What's the Name of That Book??? discussion

This was a book I received back in 2005 or 2006. It is a memoir, and i think it may have been published between 2003 and 2006. It was written by a motivational speaker who used to be a surfer back in the mid 1990s.I believe he was surfing in Malibu, CA when he had his accident. The author had dark blond hair, and in his story he was engaged at the time of his accident, and I think he had a younger brother. His accident caused him to be wheel chair bound.
Also, I think he was a Christian, and the book cover was white with a picture of him in a wheel chair, in a tan colored suit perhaps and smiling. I'm pretty sure that he ends up marrying his fiance, and I think his accident happened around 1996. I think his name may have been Matthew.
THE man is not Christian Bailey and I have had a very difficult time finding this book.
For some reason I thought it might be called 'Live your life to the fullest' or something similar.

Rem, do you remember if the majority of the book was about the man adjusting to life in a wheelchair, or his life prior to his accident?

Jesse Billauer, perhaps?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jesse_B...

Life is an Attitude: How Tragedy Taught Me That Life is an Attitude

Maybe this one?

Atina yes that's it!!!! Thank you so much it was Life is an Attitude by Ron Heagy.