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My recommendation is to let it go and not engage further. Doing so can be a detriment to you as an author and is generally frowned upon by Goodreads.

You mentioned that not having read enough and rating it is dishonest. In my humble opinion, asking a reviewer NOT to rate/review a book because they didn't like it is just as devious and maybe that is why she is reacting this way.
My advice would be to forget about it and let it go. It's only one rating, one person's opinion.

In that context I think she is being mischievous and malicious and possibly using me to promote her website/ her own agenda.

Take all opinions as people's opinions and try not to let it bother you or draw you in difficult situations.
Just my 2cents!






As for you asking her not to review it that is certainly your right but it is equally her prerogative to rate or review as she pleases. If we only posted reviews of books we thought were amazing reads people would soon lose faith in the review process.
I am quite surprised you did not want to know her reasons for not liking your book. As an author, would you not want to know possible ways in which to improve your craft? Constructive criticism is what makes us better at what we do. is it possible that your feelings were hurt and you failed to handle it properly or put things in the best light? Usually the best thing to do when dealing with reviewers is to thank them for their time and keep it moving. It simply is not worth it to lose sleep over one bad review. Read the reviews for E.L. James' 50 Shades books and you will understand. Were she to worry about negative reviews she would not have enough time to enjoy her millions!
These are just my opinions and I hope you continue to write and do what you do because you love it. Best of luck to you.


80 pages is actually not too bad. Never forget that it is their time and if they can't go further, they just can't. I have a reviewer who only read the free sample. He didn't like it and wrote his review around the few pages he read. It was his right. I'm not saying I was happy he didn't like it, but his reasons were valid and I've learned from it (and changed things too).
Like Tara said, I'm quite surprised you were not curious enough to accept her offer to let you know why. I would gladly accept such offer.

One way to look at the situation in my view is that.... we should encourage reviewers to be fair by not rating or reviewing a book just by reading less than a quarter.... I certainly wouldnt do that to anyone....whether or not I liked the book. Thats the respect I would give to my Goodreads colleagues.



Claiming the reviewer had malicious intent is a baseless accusation and I am kindly asking that you refrain from making comments like this for two reasons:
1- it is against our rules of no negativity and no calling out of individuals for specific behavior that you do not agree with
2- it is again in your best interest to refrain from making comments in a public forum that could lead to relaliatory behavior by users who may see this as bad author behavior. We have seen this happen all too often. In almost all situations, not only does the author find themselves with a sudden influx of one star reviews, but further engagement usually leads to Goodreads removing the author's profile status and banning them.
We don't want to see bad things happen to authors, which is why we have rules. Please abide by them.

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i Garfield. Just popping in to say this is all meant to help. Others have said that it's best to chalk it up to nothing more than it is: one bad review. Tomorrow's a brighter day with the potential for other readers who might enjoy it. Everyone has their reasons for doing what they do. Headaches arise when we try to make everyone fit on the same tiny tugboat of opinion. Also, it'll sink. Let's all stay dry and positive, shall we?
Good night, good day, good evening.

So the reviewer is allowed to do that and if an author speaks about they become the villain





It also notes under her review "unfinished" so people reading the review know she didn't get through it. Plus, I highly doubt anyone is going to message a single reviewer for her to go through her reasons about what she didn't like. In some ways, perhaps this is her being courteous, rather than laying out what she perceives as faults for all to see.
Take it on the chin, look at it in context of other positive reviews, and move on - that's my advice.

When an author puts his or her work out there, they should know that not everyone will like it and they should accept it. No matter how many times you ask the same question, I am afraid you'll always get the same answer. It is not well seen to call someone malicious.
You can take it up with Goodreads if you don't agree with their politics but debating it here won't do any good. On the contrary, it can only do harm.
In the spirit of saving you some headaches with things you might say and regret in the morning I think I will go ahead and close this thread.
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I provided a copy of my book to some one for a review. After she started it she emailed me to say she didnt like it. I politely told her thats okay and asked her not to write a review. She also asked me if I wanted her reasons, I declined her reasons. I thought that was the end of it. She had already indicated on Goodreads that she only read 80 pages of 416, that is less than a quarter of the book, this was when she emailed me to say she didnt like it. I thought she was being courteous to tell me that she didnt like it as I had given her a copy.
A few days after I asked her not to write a review and I thought that was the end of it, a few days later she emailing me to say she rated it. A rating in my view is tantamount to a review.
If that wasnt enough .... she also went a step further and wrote there on my review page "If anyone would like the reasons for my star rating, I am happy to give my opinion about this book." This basically is inviting the public to ask her what she thinks about the book. I asked her to remove her invitation to the public and the rating, she insists that she is not removing it. Let me make it clear that it is not case that I want her to write a good review just because I gave her a copy. My issues are:
1. She read less than a quarter of the book (80 pages of 416) to rate a book on less than a quarter is disingenuous and mischievous in my view, and borders on being dishonest.
2. She told me she didnt like it ....so I asked her not to...yet a few days later she goes there and insists on rating it. I thought she told me that she didnt like because she was returning the courtesy as I gave her a copy VERSUS she buying one.
3. If she had bought a copy then I would not dare ask her not to review and rate it, BUT since she got a courtesy copy I figured she could return the courtesy and not rate it coupled with the fact that she didnt read even a quarter of the book.
This leads me to wonder if she is being malicious and using controversy to promote herself and her own website. It may be a way for her to drive traffic t her website.
Any guidance from anyone?