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I just finished The Argonauts, actually for Emma Watson's Feminist Book Club, but it works for this category as well. I have to think more about it before I really know how I felt about it, but it definitely held my attention.

My daughter is almost 10 (same as the kids in the book) and she has no idea about any of that. She was asking me the other day what transgender meant after seeing it on my challenge sheet.

My son knew that Gay people loved people of the same gender in preschool. He had 3 friends with same sex parents in his class. He didn't know what sex was until several years later, but he understood love. I am not sure how old he was when he knew about transgender people, but definitely not more than 5 or 6. I don't think it is surprising at all that 10 year olds would have a basic understanding of gender identification. My friend has a transgender 8 year old who started identifying male 2 years ago, and his friends never had a big problem with that.

Well, she knows now because I explained it to her, but I don't know how well she understands the concept. She probably gets the concepts, but I'm not sure how well she associates the terminology. Attending a small private Catholic school, she probably doesn't get exposed to that too much. So I try not to shy away from it at home. I guess it also depends on where you live. We live deep in the south, where many folks are slow to embrace change.

Yes, I live in the south too, but in Atlanta so its a bit different from the surrounding area. Location definitely makes a difference. I was (very pleasantly) surprised when my friend's son said he was a boy, and he was no longer pretending to be a girl, and it barely had any impact at school or with friends/family. I know it would not have been so easy if we lived outside of a metropolitan area.





Reading this made me feel like I was reading something so vital to today, to now, and I really recommend this book!





Here are a couple websites with children's and YA transgender book lists http://www.yalsa.ala.org/yals/trans-t... and https://www.theguardian.com/childrens...


Synopsis, with spoilers: A 17 y.o. boy in England is framed for murder, so goes into hiding dressed as a girl, realized he always secretly wanted to be a girl. Shaved her legs for the first time in a bathroom stall at an airport, and it went fine, no mess, no slip and fall, no cuts or nicks. Right there my BS alarm went off. Then she happens to find the right people to trust with her secrets. She has money, buys a new wardrobe, gets fake ID, and bs somehow great at applying her makeup and walking in heels. Suddenly she's a confident woman. She foils an intentional terrorist plot in Europe, gets recruited by the CIA, commissioned a lieutenant in the US Air Force. She goes to college for less than a year (as an undercover agent) and is awarded a bachelor's degree because she's so smart. Oh, and she finds true love.
Peppered throughout this 'story' was misogynistic crap, like she had to pretend to not know computers so's not to damage some boy's ego.
Probably the worst book I've had the misfortune to read this year.







Here's one, maybe: The Underground Girls of Kabul: In Search of a Hidden Resistance in Afghanistan.
The girls and women in the book don't have the word or concept transgender, but clearly, to us, some of them are.



According to past posts from the Moderators, that definitely sounds like it fits the bill!
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