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Ridiculous Reasons For Avoiding Certain Books? (4/16/23)
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I was in the thrift store yesterday and saw A Man Called Ove. My brain immediately told me: "WE ARE NEVER READING THAT!" The only reason for this is that I'm so tired of seeing it everywhere. I know nothing about it (other than it being successful enough to have copies everywhere). So my reason for avoiding it seems to be "oversaturation."

My brother gave me The Acts of King Arthur and His Noble Knights as a nudge that they aren't all depressing, but it's been sitting on my shelf for several years now!
Bretnie wrote: "After going through a big John Steinbeck period in high school and college, at some point (East of Eden?) I told myself I couldn't take another one. They are so good, but they just rip me apart, so..."
Steinbeck as traumatic trigger! :o
Steinbeck as traumatic trigger! :o

Jerry wrote: "This is such a great question, it actually induced me to break my recent silence. Here's a kind of semi-facetious but locally-relevant answer: a ridiculous reason to avoid a book is because it has-..."
Jerry, you have me thinking about how reading a book so heavily criticized almost makes it easier to enjoy because the expectations are lower. Glad you ended up reading this one and have enjoyed subsequent rereads.
Jerry, you have me thinking about how reading a book so heavily criticized almost makes it easier to enjoy because the expectations are lower. Glad you ended up reading this one and have enjoyed subsequent rereads.

Ok, maybe that's not such a ridiculous reason.

I have not read a A Man Called Ove for this reason, Nor watched the movie.

Are old best sellers gold too?

I have checked it out from the library twice, made it a few pages in, and then made a special trip (twice) to return it to the library asap just to get it out of my house immediately. I know it's crazy, I do read some horror, but *that* particular book makes me feel freaked out just by having it sitting in my house. (Ironically, I worked at the library a couple of years and it did not freak me out with it being on the shelves at work.)
{Shudder and lol. I know it's ridiculous!}

It’s ridiculous if you think it’s ridiculous, Bill. I’m trying to think if a GR book ad banner has enticed me before… Maybe…
Stacia, how long did you wait between checkouts?
Stacia, how long did you wait between checkouts?

Stacia wrote: "Marc, the span was a few years. Got the same visceral feeling both times after I started reading it."
Just enough time to lull you into a false sense of security!
(I wonder how you'd react if you read it at the library or only in public places... Maybe give it another few years... )
Just enough time to lull you into a false sense of security!
(I wonder how you'd react if you read it at the library or only in public places... Maybe give it another few years... )
Robert wrote: "When booktubers rave about certain books, I tend to make an effort to avoid them. Same goes with novels bearing Reese’s Book Club on them."
I used to get annoyed when Oprah's Book Club appeared on book covers. I never avoided those books, but psychologically, it was like a ding against them (despite the fact that Oprah picked a number of books and authors I really like)...
I used to get annoyed when Oprah's Book Club appeared on book covers. I never avoided those books, but psychologically, it was like a ding against them (despite the fact that Oprah picked a number of books and authors I really like)...




Are old best sellers gold too?"
Well that's the best time to read them, after they have gathered dust and the hype is all gone. :)

I do something similar, I think. If I love a book by an author, I avoid reading other books by that author because I am afraid of being let down/not loving another work as much -- Cormac McCarthy comes to mind. Therefore, I am not a completist. Lol. (I am trying & have changed this a little bit over the past couple of years.)
(Conversely, if I don't like a book by an author, I don't feel very compelled to try something else by them.)
Marc, I assume I could probably read House of Leaves at the library or some other public location (as long as the copy stayed there and was not with me in my abode).


Oh my gosh yes! So many times I've loved a book only to be disappointed by later books by the same author. It's a tricky balance to either avoid the rest or give them a try...


I can't stand those color blobs either and it almost drove me away from The World and All That It Holds. What a shame, it definitely deserves better than blobs - you'd think that Aleksander Hemon has earned the right to a more thoughtful cover by now. I picture a cover that's built somehow around the Samara pebble necklace.
I looked at the picture credits on the book jacket and there are actually 3 photos, one of a man, one of some soldiers and one of flowers, but the humans are overpowered and nearly invisible. Not to mention that you can barely tell the blobs are flowers.

I used to get annoyed when Oprah's Book C..."
I intentionally avoid Oprah's Book Club but often check out Reese's Book Club. Hmmmm.....don't know what that says?! I always keep well away from covers with bare chested men and ripped bodices.

I don't understand this. Unless there was something else wrong with the books that made you not want to like them. Or unless you are being facetious?

I don't understand this. Unless there was something else wrong with the books that made you not want to like them..."
Hence the ridiculousness of it!
These tend to be books I'm not interested in for other reasons. Bandit Queens comes to mind as a recent example, although I might pick it up anyway.

I don't think there's anything ridiculous about avoiding books with shirtless males on the cover, actually.
I have picked up a book I would NOT have otherwise picked up because of a cover, but I have never not read a book because I disliked the cover and there have been some covers I really disliked.
If a person (the same person) recommends a book to me one too many times, I'm likely to avoid it. Depends on the person, but usually the people who do this are not all that close to me and we don't tend to have similar reading tastes (they just love a certain book and think everyone else will, too).
If a person (the same person) recommends a book to me one too many times, I'm likely to avoid it. Depends on the person, but usually the people who do this are not all that close to me and we don't tend to have similar reading tastes (they just love a certain book and think everyone else will, too).

Banner ad? Nothing makes me hate a book faster.
Steinbeck? Used to avoid, but like him now.
New releases? I can wait.
Start with a birth? Hmm. Don't remember seeing this, but now I'll avoid it!
Reece? If I cringe at the review, it's not going to happen.
Oprah? I get disappointed when I see the sticker, but will still read it.
Color blobs? Hate those!
So yeah, with so many books to read, I'm actively looking for reasons not to read a book. I'll add:
Too many 5 star reviews on Goodreads
Book blurbs that say it's for people who loved this or that best seller.
And here's one that's just me being snarky today: Giveaways I didn't win. :-)

And if something makes a wider swath of people read complex, nuanced authors like Toni Morrison, Marilynne Robinson, Carson McCullers, and Gabriel García Márquez, I'm all for it. Would I pick every book she did? Probably not, but that's ok. The world today can use a little subtlety and a little acknowledgement of complexity in my opinion - human beings have always wanted simple answers, and anything that makes a few more brains engage is a good thing.
I've never seen a full episode of her show and don't know much about her, but I think she's on the right track with encouraging reading, and not just beach reads. Maybe the Oprah sticker might induce a little eye roll for me sometimes, but it makes me smile too.

I don't think there's anything ridiculous about avoiding books with shirtless males on the cover, actually."
As a person who has been known to read books with those covers, just going to say they can have pretty good stories and characters you become invested in, but also some can just be pretty trashy. But we all should read trashy novels from time to time. If not books with these covers, then another mans trash. :)
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The World and All That It Holds (other topics)A Touch of Jen (other topics)
House of Leaves (other topics)
A Man Called Ove (other topics)
The Little Friend (other topics)
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Toni Morrison (other topics)Marilynne Robinson (other topics)
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