SciFi and Fantasy Book Club discussion

I have spent so so much time searching for my specific trope interest, I know there are a lot out there. Please help me find them.
1. The hero is damaged and alone. He has never known romantic love. (Virgins are a big plus). He can be physically or psychologically damaged. He can be soft or gruff.
2. The heroine is the only woman who has ever reached him/loved him...
3. When they finally have sex, he is insecure, not sure what he is doing. She has to lead and/or relax him.
4. The more explicit the better, no YA.
He can be a shifter, alien, mountain man, scarred billionaire... across all the tropes..

Have a look at the recommendations here: https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks...
I'm sure there are a few among them that would fit perfectly.

Tarzan of the Apes

Hi Wendy! While I hope you get good suggestions here, there are groups on GR that are focused on romance and erotica. We are not though, so I would suggest also reaching out there!

(Also lmao Don)

A Curse so Dark and Lonely

Thank you so much! The Reddit thread was great. I also thank Cinder and Don. I will check them out! I am old and didn’t know about Reddit. So, thanks.