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February 26, 2025

Dr. Keith Baar, UC Davis — Simple Exercises That Can Repair Tendons (Tennis Elbow, etc.), Collagen Fact vs. Fiction, Isometrics vs. Eccentrics, JAK Inhibitors, Growth Hormone vs. IGF-1, The Anti-RICE Protocol, and How to Use Load as an Anti-Inflammatory (#

Dr. Keith Baar is a Professor at the University of California, Davis in the Department of Physiology and Membrane Biology.

During his Ph.D. studies, his research revealed that mechanical strain on muscle fibers activates the mammalian target of rapamycin (mTOR) signaling pathway, a crucial regulator of muscular hypertrophy. 

Subsequently, he studied the molecular dynamics of skeletal muscle adaptation to endurance training under the guidance of Dr. John Holloszy, a legend in the field of exercise physiology, considered the father of modern exercise biochemistry.

Building on all of this experience, he conducted research into tendon health and the potential for engineering ligaments, which could have implications for treatment and recovery from injuries.

Dr. Baar now runs the Functional Molecular Biology Lab at UC Davis. His lab’s work ranges from studying molecular changes in our cells to conducting studies to effect real-world improvements in people’s health, longevity, and quality of life.

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Want to hear another episode that explores the possibilities of rapamycin? Have a listen to the conversation I had with Peter Attia, David M. Sabatini, and Navdeep S. Chandel at the source of this miraculous compound: Easter Island. Here, we discuss how one of the most important discoveries of medical science was almost lost, why metabolism (along with longevity) research is key to treating a long list of diseases, intermittent dosing of rapamycin, parenting advice from scientists on confidence and conflict, the necessary failures of good science, good fonts versus bad fonts, “non-potato” relationships, and much more.

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SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Dr. Keith Baar:

Website | Bluesky | LinkedIn

Physiology & Biology
Strength Physiology

Muscle HypertrophyForce TransferConnective Tissue AdaptationTendon vs. LigamentStress ShieldingCollagen SynthesisLysyl Oxidase (LOX)Mitochondrial BiogenesisMitochondrial FunctionMitophagyRefractory PeriodMinimum Effective DoseSystemic Inflammation

Molecular Biology

mTOR (Mechanistic Target of Rapamycin)IGF-1 (Insulin-Like Growth Factor 1)Growth Hormone ReceptorJAK-STAT Pathway (Janus Kinase-Signal Transducer and Activator of Transcription)Super Amino Acids: Glycine and ProlineKetones/KetogenesisPGC1-AlphaReactive Oxygen Species (ROS)

Exercise Physiology

Isometric Contractions (Yielding vs. Overcoming)Eccentric vs. Concentric ContractionsRate of Perceived Exertion (RPE)Load DurationRest IntervalsJerkTempoStatic vs. Dynamic Stretching

Injury & Recovery

TendinopathyAlfredson ProtocolScar Tissue FormationAnterior Cruciate Ligament (ACL) Rupture/RepairRICE (Rest, Ice, Compression, Elevation)ImmobilizationPain ManagementDebridement

Training & Rehabilitation Methods

Shockwave TherapyHangboard TrainingIsometric HoldsThe Alphabet ExerciseEccentric LoadingStrength TrainingThera-Band Flexbar

Substances & Interventions

Supplements

Hydrolyzed Collagen PeptidesVitamin CWhey ProteinGelatinBone Broth

Pharmaceuticals

RapamycinMetforminJAK-STAT Inhibitors (ending in -NIB, e.g., Itacitinib, Vorasidenib)Fluoroquinolone Antibiotics (e.g., Ciprofloxacin)AT1 Receptor Drugs (Sartan drugs)Resorbable vs. Non-Resorbable SuturesTestosteroneEstrogenNandroloneLiothyronine (Cytomel)Relaxin

Orthobiologics (Critiqued)

BPC-157PRP (Platelet-Rich Plasma)ProlotherapyStem Cells

Diets

Ketogenic DietOne Meal A Day (OMAD)

Institutions & Places

The UK Sports InstituteRapa Nui (Easter Island)UC DavisAspetarFinlandUniversity of Illinois, ChicagoMaastrichtNFLNCAA

Movies

Lorenzo’s Oil

Research

Minimizing Injury and Maximizing Return to Play: Lessons from Engineered Ligaments | Sports MedicineAcute Resistance Exercise Activates Rapamycin-Sensitive and -Insensitive Mechanisms That Control Translational Activity and Capacity in Skeletal Muscle | Journal of PhysiologyEffects of Stress Shielding on the Mechanical Properties of Rabbit Patellar Tendon | Journal of Biomechanical EngineeringA 1-Month Ketogenic Diet Increased Mitochondrial Mass in Red Gastrocnemius Muscle, but Not in the Brain or Liver of Middle-Aged Mice | NutrientsIngestion of a Whey Plus Collagen Protein Blend Increases Myofibrillar and Muscle Connective Protein Synthesis Rates | Medicine & Science in Sports & ExercisePentadecapeptide BPC 157 Enhances the Growth Hormone Receptor Expression in Tendon Fibroblasts | MoleculesACE-II Receptor Antagonists Are Associated with Achilles Tendon Rupture | University of Eastern FinlandEffect of Estrogen on Musculoskeletal Performance and Injury Risk | Frontiers in PhysiologyKetogenic Diets and Mitochondrial Function: Benefits for Aging But Not for Athletes | Exercise and Sport Sciences ReviewsDo Inflammatory Cells Influence Skeletal Muscle Hypertrophy? | Frontiers in Bioscience-Elite

