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When I wake up I don’t get straight out of bed. I sit up, rest my back so it’s straight and take a deep breath. I concentrate on my breathing – this is mindfulness. I then continue taking in deep breaths. That is all I focus on. Once I’ve fully focused on 20 complete breaths without my mind wandering then I get up. This energizes me for the start of the day.

After I have showered, etc I take 10 deep breaths and sing out my affirmations. Those affirmations are relating to what I’m going to do that day.

Here’s an example:

“I’m going to be viewing a property, and that property is mine.”

I then spend between 15 minutes and 30 minutes meditating, just emptying my mind.

Breakfast is wholemeal porridge (oats) with a sprinkling of cinnamon and dried berries. It allows a slow release of energy during the course of the day. I have a glass of pure fruit juice and a herbal tea. Now I’m charged and ready for action and I thank the day for what it will bring and for those loving and kind people I will meet that day. That’s my Cosmic Order. Yes, I know for many that they have to go through a different routine, but I Cosmic Order on the fly (on the move).
My mind is focused and I am aware of what is going on around me. It’s amazing how many people just bumble along without this awareness!

I jot down my goals for the day. Here’s an example list:

• Complete session at gym.
• Meet up with real estate agent (in the UK it is an estate agent) to view property I am interested in buying.
• Check emails and reply to the ones needing immediate attention. Put those that need an answer within 24 hours in separate “to do” folder.
• Confirm venue has been booked by my PA for short Cosmic Ordering course I am running in nearby town.
• Print out and double-check my running order for the course.
• Clear away any outstanding business from the day before.
• Check with my PA that files have been sent to printer for book I am publishing for one of my authors.
• Ensure my webmaster is available for planned meeting over working lunch.
• Speak with my production team on audio production matters.
• Check in with my publicist, Jane, that she received blog posts for various web sites I supply.
• Chase up my plumber for gas safety certificates for some of my properties he is maintaining.
• Check new startup company I am running is on target for production side of things.
• Meet up with accountant to discus taxation matters.
• Check in with neighbor to find out what time he wants a lift with wardrobe he asked me to help him move.

I manage to get through a rather grueling session at the gym. At times I apply 110 percent, this is one of those days I seem to have unlimitless energy. The porridge has helped me retain some energy for after the workout. During the workout I spend some time focusing on the rest of the day, it helps get me over the hardest bits of my workout. I find if I, at times, focus on other things then I don’t notice the pain as much.

From there I meet up with a real estate agent (sometimes called real estate brokers) to view property I am interested in. One of my current tenants is living in a two bedroom property I own, but they want to upsize to a three bed-roomed property because of a change in circumstances. Usually I would not go out of my way to invest in a new property in this way, but the tenant is one of my long term ones and I have known her since she was a baby.

The property is a three bedroom upstairs flat, quite spacious but dated in its décor. To some this may be off-putting but not to me. It means I am going to be able to design it to the needs of the prospective tenant, and of course the price is good.

Looking around the place I already can work out what needs spending, and I deduct the costs from the asking price and make my offer to the real estate agent. Because I’m a property developer/investor, real estate agents love me. I don’t mean they literally love me, I mean they like it because they know that if I say I’m going to buy the place then it is going to go through without any hiccups.

I’m back at the computer to check on emails that need my attention. My PA has a big pile of important emails waiting for me to answer and a list of things she wants me to attend to. When I say my PA has a list of things for me to do, I mean exactly that. These are very important things she has listed that need my immediate attention.

One thing she has listed is some information that is outstanding that I need to supply to a TV company (one of Sky’s channels). They want details of questions they can ask about certain subjects on one of their channels. Actually it’s the presenter himself asking me to provide back-up questions for him to ask on his TV show. I’ve already made a mental list of the questions so list them and get them sent off to him.

I had a response to the short course I mentioned in a Cosmic Ordering newsletter that I would run if enough potential delegates wanted to attend. I discuss the venue with my PA and go over the room plan, items I will need and that the suite at the hotel where this is running has been booked. It’s only a short course, but 18 people are attending – mostly from my area as it’s easy for them to travel to.

