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Feb 11, 2015 11:13AM

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Is it a secret?
Or did you also forget it?

Should not have eaten that entire bag of Oreos; it has dulled my senses.

Heh, I’m perpetually confused by all the various Johns/Jons, Michaels, Jims, Marys, etc. I don’t have good facial recognition skills to begin with, so the tiny pictures don’t help me much. I love it when people add something else after their name like Colleen does so their name is more recognizable and personal. The purple hair helps too. :)
I actually miss the good old days of Internet usage when more people used a handle. I know I’m in the minority and most people think using real names is less anonymous but, unless I know somebody in person, their real name is just as anonymous to me as a handle would be. More anonymous, actually, if I can’t distinguish them from other similarly-named people and recognize them from thread to thread.
I also like handles because they convey a bit of info about the person -- what they like, how they see themselves, or how they want other people to see them. A real name doesn’t do that, it’s just the name your parents liked before they even knew anything about you. And a handle is easier to remember which actually makes them less anonymous to me because I’m more likely to remember what that person said in other threads. If I ever saw the original John in this thread post somewhere else, I would be oblivious to his previous wrongdoings and treat him like a brand new person. But if he had named himself “John WooHooIWroteABook”, I’d remember him…
I know this is totally random and irrelevant and nobody probably cares but, since this thread is pointless anyway, and this has been on my mind for a while, and John (the other one) kinda/sorta brought it up, I just had to get it off my chest. I feel a better now. A little. :)

Trike has been my Internet handle for 29 years now. I have always used a little red tricycle as my avatar, too. I have no idea what message it sends to people, since I don't think most people know what a "trike" is.

Ha. :) Maybe someday the current trend will reverse itself and everybody will be using handles again...
Trike wrote: "I have no idea what message it sends to people, since I don't think most people know what a "trike" is."
The great thing about the handle Trike is that it sticks out and I remember it because it makes me curious. I do know what a trike is, though! Which came first, the handle or your discovery of the quote in your profile?

I made the quote up. I'm super creative like that.

I suspect mine gets lost in translation and seems terribly bizarre to anybody who doesn’t know English well, or at least anybody who reads it better than they speak it.

I also, as someone who was a young person discovering the internet in the nineties, have a slightly grouchy/smug reaction to modern privacy concerns. All my childhood there was this moral panic about kids going online, adopting fake names, maybe even making up stuff about themselves, and nobody would really know anything about who they were talking to!
And now there's a moral panic about kids going online and using their own names and revealing true things about themselves and everybody knows everything about everybody!
Well duh. Thanks, crotchety old people who are only just working this out. Why do you think my generation were using pseudonyms this whole time in the first place!?

As a child growing up in lower-middle class circumstance during the most dangerous era in American history, caution is second nature to me. But even though I've had to replace my credit cards three times this year alone due to various corporate hacks, I'll take that over the race riots, knife fights and rampant crime I grew up with in the 1970s.

I'm pretty lax about the whole privacy thing. My husband is much more paranoid. He was a bit concerned when I put a picture on Facebook of the front of our house, and you could see the house number on it.
I was just like "You know deeds are public documents, right, and anyone can just google our names and get our address?"
That said, I do have my Facebook on friends' only view, but that's more because I tend to cuss a lot of bitch about work a lot, and I try and limit who can see that. (Though, yes, I'm aware it's more an illusion of limitation than an actuality.)

But even back then, with so few people online, there were some pretty darn crazy people. One of my “fondest” memories is of the person who, upon learning my age, asked me if I had pubic hair yet. I actually received much fewer weird messages like that once I stopped telling people my age and everybody just assumed I was an adult. Maybe they just didn't want to risk hitting on a 90 year old. :)
I figure adults can do what they want but, if I had children, I would never knowingly allow them to use their real names online, even on sites with privacy settings.


Trike has been my Internet handle for 29 years now. I have always used a little red tricycle as my avatar, too...."
Since I'm not used to hearing tricycles called trikes, it makes me think of the Jurassic Park slang for Triceratops.