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Book #4 - The Push
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Content warnings: abortion (mentioned), cheating, child abuse, death of an infant, gaslighting, grief, self-harm (suicide), mental health (including postnatal depression), miscarriage.

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Although it discussed some heavy topics, I loved this book. I found it a little confusing at first to get into, and wished it could have been deeper character development at times, (specifically for the mothers), so rated it 4/5, but I haven’t stopped thinking about this book since I finished it.
I love that it shows a darker side of motherhood and familial relationships. Relationships with parents are tricky and nuanced, this did a good job not forgiving some of the bad behaviour but at least explaining it, along with the impact of generational trauma.
I didn’t connect with my son when I had him. Not immediately, and not the way I was expecting anyways. And he is autistic, so was displaying some lack of eye contact and emotion. My mommy brain and sleep deprived thinking led me down some dark rabbit holes. This was interesting for me to read, given I could relate sometimes to some of the narrator’s desperation to connect with someone who can understand.
Add in the suspense storyline of wondering whether the narrator is reading into things or whether her daughter is actually capable of doing the things she thinks she saw, and I was hooked.


The dark side of motherhood and the fear of being a “good mom” combined with the psychological thriller aspect was excellent. I kept second guessing if Violet was truly evil or if this mother was experiencing psychosis at first, but as the book continued and more was revealed, I was hooked!

I thought it was a good commentary also on how mothers are expected to be by society and totally ostracized when they don’t fall into that expectation, out of necessity or not.
I loved this book! I was hooked right away. At the start, I thought the mother was "just" experiencing post-partum depression but in complete denial. I was like "there is no way her 1 year old is evil...that is crazy?" But the book hooks you and soon enough I was on the mother's side. I really liked the Mom and her character - I felt so much empathy towards her.
Page 78 stands out to me! It is the monologue about her being a mother and what she does everyday compared to her husband. The life of a stay at home mom goes unnoticed, let alone a stay at home mom of a killer!
I wish the ending was a bit more shocking - but it was at least reassuring.
Does anyone have any thoughts on if Violet killed Ms. Ellington? I think she did. Violet took away everything that her mother loved and cherished (Sam, her husband, the painting). Her mother was vulnerable enough to introduce her to Ms. Ellington...and a few pages later we find out she died...suspicious!
Page 78 stands out to me! It is the monologue about her being a mother and what she does everyday compared to her husband. The life of a stay at home mom goes unnoticed, let alone a stay at home mom of a killer!
I wish the ending was a bit more shocking - but it was at least reassuring.
Does anyone have any thoughts on if Violet killed Ms. Ellington? I think she did. Violet took away everything that her mother loved and cherished (Sam, her husband, the painting). Her mother was vulnerable enough to introduce her to Ms. Ellington...and a few pages later we find out she died...suspicious!

Interesting theory about Mrs Ellington - I want to go back and read that scene again now.