I go through my new power points and running order for the course and give my PA the details of break times, etc so she can get them off to the delegates attending.

What’s left from the day before gets cleared away now. I have to be on the ball here as otherwise I get mind chatter over anything outstanding. By focusing on my breathing to quiet and strengthen my mind I get more control over my thoughts.
Of course the mind chatter is easy to park up, but it can be a distraction so best get things out of the way instead of putting them off.

I find a quiet 10 minutes and drift off into a meditative state to clear my mind and re-focus on my goals for the day. I then write a proactive statement about myself and a “wish list” for the rest of the day. I again give thanks for all what is happening and for those around me working so hard to make things happen in a good way. I have learned to master my thoughts so that I can be a closer companion to the seat of universal consciousness within me. I create a power image within my mind and I’m charged up once more.

I check all is going to plan with a book I am publishing for an established author of mine. I run through the main points with my PA and ensure we are on target for the publication date.

I check with my PA that my webmaster Mike has been booked for a working lunch with me and then I’m off to meet with him. We meet in a Spanish restaurant. The food is good and the ideas we bounce off each other are taking shape. By the end of lunch we both leave with notes that we have each jotted down.

I’m now on my way to meet with my team about audio production matters. There’s so much to do behind the scenes in that particular industry, and I must admit that it took me some time to get used to the terminology used within it. The meeting lasts for nearly an hour, and during that time we have addressed number of matters and I leave with another list of things for me to do. My production manager, Rob, is as sharp as they come and we also have some banter about the way the internet has changed publishing in such a big way.

I get a call from an old friend of mine, an ex-radio presenter now running his own company. He asks me to place a Cosmic Order for him so as to have a successful business meeting with a potential new client. We also arrange a meet-up to catch up on things. I ensure I write the date down as it’s so easy to think you can hold these things to the short-term memory, and then you forget. So rather than forget I make sure the date is put in my diary so I call my PA straightaway to do this. I don’t leave such important matters until they become forgotten memories.

Now I’m on my way to see my publicist, Jane. Jane wanted some blog posts written by me for inclusion on some web sites that other people own. I had been requested to do some writing on the law of attraction. It’s surprising how many of my pieces are in so many blogs belonging to other people on the web. Jane looks after my publicist interests and is always working so conscientiously on my behalf.

After this meeting I ensure that my “wish list” for the day is working out and that I am still proactive in what I wrote out earlier in the day.

I get a phonecall from the real estate agent of the property I viewed earlier in the day. They tell me that my offer on the has been accepted. I call Alan my financial advisor and go through the details with him, he gives me the green light and it’s all systems go … another property is added to my portfolio (well in about 6-8 weeks when the paperwork is eventually completed for conveying the property over to me and all the necessary checks are done).

My PA books an appointment (a phone appointment as we just have to go through the merest of formalities as we, my attorney and I, are both aware of what is necessary for the property purchase to be legally finalized) with my attorney (in the UK it’s a solicitor).

My solicitor and I exchange pleasantries more than we talk about the property purchase. I give him the details of the property and know that I can leave the conveyance of this property in his capable and safe hands. I feel that the proactive statement I wrote earlier in the day to bring about change certainly worked!

I give thanks for all the good that has happened and as drive to the new start-up company (it’s 6 months old) to check how things are going I make a mental note to say a very special thanks that night for all the help everyone has given me.

On the way there I notice something brown slowly moving on the road. It’s only small, some kind of animal! I pull over and discover that it’s a tortoise! I know that it must have got out of someone’s garden as they (a tortoise) are protected or something like that, can’t recall what but know someone will be concerned over it going missing.

With tortoise in hand I start knocking on doors and the second door I knocked on was where it lived. I discovered that the tortoise was called Boris and he was over 20 years old. Boris’ keeper was so overwhelmed with joy that I had brought him back safely.

“You naughty boy,” said the woman, “what would we do without you,” as she clutched him close to her and gave him a kiss on his shell.

“It’s odd,” I thought to myself as I drove to my fledgling company, “we each have our own special things in life, yet not all of these special things are based around wealth.”
I made a mental note to ensure I included that in this blog.

