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29 - A Book with a Neurodivergent Main Character

As someone who was recently diagnosed with adult autism this year, I'm always looking for books related to autism or other neurodiverse disorders.
I found a few. I'm not sure about nonfiction, I still need to dig deeper there, but I did find a fiction pick:
The Silver Linings Playbook


Even though I have 'Silver Linings Playbook,' I'm thinking of NF too. I told myself I want to read more NF with regards to autism, specifically books published within the past 5 years.

Jane Doe (sequel: Problem Child)
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People with autism are usually much more honest than average people so a sociopath would not work. They do not lie. I also read
You. It was so funny. I couldn't believe her giving him all her personal information so carelessly. I had to laugh at what a dumb bunny she was!

As someone who was recently diagnosed with adult autism this year, I'm always looking for books related to autism or other neurodiverse disorders."
I recently learned that I have ADHD and I too was excited by this prompt. Since ADHD in women presents differently than in men, when I found The Love Letters of Abelard and Lily I knew this was the perfect book for me. Bonus, both leads are neurodivergent but in different ways! Double bonus, the author is also neurodivergent!!

The book is Unmasking Autism: Discovering the New Faces of Neurodiversity. He explains the differences between autism and attention deficit disorder. I don't believe that I had these problems when I was younger but they have appeared due to Chemical Injury (CI) and is also called EI (Environmental Illness). Our toxic overload today can make these problems worse.

Jane Doe (sequel: Problem Child)
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People with autism are usually much m..."
I wasn't comparing autism to being a sociopath. Just listing a different type of neurodivergence. (Thinking outside the box is actually one of my ADHD traits lol)

"Sociopathy and narcissism are slowly hijacking the Neurodiverse umbrella. This trend needs to be discussed. Shamus Hart."
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I think this trend is very very wrong as imo sociopath's are criminals and Narcissists are not far behind as they don't care about anyone but themselves. People need to be very careful about lumping these things together.


Thinking of books I've read in the past, Queens of Geek, Turtles All the Way Down and Six of Crows should fit. Though my memory isn't as good with these, I think Eliza and Her Monsters, The Brightsiders, and Even If We Break work too.

"Sociopathy and narcissism are slowly hijacking the Neurodiverse umbrella. This trend needs to be discussed. Shamus Hart."
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I think this trend is very very wrong as imo s..."
I don’t know how I feel about the general morality of the definition of neurodivergent. I understand you think that’s important when choosing a book for this prompt and I’m sure you will find a good one that suits you. Everyone has their own book finding process I guess :)

OMG I loved this book! I read it this year and...I was absolutely floored. I annotated it so heavily because of how much I could relate to it, not just now, but I saw my past self in a lot of it too. This is certainly my favorite book of 2023.
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I found my NF choice.
I was Googling upcoming release books about autism and this one caught my eye that is scheduled for release in January:
Women and Girls on the Autism Spectrum, Second Edition: Understanding Life Experiences from Early Childhood to Old Age
I thought this would be interesting because it shows how different autism presents itself in women compared to men. And I kind of experienced this first hand. When my therapist (a woman) diagnosed me as autistic, I told my psychiatrist about it and he dismissed it without giving it a second thought. I'm looking forward to seeing what research this author has in regards to all of that.




A fiction favourite i highly recommend is A Boy Made of Blocks. The main character's son is autistic. It also fits the video game category. The dad bonds with his son playing Minecraft together.
As for non-fiction, some autobiographies/memoirs i love (and highly recommend) of people with autism are:
Asperger's on the Inside
Pretending to be Normal: Living with Asperger's Syndrome
Twirling Naked in the Streets and No One Noticed: Growing Up With Undiagnosed Autism
For those diagnosed with Asperger's Syndrome (or interested others) might find this helpful
Appreciating Asperger Syndrome: Looking at the Upside - with 300 Positive Points
Shamus Hart may not like it, but "neurodivergent" is such a vague term that many different things fit under the umbrella: autism, learning difficulties, ADHD, mental illness, and sociopathy are all diverging from the typical brain pattern. If one tries to say "sociopaths are not neurodiverse" then what you are saying is "sociopaths are the vast majority." And let's hope that is not true.
"Neurodivergent" is not a medical term or diagnosis.
"Sociopath" is probably not the INTENT of this prompt, but it still fits within the wording we were given.
"Neurodivergent" is not a medical term or diagnosis.
"Sociopath" is probably not the INTENT of this prompt, but it still fits within the wording we were given.

