Queereaders discussion

Ik I posted like a few hours ago but I’m scared. Last year I thought I was nonbinary then I thought I was a demigirl and today I looked in the mirror and there was actual pain in my chest. I couldn’t breathe and I don’t even know. I can’t look in the mirror without feeling really sad or pain. This has never happened this bad before. All my friends have completely forgotten about me coming out and they never used the right pronouns anyway. No one cares. And it hurts. If I came out, I’ll get bullied and I’ll lose friends. And I can’t do anything about the dysphoria. I feel like no one will ever like me bc I’m nonbinary and it just makes me really, really sad. I’m just confused.

Ok this is how I see it and you don’t have to listen to me at all. When I came out, I lost friends and yeah it was definitely sad and yeah 100% it was sad. But I realised after little while after I lost a few friends that if they’re not going to except every part of me whether it’s my pronouns or who I wanna make out with then maybe they’re not the kind of people I wanna be friends with. I’m so sorry you feel this way and I hope that you feel better soon. Ik you don’t know me but you are an amazing human being!

Exactly it was genuinely euphoria when my friends just excepted who I am the second I came out. You’ll never be alone for too long and us on here are proof that people will accept you. And if you feel scared to come out then just know that everyone does you’re not the alone in that.

I don't know if this is helpful or not but you are definitely not alone. Pronouns are a big issue at my school, no one respects them, and dysphoria is sad and real as heck, but trust me people will like you. My friend from my old school was nonbinary and was one of the most popular kids in the grade. Ignore the haters as much as you can. Some people don't care but some definitely do. My nonbinary friend was like my confidante, they listened so well to everything I wanted to say, they were the first person and one of the only people I came out to and trust me people care about you. The first time I talked to someone about my feelings I felt like I needed to cry. Find someone you can talk to and relate to, it helps like crazy. For the dysphoria I have it too and same for me I can't stand my reflection without feeling super sad, but I've realized that it helps if I forget about my face or my body and dress the way I want, or act the way I want, and it helps me feel more confident. idk if that was helpful but I hope things work out for you :)