I arrived at the unit where my fledgling company is based and it was a hive of activity, although I only presently employ two people there. There were two people collecting things, and John (one of my workers) was on the phone talking to a customer. So I just stood back and took it all in. I recalled some eight or nine months earlier I had this idea, and here now I was seeing it in action!

I felt really good, well even better than I had been feeling. I always feel good inside, and seeing this sort of thing in action running so smoothly gave me cause to say “thanks for all of this” under my breath.

John was now off the phone, we shook hands, as I always make a point of valuing people and showing respect. I recall how I took John on, he had been out of work for quite some time and had all but given up on finding a job.

I recalled interviewing what seemed like hundreds of people for the two positions I had on offer at the new company. Don’t get me wrong, they all had impressive resumes but I just didn’t fully connect with them. Then along came John, I immediately connected with him when he said, “All I want to do is make it happen!” Well that resonated with my Cosmic Ordering side, in fact I thought it was some sort of diving message in code to me. I didn’t even bother reading John’s resume. I said, “The job’s yours.”

Talk about gratitude, he took my hand and nearly shook my arm off! I have to say, John is worth his weight in gold and he’s a real diamond in the rough.

John finished updating me on progress and now I was headed to see my accountant. I have a regular meet with him, as he knows all these fancy words and shows me graphs about cash flow and so on. I must admit, we spend a lot of time talking about other matters, such as how some companies are finding it tough or how this or that business is one to watch out for in terms of it growing.

When we finish our meeting I call my plumber to see if he’s finalized the gas safety checks on a number of my properties … and he has. He’s another diamond in the rough. I tell him he hasn’t billed me for the last few jobs and he laughs and says, “I think I can trust you not to run away and not pay me.”

Well that’s enough for now, if you want to read more then please contact me to let me know and I’ll write part 2.

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The power of a positive will is a tremendous one, so you should live and think only in the present. If you use words like: “soon,” “one day,” or “in the future,” that is where your goals will always stay, several steps ahead of you in some indistinct future.

No matter how far ahead you go in the future, still those goals will remain one step further ahead in a likewise indistinct future because that is where you have willed them to be.

You should instead use words that bring them in the present, such as “I have,” “I am,” and “it is.”

“I will soon be rich,” does nothing for you.

“I am rich,” does.

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Armed with positive thoughts, it becomes easier to focus on your goals, while the opposite also holds true.

Consider the following negative statement:

“If only I could get that job.”

This is a negative thought because it is filled with a sense of failure. The person uttering it has little confidence in themselves. They are focused on their lack, and their phrasing suggests that their chances of acquiring their objective is minimal.

Contrast this with:

“When I get that job.”

This is a positive thought because the person who utters it with faith and conviction is filled with hope and confidence. While it is still possible that they may not get that particular job with that particular company, their belief and positive attitude begins opening doors for them that surely would have remained closed otherwise. So if that particular job does not pan out, another like it surely will, because the positive person’s will requires it.
Let us look at this scenario more closely: if indeed that job goes to another, the positive person feels gratitude, knowing that it wasn’t quite a match for them, and feels expectant that a better one is on its way. They are not hopeful, they are expectant because they know that what they will, becomes. Because they think this way, this will always be the story of their lives.

A negative person, on the other hand, becomes even more negative. They think that this is the story of their life, which they blame. They think it is because of the way the world works, which they blame. They may also blame their race, culture, religion, or upbringing, which they also end up blaming. Again, because they think this way, this too will always be the story of their lives.

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If you have conditioned yourself to be negative, then take heart: for just as you have taught yourself one habit, however detrimental, so you can teach yourself a new set of beneficial habits until it too becomes habitual.

You must accomplish this through patience and persistence, as well as through determined effort.

You start off by listening to your inner voice, and if it prefers to lash out, be gentle with it. Remember: you have taught it to be that way. And just as it took time to do so, so it will take time to retrain it to become otherwise.

Think before you react.