Relevant Resources

Tendon and Ligament Health | SinewUSRE: Tim Seeks Tennis Elbow Relief | TwitterHow this Climber Went from V0 to V15 in 5 Years | Josh RundleMy Life Extension Pilgrimage to Easter Island | The Tim Ferriss Show #193Work Medium, Play Medium | Pretty Alright GoodsFree Weights vs. Machine Weights? Here’s How to Choose. | GoodRxOrthopaedics in the Dawn of Civilisation, Practices in Ancient Egypt | International OrthopaedicsThe Characteristics of Valter Longo’s “Longevity Diet” | USC Leonard DavisSHOW NOTES[00:07:12] How I discovered Keith’s work through a tweet about tennis elbow and rock climbing.[00:07:54] Emil Abrahamsson’s hangboard training protocol.[00:09:20] The fundamental principles of strength training and connective tissue adaptation.[00:10:36] mTOR complex 1 and its role in muscle growth.[00:12:06] Engineered ligaments and the discovery of minimal effective doses for tendon adaptation.[00:13:50] The refractory period between optimal tendon loading sessions.[00:16:42] Rapamycin’s effects on muscle hypertrophy.[00:18:49] Protocols for tennis elbow rehabilitation.[00:20:28] Why isometrics work better than eccentrics for tendon healing.[00:22:14] Stress shielding and how load distribution affects tendon healing.[00:29:07] The misconception about eccentric loading for tendon injuries and why velocity matters.[00:29:58] Ideal duration for isometric holds (10-30 seconds) based on injury status.[00:33:50] My elbow issues and current rehab approach.[00:36:02] Overcoming vs. yielding isometrics and optimal loading strategies.[00:47:11] Dr. Barr’s movement prescription for my tennis elbow.[00:52:18] Loading timing post-surgery and RICE protocol criticism.[00:56:58] Achilles tendon rehabilitation after surgery.[01:00:18] Critique of orthopedic suturing techniques and recommendation for resorbable sutures.[01:04:02] Multiple position isometrics for tennis elbow rehabilitation.[01:07:26] Collagen synthesis, supplementation, and vitamin C timing.[01:12:59] Critique of BPC-157 and other injectable peptides for tendon healing.[01:18:19] Evaluation of orthobiologics’ (PRP, prolotherapy, stem cells) effectiveness.[01:21:37] JAK-STAT inhibitor drugs and their effects on tendon growth.[01:25:35] Drugs that increase risk of tendon ruptures (fluoroquinolones, AT-1 receptor drugs).[01:29:33] How estrogen affects tendon stiffness and injury risk in women.[01:32:48] Testosterone’s opposite effects on tendon compared to estrogen.[01:35:31] Protein intake recommendations and timing.[01:40:11] Ketogenic diet effects on mitochondrial biogenesis and longevity.[01:41:57] Comparison of ketogenic diet, low protein diet, and rapamycin for longevity.[01:47:19] Inflammation’s role in adaptation and when to reduce it.[01:51:17] Timing of ice baths relative to training for optimal recovery.[01:52:33] Parting thoughts.MORE DR. KEITH BAAR QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“The number one cost to the US medical system is actually musculoskeletal sprains, strains and tears, the back and the neck, as well as the rest of the body. It’s more than diabetes and heart disease combined.”
— Dr. Keith Baar

“If passive flexibility was really important for decreasing tendon injury, then the women’s gymnasts who have the most passive flexibility wouldn’t be the NCAA sport with the highest rate of Achilles tendon rupture.”
— Dr. Keith Baar

“Injury related to flexibility is a U-shaped curve. So our injuries are really high when we’re very inflexible. When we get into that sweet spot where we have good mobility, we can do the full range of motion, actually the injury rate is very low. If we become hyper-mobile, we actually have that injury rate go up as well.”
— Dr. Keith Baar

“We don’t use a ketogenic diet if we want to go fast, but if we’re training for life, we see that it increases longevity, that the ketones themselves are really good for brain function.”
— Dr. Keith Baar

“The first recorded immobilizer for an ankle or a leg is from Egyptian hieroglyphs where they showed pictures 4,500 years ago. If I took you and you said you had cancer, you would not want a treatment that was developed 4,500 years ago. You would hope that something new has been developed in the last 4,500 years. That is where we are for our orthopedic situations.”
— Dr. Keith Baar

“The reality is that there are especially certain athletes like climbers where they’re doing all kinds of heavy lifts, they’re doing all kinds of heavy work, they’re doing all kinds of really dynamic moves. And what happens, what breaks down is they break down in their finger tendons and they break down in the little pulleys within the tendons.”
— Dr. Keith Baar

PEOPLE MENTIONED

Vincent Van Gogh

Emil Abrahamsson

David Sabatini

Navdeep Chandel

Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

Kozaburo Hayashi

Håkan Alfredson

Michael Kjær

Monika Lucia Bayer

Rod Whiteley

Natalie Gilmore

Timo Nyyssönen

Venus Williams

Luc van Loon

Stuart Phillips

Jon Ramsey

Valter Longo

Ron Maughan

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February 21, 2025

L.A. Paul — On Becoming a Vampire, Whether or Not to Have Kids, Getting Incredible Mentorship for $250, Transformative Experiences, and More (#796)

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“You can read all the theory in the world, but when you experience it, it gives you a different way of understanding. And that’s what I’m saying. Just like seeing red for the first time. You can hear all about red, but when you see it, you’re like, whoa, wait, there’s something there that’s more. The theory, the words aren’t sufficient to express all of the content.”
— L.A. Paul

L.A. Paul (lapaul.org) is the Millstone Family Professor of Philosophy and Professor of Cognitive Science at Yale University, where she leads the Self and Society Initiative for the Wu Tsai Institute. Her research explores questions about the nature of the self and decision-making and the metaphysics and cognitive science of time, cause, and experience.