Thank you, Nadine!

Struck By Genius: How a Brain Injury Made Me a Mathematical Marvel
or Between Two Worlds: Lessons From the Other Side by Tyler Henry who is a medium.

Helen Hoang writes romances about neurodivergent characters
Pretty as a Picture is a murder mystery set on a film set, where the main character is on the spectrum
Convenience Store Woman- one of my favorite books from last year. I don't know if it ever actually states the character is on the spectrum, but that's how I read it, so I think it fits


We're Not Broken: Changing the Autism Conversation
I'm barely on chapter 1, but already I am liking it.



I already have my pick for this prompt, but I kind of want to branch out on the side.
For anyone who has read Happiness Falls: is the neurodivergent son, Eugene, a "main character"? I just read page one and he's mentioned immediately, and then I wondered if I can use this book for this category.

Yes, Eugene is a main character.
Also, this book can be a recommendation for Ron.
Milena wrote: "Nadine in NY wrote: "For anyone who has read Happiness Falls: is the neurodivergent son, Eugene, a "main character"? I just read page one and he's mentioned immediately, and then I ..."
thanks!
thanks!


Nonfic
Odd Girl Out
How to Be Autistic
Ten Steps to Nanette: A Memoir Situation
NeuroTribes: The Legacy of Autism and How to Think Smarter About People Who Think Differently
Untypical
Strong Female Character
Letters to My Weird Sisters: On Autism and Feminism
Diary of a Young Naturalist
Mad Girl (focuses on OCD)
MG & YA fiction
The Real Boy
The Many Half-Lived Lives of Sam Sylvester (main character is also nonbinary if anyone wants some LGBTQ+ rep too)
A Kind of Spark (as well as most if not all of Elle McNicoll's other novels)
The Nowhere Girls
On the Edge of Gone
A Quiet Kind of Thunder (selective mutism)
Under Rose-Tainted Skies (agoraphobia, OCD)
Adult fiction
All The Little Bird-Hearts
Into the Drowning Deep
Failure to Communicate
Act Your Age, Eve Brown
Big Girl, Small Town

Knowing Why: Adult-Diagnosed Autistic People on Life and Autism

If you're seeing a lot of women diagnosed with ADHD later in life, it's because the eighties (and most of the nineties) completely failed to recognize that it wasn't just boys that had ADHD…I hate feeling like a trope! LOL

I second the recommend. This book is excellent. I also recommend The Speed of Dark by Elizabeth Moon

I could not have put this better myself!
If you diverge neurologically from the majority, you're neurodivergent.
No moral judgment, The vast majority of sociopaths (NOT a clinical diagnosis, btw) are NOT criminals. Having worked forensic clinical psych inpatient for many years, I ran into an amazing number of folks with Narcissistic Personality, Histrionic Personality, and folks with substance abuse disorders.

I'm really looking forward to getting into this one. I skimmed through some of it yesterday and a lot of it makes sense. I look forward to reading it as a whole today. Complete with annotations.


I can also say as an Austen fan I'm enjoying it so far. The author basically worked it out so that almost all the MC's from Austen novels are attending a house party together after all their respective marriages, when Wickham is murdered. It's fun, and she clearly knows and loves her Austen. My only complaint so far is that, clearly in part in order to give multiples parties possible motives for the murder a lot of the couples are going through rough patches or sticky situations. And that hurts a little - for almost all Jane's couples (particularly Anne/Capt Wentworth and Elizabeth/Darcy) I just want to picture them living forever in a blissful little happily ever after bubble. No hard times for them!
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I literally pumped my fist in the air and said "YES!" when I read this one! There are some really good ones out there but one of my favorites is any of the books from the 3 books from the Don Tillman trilogy by Graeme Simsion :
#1 The Rosie Project
#2 The Rosie Effect
#3 The Rosie Result
I adored the first two books and realize that I own the third but have not yet read it, so that will be the one listed on my initial plan!
I'm certain there are many more, including nonfiction!!
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