Think before you speak, think before you act, and make it a habit that anger and hatred are the last emotions that you feel. It may take time, just as it took time to become a negative person. But what efforts you put into training yourself to become positive and optimistic will be worth it.

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Negative thoughts generate more causes for negative thoughts, and have no place in one who has genuine belief. Wallow in negativity and you will suffer because of it, for what you focus on, that becomes.

Focus instead on what is positive through your thoughts, words, and deeds. When you believe in yourself, you make your mind up that negative thoughts become harder to cling to, so pay close attention to your attitude.

You have two voices, one that only you hear, and another that you speak out loud with, so others hear you. Regardless of what you actually say with your mouth, what matters is what your inner voice says, for this is the one you listen to the most.

If your inner voice is truly negative, then that is because of you and you alone, regardless of the circumstances in your life to date. You may have no control over what others say or do, but you have control over how you feel and think. The choice of how you react and how you become habituated to think and feel, therefore, depends completely on you.

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There is much talk, and just as much being written about, the law of attraction. There is nothing either secret or mysterious about this law, which states that you have far more control over your life, your circumstances, and your world than you have previously been led to believe. To take the first steps in doing so, however, it begins with belief.

Belief is the guiding power without which the Law of Attraction has no foundation. There is no need to subscribe to a particular religion, cult, or organization. Everything you need is already within you now.

Within you lies tremendous power. For it to shine forth, however, you must first find it in yourself to believe. Talk to any successful person, and you will find that they were able to take the first steps toward greatness only because they first found it in themselves to believe. Without this belief, a dream remains no more than that: a fleeting fantasy, a daydream, with just as much substance.

Believe, and that dream begins to flower, to grow, to move from the realm of mental substance to one of physical reality.

Believe, and you begin the first steps toward claiming the infinite gifts the universe has in store for you.

Look within yourself and consider your own beliefs. Do you truly believe in the worthiness of your dreams? Do you truly think they are worth the consistent effort required to make them manifest? Once you truly believe, nothing can stop you but yourself, for such belief is the same power which creates and maintains all existence.

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1. My self-esteem is my appraisal, my evaluation and my feelings about myself. My opinion of the person who I have been living with since I was born: myself.
2. I am the one who has to set and follow my goals. I am the one who can deploy my ability to feel confident and to boost my self-esteem to the highest level possible.
3. Positive thinking means that I am allowing only those good thoughts into my mind, and such thoughts may include words, images and perceptions, which are suitable for personal growth and prosperity.
4. My self worth is totally independent of any external factors such as: intelligence, wealth, my home, appearance, talents, professional success, my children's success, being attractive to the opposite sex, making friends, disciplines, “spiritual” activities.
5. I feel warm and loving toward myself, for I am a unique and precious being, ever doing the best my awareness permits, ever growing in wisdom and love.
6. I am actively in charge of my life and direct it in constructive channels. My primary responsibility is for my own growth and well being (the better I feel about myself, the more willing and able I am to help others.)
7. My mind and how it thinks and operates is totally my own. I have other rights, too. One of them is the right to make mistakes. To err is human and most of us learn through getting things wrong before we get them right.
8. I will find 10 minutes every day to be alone, and to just sit and do nothing. During these 10 minutes, I allow myself to feel peaceful and happy. I will enjoy this time. It is mine - and mine alone. Some criticism is justified, and I can learn from it. I listen to criticism without interrupting.
9. If there are aspects to the criticism that are valid, I begin by agreeing with those points. If parts are unclear, I ask for clarification. If I realize I was wrong, I say so and apologize. If criticism is wrong or unfair, I smile and say so.
10. People who are fair when they criticize tend to use the word “I” rather than the word “you.” This is because the word “I” shows I am in control and that I've thought about what I am saying.
11. Some say: “You're incompetent; you've missed the point; your work isn't up to scratch.”
12. These phrases sound accusatory. They also show no control. And after uttering them, you generally feel worse about yourself and our self-esteem plummets. This is where I will learn to use the word “I” more often.
13. This is handy when it comes to standing up for myself. It’s useful when I want to say “no” without feeling guilty. I just keep calm and use the word “I”. I can say things like: “I won't be coming to that party with you.” Or: “I'm I can't make it to tea on Saturday because I need to go shopping.” Or: “I'm sorry, I can't work late tonight, but if you need me to, I can stay tomorrow.”

