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Thanks for sharing the link...But it makes you feel very strange, I mean, these situations have happened to me and the third situations stills happens in my city. And it is very stressful just to insult everyone that does this, you became a little mad using verbal violence. Parents must be aware of that, but ultimately these adult men have the choice not to behave like that. Thanks!

Nobody is saying to insult everyone who does this. There are lots of different ways to push back. The author is saying that when her friend talked back it felt amazing to her because she realized yes this is actually wrong what those men are doing and we don't have to put up with it. But that doesn't mean everyone has to do exactly what her friend did. Just that we can all realize its not okay and try in our own ways to change it.

I know what she is saying, but any response has violence in it because the origin is violence against women. The only way seems to be just teaching to new generations but sometimes backlash happens.

Just a suggestion: You might want to title your topic something more descriptive. That way, people will be more likely to click if they know what the content is of the link you've shared :)