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Rant: Group Copycatting




I agree with this. Also they should not copy the individual posts.
They are begging for members right now. I just got a group invitation (before seeing this thread) from a person saying that they were 'begged' to send invitations to join.

I can understand why other reading challenge groups may pop up. After all, some people may be intimidated to join ours if they are not romance readers because they don't realize it's not exclusively for romance.

@D.G.
I agree that I would need to contact the moderators, but I'm letting myself calm down first before putting together a message. Not good to type something when one is mad.



I'm real sorry to hear she's done that, Yz. You guys put a lot of thought and hard work into your group and they should do their own.
Once you've had your moment of zen, I would most definitely, at the very least, email her about the copying. Your feelings are justified and she needs to stop.
Good luck. We're with ya.

*goes and looks at site*
Now just hold on here! They have some guy that hangs out there too much making snarky posts and the occasional thinly veiled sexual innuendo. Guy calls himself 'PictureJim'. I'm sorry but this is just going too far!
OK, seriously, what you've created here is a wonderful place. I'm sorry that someone is trying to steal your thunder. Send a note asking the mods to at least come up with something original. But don't worry about it after that. It's the community here that makes this fun.

I think you are completely justified in feeling angry about this thing, YZ. I understand wanting to use others challenge ideas since some people aren't creative enough to think of one on their own or like the way one person created their challenge. But topic discussions? Are you really lacking so much in ideas for topic discussions that you feel the need to steal others ideas? If so, you probably shouldn't be creating your own group.
As for the friends invites, the moderator sent me an email begging to invite friends & I refuse. I care enough about my friends on here not to bombard them with friend invites to a group that I'm not sure I'm going to like yet. What ever decision you decide to make, I'm with you.

Yz, I hope you can sort this "confusion" out soon. :)

Very smart, Yz. It's never good to write to anybody angry.
I agree with Jim that it's the community - and all your hard work - that makes this group fun. I wonder how much that group will last if the mod cannot take the time to write her own posts!!

The Suggestions Thread here is great, and many members who post ideas there are also in my group. If I use ideas, I try to ALWAYS give credit to who if not where I got the idea. Otherwise, it is just not fair. Now I am sure there have been times where I thought it was original and it was not, but that does not sound like the case here. Also, it does not take much effort to personalize the challenge a little at all. I am very careful not to post something word for word or in this case challenge for challenge.
I believe that when you calm down, as you have every right to be angry, you should inform the moderators how you feel. As a matter of fact, one of their mods is also one of mine.
After reading this post, I will go leave the group. I thought the begging for invites was a bit odd. If someone is interested they will search it out and join. Until then, the moderators just have to work that much harder to make it interesting. I will not support copying and, right now, I didn't even see any challenges!
I hope this works out for you Yz. Please keep us posted on what the moderators say. Like I said, one of tier moderators is one of mine, and I am interested in how she handles this situation if you were to send the message to them both.

Thanks for sharing some levity into the whole matter. I needed that smile.
@everyone
Thanks for the heartfelt support.

So I'm going to soothe my ruffled feathers by raising the bar. I'm off to cook up another challenge, one that has been brewing in my head for some time, and will probably unveil it today or tomorrow.
*hugs to everyone*
Have I mentioned that I'm so lucky to have such great members in this group? Well, I am. : )

Sorry Yz that they did this to you and your lovely group here. I can understand borrowing ideas for some games or something, but with everything they've used they should have either acknowledged where it came from or asked permission. I'd be just as mad as you are.

Yz, you have a wonderful, fantastic, fun-filled group here. I know it has taken tremendous time, effort, and creativity to get it up and running...and still yet requires those things even more so now on your part to maintain and grow the group. I'm sure you started from the ground up. I think it is very wrong of someone else to take what you have worked so hard on and try to start their own group. If someone wants to start a reading challenge group - so be it...but they need to use their own time, effort and creativity to do so...not "steal" someone else's.
On a lighter note, I do want to tell you that I love this group! It is by far my favorite. Thank you for all that you do to keep it so fun and exciting.

Something is happening over there. When I got my first invite it went right through and I was a member. I also thought it was a public group. Now it's a private group. You must be a member to view their discussions and membership must be approved before you can join.
I realize Yz that we're a public group so anyone can see the discussions here, but based on their actions if either of that group's moderators is a member here, I would remove their group membership from your group.

However, Yz, I do believe it would be a good idea for you to keep your membership and keep an eye on what she is doing. If this happens again, I agree with Brainsgirl, you should contact GR. I only advise this, though, if it happens again after you have talked to her.

I'm glad she apologized and acknowledged the copycatting, promising to make things right. I wish her luck with her group, but I won't be rejoining it. I'm happy where I am. Thanks for taking the time to create such fun challenges, Yz. :)

Thank you so much for defending our group. I really appreciate you standing up for us.
Also, to all who posted here and those who sent me private messages in support of this matter, I greatly extend my gratitude.