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Cosmic Ordering expert and self-help guru Stephen Richards says of Cosmic Ordering sex energy, “You can increase your success and power to manifest your desires through the transmutation of sexual energy. By improving the entire sexual system it helps increase the positive vibrations created through sexual energy. Harnessing the unique sex energy that can only arise through sexual expression can awaken multidimensional awareness and provide you with your desired goal.”


Chasing your wishes and ideas can seem daunting, but if you use the same enthusiasm that you have for sexual activities then it can be manifested by that means. Often success goes hand-in-hand with the sum total of sexual activity in your life. Notice how people flock around those with high sexual vibes. So don’t be the sad loser, spice up your sex life and see your success grow.

Some of the best relationships are based on strong and vigorous sex lives. Obviously some relationships become platonic through impotency in the male or if the female has gynecological problems. However, if both partners are physically fit then the production of sex energy can be enjoyed in role play and other creative ways so as to bring about one’s desires.

Busy business people have to juggle with time when it comes to allocating a slot in their daily routines to indulge in sexual activities. This is one reason why their sexual activities are more spontaneous and exciting than non-business people. Connecting with sexual power connects you to your higher self, and this is the best time to use such energy to make your dreams come true.

Make no mistake about it; being promiscuous is not the same as creating quality sex energy through a close bonding relationship. A high libido is not always the answer to achievement, it is the quality of the sex that matters most. Some of the best intellectuals in the world, like Isaac Newton and Immanuel Kant, never lose their virginity! Yet they were able to harness the power of sex energy through their desire to be successful. The same energy created by sex can just as easily be created by the sexual urge, obviously something that these great intellectuals transmuted to another discipline. So even if you are a virgin you can just as easily produce sex energy as any lothario or nymphomaniac.

An adult mated female bee that lives in a honey bee colony or hive engages in sex with upwards of 20 males of the species. This, not surprisingly, causes more harmony within the hive and consequently a happy bee is a busy bee ... and more honey is produced. The successful female, who is the head of the hive, uses this sex energy to bring about her desires. Transferring this over to the human scenario, well obviously one partner is sufficient, but the quality of sex can bring about the same harmony as created by the honey bee and a greater achievement in your life.

During the sex act it is important to concentrate on your wishes and dreams. Building up to a mutual orgasm with your partner should be slow and steady so as to give you plenty of time to run the success scenarios through your head. As you achieve climax then this is the time to release those positive images from your head. See them go out to the universe, which is how you use sex energy with Cosmic Ordering.

When you are power orientated and have acquired the accoutrements of a successful life you will find the opposite sex are drawn to you. Do you think they are attracted to you because of your good looks? Certainly not! But what price have you paid during the metamorphoses from zero to hero, has your sex life suffered? You’ve had plenty of sex, but the quality has fallen. Now is the time to develop a new approach and combine sex energy creation with relaxation.

Find a moment in time for some quality rump-pumpy and see the pressure levels drop. Working hard without leisure time spent creating sex energy can lead to some stumbling blocks. The most successful people are always happy and smiling, where is all this loving energy coming from? Because that is what it is, it is all created from sex energy.

Using sex as a device to achieve accomplishment is quite easy. During the sex act all you have to do is bring your mind’s attention to the area you want to achieve success in. Continue running the scene through your head, work towards orgasm while playing this mini mind movie. Certainly add some depth to this by verbalizing your thoughts to your partner, telling them what it is you desire. Then time it so that when you feel the climax building up it coincides with your mini mind movie culminating in a successful ending. With the release of your orgasm so it is you also release your Cosmic Order.

You may well be analyzing this article about Cosmic Ordering sex energy because you have a propensity for sex. That’s normal for you and just about everyone else, so don’t feel prudish about it. Let your feelings loose for a most enjoyable way to manifest your desires when you channel the energy from sexual activity into increasing your chances of success.

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