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Probably not the best book to read on the cusp of a Major Birthday - Nora is going through a mid-life crisis of sorts, dissatisfied with her life (more about the "what might have beens" than the "what is") when the Shahid family enters her life.
Nora (clearly named after Ibsen's heroine) is a very popular third grade teacher in Cambridge and Reza Shahid is a transfer student from Paris (of Palestinian/Lebanese and Italian descent). After a schoolyard bullying incident, his mother Sirena (no, tha ...more
Nora (clearly named after Ibsen's heroine) is a very popular third grade teacher in Cambridge and Reza Shahid is a transfer student from Paris (of Palestinian/Lebanese and Italian descent). After a schoolyard bullying incident, his mother Sirena (no, tha ...more

When I heard descriptions of the book, I thought that Nora Eldridge lived upstairs from the Shahids, but the Woman Upstairs is a metaphor coined by Nora to describe herself. "We're always upstairs...We're the quiet woman at the end of the third-floor hallway, whose trash is always tidy, who smiles brightly in the stairwell with a cheerful greeting, and who, from behind closed doors, never makes a sound. In our lives of quiet desperation, the woman upstairs is who we are, with or without a goddam
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This is a hard book to rate because I thought that the language was beautiful. However, this was seriously depressing. 37 and your life is over? You can't look forward to anything anymore? You need to become obsessed with some random family? I understand what the author was trying to say but I wasn't a fan.
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I have never cared less about a character and what happens to her. Nothing from the first 35 pages grabbed on to me. Such a shame. I love Emperor's Children.
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Leah
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