She is the recipient of fellowships from the Guggenheim Foundation, the National Humanities Center, and the Australian National University. She is the author of Transformative Experience and coauthor of Causation: A User’s Guide, which was awarded the American Philosophical Association Sanders Book Prize. Her work on transformative experience has been covered by The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Guardian, NPR, and the BBC, among others. And in 2024, she was profiled by The New Yorker

She is currently working on a book, under contract with Farrar, Straus and Giroux, about self-construction, transformative experience, humility, and fear of mental corruption.

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Want to hear an episode with someone who applies philosophy to his daily life? Listen to my most recent conversation with Derek Sivers in which we discussed Emirati coffee, cuddly rats, Brian Eno, John Cage, practical applications of simplicity, traveling to inhabit philosophies, and much more.

What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with L. A. Paul:

Website

Concepts

Transformative Experience: A central theme in L. A. Paul’s work, referring to life-changing experiences that fundamentally alter one’s identity and preferences, making it difficult to make rational decisions about them beforehand. Analytic Philosophy: A style of philosophy that emphasizes clarity, rigor, and logical analysis, often with close ties to science and mathematics. Causation: The relationship between cause and effect, and how we understand the forces that drive the world forward. Rational Choice Theory: The framework for understanding how individuals make decisions based on maximizing their expected value. Identity: How we understand ourselves and our persistence through time. The Mind-Body Problem: A philosophical problem concerning the relationship between thought and consciousness in the human mind and body. Epistemology: The theory of knowledge, dealing with questions about how we know what we know and the nature of understanding. Logic: The science of the formal principles of reasoning. Chain of Thoughts (CoT): In LLMs, chain of thought (CoT) mirrors human reasoning, facilitating systematic problem-solving through a coherent series of logical deductions. The Vampire Problem: A thought experiment used by Paul to illustrate transformative experience. Stockholm Syndrome: A psychological response that causes survivors of abuse to sympathize with their abuser. The Knowledge Argument: Analytic philosopher Frank Jackson’s thought experiment intended to argue against physicalism. Act-State Independence: A principle in rational choice theory that assumes the act of making a choice does not change the decision-maker’s preferences. Metaphysics: The branch of philosophy that deals with the fundamental nature of reality. Gravimetric Analysis: A set of methods used in analytical chemistry for quantitative determination based on mass. Counterfactuals: Statements about what could have been, but wasn’t. Nihilism: A philosophical viewpoint that suggests life is without objective meaning, purpose, or intrinsic value. Quantum Physics: The study of matter and energy at the most fundamental level. Time: The nature of time, both as a physical phenomenon and as a subjective experience. Free Will: The capacity or ability to choose between different possible courses of action. Fatalism: The view that we are powerless to do anything other than what we actually do. Existentialism: A family of philosophical views that study existence from the individual’s perspective. Continental Philosophy: A tradition of philosophy originating in mainland Europe. Phenomenology: A philosophical approach that focuses on the study of subjective experience and consciousness. Bioethics: A field of study that examines the ethical implications of advancements in biology and medicine. Metaethics: The attempt to understand the presuppositions of moral thought and practice. Ineffability: The inability to fully describe or express certain experiences through language.

Books and Recommended Reading

Transformative Experience by L. A. Paul Causation: A User’s Guide by L. A. Paul and Ned Hall Being and Time by Martin Heidegger What You Can’t Expect When You’re Expecting by L. A. Paul The Glass Bead Game by Hermann Hesse The Felt Meanings of the World: A Metaphysics of Feeling by Quentin Smith Counterfactuals by David K. Lewis Stories of Your Life and Others by Ted Chiang Exhalation by Ted Chiang The Garden of Forking Paths by Jorge Luis Borges The Aleph by Jorge Luis Borges The Autobiography of Charles Darwin: 1809-1882 by Charles Darwin Alice in Wonderland by Lewis Carroll The Oxford Handbook of Epistemology by Paul K. Moser The Paradox of Empathy by L. A. Paul The View from Nowhere by Thomas Nagel Seven Nights by Jorge Luis Borges Open Socrates: The Case for a Philosophical Life by Agnes Callard Aspiration: The Agency of Becoming by Agnes Callard Heart of Darkness by Joseph Conrad

Movies

Arrival Primer La Jetée 12 Monkeys Back to the Future Interstellar Tenet

Institutions

Antioch College Harvard Business School Princeton University Yale University

People

Quentin Smith Martin Heidegger Ludwig Wittgenstein René Descartes Gideon Rosen Thomas Nagel Saul Kripke David Hume Agnes Callard Count Dracula Alice Gregory Paul Sagar Hermann Hesse Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn Ted Chiang David Lewis Jorge Luis Borges Johann Sebastian Bach Charles Darwin Lewis Carroll Jennifer Nagel Marcel Proust Michel Foucault Jacques Derrida Slavoj Žižek Bertrand Russell Aristotle Pandora Joseph Conrad

