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Discussion: Those Bones Are Not My Child

Those Bones Are Not My Child is from the perspective of the ordinary folks on the block in Atlanta who lived through a time of fear.


I will try to keep up with the schedule - this week will be tough for me as I am in the process of moving.


I will try to keep up with the schedule - this week will be tough for me as I am in the process ..."
My copy has been sitting on my shelf for many years also, Beverly.

Jean, you are so correct. The depth and impact of the stories in Gorilla, My Love resonate so fondly years after reading them. This group had a lively and passionate discussion about the book a couple of years ago if memory holds correctly.
Before reading Gorilla I had never heard of Bambara. But, since then I've run across many social and political groups/forums i.e....women/african american/feminist/lesbian groups, who have used her writings and past activism for group discussions and to sort of highlight or promote their agenda. Still influential with many folk long after her death.
Before reading Gorilla I had never heard of Bambara. But, since then I've run across many social and political groups/forums i.e....women/african american/feminist/lesbian groups, who have used her writings and past activism for group discussions and to sort of highlight or promote their agenda. Still influential with many folk long after her death.

Alexa wrote: "This will be my first experience with Bambara. I've got the book, although I have to admit I'm kind of afraid of it - this may be more intense than I can deal with."
Same here, Alexa. I had mentioned that to Wilhelmina as well. I certainly would love to read it for Bambara's writing alone, but the subject matter is just too much for me at this time. Never thought I would say that about a book but with the current national affairs with young black boys dying from police brutality and my own personal involvement with little ones, I couldn't possibly handle it right now. Must've been a difficult book to write, too.
Same here, Alexa. I had mentioned that to Wilhelmina as well. I certainly would love to read it for Bambara's writing alone, but the subject matter is just too much for me at this time. Never thought I would say that about a book but with the current national affairs with young black boys dying from police brutality and my own personal involvement with little ones, I couldn't possibly handle it right now. Must've been a difficult book to write, too.


It was apparently difficult for Bambara, master of the short story, to compile all of her thoughts about that time into a readable novel. At the time of her death, she had written well over 1000 pages and she had been writing this book for 12 years. I can't imagine the editing job that Toni Morrison had to do!


That would be great, Catherine!
Has anyone read the entire book already?



The prologue is beautifully written. Can we start talking about the prologue on Thursday?

I'm curious how much of reality she uses here - yet I don't want to mess with my experience of the novel by looking up any facts!

I'm curious how much of reality she uses here - yet I don't want to mess with my experience of the novel by looking up any facts!"
It's interesting for me because I live in Atlanta, right in the middle of the community she's describing. I didn't move here until 1987, but it's still a bit eerie.

Great, Janet and George!
We never have to stop at the end of the month, Janet. The threads always stay open.

I agree with Alexa that the prologue is gripping. Bambara does a beautiful job of showing the fear and disorientation that persisted in the wake of the child murders. I don't think that I had considered before that the children of this period would probably be far more resilient than the adults. Living in constant fear for your child would have to leave a parent with a kind of PTSD.


I finished the absolutely compelling prologue, turned the page to see that Part I was dated a year and a half earlier, and had to put the book down again. After that introduction I was once again afraid I just didn't have the strength to keep reading. But I did - she's such a compelling writer that she draws me in, in spite of all my fears.


I have been listening/reading comments on this site and collecting recommended readings but have seldom had time to participate in the discussions. However I started the sample pages of Cade-Bambara's "Those Bones Are Not My Children" and must say that in those few sample pages she really captured the internal process of those of us who were young Mothers during that period. Here in Oakland we went to the bus stop in groups with Smith and Wesson 38s in our apron pockets and crazy tears dammed in the back of our eyes. I'm ordering the paper copy so I can write in the margins, dog ear the corners and stain the words with my tears. As a last offering Toni has blessed us with a heart wrenching memory of the challenges we face just to stay sane as we stay alive. Thanks for the existence of this group. Teish

As we move into Parts I and II, we are taken back to 1980 and are introduced to Mazrala, a single mother, and two of her children, Kofi and Kenti. The family member who we do not meet is Sundiata, called Sonny, who has not come home as expected. I was particularly struck by the family's initial effort to find an explanation for Sonny's absence with the knowledge of murdered children always in the background. Even as Marzala seeks help from the authorities, everyone wants there to be some other explanation

Teish


I have been listening/reading comments on this site and collecting recommended readings but have seldom had time to participate in the discussions. However I started the sample..."
Luisah, I have a son who was 10 years old at the time of this book. I was in DC at the time - I moved to Atlanta in 1987 - but I remember clearly the horror of knowing that boys like my son were being murdered in Atlanta. Terrible times.

