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message 1: by RandomAnthony (last edited Dec 08, 2008 02:23AM) (new)

RandomAnthony | 14536 comments Are you the type of person who loses things? What do you lose? How did you get it back, if you did? Why do you keep losing things, silly?

I used to lose my keys constantly but now I have a failsafe system in which I put them in the same goddamn place every day, both in my office and house, to keep that from happening.

I lose computer files sometimes. That's my fault, though, for stupidass naming policies.

I also regularly can't find my car in parking lots. It's small.

And...you?


message 2: by Noran (new)

Noran Miss Pumkin My glasses. So i left up my christmas sotcking 3 years ago- everytime i come home-i put them right there upon entering the house. lol


Tim (Mole) The Gunslinger (Mole) I lose everything keys are a big one but since I started hanging them up its been relativeley easy to find them!

Glasses every now and then try to keep those babies close I feel stupid when I gotta ask the wife to come look for them cause Im blind! lol well I couldnt be a Mole with 20/20


message 4: by Meen (new)

Meen (meendee) | 1733 comments I lose things several times a day. On my desks. Without ever leaving my office. It upsets me terribly because it was just RIGHT HERE, and now I can't find it.


(I should note that my desks are very messy.)


message 5: by Sally, la reina (new)

Sally (mrsnolte) | 17373 comments Mod
I go through phases where I lose/break/turn to shite everything I touch. This will last for approx. six weeks or so.

Last time this happened I broke two glass pitchers, lost my phone, my gym card, and locked myself out of my car at the gas station.


message 6: by Sarah (new)

Sarah (songgirl7) My husband lost his job, and I am losing my mind, trying to make sure we don't lose our house.

Does that count?


message 7: by [deleted user] (new)

My library assistant is constantly on the look for things that I've lost. She looks for my clipboard or my coffee or the book I was about to read my class about 57% of her work day. I'm horrible.

RA, your key problem has a keen solution, but my problem is that I'm never CONSCIOUS of where I'm putting my keys. I've solved this by tying a giant silk scarf to my keys. I never lose them, anymore.


message 8: by Julie (new)

Julie | 568 comments I lose everything...it's really quite annoying.
Clothes, books, important documents, small appliances, among others.
I recently lost a pair of shoes, and it just baffles me as to where they could've gone.
It's not like I take them off outside the house, but I have looked for months, and they are lost.
It's a possibility that I have a multiple personality disorder that I am unaware of.


message 9: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) It's a possibility that I have a multiple personality disorder that I am unaware of.

That is so intriguing. Do you find yourself missing periods of time as well?


message 10: by Meen (new)

Meen (meendee) | 1733 comments I've lost my copy of Norton Antivirus. I don't want to switch to something else. I LIKE Norton.

I hate most when you lose things and you KNOW "they're here somewhere"!

Sarah, there are some federal programs now to help mortgage holders who are struggling. Have you been able to get any info about that kind of stuff?


message 11: by Laurel (new)

Laurel I lost a pair of running shorts. Anyone seen them? They are light blue with black trim. How does one lose their running shorts? I don't remember coming home from a run shortsless.


Jackie "the Librarian" | 8991 comments I feel so organized, reading this thread. I don't tend to lose things. I always put my keys in my purse, and my purse gets hung in the same place when I come home.
I think if I lived alone, my cereal would be alphabetized...


message 13: by Jessica (last edited Dec 08, 2008 07:21PM) (new)

Jessica (jesstrea) Sarah (message 6), I'm really sorry about your husband. Such hard times right now...a good friend of mine was laid off from his job (after 15 yrs) and my brother's hours have been cut back quite a lot as well.
as for losing your mind....I lose mine on a regular basis and don't always find it again either. When I do, it hardly seems like it's mine...

By the way, what are you studying now? are you back in college or getting a Master's or--?


message 14: by Jessica (new)

Jessica (jesstrea) Most likely everyone already knows this poem, but it's one of my favorites (and Bishop one of my favorite poets):
One Art
by Elizabeth Bishop

The art of losing isn't hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent
to be lost that their loss is no disaster.

Lose something every day. Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.

Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places, and names, and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster.

I lost my mother's watch. And look! my last, or
next-to-last, of three loved houses went.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.

I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.


--Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture
I love) I shan't have lied. It's evident
the art of losing's not too hard to master
though it may look like (Write it!) like disaster.




message 15: by Cyril (new)

Cyril Laurel, are you the one with the red shirt (sans shorts) in your picture? I would never have guessed.

It appears you are wearing shorts, but they have partly disintegrated in your travels.


message 16: by Laurel (new)

Laurel Ha! No, those aren't the shorts...they are obviously safe and sound? Sort of?

Mine were definitely blue.

(And obviously I am the bunny in the picture.)


message 17: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) No! I think that's Leslie! He's a mainstay in Austin.




message 18: by Laurel (new)

Laurel You got it, Larry!



message 19: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) Yes!


message 20: by Meen (new)

Meen (meendee) | 1733 comments Is that a banana hammock?


message 21: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) It is indeed!


message 22: by Natalie (new)

Natalie (ghostinmarble) My glasses. God. I'm almost late to work every morning searching for the goddamned things.

Like RA, I also tend to lose my car. It's a Chevy Metro and is easily hidden behind soccer mom vans, compensatory Hummers, and family-of-nine SUVs.


message 23: by Sarah (new)

Sarah (songgirl7) Chairy, I'm back in college (I never graduated) studying literature. But it looks like I'll be putting that on hold once again to go to work full time once again.

