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Edgy and nearly perfect fiction about what it's like to raise a sociopath. Until the last pages where the book got a bit preachy and deterministic I felt that Lessing left me jittering unpleasantly between thinking that Ben, the "fifth child," was born this way, irredeemable, vs. that he was the victim of bad parenting and lack of love and even of abuse...which is of course the same duality any parent (in particular, mother) is judged by when raising a child who doesn't seem quite normal; who do
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RE-READ 12-16-20: Still loved it, still absolutely horrifying. Not in the usual horror novel way, it's not creepy or crawly. This is the much realer kind of horror, the kind that could happen to you just by deciding to have a child. You'll probably have an alright, normal kid... but you might have a Ben.
During my first read, I empathized mainly with Harriet: how terrible, as a parent, to face the unmakeable choice between your children! This time around though, I felt myself identifying much mor ...more
During my first read, I empathized mainly with Harriet: how terrible, as a parent, to face the unmakeable choice between your children! This time around though, I felt myself identifying much mor ...more

With quiet sensitivity and insight, Lessing depicts the slow unraveling of a large happy family when their fifth child is born with intellectual, behavioral and social impairments serious enough to make him a danger to the other children. Although told in the third person, we see things primarily from the mother’s perspective, a woman whose love for her vulnerable child with overwhelming needs can never be reciprocated and which blinds her to the impact on her older children. Lessing reveals the
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Back when I was pregnant some five-odd years ago, I'd be asked the usual question: "are you hoping for a boy or a girl?" And I'd dead-pan: "I don't care. I just want a kid who isn't a jerk."
Spoiler: all kids are jerks *some* of the time. In my child's case, this is balanced by him shrieking in worry/empathy for every imperiled child/sheep/toy on Fireman Sam. Or sweeping up without me asking. I can live with this balance.
Writers like Shirley Jackson and Doris Lessing understand that there's an un ...more
Spoiler: all kids are jerks *some* of the time. In my child's case, this is balanced by him shrieking in worry/empathy for every imperiled child/sheep/toy on Fireman Sam. Or sweeping up without me asking. I can live with this balance.
Writers like Shirley Jackson and Doris Lessing understand that there's an un ...more

I have mixed feelings about this story. It's well written and intriguing but the thoughts and questions it brought up are a bit unsettling. Is that the point? But to what purpose?
Harriet and Dave decide that their life will be perfect. All that they want will come their way. The house, many kids, happiness, contentment, fulfilment. It's all theirs just for the wanting. Naive but perhaps sweet, maybe.
But they cannot maintain or afford what they want. Others must subsidize their lifestyle, to the ...more
Harriet and Dave decide that their life will be perfect. All that they want will come their way. The house, many kids, happiness, contentment, fulfilment. It's all theirs just for the wanting. Naive but perhaps sweet, maybe.
But they cannot maintain or afford what they want. Others must subsidize their lifestyle, to the ...more

I'm a bit confused. I'm pretty sure Doris Lessing didn't intend to resonate with millenials' relationship to parenthood. But I'm sitting here like "well, of course they had that coming" and I'm not sure that's what I'm supposed to be feeling here. Anyway, they totally did.
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A modern Gothic horror story. A monster is born into a very happy family. The story is about the disintegration of the family (including relatives and friends).



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