From the Bookshelf of What's the Name of That Book???…
Find A Copy At
Group Discussions About This Book
No group discussions for this book yet.
What Members Thought

I tend to be a plot focused reader, and after reading some of the complaints of other readers about this novel, I feel like maybe I missed something. I liked the characters a lot, and even though the dialog was sometimes plain, i felt that it was realistic. No one actually speaks like the characters in a Dickens novel, anyway. I can't say for sure whether this book as an accurate description of chinese culture during the cultural revolution, but i can say that the social and personal conflicts s
...more

With it's simple prose, this book captures so many themes. Honoring parents and customs, waiting (truly the most apt-titled book I've ever read) for love, longing for what you don't have, standing by commitments made, and then regretting decisions.
I couldn't help myself from thinking of 2 of my favorite songs. One by Sheryl Crowe with the classic line of "It's not having what you want,
it's wanting what you've got." The other, a favorite by the Eagles, Wasted Time - "And I could have done so many ...more
I couldn't help myself from thinking of 2 of my favorite songs. One by Sheryl Crowe with the classic line of "It's not having what you want,
it's wanting what you've got." The other, a favorite by the Eagles, Wasted Time - "And I could have done so many ...more

Clearly, the two intertwined themes of this novel are "Don't listen to bad advice" and "Don't be friends with assholes."
...more

It's hard for me to separate my disdain for the main character from the quality of the writing and story, but it was a fascinating glimpse into Revolutionary China, and it was rather grimly humorous.
...more

I suspect there was a lot more political allegory in the plot than I picked up on. It's a story of love delayed during the Cultural Revolution in China.
...more

Ha Jin is one of my favorite Chinese fiction writers; he manages to be "lyrical" and "accessible" at the same time.
...more

Oct 01, 2007
Liz Laurin
added it

Feb 29, 2008
Bette
marked it as to-read

Oct 04, 2008
Sue
marked it as to-read

Oct 10, 2011
erin
marked it as to-read

Feb 15, 2012
Judith
marked it as to-read

Feb 25, 2016
Celeste
marked it as to-read