Mindy, I'm not really a fan of government spending. I think that would be a last resort for us.


message 24: by Sheila (last edited Dec 09, 2008 05:14AM) (new)

Sheila Oooh Ginnie. I've loved that poem, ever since hearing this audio of it:

http://www.learner.org/catalog/extras...




message 25: by Jessica (last edited Dec 09, 2008 05:21AM) (new)

Jessica (jesstrea) But Ginnie, I'd already posted it--see message 14...I feel redundant now... : )


message 26: by [deleted user] (new)

I don't know if anyone remembers this poem... I think it's applicable here, so I thought I'd post it.

One Art by Elizabeth Bishop

The art of losing isn't hard to master;
so many things seem filled with the intent
to be lost that their loss is no disaster.

Lose something every day. Accept the fluster
of lost door keys, the hour badly spent.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.

Then practice losing farther, losing faster:
places, and names, and where it was you meant
to travel. None of these will bring disaster.

I lost my mother's watch. And look! my last, or
next-to-last, of three loved houses went.
The art of losing isn't hard to master.

I lost two cities, lovely ones. And, vaster,
some realms I owned, two rivers, a continent.
I miss them, but it wasn't a disaster.

--Even losing you (the joking voice, a gesture
I love) I shan't have lied. It's evident
the art of losing's not too hard to master
though it may look like (Write it!) like disaster.



message 27: by Jessica (new)

Jessica (jesstrea) thanks D....
hmm..it seems like I've heard it before...not sure though. I seem to have lost that memory file...


message 28: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) There is always a solution at hand (for losing things, not for duplicate posts of Elizabeth Bishop poems).

http://www.ehow.com/how_2131263_stop-...


message 29: by Jessica (new)

Jessica (jesstrea) yes, but that was David's idea of a joke....to make me feel better. Not to worry: I posted the same comment David had in a different thread: I was being an obnoxious grammarian, and I didn't realize he beat me to it several messages earlier!
so I've not a leg to stand on apparently...


message 30: by Meen (new)

Meen (meendee) | 1733 comments Yeah, Sarah, I didn't figure you would be, but sometimes we're just not able to do it all on our own.

I try to frame government as just how "we" act collectively rather than some big bad boogeyman that is antithetical to social and/or individual welfare. (If "we" are a democracy, which is highly debatable, that really is all government is, how "we" act collectively.) I would like to thank "us" for the year that I was on food stamps. It was unbelievably helpful for me during a really difficult time, as it is for all of the families I work with who make nothing near the living wage.


message 31: by Eric_W (last edited Dec 09, 2008 07:51AM) (new)

Eric_W (ericw) I am sooo glad it's just not me. I have several weird rituals now, aside from always putting things in the same place. When I get ready to go out or leave the house, I count the things I need to have: pen, notebook, phone, wallet, right shoes (don't ask), keys, MP3 player. If I don't get to 7 I know something is missing. And Sarah, we are all thinking of you.


message 32: by Lisa (new)

Lisa | 21 comments I loose my keys sometimes, but I don't loose my car now that keys have the fob on them with the alarm. I hit the alarm and listen for the direction of the sound. It scares the poor person who has the bad luck to be getting out of the car beside mine but it works for me.


message 33: by Meen (new)

Meen (meendee) | 1733 comments I have to keep my keys attached to me.


message 34: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) Mindy: piercings?


message 35: by Meen (new)

Meen (meendee) | 1733 comments Hahahaha!

No, just one of those hook things that go on your belt loop. (I have really bad days when my pants don't have belt loops.)


message 36: by Jessica (new)

Jessica (jesstrea) L: you lose your car keys because they are loose...
: )


message 37: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) Now you're loosing me, here. Does that make me a looser? Or just too loose? Either way I guess I lose.


message 38: by Lisa (new)

Lisa | 21 comments Ha! actually yes they are usually :) I lose my keys because they are loose.


message 39: by Sally, la reina (new)

Sally (mrsnolte) | 17373 comments Mod
I lost my flash drive that had all the PDFs of files I was planning to read for my thesis. Granted, I've changed my topic since then. This flash drive also had copies of every paper I wrote last semester, as well as lesson plans for my classes.




message 40: by Leslie (new)

Leslie | 777 comments Good luck--I hope you find it!
Sometimes I buy things that I know I already have--somewhere! As far as keys and stuff like that I'm pretty good. On work nights, I make sure all the stuff I need is there on the counter and it's get up, get ready and go. Anything else is way too stressful!
I lose important papers and that gets very frustrating and time-consuming.
I love the idea of being organized. Just the sight of a well organzined garage or kitchen can give me a sense of well-being, but the actual practice of organization--not happening. Maybe one day....


message 41: by Karencilla (new)

Karencilla | 82 comments i always loose those tiny earrings!! I haven't found a way to prevent it.

I always loose my physical coordination (can't catch a ball hahaha).. I'm uncoordinated by default, does it count?


message 42: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) Here's the only option, K. Don't wear any! :P


message 43: by Karencilla (new)

Karencilla | 82 comments @ Larry, i can't i have to wear 3 earrings in one ear, and 2 in the other... impossible to wear just a pair =( haha the price of it right?


message 44: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) Ah! I see.


message 45: by Karencilla (new)

Karencilla | 82 comments haha you sound dissapointed



message 46: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) No not at all. I never wear earrings, so I never lose any. Lucky me, huh?


message 47: by Karencilla (new)

Karencilla | 82 comments hahhaha you are really funny Larry. yes lucky you.
But, don't you ever loose something?


message 48: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) I've been known to lose my heart on occasion.


message 49: by Karencilla (new)

Karencilla | 82 comments oh no. =(
what can i say.. i'm a mess with the whole love thing.


message 50: by Félix (new)

Félix (habitseven) Yeah, well, don't give up.


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