is better off not wedding him, her father truly is not interested in her own well being, but simply wants to use his daughter as a pawn for his own advancement.
And Hetta though she does stand up for herself against Roger and refuses his frequent proposals, admitting that she does not love him and thus cannot marry him, at the same time she does being to be made to feel as if she does have some obligation to accept him and she is tempted to go agasint her own feelings and agree to be his wife. Because of the way he does keep pressing her, it makes her begin to feel guilt over the fact that she does not love him.
I also found the chapters dealing with Mrs. Hurtle to be quite interesting, she strikes me as being a very interesting woman becasue of all the mystery that is cast around her and I was quite struck by her expression to Paul in which she told him that a man does have the freedom to forget his love by becoming lost within the affairs of the world but a woman does not have the liberty to do that.
Throughout the story it seems there are several instances of women who are struggling agasint the authority and dominance of the men whom rule thier lives.
Even Lady Carbury begins to acknowledge that she is wrong to keep indulging her son and yet becasue of her bond to him as his mother she admits her own weakness in her in ability to cut him loose as she knows she should.

Here we have not only new rich but even a few Americans to throw into the mix. Paul's other girlfriend (sorry, I'm bad with names) reflects on more than one occasion that the English are obsessed with money and position, but that the ones who are the most socially acceptable are the most boring. That reminded me of the time I went to my aunt's country club for a family party. It was 2005, but Trollope could have been looking over my shoulder.
This is getting to be my favorite Trollope novel, and I've read most of them.

It's an excellent book. My first Trollope but definitely not my last.

I think that is unfair to Marie she is misguided in her love for Felix, but I do not think she is truly that bad. In some respects I do admire her for standing up to her father in not wanting to simply accept the match he had chosen for her, which he did purely for his own benefit. Though Felix is not a good choice for her, I do not think she deserves the life of misery he would likely bring just because she is a besotted young girl.

Can we view Marie and Ruby in the same way though? Both have refused the man their father/grandfather has chosen for them. Are they right to have done that considering the period in which they are living? I don't have an answer to these questions and would be interested to hear what other people think?

* Ruby's grandfather initially withheld the L500 he had promised.
* Melmotte threatened to withhold his monies - although we learn he really didn't have any.
* Georgiana's father threatened to completely cut her off from the family if she chose to marry Mr. Breghert.
I forget their names, but there was also the story of the other English lady eloping and marrying a Jewish man, which actually seemed to turn out well. I do think other English families looked down on her some, but she seemed to be faring well.

I do not think these fathers were the type to relent or not follow through on their threats. Both of them would, I believe, have written off their daughter/granddaughter without blinking an eye. It was very courageous of these women to have been so unbending. It was interesting to read how much of what they withheld would be money since neither one of them seemed to have an ounce of love for their offspring.
So do I believe it was the times? Definitely....The man ruled the roost and what he said was binding or else...
Even today, in our "modern" times, we do hear of families who turn out a child who does not conform to their wishes matrimonially.

Can we view Marie and Ruby in the same way though? Both have refused the man thei..."
I do think they have the "right" to stand up from themselves and rebel against an unjust system. Though it would not have been viewed as such in the period in which they were living.
Even Mr. Melmotte acknowledges that in truth he can do nothing to actually force her to marry whom he wishes. But can only make threats to try and scare away other suitors and cow her into submission to his will.
So women did have some right in the choosing or refusing of the men whom they married. And a woman could not in fact actually be forced into a marriage completely against her will.
Now unfortunately both Maria and Ruby's attempters for impendence, and standing up for their rights risk leading them into unpleasant situations because they have been lead astray by the same man who will do neither of them any good.
But I do not think they are wrong for refusing to meekly go into marriages which would bring them no love even if that is what the time period expected of them.

I think the only reason that woman fared well was because her husband really does have a lot of money. If he didn't, god help her.

The first chapters with Lady Carbury describing her shenanigans with the various publishers was like straight out of a sexual harassment tutorial, long before they would have been considered such and in forms that are debated yet today as to the extent they are such.


Her success in a marriage proposal certainly had to do with money and I agree that is pretty sad. Then again, everything seemed to revolve around money and class.

What is keeping the rest of you interested and reading?




That's encouraging, too, Bea.
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