Relevant Resources

The Philosopher Tarski on Truth | Big Think The Philosopher L. A. Paul Wants Us to Think About Our Selves | The New Yorker Philosophy and Its Role in Society | American Journal of Interdisciplinary Research and Development From Task Structures to World Models: What Do LLMs Know? | Trends in Cognitive Sciences The Vampire Problem: A Brilliant Thought Experiment | The Marginalian Eleanor Nelsen: Mary’s Room: A Philosophical Thought Experiment | TED-Ed What Is It Like to Be a Bat? | The Philosophical Review Paul Sagar: Diary of a Punter | Substack Is Having a Child a Rational Decision? | NPR Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy If You Don’t Understand Quantum Physics, Try This! | Domain of Science Determinism vs. Free Will | Crash Course Philosophy L. A. Paul AMA on Transformative Experience | r/Philosophy Understanding Ontological Shock | Dian Griesel, Ph.D. Psychedelics 101 | Tim Ferriss Nine Buddhist Teachers Explain Suffering | Lion’s Roar 61 Zen Koans with Commentary | TricycleSHOW NOTES[00:05:55] The role of Quentin Smith.[00:09:56] Early philosophy class disasters.[00:13:34] How is philosophy relevant to the average person?[00:20:17] A correspondence experiment with philosophers.[00:25:29] The role of philosophy in modern times.[00:27:50] The vampire problem.[00:39:31] What you can’t expect when you’re expecting.[00:42:36] When transformative experiences happen without our consent.[00:48:12] Choosing between potentially transformative experiences.[00:52:09] How Laurie made the choice to have children.[00:56:34] What galvanized Laurie’s trajectory from hard sciences to philosophy?[01:01:14] Recommended reading for the novice philosopher.[01:02:59] An aside defining counterfactuals.[01:07:15] What makes understanding analytic philosophy a worthwhile endeavor?[01:10:29] What readers can expect of Laurie’s book, Transformative Experience.[01:12:30] Epistemology.[01:13:15] How to maintain a passion for philosophy.[01:17:21] Commonly misrepresented philosophical concepts.[01:19:59] Continental philosophy.[01:21:48] Philosophy beyond the academic.[01:23:46] Laurie vs. Agnes Callard.[01:25:34] Aristotle vs. drugs.[01:32:01] Thoughts on life’s final transformative experience: death.[01:35:48] Forgiving the philosophers and other parting thoughts.MORE L. A. PAUL QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“I care very much about the nature of how we live our lives, the kinds of struggles that individual people have. I’m fascinated by the fact that all of us have these internal worlds, and then there’s some way in which we all have these internal worlds, and then these internal worlds have to kind of coexist with the external world, and we have to try to make sense of everything, and try to understand other people.”
— L. A. Paul

“Nobody ever argues someone into religious belief or losing it. It’s all about occupying a different conceptual space, and that just foundationally changes the way you understand the world.”
— L. A. Paul

“When we’re walking around being our skin-encapsulated ego, there’s a lot we take for granted.”
— L. A. Paul

“Using the examples of time travel, it can draw out first how we have to think about time in the ordinary sense, because we can contrast it to the possibility of time as having either another dimension or branching, or in some sense, us being able to move against the arrow of time from the past to the future.”
— L. A. Paul

“I think it’s super important to distinguish between our experience of time and time itself. … The easiest way to see the difference is [to] imagine you’re in a really boring lecture and you’re just sitting there like, ‘Oh, this is lasting forever.’ And you look at the clock and you realize you’re only 15 minutes in.”
— L. A. Paul

“You can read all the theory in the world, but when you experience it it gives you a different way of understanding. And that’s what I’m saying. Just like seeing red for the first time. You can hear all about red, but when you see it you’re like, whoa, wait, there’s something there that’s more. The theory, the words aren’t sufficient to express all of the content.”
— L. A. Paul

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Published on February 21, 2025 07:08

February 20, 2025

For Less Anxiety and More Life, Treat Your To-Do List Like a Diner Menu

Several years ago, Cal Newport of Deep Work fame recommended that I read Four Thousand WeeksTime Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman.

The first few chapters hooked me, and I devoured it over 48 hours or so, capturing hundreds of Kindle highlights in the process. It’s quite unlike anything I’ve ever read, and one of my favorite chapters is titled “Cosmic Insignificance Therapy,” which Oliver graciously permitted me to share on the blog and on the podcast.

In August 2023, Oliver wrote a piece for his newsletter titled “Lists are menus” that stuck with me, and I have thought about it since. You can find it below.

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Enter Oliver Burkeman

More and more, I think my issues with conventional productivity advice – indeed, with the very notion of productivity – boil down to this: Spending your days trying to get through a list of things you feel you have to do is a fundamentally joyless and soul-destroying way to live, and most productivity problems, like distraction or procrastination or a lack of motivation, can be understood as internal rebellions against a life spent so dispiritingly. And yet most of what passes for expert advice just involves organizing the list differently, or getting through the list more efficiently. Whereas the real trouble lies in the whole underlying idea of life as a matter of slogging your way through a list.

I realize, of course, that you may not be a “list person” like me, with my long and somewhat ridiculous history of experimenting with lists in notebooks, digital lists, lists organized by context or project or priority, and so on (and so on and so on). But if you adopt a sufficiently broad definition of a to-do list – ie., as any set of things you feel you need to get done – then it’s clear that really, lists are everywhere. Your “to read” pile is a list. A morning routine is a list (of things you think you need to do each morning). That nagging collection of home improvements you keep meaning to get around to? That constitutes a list, too.

