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message 1: by Pris (new)

Pris (pnasrat) The #204 podcast got me thinking about books with interesting portrayals of humans, aliens and their relationship dynamics.

A few popped to mind but there is probably more I've not explored in this space recommendations gratefully taken

Off the top of my head - Iain M Banks Culture series definitely has a gender fluid element, Octavia Butler's portrayal of the 3 gender oankali Dawn, the method of reproduction of The Clockwork Rocket, Greg Egan, Ursula K. Le Guin, Ancillary Justice


message 2: by Adam (new)

Adam LoBue | 8 comments China Mieville's Bas-Lag trilogy books explore these issues really well I think.


message 3: by Dharmakirti (last edited Feb 04, 2015 03:10PM) (new)

Dharmakirti | 942 comments Check out Storm Constantine's post apocalyptic fantasy series, Wraeththu. The first book is The Enchantments of Flesh and Spirit. The series deals with a new species, the Wraeththu, a race of hermaphrodites that is quickly replacing homo sapiens on a future, post apocalyptic Earth.

Clive Barker's Imajica features a character, Pie'Oh'Pah, whose gender changes based on the desires of the person s/he's with.


message 4: by Art (new)

Art | 192 comments More fantasy but The Mirror Empire is fantastic for different gender and relationship dynamics


message 5: by Pris (new)

Pris (pnasrat) Adam - I'm a big fan of Mieville.

Eleanor - I loved Mirror Empire just forgot it when writing up.

Dharmakirti - thanks I've not read either of those I'll add them to my list.


message 6: by Brendan (new)

Brendan (mistershine) | 930 comments I think they talked about it on the podcast but I really liked 2312. Not sure why the Goodreads score is so low but I wouldn't let that dissuade you.

@Eleanor: I've been seeing Mirror Empire mentioned in a few places and am thinking of picking it up. Would you recommend it to someone who is kind of iffy on traditional fantasy, but likes Joe Abercrombie and new weird stuff?


message 7: by Tamahome (last edited Feb 04, 2015 11:02AM) (new)

Tamahome | 7222 comments The "Neutopia" episode of Futurama. Or any James Tiptree, Jr. award nominee.


message 8: by Art (new)

Art | 192 comments Brendan - I would recommend anyone giving it a go and it's a book that's kind of hard to describe or pin down. It's not your traditional fantasy novel. It does throw you right into the world straight off and so some people find it quite confusing to begin with, but it does come together. It's a very interesting book.


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Tom Wright (tomdwright) | 84 comments One of the best books that I found explored alien culture/relationships/dynamics is from a somewhat obscure writer, M.A. Foster, called "The Gameplayers of Zan" which is the first book of a trilogy. I believe it's out of print but worth hunting down.

http://www.amazon.com/Gameplayers-Zan...


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Joanna Chaplin | 1175 comments Eleanor wrote: "Brendan - I would recommend anyone giving it a go and it's a book that's kind of hard to describe or pin down. It's not your traditional fantasy novel. It does throw you right into the world straig..."

I found that I had real trouble figuring out where I was, who anybody was, what anybody's abilities were, why the sky was different colors, etc. I ended up dropping it because I was totally at sea.


message 11: by Louie (new)

Louie (rmutt1914) | 885 comments Take this suggestion with a large grain of salt, considering the author/premise/when it was published...
I Will Fear No Evil by Robert A. Heinlein, in which a 90 year old man transplants his brain into the body of a beautiful young woman. You can just imagine the issues that arise from such an act. And remember, this was published in 1970, so "free love" is a definite theme.


message 12: by John (Taloni) (new)

John (Taloni) Taloni (johntaloni) | 5196 comments ^ Also To Sail Beyond The Sunset, although I found it a bit heavy handed. Still, if you have some time and want to read some later Heinlein, it's worth a look.


message 13: by Lindsay (new)

Lindsay | 593 comments Elizabeth Bear has some interesting stuff in this area.

Her Jenny Casey books have a developing poly relationship at their core.

She also has a series called Iskyrne World which she coauthors with Sarah Monette that has a northern European-type culture that features men who mentally bond with wolves in much the same way as Pern dragon riders do. The result is a sub-culture of warriors who are primarily homosexual (in some cases whether they like it or not).


message 14: by Laurențiu (last edited Feb 04, 2015 03:37PM) (new)

Laurențiu Roman | 15 comments Glasshouse by Charles Stross. There are some gender-bending, and what could mostly be described as species-bending motifs in his works, but Glasshouse is where they probably are most obvious. Also really dug his, most likely not original, take on conciousness and identity, another theme prevalent in his works.

His take on some of those themes was one of the things that probably made me more comfortable with the ideas and conceits in Ann Leckie's Imperial Radch and Octavia E. Butler's Xenogenesis.

