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message 1: by Sara, Old School Classics (new) - rated it 5 stars

Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
This read begins June 15th.


Terry | 2381 comments I will start this a coup,e days early because it is next up on my list.


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
I will be starting in a few days, Terry. Trying to finish up the book I am on first.


Candi (candih) | 673 comments I'm also working on finishing my current book and this will be next :)


Lori | 185 comments I will be joining in as soon as my book arrives. I checked my porch at least a dozen times today and my cat has been giving me a quizzical look, lol!!


Candi (candih) | 673 comments Lori wrote: "I will be joining in as soon as my book arrives. I checked my porch at least a dozen times today and my cat has been giving me a quizzical look, lol!!"

So cute, Lori! Mine would be making a mad dash to get onto the porch! :D


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
My book is sitting here, Lori, but I don't think I will be able to begin reading it today. I hope yours is on the porch before nightfall. My cats would just be making sure it wasn't somehow about food...their food, of course.


Candi (candih) | 673 comments I just read the first chapter this morning. I won't really be able to read this weekend at all, so hope to make some headway. My daughter has prom on Saturday and my mother's 75th birthday on Sunday. Not to mention Father's Day ;)

I love the writing right away, as I expected I would :)


Lori | 185 comments Well, Sara, your wish has been granted. My book was in the mailbox today! How about that. Hallelujah! I should be able to read a bit after I pick up groceries.


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
I don't expect any open time today, but I will start tomorrow. So glad your copy arrived, Lori!!!!

Candi-- you certainly do have a busy weekend, but all happy occasions, so I'm delighted you have such pleasant reasons not to be able to read. Excited that you are feeling happy about this one after only one chapter!!!!


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Lori | 185 comments Candi: What a wonderful weekend to plan for! And I do agree with you about the first chapter - a very promising beginning! 🤗


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Lori | 185 comments Chapters 1- 3: (view spoiler)


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Lori | 185 comments That was a test, lol!!! It’s been a while.....

Chapters 1 - 3: (view spoiler)


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This is what I found on L'homme de bronze, Lori.

"The man of bronze" covers the period from 1879 to 1947. It is a weekly newspaper appearing on Sundays, of an A2 format and comprising 4 pages.

It bears witness to the intellectual, political and social life of the city of Arles, and the view that local scholars have on national events.

It is the main documentary source on Arles history from the end of the 19th century to the beginning of the 20th century.


I agree that this is going to be Jeanne's story. I only had the time to read two chapters today, hoping for more tomorrow and some time to get my thoughts together.


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Lori | 185 comments That’s great, Sara! Thanks! I could have read another chapter last night but I wanted to digest what I’d read so far. Also, the writing is scrumptious so I want to savor it.

Further thoughts: (view spoiler)


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Lori | 185 comments Correction: neat instead of nest. Autocorrect is the bane of my existence. Lol!


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
I had that same sense that (view spoiler)


Terry | 2381 comments I am more than half into the novel. There are two things about style that bother me with this book. I am not overly fond of present tense novels, and I am not sure why. It’s almost as though I don’t trust the novelist, so buy in is more difficult.

I also am not fond of the frequent phrases in place of sentences. Limited use would be better tolerated by me.

Otherwise, I do see that the writer can paint gorgeous descriptions and she has great insights into Jeanne’s spirit and the confining limits of her life.


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Lori | 185 comments Sara: Yes, exactly! I love your thoughts! I really must slow down a bit though. I went back and found this shortened passage (view spoiler)


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
Terry wrote: "I am more than half into the novel. There are two things about style that bother me with this book. I am not overly fond of present tense novels, and I am not sure why. It’s almost as though I don’..."

Sorry the style isn't appealing to you. It can be so difficult to get involved in a book if the author's style rubs you the wrong way.

I'm fine with it so far, and I have read Fletcher before and don't expect to have any problems.


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
Lori wrote: "Sara: Yes, exactly! I love your thoughts! I really must slow down a bit though. I went back and found this shortened passage [spoilers removed]"

Great quote, Lori. (view spoiler)

Through Chapter 4: (view spoiler)


Terry | 2381 comments Now that I am quite far into the book, I am enjoying it more. It reminds me of books written in the early days of the women’s movement. Then, women who were through with child rearing looked about their lives and wondered how it had gotten so small, so constrained.