Or maybe you’re one of the many people who go through life with a vague sense that there are several important milestones you need to hit before you can truly deem things to be in full working order – to start exercising, find a relationship, work through your childhood issues, sort out your finances? Well, that’s a list, too, in the sense I’m using the word here: a set of tasks you believe you need to get through, in order to feel that everything’s OK.

As every productivity geek knows, there’s a certain pleasure in crossing things off lists. (Some of us have been known to add tasks we’ve already completed, so as to cross those ones off, too.) But in the long run, I don’t think this can make up for the basic joylessness of a life spent doing things in order to have them done – and spent, moreover, in the belief that true peace of mind can only come once they’re all out of the way. Which of course they never are.

All of which leads to a question I’ve found powerful to reflect on: what if we understood our lists as menus instead?

For many years I lived in New York – where, as anyone familiar with the city knows, there’s a kind of diner you can visit at which you’ll be handed a huge menu, bound in fake leather, with perhaps eight or nine laminated pages featuring every imaginable permutation of egg-based dishes, sandwiches, burgers, waffles and salads that the kitchen is capable of conceiving. I love these menus for the sense of crazy abundance they impart. And they help clarify a critical way in which a menu differs from a to-do list: picking just one or two items from a menu is something you get to do, not something you have to do. It’s not a problem that there are so many more things you could order than you’d ever be able to consume in a single visit. It isn’t the case that in an ideal world you’d eat them all, but because you’re not efficient enough at eating you’ve got to settle for just one or two of them, and feel like a failure. That would be ridiculous! The abundance is the point. And the joy is in getting to eat at the restaurant at all.

I take it you can see where this is going when it comes to to-do lists: increasingly, I find myself treating my other lists as menus, too. Your “to read” pile or digital equivalent, for example, is most certainly best understood as a menu – a list of things to pick from, rather than one you have to get through. But the same applies to my list of work projects. Sure, the contents of the menu is constrained by various goals and long-term deadlines. But the daily practice is just to pick something appetizing from the menu, instead of grinding through a list. 

Maybe it’ll come as no surprise to learn I’ve been getting more done this way, too – not least because I’m harnessing the energy of what I feel like doing, rather than suppressing it in order to push onwards through a list.

And here’s the kicker: aren’t all to-do lists really menus anyway, whether I choose to think of them that way or not? After all, if there are vastly more things I could do with any given hour or day than I actually can do – if there are a million ways to build a business, to be a better parent, spouse or citizen, live healthily, and so on, yet only time for a handful of them – then in fact we’re always picking from a menu, even if we delude ourselves that what we’re doing is getting through a list.

One great benefit of doing this more consciously – of facing up to the fact that lists are menus – is that it shifts the source of gratification. The reward of pleasure in your work, or a sense of meaning, no longer gets doled out stingily, in morsels, en route to some hypothetical moment of future fulfillment when the list is complete and you can finally feel fully satisfied. Instead, the real reward comes from getting to pick something from the menu – from getting to dive in to one of the vast range of possibilities the world has to offer, without any expectation of getting through them all, just like the pleasure of sitting down to a good meal. Which means you get to have the reward right now.

Oliver Burkeman is the New York Times bestselling author of Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals (2021) and Meditations for Mortals: Four Weeks to Embrace Your Limitations and Make Time for What Counts (2024). He lives in Yorkshire in England. 

Copyright 2023 by Oliver Burkeman. Reprinted with permission.

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February 14, 2025

The 4-Hour Workweek Revisited — The End of Time Management (#795)

This time around, we have a bit of a different format, featuring the book that started it all for me, The 4-Hour WorkweekReaders and listeners often ask me what I would change or update, but an equally interesting question is: what wouldn’t I change? What stands the test of time and hasn’t lost any potency? This episode features one of the most important chapters from the audiobook of The 4-Hour Workweek. It includes tools and frameworks that I use to this day, including Pareto’s Law and Parkinson’s Law. 

The chapter is narrated by the great voice actor Ray Porter. If you are interested in checking out the rest of the audiobook, which is produced and copyrighted by Blackstone Publishing, you can find it on AudibleAppleGoogleSpotifyDownpour.com, or wherever you find your favorite audiobooks.

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Want to hear another episode that features content straight from The 4-Hour Workweek? Listen here for the three chapters preceding this one that cover how to get uncommon results by doing the opposite, aiming with precision, and aiming for the unrealistic.

