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Apr 23, 2023 12:31PM

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I do quit some, sometimes it's just not the right time or mood. I might come back to it later and like it. If it's for a book group, I might skim to the end so that I can at least talk about it a bit. There are some I have given up on because they are too ridiculous, badly written or suddenly have a lot of unnecessary violence or misery.


I also have a to finish reading shelf for books that I am quitting but might come back to later. It has 6 books on it - four of which I own.
I'm in the same camp as Dubhease, Jill, and Robin for my approach is usually to finish it, but I think I am getting better at selection of books rather than just reading anything!


My first grade teacher decreed that we had to finish every book we started and that stayed with me a long time, like until my mid-twenties. I'm sure she had good intentions about teaching us self-discipline and persistence and sometimes books do take a while to get good, but I don't think that's a rule that served me well. Since allowing myself to quit, even after just a few pages, I've found I'm more open to trying books and authors I'm not sure about. It's like the stakes are lower.



However, if I'm not liking a book, I usually give it about 50 pages to decide. Once I get 1/4 to 1/2 in, I will push through and finish it even if I'm miserable.


If a book was recommended by a friend, or has something special about it, I will give it more chances, or look for additional information. I just read Trust, and when I reached the second major section, I was confused and thrown off by a change in writing style. I read a couple reviews (one with a spoiler), and decided I really wanted to finish. I’m so glad I did. In other cases the reviews helped confirm it wasn’t worth my time.
NancyJ wrote: "I’m trying to be more ruthless by dropping books I don’t like. Its easy when the writing is bad, or if it’s a genre I’m getting tired of. It’s not really in my nature to be ruthless, so I usually s..."
Good point, I sometimes look at GR reviews to see if there are comments on plot, style, etc. and if they confirm my feeling (plot is a mess, characters are flat, etc. ), I will quit.
Good point, I sometimes look at GR reviews to see if there are comments on plot, style, etc. and if they confirm my feeling (plot is a mess, characters are flat, etc. ), I will quit.







But I have to stop reading books that I find a slog. Sometimes pushing my way through a book I'm not enjoying wastes days or even weeks of my time and I end up in a real reading slump. I want to stop doing that, and I did successfully DNF one book this year so far because I was feeling that way! It helped that it was a challenge prompt where I was able to get my hands on a different book that fit that I was more interested in.



I give it and hour. If I don't care by then, I'm not going to.
Somewhere I read (heard) that if you read a book a week, in your entire reading lifetime, you'll read something like 10,000 books. In the big scheme of things, that's not very many, even if you multiply that by 3 (or 4).
So I have decided that life is just too short to read a bad book. I'll give it a chance, but not much of one.