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yes my kinda old bestie is kinda of a bitch she she tried to gaslight me into think i was the bad person

same 🥹 my old bestie was toxic i'm happy i broke my friendship with her

I'M SO FED UP ARGHHH
I thought this girl and I were bsf, but she has a pfp with another girl and sometimes posts about her in her insta story. And she used to tell me that she hates her, but now she's complaining to ME that the other girl is kinda got closer with another, and she feels like that she likes the other more. Like?? HELLO??? I'm here😭 But I'm not that kind of person who have the courage to tell her how I feel :/ She doesn't say that I'm her bsf, but she always give hints like this. And I know that I'm not that interactive on IG (I don't post in my story, like, never) but I think thats still not an excuse. And I was kinda depressed about this recently, and I realised that all my friends has other friends from sports or ig, but I don't😭 There are like 5 friends that matter to me and I feel like they love me "the same" as I do. And next year we will go to different schools and I'm already panicking that I won't have friends😭

Viki (Nikolai's version) wrote: "I'M SO FED UP ARGHHH
I thought this girl and I were bsf, but she has a..."

I hope I'm not overstepping any boundaries, but here's my 2 cents. I think this girl sounds toxic. If she's making you second guess your friendship. Good friends should make you feel comfortable enough to share you honest feelings. Just think if you want to be friends with her anymore or not? If yes, you should talk to her. and if she makes fun of you for expressing your doubts and concerns, i think you should leave this friendship behind and focus on more positive things in life.

About the changing schools thing you said, I changed schools last year. I had three friends. One of them never called me (used the same excuse lol, you don't have snapchat or insta, how can i talk to you) or texted me after I changed schools, but the other two text and call me everyday, even though I don't have any instagram. I feel like if a person wants to be with you, they will try and put in the effort. And honestly, i think i feel almost relieved after that girl stopped texting me. It's as if I've shed a weight.

It feels good to let go of things that make you miserable.

That's it i hope i helped somehow 😙