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SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODE The 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Tim Ferriss | Amazon The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry | AmazonHow to Use Occam’s Razor without Getting Cut | Farnam StreetGeorge’s Hack for Looking Busy at Work | SeinfeldThe 4-Hour Workweek DEAL Framework | Steady CompoundingTim Ferriss: Are You Being Effective or Efficient? | Modern Wisdom with Chris WilliamsonWhat Gets Measured Gets Managed? | MOPs and MOEsManual of Political Economy by Vilfredo Pareto | Amazon80/20 Rule (Pareto Principle) | Investopedia5 ChatGPT Prompts to Implement The 4-Hour Workweek in Your Business | ForbesWhy the 9-to-5 Schedule Has Lost Its Place in the Workplace | Fast CompanyEd Zschau — The Polymath Professor Who Changed My Life | The Tim Ferriss Show #380Parkinson’s Law: The ‘Law’ That Explains Why You Can’t Get Anything Done | BBCHow to Use Parkinson’s Law to Get More Done in Less Time | LifehackFear-Setting: The Most Valuable Exercise I Do Every Month | Tim FerrissJim Rohn: You’re the Average of the Five People You Spend the Most Time With | Business InsiderHow to End a Friendship | Verywell MindFully Automated Time-Tracking Software | RescueTimeMultitasking and the Brain | Brighter MindsA Simple Countdown Timer | E.ggTimerComfort Challenge #2: Learn to Propose | Tim FerrissSHOW NOTES[00:05:27] E is for Elimination.[00:05:46] The end of time management.[00:07:57] How you will use productivity.[00:10:36] Being effective vs. being efficient.[00:12:12] Pareto and his garden: 80/20 and freedom from futility.[00:24:01] The 9-5 Illusion and Parkinson’s Law.[00:31:41] A dozen cupcakes and one question.[00:34:47] Questions and actions.[00:35:05] Define a to-do list and a not-to-do list.[00:35:41] If you had a heart attack and had to work two hours per day, what would you do?[00:36:33] If you had a second heart attack and had to work two hours per week, what would you do?[00:36:42] If you had a gun to your head and had to stop doing 4/5 of different time-consuming activities, what would you remove?[00:37:21] What are the top-three activities that you use to fill time to feel as though you’ve been productive?[00:37:45] Who are the 20% of people who produce 80% of your enjoyment and propel you forward, and which 20% cause 80% of your depression, anger, and second-guessing?[00:40:16] If this is the only thing you accomplish today, will you be satisfied with your day?[00:41:47] Are you inventing things to do to avoid the important?[00:42:25] Do not multitask.[00:43:17] Use Parkinson’s Law on a macro and micro level.[00:44:45] Comfort challenge: Learn to propose.[00:45:39] Lifestyle design in action.PEOPLE MENTIONEDRay PorterBruce LeeAntoine de Saint-ExupéryWilliam of OckhamPeter DruckerVilfredo ParetoLéon WalrasSteven WrightEd ZschauSeneca the YoungerOprah WinfreyDerek SiversVictor Johnson

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February 5, 2025

Brandon Sanderson on Building a Fiction Empire, Creating $40M+ Kickstarter Campaigns, Unbreakable Habits, The Art of World-Building, and The Science of Magic Systems (#794)

Brandon Sanderson (@BrandSanderson) is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Stormlight Archive series and the Mistborn saga; the middle-grade series Alcatraz vs. the Evil Librarians; and the young-adult novels The Rithmatist, the Reckoners trilogy, and the Skyward series. He has sold more than 40 million books in 35 languages, and he is a four-time nominee for the Hugo Awards, winning in 2013 for his novella The Emperor’s Soul. That same year, he was chosen to complete Robert Jordan’s The Wheel of Time series, culminating in A Memory of Light.

Brandon cohosts (with fellow author Dan Wells) the popular Intentionally Blank podcast and teaches creative writing at Brigham Young University.

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DISCUSSED IN THIS EPISODE:

Note from Tim’s team: The below will be updated with the final list of links and timestamps shortly.

Books

Dragonsbane by Barbara Hambly: A middle-aged woman and her husband go on a quest to kill a dragon and save the kingdom.
The Way of Kings by Brandon Sanderson: A fantasy novel with a hard magic system where characters can use metal to enhance their abilities.
Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien: An epic fantasy novel centered around the One Ring and a magic system based on the powers of Gandalf.
by Patrick Rothfuss: A fantasy novel that Brandon Sanderson considers a brilliant first novel.
On Writing by Stephen King: A book about the craft of writing that emphasizes the importance of finding your own way as a writer.
How to Write Science Fiction and Fantasy by Orson Scott Card: A guide to writing fantasy and science fiction that emphasizes the importance of world-building.
Writing to Sell by Scott Meredith: A guide to writing that focuses on the business side of publishing.
Save the Cat! The Last Book on Screenwriting You’ll Ever Need by Blake Snyder: A book about screenwriting that provides a structured approach to storytelling.
Save the Cat! Goes to the Movies by Blake Snyder: A book about screenwriting that examines different genres within the field.
Mistborn by Brandon Sanderson: A fantasy novel with a hard magic system where characters can use metal to enhance their abilities.
The Stormlight Archive by Brandon Sanderson: A series of epic fantasy novels with a complex magic system and a focus on character development.
The Lies of Locke Lamora by Scott Lynch: A fantasy heist novel that is more focused on the heist genre than Sanderson’s Mistborn series.
The Wheel of Time by Robert Jordan: An epic fantasy series that was finished by Brandon Sanderson after Robert Jordan’s death.
Tigana by Guy Gavriel Kay: A standalone fantasy novel that is slower-paced than modern fantasy but digs deep into one world.
Lions of Al-Rassan by Guy Gavriel Kay: A standalone fantasy novel that is slower-paced than modern fantasy but digs deep into one world.
The Princess Bride by William Goldman: A fantasy novel that is fun and whimsical, but doesn’t take itself too seriously.
Tress of the Emerald Sea by Brandon Sanderson: A standalone fantasy novel that is a good starting point for readers new to Sanderson’s work.

