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Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close - Chapter One (June 2014)
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May 30, 2014 05:18PM

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Thank You Casceil for opening the thread since I was having so much difficulty.
“So many people enter and leave your life! Hundreds of thousands of people! You have to keep the door open so they can come in! But it also means you have to let them go!” Jonathan Safran Foer
I think we could keep this book just one thread. I am super excited to start the discussion. When you go to post and you want to discuss something, but afraid you will give something away.....there is a solution to this problem. There is something that looks like this (some html is ok) typed in the right hand corner. Click on that and choose spoiler to copy and paste in your comment. Type inside of the two spoiler words. When you do this it will look like this.. spoiler: (view spoiler)
Here are some discussion questions if you want to use them.
1. Talk about Oskar—an unusually precious child. Do you find him sympathetic or annoying? Or both?
2. For Shakespeare buffs: Oskar "plays Yorick" (the long dead jester whose skull Hamlet holds in his hand!) in a school production. What is the significance of that role? (See Hamlet: Act V, Scene I, Line 188).
3. Jonathan Safran Foer has said that he writes about characters and their miscommunications: some characters think they're saying a lot but say nothing; others say nothing but end up saying a lot. Which characters fall into which category in Extremely Loud? What might Foer be saying about our ability to communicate deep-seated emotions?
4. Some critics have wondered where Oskar's mother is and how the child is left alone to wander the streets of New York alone at night. Is that a relevant comment? Do you see this book as a work of realism (in which case the mother's role would matter) ... or as more of a fable, on the order, say, of Life of Pi? If the latter, what is Extremely Loud a fable of? (Like Pi, Oskar seems to be a quester—but of what?)
5. Do you find the illustratrions, sribblings, over-written texts, etc. a meaningful, integral part of the work? Or do you find them distracting and gimmicky? Why are they there?
6. How do both main plot and subplot (Oskar's grandfather and the bombing of Dresden) interweave with one another?
Let's get started and have some fun

I have only read 5 pages so far and already I'm pretty sure this is not going to bother me. It is an odd book...not the type that you'd want to evaluate the likelihood of everything said and done. I think I am going to like it though!




I agree with you Linda. When I saw this discussion question I was curious if anyone actually had a problem with the mother. My focus was on Oskar and his interactions and trying to find what he was looking for. I am glad you commented on this.
I've only read the first couple of chapters, but I get the impression this book falls into a category I think of as "orphan" books. Harry Potter is a good example of an orphan book. There are no parents, so Harry is forced to fend for himself. If a major point of the story is what the kid can accomplish on his own, despite the odds, the parents have to be out of the way for some reason. I find this more often in kid's books, where the kids are off having magic adventures in some place they can reach but their parents can't, like Narnia. One other recent example that comes to mind is Tell the Wolves I'm Home by Carol Rifka Brunt, in which the teenaged protagonist is the child of two accountants, and is pretty much on her own during tax season.

She loves Oskar very much, but knows he shows traits of OCD, so she allows him to discover more about his father on his own. She has her own "heavy boots" to bear, but I never questioned her love for Oskar.



I thought Max von Sydow was perfect in the film:

Both he and Oskar have been so damaged by their experiences, yet neither gives up.["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>["br"]>

Me too Julie

I also read this when it first came out. I actually got into Oskar's head and didn't even think about the mother. I'm going to enjoy this discussion for many spoiler reasons I can't talk about now.

Shouldn't this be a spoiler?

Since there is only one thread for this, I didn't think of it as a "spoiler" but as part of the background of the book. I'll wait until the end of the month and put up my review. Other book discussions have been divided into parts, so I was a bit confused when this has just one thread.
I DID mark the "spoiler" for the Renter, but this all gets too confusing for me. I'm used to our library book club where everyone has read the book prior to discussion.
I understand the problem, Julia. I think the plan for this discussion was that people would be reading the book around the same time, and commenting as they read, but it appears that many people have already read the entire book. So, I have put up a separate "spoiler thread" for those of you who have finished the book to discuss whatever you like, and the rest of us will either avoid that thread for now or read it at our peril.


Kristina wrote: "I feel terrible. I am new to this group and this is my actual first read with you guys. My other groups only do one thread and just cover spoilers until the end of the month and then let loose. I a..."
Not a big deal to do things a little differently - every group has their own way. It was awesome for you to step up and moderate on your first excursion with us!
Not a big deal to do things a little differently - every group has their own way. It was awesome for you to step up and moderate on your first excursion with us!


every group has their own way
And it is useful for us to learn from each other -- sometimes gently, sometimes roughly or even painfully -- with the difference sometimes being our own reaction rather than what was really intended by what may have been written. Kristina, thank you for stepping up and moderating this! I agree with Whitney -- I basically consider most, if perhaps not quite all, moderators to be awesome, in some aspect or another.
I am about ten percent of the way into the book and not ready to post yet, but am enjoying following the discussion. I am one of those people who is not certain "spoilers" really need be considered to exist, in the sense of spoiling a read, at least 99% of the time. But, I try to honor that mine seems to be a minority opinion.
Kristina, don't feel bad. You're doing a good job, and you are really helping us out by taking the lead on this one. The most important parts of moderating a discussion are getting the discussion started and keeping it going, and you are doing well with both.

Kristina, you're doing a great job, and I thank you so much. All is well--I'm just sorry I couldn't help out more. This adjustment to being in a retirement community adds a whole new level of my understanding of the Renter and Oskar's grandmother.
Thanks again, Kristina--I tend to agree with Lily that "I am one of those people who is not certain "spoilers" really need be considered to exist, in the sense of spoiling a read, at least 99% of the time." However, my daughter has let me know she feels the opposite. So "it's all good."

Wow. Is it gimmicky? Could be. The book doesn't need it. But, perhaps it helps provide a clearer picture of what's going on in Oskar's head.

"Never before have I read a book where each line seems to be so carefully thought out and yet carry so much weight, as is the case with Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close. At one point, I began highlighting all the passages I loved and soon realized I was painting the entire book yellow. I’ve bought more copies of this book than any other, mainly because I lend them out to friends and never see them again....What I really admire about Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close is that it breaks all the rules. The book includes photographs and drawings, pages that contain only one sentence, journal entries, and various misspellings to further authenticate the fact that we’re reading a nine-year-old’s ramblings. It’s these little nuances that pull us into the story more and make it feel almost interactive."
http://gregsaltiel.com/editorials/all...

I don't normally highlight but this book is certainly giving me the urge! Unfortunately, it is a library book so I am not going to do that. Then I thought I should be writing some stuff down and even thought I should start over, in order to go back and do that. So yeah, I agree with this about lots of good passages.




I got my copy from the library and thought someone had written in it too! I put it back and took one of the other copies before I realized it is supposed to be that way.

I'm off to find the spoiler thread and answer some of the discussion questions.

I'm so glad someone brought this up! I did have a library copy that was marked up, but that was in blue ink, and interesting things were underlined. But this letter.... Wha? I missed the point. Did anyone figure out what the markings were supposed to add to the story?

Not really sure, but these are the kinds of markings that Oskar's dad made on the New York Times with his red pen. Perhaps this letter, which Thomas Sr. wrote to Thomas Jr., was actually mailed. Perhaps it's a way to incorporate multiple layers of characters with the inclusion of the letter. Really not sure.
The burning question for me was did anyone figure out what Thomas Sr. was trying to say to his wife with all those numbers when he called from the airport?
Books mentioned in this topic
Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close (other topics)Tell the Wolves I'm Home (other topics)
Authors mentioned in this topic
Jonathan Safran Foer (other topics)Carol Rifka Brunt (other topics)