Then in Part II she shifts to a different style, and we get vignettes of Zala's and Spence's attempts to do something, anything, while struggling through their days - again I would have thought this episodic story-telling, with so many gaps in the events, would have driven me crazy - but it works amazingly, beautifully well. And then, just when I, as the reader, was getting just a touch too comfortable, settling a bit too easily into accepting the loss, she throws out at us the torture films and the pictures. Wow!!!


I remember the incidents well enough but I didn't have any kids old enough to worry about at the time and we didn't live in the Atlanta area. so, I don't feel it quite as viscerally as some folks clearly do here. Very disturbing, yes.
I can remember lots of conversations with family and friends at the time over whether Williams was really guilty or not.

I agree that the style reinforces the chaos and paranoia of the times.
Catherine, please do what is best for you. There will be other books and other discussions! Take care!

Do you think that the family should be more forthcoming with the authorities in these early chapters?

should they have been more forthcoming? well, yes, assuming they had any expectations that the authorities had any actual interest in solving things. since they didn't, their reluctance to share information isn't all that hard to understand. and of course, they're half convinced the police are involved. The end of part two doesn't exactly help build confidence in the police for the reader.


I also think the episodic jumping around also mirrors their lack of control. It certainly gives me that sense, with no control over what will be shown next and with no follow-up with vital facts!
I'm impressed with how she shows us different aspects of the characters. For example we first see Spence through Zala's eyes, at a time when she is completely exasperated with him. Then we realize he's not composed of simply all the flaws Zala saw, and that in fact she actually has a great deal of affection for him. Then there are the tiny facts Bambara slowly gives us. Dave tells the story of Zala's pregnancy that she tries to hide while she's in school living with her aunt in New York. And then Spence remembers dating Zala while he's apparently a freshman in college. And then Zala is asked her age during the lie detector test and it suddenly hits that Zala was 14 and Spence was 19 when Sonny was born! And we're left with that awkward juxtaposition with this tale of missing (and possibly sexually exploited) children.

The men who have returned from the Vietnam War are sometimes shown as a source of strength and sometimes are seen as suspects. What did you think of the way that the veterans are shown here?

Better than the Hollywood Rambo image of Stallone anyway, who supposedly wanted to show how Nam vets were misunderstood by portraying a fairly crazed Nam vet who proceeded to take out the entire town for mistreating him.


And the clear truth that when all three are against you....
Books mentioned in this topic
The Salt Eaters (other topics)Gorilla, My Love (other topics)
Gorilla, My Love (other topics)
Those Bones Are Not My Child (other topics)
Leaving Atlanta (other topics)
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Authors mentioned in this topic
Toni Cade Bambara (other topics)Toni Morrison (other topics)
Tayari Jones (other topics)
Kim Reid (other topics)
Is everyone familiar with the Atlanta child murders? There is a ton of information about them on the Internet. One important thing to remember is that there is no consensus of opinion about who committed the murders and why. Bambara's book is very much from her own perspective.
Have you read any other books about the murders? I have read Tayari Jones fictional book Leaving Atlanta as well as No Place Safe, a memoir by Kim Reid.
What about other works by Toni Cade Bambara? I am a huge fan of her short stories. If you haven't read them, this is one of my favorites:
http://cai.ucdavis.edu/gender/theless...
Here is some information about Bambara:
http://www.georgiawritershalloffame.o...
And reviews of Those Bones Are Not My Child:
http://articles.chicagotribune.com/19...
https://www.nytimes.com/books/00/01/0...
This is not a short book, so I hope that we can jump into the prologue and Part 1 very soon!