Movies

Avatar : A science fiction film that features a conlang created specifically for the movie.
Sneakers : A heist film that Brandon Sanderson cites as one of his favorites.
The Sting : A heist film that Brandon Sanderson cites as one of his favorites.
Ocean’s Eleven : A heist film that Brandon Sanderson cites as one of his favorites.
The Italian Job : A heist film that Brandon Sanderson cites as one of his favorites.
The Princess Bride : A fantasy film that is fun and whimsical, but doesn’t take itself too seriously.
Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid : A classic film written by William Goldman, the author of The Princess Bride.

Shows

Writing Excuses (Podcast) : A podcast about the craft of writing, featuring Brandon Sanderson and other authors.
Whose Line Is It Anyway? : An improv comedy show that Brandon Sanderson uses as inspiration for his writing exercises.
Game of Thrones : A fantasy TV series based on the books by George R.R. Martin, known for its complex characters and unpredictable plot.
Arcane : A fantasy TV series that features a magepunk aesthetic, where magic is combined with technology.
The Colbert Report : A satirical news show that once featured Brandon Sanderson’s picture in a segment about Zeppelins.
The History Channel : A TV channel that Brandon Sanderson’s former editor, Moshe, used to watch as a form of self-medication.

Institutions

Brigham Young University : The university where Brandon Sanderson currently teaches a creative writing class.
UC Irvine : The university where Brandon Sanderson’s 8th-grade English teacher, Ms. Reader, wanted to be a professor.
The Hugo Awards : The Academy Awards of science fiction and fantasy, where Brandon Sanderson once received a pin from Cory Doctorow.

Concepts

Conlang : A constructed language, such as Klingon or Elvish, that is created specifically for a fictional world.
World Builder’s Disease : The tendency for fantasy writers to get bogged down in world-building at the expense of the story.
The Hero’s Journey : A common narrative structure in fantasy, where a hero goes on a quest, faces challenges, and ultimately triumphs over evil.
Three Act Play : A common narrative structure in plays and films, where the story is divided into three acts: setup, confrontation, and resolution.
Magepunk : A subgenre of fantasy where magic is combined with technology, such as in the TV series Arcane.
Sanderson’s Laws of Magic : Three rules that Brandon Sanderson follows when creating magic systems for his fantasy novels.

Companies

Dragonsteel : Brandon Sanderson’s company, which handles the production and distribution of his books and merchandise.
Random House Audio : The audiobook publisher that Brandon Sanderson works with.
Tor : Brandon Sanderson’s primary publisher for his fantasy novels.
Macmillan : The parent company of Tor, which was involved in a dispute with Amazon over ebook pricing.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints : The religious organization that Brandon Sanderson is a member of, which influenced his decision to go on a mission to Korea.
Celsius : A science fiction and fantasy convention in Spain that Brandon Sanderson has attended.
USA Today : A national newspaper that once featured a story about Zeppelins, which led to Brandon Sanderson’s picture appearing on The Colbert Report.
Discord : A social media platform that Brandon Sanderson uses to communicate with his beta readers.
Book Talk : A book review website that has helped drive sales of Brandon Sanderson’s book, Tress of the Emerald Sea.
Steam : A digital distribution platform for video games, which Brandon Sanderson uses to play games in his free time.
Kickstarter : A crowdfunding platform that Brandon Sanderson has used to successfully fund the publication of his books.

Additional helpful items:

“Brandon Sanderson’s BYU Lectures on Writing Fantasy” : This YouTube playlist contains Brandon Sanderson’s lectures on writing fantasy, which cover topics such as worldbuilding, magic systems, and character development.
King Sejong the Great “: This Wikipedia article provides information on King Sejong the Great, the Korean king who created the Korean writing system.
Hangul “: This Wikipedia article provides information on the Korean writing system, including its history and structure.
How to Read Korean in 15 Minutes “: This webcomic provides a basic introduction to the Korean writing system.
Esperanto “: This Wikipedia article provides information on Esperanto, a constructed language that is intended to be easy to learn and use as a universal second language.
Writing Excuses “: This website provides information on the Writing Excuses podcast, which features Brandon Sanderson and other authors discussing the craft of writing.
Brandon Sanderson’s First Law of Magic “: This blog post explains Brandon Sanderson’s First Law of Magic, which states that an author’s ability to solve conflict with magic is directly proportional to how well the reader1 understands said magic.
The Death Spiral in Publishing “: This article explains the concept of the death spiral in publishing, where a book’s sales decline with each subsequent printing, leading to fewer copies being ordered and less visibility in bookstores.
The Cosmere “: This Coppermind page provides information on the Cosmere, the shared universe that connects many of Brandon Sanderson’s fantasy novels.
Sanderson’s Three Laws of Magic “: This blog post explains Brandon Sanderson’s Three Laws of Magic, which are guidelines that he follows when creating magic systems for his fantasy novels.

