Nothing is Taboo discussion

Can you have sex with someone on the first date and still have respect for them.Or is a big turn off?

No!Big Turn off cause you already think ...I mean know that's what he wants. And will he respect you and treat you like a lady after he gets it...I think not. He'll just spread your name with all his homeboys.Don't play yourself Ladies! Don't do it.

I think the answer on this will be much different for men than it is women. I think it depends on a lot of factors. Like how long did you know one another prior to going on your first date. Its a no no for me. But for others it works

If both parties are on the same page, I dont think it would matter. But some people are not into sexual relations on the first date---- I'm one of them.

I flip the question by asking do men respect women when they sleep with them on the first date?

It depends on the man. If that is what he wants on the first date, and he's looking for that on the first date, and that happens, that would be a good date. Now, if this man thinks that you are a respectable woman and sex occurs on the first date,chances are he's gonna lose respect for you. Later, if the relationship survives, he'll throw it up in your face every chance he gets. In the back of his mind, he'll think, if she did it to me on the first date ,how many other men have she done this to. In my opinion, no respectable woman will have sex on the first date, and no respectable man will ask a woman for sex on the first date.Bottom line, some men are looking for a perfect, wholesome woman who they can be proud of and later marry. They don't want to hear their woman's name in the street And then, some men are just looking to play.
But in some cases,some people sleep together on the first date and they connect and get marraide. I have a few friends who had relationships like that.
Some advice to women:If a man is not willing to wait at least three months without having sex with you, you don't need him.
Because if a man really wants you, he will wait for you. Don't let a man throw that lame excuse that he has needs. If he really wants you ,he will wait until you are ready.

I made up my mind on my first date that I was going to be with my wife for the rest of my life and we've been together for two years now.

I’m a man and I might not want to have sex until the 5th or 6th date then what? Then the women will simply replace me.

The only reason sex on the first date is wrong is because society deems it wrong. But sex is an urge just like food and water. Now, since some women are the ultimate schemers, what they’ll do is tell the new guy ‘NO’ Then she’ll go home and pull out her vibrator or call up her ex boyfriend and have sex with him until she ready to have with the new guy. Because she doesn’t want the new guy to think that she’s a whore or Easy. But for me, I don’t care because I’m going to find out what she’s about on the first date anyway the second she opens her mouth. The whole purpose of a Date is to collect DATA. And I want to know what she’s made of right then and there.

No. The whole point of a first date is to get to know someone better. I think people should be adult in their conversations and be open and honest with the other person. I'm not saying tell them every last thing about yourself and your dating history. I mean talk to them, get to know them. After a couple of dates, the conversation should turn toward sex and how the other person feels about it. Too many times sex is rushed and it confuses and ruins everything. Each person should be in total agreement regarding when and if it should occur.