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Jul 10, 2025 01:41PM

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what are your advices to shut your mouth? I am for real here. I tell people around me way to many things and they end using me.

I think the best way is just not talk. at least for me it worked; I used to talk a lot to people because I was really introvert and when people started talking to me I noticed that I would talk a lot and would always be nice to people and now I learned to be quite.
The good thing about letting people talk rather than you do the talking is that you get to see people body language and that tells you a lot about there person. Whether they are a good person or not. :)

Im good at giving advices; lowkey I should have been a therapist but im a nursing student so I guess it close lol!

Honestly, if you truly feel like you need to say no in a situation, it's best that you just do, I will say the nicest way that you could say it is, "no thank you, or no thank you I don't like that" but also depending on what your saying no too it is best you still say it firmly you can still be nice about it tone wise but still be firm on your word

and yes ofc this is the proper place you can ask things like that it can be the smallest piece of advice you need you can definitely still ask here