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Edited 5/31/25:
Apparently someone complained to Goodreads that I used “excessive content quoted from the book” without copyright’s holder permission. So I counted — to show my dissatisfaction with the way this book was written I used 11 quotes of which the longest is just a few lines. Out of 300-plus pages.
What I think is a book’s fan took offense with me bashing it and hopes the review gets deleted.
Fine, I’ll remove the quotes. All but the link to one which is the silliest — which I’m pret ...more
Apparently someone complained to Goodreads that I used “excessive content quoted from the book” without copyright’s holder permission. So I counted — to show my dissatisfaction with the way this book was written I used 11 quotes of which the longest is just a few lines. Out of 300-plus pages.
What I think is a book’s fan took offense with me bashing it and hopes the review gets deleted.
Fine, I’ll remove the quotes. All but the link to one which is the silliest — which I’m pret ...more

I read this knowing literally nothing about it other than I've read two other books by him and he recently won the 2020 GR Fiction award. Plus, the title. The title was nice and I trust the writer, so I was like, WHY NOT?
I kinda expected some fantasy treatment with a nice librarian. What I got was a fantasy treatment with a nice librarian.
The adventure?
It's all about regrets, baby. So strap yourself in, get your failed life perspective glasses on, and start feeling sorry for yourself, because i ...more
I kinda expected some fantasy treatment with a nice librarian. What I got was a fantasy treatment with a nice librarian.
The adventure?
It's all about regrets, baby. So strap yourself in, get your failed life perspective glasses on, and start feeling sorry for yourself, because i ...more

2.5*s. I have seen a lot of people describe this book as sweet. This book is not sweet. The first half is depressing and the second half is so jam packed with trite advice that it should be filed in the self-help section.
“The thing is … what we consider to be the most successful route for us to take, actually isn’t. Because too often our view of success is about some external bullshit idea of achievement – an Olympic medal, the ideal husband, a good salary. And we have all these metrics that we...more

Author Matt Haig evoked some pretty strong emotions in me as I read about character Nora Seed, suffering from depression for years, cut off from her friend and her brother, recently unemployed and living alone in an apartment with a ton of regrets.
The descriptions of Nora’s despair and depression felt so real, and I could well understand her unwillingness to continue on with life, and her surprise and anger once she arrived at the Midnight Library.
Haig handled the mix of fiction, philosophy and ...more
The descriptions of Nora’s despair and depression felt so real, and I could well understand her unwillingness to continue on with life, and her surprise and anger once she arrived at the Midnight Library.
Haig handled the mix of fiction, philosophy and ...more

This was actually a bit of a let down for me.
That's not to say it's bad--there were points were it really got going--but I had huge expectations going into this, just based on everything I'd heard about Matt Haig.
The first part of the book seemed to live up to them, even if it was a bit grim. You follow Nora Seed, a woman who seemingly had every chance in the world to have an amazing life (smart, champion athlete, musical), only to be held back by anxiety or other circumstance, and instead she's ...more
That's not to say it's bad--there were points were it really got going--but I had huge expectations going into this, just based on everything I'd heard about Matt Haig.
The first part of the book seemed to live up to them, even if it was a bit grim. You follow Nora Seed, a woman who seemingly had every chance in the world to have an amazing life (smart, champion athlete, musical), only to be held back by anxiety or other circumstance, and instead she's ...more

Exploring choices in life; I do this a lot. What would’ve happened if.... I usually imagine it as a much better alternative too. Probably because it’s something one does when feeling dissatisfied with life in some way. What would my review be like if there wasn’t a high-pitched screaming child outside my house for instance?
If you had the chance to choose to live one of those other lives, would you? What lessons would you learn?
If you had the chance to choose to live one of those other lives, would you? What lessons would you learn?

This reminded me a bit of the films "It's a Wonderful Life" & "Sliding Doors". The question of all the possible lives you could have led and what effect you've had on the world (and what your absence might mean). Haig's books that I'd read previously really resonated with me and this one continued that trend. I feel like at times they can be overwrought or almost corny, but I don't care -- they work for me.
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