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BAD READING HABITS?
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May 31, 2020 10:46AM

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For various reasons, including the fact that I was an only child, my mother wanted me to be active and socialise. In additon to my chores she kept discovering sports or arts clubs I needed to go to, insisted I create scrapbooks from all our holidays or write letters to friends and relations.
As an adult I have grown-up with a yearning to read but a feeling of guilt if I do so when there is any housework to be done, even when it is my husband's turn at a chore I feel guilty leaving him to do it while I read.
As a result I have piles of books on my shelves but read very slowly.



I find that I'm the exact same as you! Once I start a new book, I could hardly put it down although my conscience is urging me to get a grip on myself. But I just can't! Even when I feel really guilty and pick up my work, the plot and the characters just keep swimming lazily to the front of my mind, as if testing my inner strength to ignore them, taunting me to get back to the book when I so obviously have so much to do! It's just frustrating!

I felt that on a soulful level. I feel bad for the books, sometimes I don't even look at them because I feel that they can sense my shame.

-My friends want to go out and do teen stuff, while I just want to read books.
- As a child, I would rather read than be social with other children my age.
-I have so many books, that I have not reading. And I tell myself that I'm waiting for the right time for them.
-I half read books, and start new one, without finishing ones I started.
- I make my body refuse its functions to finish reading. ( I KNOW IT BAD)
- I get scolded for staying up late to finish/read my books.
- I buy bookmarks, but misplace them and use a random small object to keep my place. ( I think I have over 25 bookmarks, but I'm currently using a bobby pin as a book marker*~*)
- I know I should donate my books, but I'm too emotional attach to them that I try to hold on to them as long as possible.
- For my english classes I would finish the book we were assigned and asked for the next book we had to read. This caused the teacher to tell me I'm weeks ahead of the class.
- I try to fit all my books on my bookshelf, and in the process they get hurt.
- Everytime I got to a book store, I end up buying more books. Which causes me to limit my bookstore adventures.

I have a collection of over a hundred bookmarks but actually use receipts or bus tickets.
My daughter made some booksmarks to pass time during lockdown and gave me one. I felt I must use it but somehow left it in the book after I finished reading and lost it :0(
That is why I store all my pretty bookmarks in a box.

Reading ahead (either on the same page, reading the last few pages or flipping through pages) because I am terrible at suspenseful things and surprises
always some how getting the book wet.
Cracking the spins, and messing up the covers (paper back books)
And never using actually book marks, I usually use bus tickets, recites or a random piece of paper. I don't even think I own an actual book mark 🤭





My other bad habit is reading when tired where the book will fall on my face or I will have a very sore thumb for holding the book there. I also will try to get to the end of the chapter, but yhe next day re-read a paragraph or more because I didn't comprehend what I read the night before.
I agree with someone else about not folding the corners of the pages in your book especially if you are not keeping that book. I agree use a bookmark or if you're like me and want to keep your brain sharp, memorize the page number. I usually try to finish a chapter to know what page I left off, but if I am starting to pass out I look at the page number and quickly memorize it.

This has gotten substantially worse this year, because I've been in self-isolation since March, and basically my only consolation from *gestures at the everything* has been the tiny serotonin boosts from impulse purchases... 😳💸📚📚📚

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Also I have the bad habit of putting off or completely skipping sleep so I can read more.

My TBR barely gets smaller because of this and I feel very frustrated whenever this happens. Or rather, whenever I do this to myself.



I also have a bad habit of drinking coffee late at night while reading and even though I cherish my books and take VERY good care of them, I am clumsy and end of spilling a drop of coffee on the cover or top of the book. If I don't then I just can't sleep for hours.

I have this really annoying streak that even if the book is boooooring.....i still like to finish it i hate leaving a book unfinished i dont know if thats a good thing or not? But it bugs me that i like to torture myself 😂😂😂 but mehhh! Its a book at the end of the day! Shrugs***
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