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I don't understand why people victim blame. I was sexually assaulted online. I kept on saying no but the person threatened to kill themselves and kept pushing until I broke to send pictures of myself WITH MY FACE. No face not good enough get screamed at to take new ones. Yet its my fault. Is it really tho

No it is not your fault. Please dont blame urself. Im really sorry that happened and you had to go thro that. The person is disgusting and the fact that people do that is disgusting and horrible. Please dont feel guilty when it is the other persons fault. I hope you are able to heal soon.
If you ever need someone to rant to or just talk to blow up my dms i might not see immediately but i will respond.

Thank you so much

no problem

I really don't understand people sometimes so I was with a boy from my school (before I decided I was lesbian and yes they were trans fem at the time and still are) there was an incident that had happened I was running out of the school building ready to go home and I had bumped into at the time was my gf (as they Identify female) and I had bumped into them on accident now we both suffer from DID or Dissociative Identity Disorder a disorder giving a person multiple personalities based on trauma now this was before we knew we were a system and partner was diagnosed long before me previous to what I'm about to say happened he had a new introject alter on the do not interact named Anti-Cepticye he was fairly mean and would kill anyone as I was close to finding out the day he choked me on school property and the school had told me it was "hugging" I had told a friend after I made a joke bc someone in the group said they didn't care for anyone but 3 ppl who are mods of the group I made a sarcastic joke saying I was offended and the mod who had banned me from another group who I thought was my friend gave me a guilt trip this kind of set me off seeming she was toxic towards me constantly manipulating me and ect. I had explained in a passive aggressive rant that how toxic my irl relationship was than hers of her having to van her online partner the next morning (this morning) my sister was found in the road who is now safe at home without injury after I had got on Goodreads to check on somethings such as rp I got a rude message from the mod I was passively aggressive to through a rant after she was trying to make everything about her the day before she had told me that it was my fault and that her problems were more important than mine and that dating him was illegal and so on and so forth which this made me angry my last message I posted before leaving the group was telling her she was a low life (sorry for my cursing) bitch and asked how it was my fault as the incident was very unexpected I then left the group and unfriended her but it made me think how was it my fault is it my fault? I need someone to tell me what I did wrong my partner was very nice to me for almost a year and treated me like any partner would normally before everything happened when he lost his home due to aviction my ex dalin talking to him and a whore who was new to my school named Harley please someone tell me what I did to deserve this and if it's my fault? Because I feel like it is..

You did nothing wrong. She changed drastically, it's clear that Dalin, clearly influenced her change. You just need time to heal, Cuddlebug. I know that it hurts, but it's going to hurt, but time will heal your wounds.

Thank u.. Paige..