Yz -- I'm glad she contacted you and acknowledged that lifting your words was not the best way to go about things.
My guess is that it was a little bit of over enthusiasm. I noticed that Rachel just joined Gooodreads this month (so that couldn't have been more than 9 days ago). Not sure why she decided to start her own group instead of just getting involved with the ones that are already here (she's a member of this group, for example), but I can understand getting excited about the Goodreads community. Not that this excuses her lifting your words -- it doesn't. It takes a lot of work to get a thriving group off the ground and she needs to do her own work. Hopefully, that will happen now.
And, Yay on the new challenge (not that I need one, but I'll probably do it anyway -- see the "What's the Appeal" thread ;o)).

I'm aware that Rachel was new in GR. I sent her a welcome pm to GR and to our group just a couple of days ago, that's why she is still fresh in my mind.
That's also the reason, I tried to be gracious about her apology and shared with her some input that it would be wise not to copy people's words on GR because despite the huge membership, there is that feeling of community. I do wish her luck in her group. I do not want this little incident to turn her off Goodreads.
Still, I cannot help my initial reaction. Can't help being possessive about my own words, can I? :) That's why I have to calm down before I responded.

Thanks for sharing some levity into the whole matter. I needed that smile.
@everyone
Thanks for the heartfelt support."
Anytime Yz. You know we got your back.
I try to throw a little levity into EVERY situation. There are many people who don't appreciate my sense of humor (or even understand what I'm talking about for that matter). Granted my timing and content are often wildly inappropriate (like Mother Theresa used to say, 'If they can't take a joke, F 'em!'). But if something I've said has lightened your mood, then I'm happy.
PS. I'm looking forward to whatever challenge you are about to unveil.



I'm aware that Rachel was new in GR. I sent her a welcome pm to GR and to our group just a couple of days ago, that's why she is still fresh in my mind.
Still, I cannot help my initial reaction. Can't help being possessive about my own words, can I? :) That's why I have to calm down before I responded."
Nope, I don't blame you one bit and you're wise to calm down first. I wish everyone on the internet had that much wisdom ;o).

You've worked your tail off, not just on this group but on all the groups you participate in, and don't deserve to have your hard work taken that way.
I wish there were something more I could do to rectify my part in promoting the group, and if you can think of anything, aside from the post I already made on that group, please let me know.

No need for apologies. It is not your actions that sent me into my little tizzy. : )
However, I'm very touched by your generous support to my feelings and simply by extending your understanding to the whole matter.

LOL...Yep...just finalizing the rules and the name for it. It will be a little different than the usual, so stay tuned everyone.
Have to channel my earlier hissy fit to something creative.. : )



I am in no way holding your responsible for something that is not your doing.
Furthermore, Rachel had already apologized and promised that she will change the parts that she copied verbatim. I'm going to go by faith on the matter, and I wish you guys well with your group.
I bear no ill will to anyone, even though, I admit I did go into a snitch earlier. Was just shock at seeing my exact words posted by someone else, as if it were their words, if you know what I mean.

I am in no way holding your responsible for something that is not your doing.
Furthermore, Rachel had already apologized and promised that she will change the parts that she copied verba..."
No, I completely understand and would feel the same way that you do. I like to help in other groups not create/be in charge. I just wanted you to know that I am aware of it, what my stance is, and know that i am not just standing idly by doing nothing.

Yz, you know how i feel already. *bows down* I want to be as mature as you when i grow up! *places a sparkling tiara to the Challenge Queen*


I think that's normal and not a bad thing, as some of the challenges could be incorporated to many other groups. The issue is copying everything exactly the same, down to the introduction for the group.

I don't think the mods in this group have an issue with that.


Yz, you know how i feel already. *bows down* I want to be as mature as you when i grow up! *places a sparkling tiara to the Challenge Queen*"
thanks so much Rossy! *hugs back*


A new group was recently formed called Nothing But Reading Challenges and more.
I have no beef about it being another reading challenge group. I have seen plenty of those came up after the creation of our group. I also don't mind if our challenges are used by other groups, since most of the time the moderators would pm me to ask permission, or they simply acknowledged where they got the idea.
What got my goat is that if you read their introduction, it copied word-for-word our group's intro.
Also, yesterday I started this thread in our group:
Reading Challenges:What's the Appeal
Now they have this thread and except for a few words has my own words verbatim:
Reading Challenges: What's the Appeal
Am I making a mountain over a molehill because I'm like spitting mad right now. I mean, couldn't they come up with their own ideas or even say it in their words.
Shall I just ignore such obvious copycatting? or do I say something?
Thanks for letting me vent.