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Aug 12, 2016 04:38PM

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When I'm tired, or really overstimulated I have trouble focusing. I wind down by washing the dishes or taking a walk and listening to an audiobook.

I have difficulties getting into classics now, very different with 10 years ago.






But again, reading should be a pleasure, not a competition or a chore. Without knowing anything about you or the books you have to read, I'd recommend this:
Look at the books you have unread. Put them in three buckets:
1) Really Want To Read (highly anticipated, things you look forward to a lot),
2) Want to read (Less highly anticipated but still things you definitely want to read. For me, this might be book 3 in a series I like but don't love),
3) Books you don't care about that much.
If you own the books in group 3 as paper books, sell or give them away.
When you feel ready to read, pick something from the first group. And so on. If you're not in the mood to read, don't.

But again, reading should be a pleasure, not a competition or a chore. Without knowing anything about you or the books you hav..."
Rick's suggestion is a great idea. I did something similar - I realized I wasn't getting around to reading books I really cared about, so I made a list of Books to Read, which is my priority list.

I recently started one of the Books Everyone Should Read Before They Die (I won't say which one because you'll think I'm a Terrible Person) -- and I realized about 10% in that I just didn't care that much about what happened to any of the characters. So when it expired at the library I just didn't renew it. My mind kept wandering to other things...

I recently started one of the Books Everyone Should Read Before They Die (I won't say which one because you'll think I'm a Terrible Person) -- and I realized about 10% in that I just didn't care that much about what happened to any of the characters."
You can put the Book Everyone Should Read Before They Die That You Didn't Care About in spoiler tags ;-)

I prefer Books Everyone Should Read Before They Die, Unless They Don't Want To, Which Is Totally Fine, Each To Their Own. I'll admit it's a less punchy title, but, yeah, even (sometimes especially) the books held in high esteem are not for everybody.
I agree with what Rick is saying. I think the older we get, the more we become aware that we won't be able to read everything, and then there is a temptation to try and get through as much as possible, at which point you're not really reading anymore, just running your eyes over words as quickly as possible. Plus I think society as a whole is increasingly pushing towards targets and multitasking, so just reading a book can be hard, because a part of your brain is thinking - how can I use this time more efficiently, which might explain why audiobooks are so appealing, even when there's a preference for actual books.
I get this way myself, where I set aside time to read, and yet cannot get my mind to actually relax. For myself, a little meditation seems to help to still my brain and stop it from throwing up a jumble of tasks I need to complete when I'm trying to enjoy a good story.

I love that.

If one feels obligated to get through their pile of hundreds of books, then it become a stressful chore.

Maybe find a peaceful time of day to read? The problem may not be reading concentration. It may be too much going on.

I have similar insomnia experiences. My kindle paperwhite has been invaluable for those times. I can read in the dark, without disturbing my sweetie, until I fall back asleep. And if I never do, I'm still resting body and mind, and not lying there stressing myself over not sleeping. As you mentioned, my reading volume has definitely also increased. :-)
Sometimes, a book is just not right for my mood/situation/season/stress-level/whatever. That doesn't mean that I don't want to read it or that I never will - it just isn't what I enjoy reading right now. And I'm much less tolerant of trying to slog through something that isn't doing it for me these days. When I find that right-for-right-now book, it becomes effortless to read, rather than a struggle. (Again, this is something that my kindle is just perfect for: I can 'taste test' multiple titles from my Read Next collection, without crawling out of my cozy blankets, until I find the one that is juuust right.)


That said, I've often had it happen that a book just doesn't work for me at a time. If possible, I switch formats, and if that doesn't work, I put it on the back-burner. Sometimes I go back to it, sometimes not.
Right now, "deep" books aren't working for me. I've spent a lot of time listening to audiobooks of "popcorn books" (which for me, are mystery/thriller types). I'm making my way through the "Nikki Heat" books (from Castle).


I assume you haven't been tested for dyslexia or anything similar. Dyscalculia can also mess up your ability to parse letters. You might want to ask your doctor for a referral to a specialist.
New medications can do that, too, if that's something you have to deal with. Even ones you wouldn't expect, like cremes or eyedrops, because the side effects vary wildly from person to person.

I haven't been tested but Dyscalculia seems unlikely. I've always been good at math.



That's funny...I pretty much have to finish a book before starting another. Sometimes even a series. It makes me leery of long series' because I don't want to get stuck pushing through to the end of the story if I'm not otherwise enjoying the read.