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Lori | 185 comments Chapter 4: (view spoiler)


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Terry wrote: "Now that I am quite far into the book, I am enjoying it more. It reminds me of books written in the early days of the women’s movement. Then, women who were through with child rearing looked about ..."

So glad it has picked up for you. I feel it has a very slow start. It would be very frustrating to feel you had a life to live yet, but be so held down by someone that you could not even decide for yourself whether to open a door or window in your own home.


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I wonder what we would be thinking if we didn't know this was Van Gogh. He would not have had any "identity" for these people, since he enjoyed no fame in his lifetime. I thought it was almost sad when Jeanne was listing the things Arles was known for (Van Gogh, of course, not included) and I thought to myself, what I think of immediately whenever Arles is mentioned is Van Gogh. He became the thing that made tourists go to this place...to see the yellow house.

How many of us have listened to this while reading? Show of hands please.

https://youtu.be/oxHnRfhDmrk


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Lori | 185 comments ✋ The first thing I did was listen to that song!


Candi (candih) | 673 comments I've read through Chapter 7. I'm enjoying it immensely! This is indeed Jeanne's story. Fletcher's description of place is always so well done. It's always evident that she admires the natural world.

I love Jeanne's spirit, which she seems to have inherited from her father. But like most women of her time, she was dependent on a man - if not a father, then a husband. I can see where she probably felt such joy in raising her children. But what was there for a woman after the children had grown and gone away? I think she imbued the sense of spirit in them and they obviously had more choices as men to go where they pleased. I feel a little connection to Jeanne as my children - not so young now after all! - are preparing for their futures! Of course, I am hoping to have more options available to me than did Jeanne when they are completely gone from here!


Candi (candih) | 673 comments Sara - I did not have that song in my head before, but I sure do now!! :D


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Lori | 185 comments Well, I also remember hearing that song on my transistor radio, which was a ladybug radio. Lol!!


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
Lori wrote: "✋ The first thing I did was listen to that song!"

lol. Somehow I knew that.


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Candi wrote: "I've read through Chapter 7. I'm enjoying it immensely! This is indeed Jeanne's story. Fletcher's description of place is always so well done. It's always evident that she admires the natural world..."

She was so generous with Benoit when he offered to stay. She set him free, which is sometimes the hardest thing a parent can be asked to do. Especially hard since he went such a long distance away! It does seem all she exists for is the care of others: her children, her father, her husband, but the children are grown, the father is gone and the husband is all too unaware of her worth.

I could really relate to this from chapter five: (view spoiler)


Terry | 2381 comments Ooh, Sara! That song is an ear worm!

Almost through, I like where this novel heads.


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
Sorry, Terry. :D

Fletcher has done that to me before. I think is this going anywhere and then she makes it all come together. I'm glad to know the read has improved for you and makes me excited to get some real reading time. I have been reading in snatches.

My hot water heater sprung a leak this afternoon and I spent a lot of the day mopping up water and dealing with that. I have a plumber coming in the morning. Didn't even ask what the weekend rate was. He sounds like a very nice person, so I am going to just hope for the best. Got to get it replaced. Can't live for long without hot water.


Terry | 2381 comments Here are some relevant images.

Van Gogh portrait ofMadame Trabuc:

https://uploads0.wikiart.org/images/v...

And her husband:

http://art-vangogh.com/image/Saint%20...

And the hospital:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Ho...


Terry | 2381 comments Good luck, Sara! Yes, the book much improved for me, so my advice to all is to hang in there.


Terry | 2381 comments I thought this was interesting, too, from News.artnet.com: In his forthcoming book Breaking Van Gogh, James Ottar Grundvig posits that Van Gogh’s mental decline can be attributed in part to foxglove, which was used as a remedy for mental health patients at the time, but that contains “a natural toxicity that affects the heart.” The medicine, taken “in concert with lead poisoning from the oil paints, along with his consumption of absinthe…” he wrote, “put Van Gogh on an accelerated destructive path that would lead to death.”


