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I found it intriguing and frustrating to follow Alex as he worked through a series of ethical dilemmas and the rationalization of his actions. With the right encouragement, he would do almost anything, and he usually didn't need any encouragement. He reminds me of someone who used to be in my life and thankfully is no longer. Overall, this was a good read. I do like a bleak story!

What other book titles do you consider in this category? I read the loooong story summary, and it is one that I would not be inclined to jump into. I am not sure I can even think of any titles I would consider bleak. I will think about it.


Yes, The Road was "bleak". Now, I have the criteria, I have to think about some books. Unfortunately, The Road, was an exception read for me. I almost quit.
I'm thinking that Burial Rights (set in Iceland) would fit into "bleak" for me. Have you read it?

So if we're going to have a "genre" for bleak, I'd like one for "visceral".


I haven't read it. From your review, it seems like just the sort of book I would enjoy. Added to my TBR!

I have read it and enjoyed it, It was bleak indeed.

I should have read The Lost Girls instead of The Book of Lost Things this month! I wish I had been able to acquire a copy quickly, but my library doesn't even have it. Added to my TBR!

Yes, that too! I haven't read any Jo Nesbo. What other books would you recommend that fit this category?

You could start a list in listopia and see what people put in it...

The Snowman
The Orenda
Gone Girl
The Library at Mount Char
The Ghosts of Belfast
Affinity
The Keeper of Lost Causes
Just a few that have had an emotional impact on me. There are more, but I'd need to spend a bit of time hunting through my "read" shelf.



But, which authors were compared to Gillian Flynn?



That brings me here! I'll read either The Lost Hours or The Lost Wife

That brings me here! I'll read either [..."
I highly recommend The Lost Wife. It was my first 5 star read of 2016.



I do plan on trying to still read The Book of Lost things, but honestly the reviews have me hesitant. If it's at the library next week will be my flip of the coin.
And as usual, every time I read these discussions, my tbr list grows. Probably good I've been MIA for a few weeks! lol




Made me wonder what does that exactly. Why do I feel connected to the main character in one book, but couldn't care less about the mc in another? I guess there are some general factors (often many people have the same opinion about it) but also personal, as someone might feel very invested in a story that I care nothing about.



I think I'll save it for on the train during the day and I'll read something easy and happy in the evening.


I was disappointed that there was not more information specifically about the Dominican Republic, except as a police state at the time the early story takes place. This book is specifically a tale of the family of the girls and what happened to them in their child hood and after, when they immigrated as political refugees to the US. It is told in a slightly convoluted format, that I found confusing, but mostly in single stories, at times told via one of girls. Mostly it is relayed by Yolanda, in first person POV. It started when the girls were adults and went backward, into their childhood. It relayed family relationships and talked about the maids and cooks and people that were the help and about their extended family of Aunts and Uncles and cousins. Their family was wealthy, and there were rules for everything that they could and could not do, where they could go, etc. Some of them were much more informative and interesting than others. The author discussed their schooling and recounted how difficult it was to learn English once they came to the US. She was lucky to have had several good English teachers in the Catholic School that she attended. Her mother had gone to school in the US and her father was a Doctor - having been schooled in the US also. Traditionally, the boys were the only ones allowed to go to school in the US, until her mother was allowed. She was the first female in their family to go to school in the US. Her parents spoke in English when they did not want the girls to understand what they were talking about, but other than that, they spoke Spanish at home. I can remember my parents using pig-latin sometimes and how agrivating it was to have them discuss things when I wanted to understand. Her family was re-located to the US because her father had participated in a failed attempt at a government coup. They were able to be rescued from the political police because of a CIA operative that had been acting as a USA Diplomat.

Is the novel based on a true story / does it have an overall message? About integration?

I believe it is based on the author's family, but I am not sure that everything that was written about was factual. I did not pick up on any specific message - just a story of experiences. Nothing about integration. This was a wealthy family and knew nothing, really of hardship. That was my take on it anyway.
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