I found it curious that as soon as i listened to the Annihilaton kick-off episode that described i found that Charles Stross is one writer that, for me was the answer to two topics on the show, gender dynamics and most read authors.


message 15: by Brendan (new)

Brendan (mistershine) | 930 comments I forgot to mention The Female Man. That was an interesting book!


message 16: by Tom (new)

Tom Wright (tomdwright) | 84 comments Tomw wrote: "One of the best books that I found explored alien culture/relationships/dynamics is from a somewhat obscure writer, M.A. Foster, called "The Gameplayers of Zan" which is the first book of a trilogy..."

Another plug for "Gameplayers of Zan" simply because it touches on all the issues mentioned here and then some. I would rank it as one of the best SF books I've ever read, and if you read the Amazon reviews you'll get a sense why...

http://www.amazon.com/Gameplayers-Zan...


message 17: by Brendan (last edited Feb 05, 2015 09:24AM) (new)

Brendan (mistershine) | 930 comments After reading Joanna's and Eleanor's comments I decided to buy Mirror Empire and I'll give it a try after I finish what I'm reading (also it was only $5). Joanna's comments actually made me more interested, I sort of enjoy a book that throws you into the middle of an ocean and says "Now swim!"


message 18: by Adam (new)

Adam LoBue | 8 comments Heinlein mentions above got me thinking about his The Moon is a Harsh Mistress. The Luna communities have a pretty interesting extended family/kinship system that might fit your bill.


message 19: by Brendan (new)

Brendan (mistershine) | 930 comments Heinlein had some really weird fetishes.


message 20: by Louie (new)

Louie (rmutt1914) | 885 comments Brendan wrote: "Heinlein had some really weird fetishes."

Yeah, especially redheads and cats.


message 21: by Tom (new)

Tom Wright (tomdwright) | 84 comments Brendan wrote: "Heinlein had some really weird fetishes."

I'm not sure exactly what you refer to vis-a-vis Heinlein, but the types of group marriage he had in "Moon is a Harsh Mistress" are hardly novel (pun intended).

Anyone who has studied cultural anthropology knows that human cultures have employed an astonishing array of marital practices. Our western cultural bias is a relatively new phenomenon on the stage of human history.


message 22: by Ben (last edited Feb 05, 2015 01:43PM) (new)

Ben Rowe (benwickens) In terms of interesting explorations of gender The James Tiptree awards are a good source of interesting genre works. Their website even has some interesting public discussions of some works that they have highlighted/shortlisted.


message 23: by Adam (new)

Adam LoBue | 8 comments Tomw wrote: "Brendan wrote: "Heinlein had some really weird fetishes."

I'm not sure exactly what you refer to vis-a-vis Heinlein, but the types of group marriage he had in "Moon is a Harsh Mistress" are hardly..."


Yeah for sure. But those who aren't familiar with the intricacies of filial piety within polyamorous clan-based social structures may find it interesting so I threw it out there just in case.

I didn't know about the redheads and cats part either though...


message 24: by Louie (new)

Louie (rmutt1914) | 885 comments Adam wrote: "I didn't know about the redheads and cats part either though..."

They are common fixtures in Heinlein's books, especially the later titles.
See- To Sail Beyond the Sunset, and The Cat Who Walks Through Walls.


message 25: by Tom (new)

Tom Wright (tomdwright) | 84 comments Adam wrote: "I didn't know about the redheads and cats part either though... "

I have to admit that I have always had an inexplicable weakness for redheads myself. It's never gotten me into trouble (my wife is blond) but my sirens would had cascading red locks.


message 26: by Pat (new)

Pat (patthebadger) | 100 comments Delaney's Babel-17 has triad relationships. They aren't the focus of the story but there's a 'triple' in the main cast of characters & Delaney's description of their relationship is quite touching.


message 27: by Sidsel (new)

Sidsel Pedersen (macthekat) I have to mention Ascension by Jacqueline Koyanagi. It's a space opera with a spaceship full of genderfluid and sexuality queer people having really interesting relationships with each other. It was well paced, it had tons of action, sweet character interaction, relationships, spaceships, good worldcraft and high drama. It is a space opera in the true sense of the world.


message 28: by Lindsay (new)

Lindsay | 593 comments I second Ascension. Wish she'd hurry up with the next one :)


message 29: by Trike (new)

Trike | 11202 comments Many of the books by Jack L. Chalker have people changing bodies, including genders. Also lots of aliens who don't have strict male/female dimorphism. Some hermaphrodites, some asexual plant people, and so on.

John Varley examines this quite a bit in his Eight Worlds stories, where humanity has cloning and mind-swapping technology, so anyone can change genders.

Sovereign by R.M. Meluch features gay characters, which was quite an eye-opener in 1979.


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