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The Reluctant Widow July 2015 Chapters 1-10

I'll be listening to the audio book this time :)

Loving the vivid descriptions; I can really see the surroundings for each scene. The story is wildly improbable, but all the more delicious for that. And another great dog! (But sorry, Bouncer, Ulysses from Arabella still my favorite.)


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I remember liking it, but it not being one of my top five GH reads.
My strongest memory is that ding dong dog! <3 The dogs in her books are all awesome, even poor old PUG from Friday's Child. (Yes, I have pugs, but not overfeed and fat).


I already started by saying I love the early scene where Heyer has Miss Rochdale slightly freaked out by the run down mansion and then the supposed "Mr. Macclesfield" and the dialog where he is talking about his bum cousin and she thinks it's a seven year old - did I mention I love this book?
I also love the intro of Nicky and all the interplay between the three brothers. Eustace is the only character that doesn't seem fully drawn and who cares? he is just a plot device, so she can be a widow (reluctantly!)
nice interactions with the doctor,rector and the staff at the inn. don't worry, everyone will swear it wasn't Nicky's fault, even if they weren't there!





Nicky is such an attractive character, and more of Carlyon's (excellent) character is revealed by Nicky's complete faith in his ability to make everything all right again, even the killing of his cousin! (I wonder why John is so prosy? Is he perhaps a little jealous of Nicky?)
The dream-like quality of the rest of the night, when seen through Elinor's eyes, is very good too -- she must be exhausted from travelling in a stage coach all day. (Incidentally, how many stage coaches go through that part of the world? I'm surprised she and Nicky didn't find themselves travelling companions.) The switch to another point of view is seamlessly done -- almost Carlyon's, but not quite because we don't get any insight into his thoughts.
We see through Elinor's eyes how attractive he is, especially in the description of him just before breakfast -- those very broad shoulders!
I am enjoying my re-read (for the nth time) very much.

There is a wonderful moment when she and Carlyon talk about Elinor's father, the famous whip and his much-coveted greys, when Elinor's loss is made clear. Carlyon understands this totally and Elinor is almost undone by how completely he comprehends the painful reality of her new life.
Carlyon is quite likable here--undeniably handsome, clearly someone his brothers admire and trust absolutely. He's managing and very decisive, but I find it less grating than it might be since Carlyon has clearly been required to handle a large and bumptious family for years.
I like the skillful way GH draws each family member. Nicky rather dangerously cavalier and young for his age, John so prosy, but also touchingly devoted to Carlyon.


I've been trying to pay attention to whether or not Carlyon comes off best in all of their exchanges, because it seems that he does. She's intelligent and full of humor, but I wonder if he always gets the best of her because she's spent the last six years trying to get her personality under control? Although she's being sarcastic with him, his dry wit seems to always trump hers. And I love that she sees that, too, and is torn between laughter and annoyance!

I love the beginning when Elinor gets on the wrong coach and there is the misunderstanding with Carlyon. Although I do wonder: what became of Mrs Macclesfield's coach? Did she forget that the new governess was coming that day?
The only thing I'm not mad about with this book is Nicky (he's terrifically well-written, and I have known young men like him, but heavens! they are mind-boggling irritating people to be around) and his blankety-blank dog.

Alternatively, you can get it digitally. I get mine through Audible, which is part of the Amazon group. You pay so much a month and get so many credits each year. You buy audiobooks using either a credit or (when it's cheaper, e.g. when they have a sale) cash. All your audiobooks are kept in your library in the cloud, and you can download them onto different devices and even cut yourself CD copies if you want to (and have the technology and knowledge). But there are Audible apps averrable for a wide variety of phones and devices, and they're very easy to use. Just be sure to check that your device is compatible before you subscribe.

The stagecoach actually arrives a few minutes early; Heyer notes that the driver checks the time and realizes he can grab a quick pint at the inn before continuing on his way. Given that, it would only take the Macclesfield gig being a few minutes late for it to miss Elinor entirely.

Sorry Howard, but I think she does mysteries rather well - they are indeed the personification of their era and both her historical and contemporary fiction totally reflect what the genre was like at the time of writing. However if you don't think she does the genre well, you may as forget an awful lot of her books!

oh, that's not who you mean. well, that doesn't belong in this thread, too early.
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ooh, I forgot her - another excellent character.

Her mysteries have good characterization - but they are pretty obvious. Still, my biggest complaint was in having the elite getting away with murder.

I think the enjoyment we experience depends on what we're reading for. I tend to read Heyer for the wit and humor and the characters themselves, although I do think several of her mysteries have clever solutions: A Blunt Instrument comes to mind.

Murder means many things according to the many different laws of our world. Trying to take into account what I little I know of any legal system, I do not think the death at the beginning of the book was murder at all.

It certainly was not, according to the law of England and Wales (the applicable law for Nicky). A crucial element of murder is mens rea, the intention to unlawfully cause either death or serious injury. At no point did Nicky form that intention. He knocked Eustace down with his fists, after provocation, but he did not snatch up the knife. He ended up wrestling Eustace for the knife to stop Eustace from hurting him with it, and Eustace was stabbed entirely by accident.
Had Eustace killed Nicky he would have been guilty of murder, because he picked up the knife to use it against Nicky. It is extremely likely that hurting someone with a knife will cause death or serious injury.
Eustace was a member of "the elite" just as much as Nicky was, but the coroner's jury would have found Nicky's death to be murder (had Eustace succeeded in his intention), and Eustace would have been tried.



Hey, Howard, I just posted some thoughts about the murder in the spoiler thread. Share yours, too, there!

I didn't know about spoiler threads! Thanks


Just saying..."
My younger brother was so different that I can't even relate Nicky to him!

The second is more like John, and the third has MNT (Moderate Nicky Tendencies).
Thankfully, no Eustaces.
I think GH is spot on with birth order personalities.

The second is more like John, and the third has MNT (Moderate Nicky Tendencies).
Thankfully, no Eustaces.
I think GH is spot on with bi..."
Oh, dear, my brother was closer to a Eustace than a Nicky. But that's not fair, since he wasn't that bad! Looking at other families near and dear to me, I do see several Nickys-in-training. A few more years...

I got my audio copy from Audible too.

ooh, I forgot her - another excellent character."
Yes I'd like to agree re Becky too, she is so perfect with Nicky ( gruel and so on) and of course, finds Carlyon utterly perfect . What is it that Elinor says crossly - "oh only let a man tyrannise over you Becky and you think him perfection " or something like that . I believe Miss Beccles had just opined (in a comfortable manner) that it is always best to leave it for gentlemen to decide things.......

The various comments made by Carlyon and Elinor regarding her possible life as a governess, is very much in line with the description of the role in Agnes Grey.

When my husband and I listened to TRW together, Nicky strongly reminded both of us of a former colleague of mine--charming, amiable, feckless, irrepressible. I called him a helium balloon.

I find Carlyon's motivation weak as well.
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Is this anyone's first time?
What format are you using?
This is of the ones I have read countless times, but not for a very long time! My memory of it has it as a 4*
I have unearthed my battered old Pan as I don't want my Arrow to get all beat up in the luggage.