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Jenny (Reading Envy)
The Friend by Sigrid Nunez is a finalist for the National Book Award. I first heard about it from Nadine, a guest on Episode 129 of the Reading Envy Podcast. I enjoyed the themes of the novel - grief, friendship, dogs, writing - but more than that I appreciated the style, which felt like fiction as essay or autobiographical fiction, more musings than plot. My kind of read. ...more
Jane
May 25, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
A beautiful book about loss and the subsequent relationship between a woman and her lost lover's dog. Nunez is an amazing writer. Tender, poetic, and when necessary, completely straightforward. A small gorgeous book. I read a short story this author wrote years ago in Three Penny Review. It too was compelling, autobiographical, and breathtakingly violent. ...more
Clifford
Jan 19, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: novels
I liked it, but there's a reason why novels about writers are problematic. It's a fine character study, but there isn't enough story here to back it up. ...more
Mary Anne
Dec 06, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: book-club, cr
This book won the 2018 National Book Award for fiction, and with good reason. It's written as if the author is journaling about the suicide of her lifelong friend and mentor, trying to make sense of it all. Shortly after the funeral, the friend's widow asks the narrator to take his aging dog, who also seems to be grieving. The narrator and the friend are both writers, so much of the story revolves around writing and a writing teacher's life.

This book is so beautifully written. It's not a tear-je
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Kate
Nov 29, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
One of if not the best book I have read all year. It is a wonderful read about love, grief and dogs. I absolutely relished every second of it. No wonder it just won the National Book Award.
Joyce
Jun 09, 2019 rated it liked it
I enjoyed it very much.
Barbara
Though the writing on a sentence level is excellent, the book as a whole left me a bit cold. I wish I could give it 3.5 stars but I can't justify 4. ...more
Linda
Dec 28, 2017 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
angeleen
Mar 23, 2019 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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Paula
Nov 13, 2018 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
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Nov 16, 2018 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Linda
Nov 19, 2018 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Rose
Jan 25, 2019 rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
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Feb 19, 2019 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
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May 01, 2019 marked it as to-read
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Oct 03, 2019 rated it really liked it
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Oct 13, 2019 rated it it was amazing
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