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Lori | 185 comments Sara wrote: "Candi wrote: "I've read through Chapter 7. I'm enjoying it immensely! This is indeed Jeanne's story. Fletcher's description of place is always so well done. It's always evident that she admires the..."

I love your thoughts, ladies! And the quote from Chapter 5, Sara!


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Lori | 185 comments Terry wrote: "Here are some relevant images.

Van Gogh portrait ofMadame Trabuc:

https://uploads0.wikiart.org/images/v...

And her husband:

http://art-v..."



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Lori | 185 comments Terry: Thank you so much for the portraits! I am glad to hear the second half of the book has been more enjoyable for you. 🤗


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Lori | 185 comments Terry wrote: "I thought this was interesting, too, from News.artnet.com: In his forthcoming book Breaking Van Gogh, James Ottar Grundvig posits that Van Gogh’s mental decline can be attributed in part to foxglov..."

That is very interesting, Terry. I’d heard that absinthe was pretty potent stuff. Sad, too, isn’t it?


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Sara (phantomswife) | 9420 comments Mod
I loved the portraits, although they don't match the mental image I had of either Jeanne or the Major. Even today, some of the medications we take to solve our medical problems cause other, and worse, ones. I have no doubt the lead in the paint was a major contributor. He painted non-stop, so he was exposed to it for long, long periods of time, and lead is known to contribute to mental disorders.

I have seen Starry Night along with a large selection of his works when they were touring and came to the National Gallery. The impasto gives the works another dimension that simply cannot be conveyed in a print. I can see why his work was greeted as it was in his time. It was a huge departure from what painters were doing just prior to him and his subject matter was always so simple, perhaps even crude and ugly at times, but so true and real.

One of my favorites of his paintings. I stood and looked at this for a long time, because it says so much about who he was and also about what he saw and held important:

A Pair of Shoes


Terry | 2381 comments Sara, the portraits didn’t fit my images of Jeanne and her husband, either. It’s hard to imagine that Jeanne doing handstands. And the Major in the portrait doesn’t seem a commanding sort to me. The Pair of Shoes is quite wonderful. It would be something to see in person.


Terry | 2381 comments I have never had absinthe. However, some of Van Gogh’s work reminds me of the experience of LSD, something I did have a fair amount of when I was a young hippie in the 1960s. It I could be a matter of perception. I perceived the world differently on LSD. We do not really understand well the nature of consciousness, after all. We know much less about how other creatures experience the world.

The experience of seeing the air and all of nature as constantly in motion and revealing color as it moves — those are what I see when I look at his most expressive works. Those remind me of the altered LSD hallucinatory consciousness I experienced. You can say it was the drug that altered my perception, but who is to say that our “real world” perception is the only true way to see things? I have often wondered how butterflies see the world.

If Van Gogh’s state of consciousness was similar to my experience on LSD, he might feel compelled to paint that experience, although it could be impossible if in the middle of what we might call an episode. I used to paint with oils. They are a messy medium. It is easy to see how one might get paint in your mouth, in your hair, all over clothes and yourself. But to deliberately eat it is another thing entirely.


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I am through Chapter Ten: (view spoiler)

I want to say that Fletcher never disappoints me. She puts so much feeling into her descriptions and characters.


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Lori | 185 comments I’ve read through Chapter 7 and will check back in later this evening if I can get through Chapter 10. Paul woke up feeling very industrious this morning and so I ended up helping him select our new roofing shingles.


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Terry - Van Gogh was definitely in an altered state mentally from what the most of us might perceive, whether from the absinthe, the herbs, or just the mental illness. I don't know about LSD personally, but I do understand how some of his paintings might remind you of that.

Lori - Any time the hubby is in the mood to work, take advantage. I got the hot water heater changed out for a very reasonable price and I really dodged a bullet. It was on the verge of a complete flood.


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Lori | 185 comments Sara: Sounds like the water heater episode could have been much worse. Glad to hear it’s resolved. I know what a mess that can be from experience. We once had a water heater with a tank and the tank burst. Ugh! Water sprayed all over and soaked the carpet in the basement.


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Lori | 185 comments Chapter 10: (view spoiler)


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Lori | 185 comments Test


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