Timestamps:

00:00 Meet Brandon Sanderson

07:10 Soundcheck Fun and Memory Skills

11:21 Brandon’s Writing Journey and Creative Process

25:35 Teaching Creative Writing and Publishing Insights

38:08 Brandon’s Early Reading Experience

44:18 Discovering the Magic of Storytelling

45:32 A Journey from C Student to A Student

47:02 The Influence of a Great Teacher

48:51 Understanding Narrative and Plot

56:42 The Art of Character Development

01:09:42 Balancing Writing and Personal Life

01:24:04 Meeting Editors and Early Struggles

01:24:30 First Book Sale and Financial Realities

01:25:28 The Danger of the Second Book

01:25:49 Hitting the Bestseller List

01:26:34 Amazon and the Changing Market

01:29:03 Entrepreneurial Shift and Direct Sales

01:36:45 Building a Team and Crowdfunding

01:42:50 Kickstarter Success and Lessons Learned

01:52:22 COVID and Creative Freedom

02:02:53 Brandon Sanderson’s Colbert Report Cameo

02:03:48 Kickstarter Success and Subscription Boxes

02:09:01 Test Readers and Feedback Process

02:14:16 Warbreaker and Creative Commons Experiment

02:22:50 Navigating Publishing Deals and Platforms

02:33:26 The Wheel of Time Opportunity

02:42:36 The Call to Finish The Wheel of Time

02:43:10 Negotiating the Deal

02:43:56 The Struggles of Mistborn

02:45:02 The Cosmere and Building an Audience

02:48:25 The Death Spiral in Publishing

02:52:29 Magic Systems and Their Importance

03:00:39 Sanderson’s Three Laws of Magic

03:14:35 The Zero Law and Final Thoughts

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January 30, 2025

Seth Godin on Playing the Right Game and Strategy as a Superpower (#792)

Seth Godin is the author of 21 internationally bestselling books, translated into more than 35 languages, including Linchpin, Tribes, The Dip, and Purple Cow. His latest book, This Is Strategy, offers a fresh lens on how we can make bold decisions, embrace change, and navigate a complex, rapidly evolving world. Seth is the founder of the altMBA and The Akimbo Workshops, transformative online programs that have helped thousands of people take their work to the next level.

His blog (seths.blog) is one of the most widely read in the world. Seth is also the creator of The Carbon Almanac, a global initiative focused on climate action.

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Want to hear the last time Seth Godin was on the show? Listen to our conversation here in which we discussed why hiding behind words like “quality” or “perfection” as a means of postponing action to avoid risk is a cop-out, what Isaac Asimov and Gary Gilmore can teach us about writer’s block and other common procrastinations, the selfishness of authenticity, how to sharpen attitudes, the futility of reassurance, separating genre from generic, and much more.

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SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Seth Godin:

Website | Seth’s Blog | Instagram | Facebook

This Is Strategy: Make Better Plans by Seth Godin | Amazon Other Books by Seth Godin | Amazon“Nobody Gets Fired For Buying IBM.” But They Should. | ForbesYahoo’s Billion-Dollar Blunders with Google, Facebook, Microsoft, and Netflix | YourStoryHoward Schultz: The King of Coffee Who Transformed Starbucks | QuartrThinking in Systems by Donella H. Meadows | AmazonTime Travel: A History by James Gleick | AmazonThe Time Machine by H.G. Wells | AmazonAmazon CEO Jeff Bezos’ Letters to Shareholders | Peter Fisk1,000 True Fans by Kevin Kelly | The TechniumAll Chocolate Bars | Askinosie ChocolateHow 20 Years of Google’s AdSense Changed the Internet | Fast CompanyRebel without a Crew: Or How a 23-Year-Old Filmmaker With $7,000 Became a Hollywood Player by Robert Rodriguez | AmazonEl Mariachi | Prime VideoNegative and Positive Feedback Loops | HubSpotWhat Is the Network Effect? | Wharton OnlineHow Krispy Kreme Became a National Treasure | Smithsonian ChannelThe Big Lebowski | Prime VideoThe World’s Premier Trading Card Game | Magic: The Gathering“These Go to 11.” | Spinal TapRichard Garfield | Think Like a Game Designer PodcastMiddlemarch by George Eliot | AmazonThe Catcher in the Rye by J.D. Salinger | AmazonThe Dakota | WikipediaNASCARGame of Thrones | HBOThe Official Home of Harry Potter | Wizarding WorldTina Brown Shares Her Lean in Story. | Lean InAlcoholics AnonymousNetflix and Binge: How the Streaming Giant Got Us Hooked | Future PlatformsSuccession | HBOAtomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones by James Clear | AmazonThe 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Tim Ferriss | AmazonThe KJV Holy Bible | AmazonFind Volunteer Firefighter Jobs | Make Me a FirefighterCommunity Platform, Courses, and Memberships | Mighty Networks“Time to Make the Donuts” Commercial | Dunkin Donuts2015-2024 | altMBAFacts. Connection. Action. | The Carbon AlmanacA Community of Practice | Purple SpaceHow Did Google Scale? The Untold Story. | LinkedInUnreasonable Hospitality: The Remarkable Power of Giving People More Than They Expect by Will Guidara | AmazonMadison Square Garden Uses Facial Recognition to Ban Its Owner’s Enemies | The New York TimesEleven Madison Park RestaurantHow Scaffolding Transforms Barriers into Stepping Stones | Career Insight StudioHidden Potential: The Science of Achieving Greater Things by Adam Grant | Amazon3D CAD, CAM, CAE, & PCB Cloud-Based Software | AutodeskThe Strategy Deck | Porchlight Book PromotionsThinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts by Annie Duke | AmazonSeahawks’ Pete Carroll Explains Ill-Fated Call In Super Bowl XLIX | NFLWhat Is Claude AI, and How Does It Compare to ChatGPT? | PluralsightAI-Powered Answer Engine | PerplexityToo Big to Care. Enshittification Is a Choice. by Cory Doctorow | MediumSHOW NOTES[00:06:08] A home run for Seth?[00:06:35] What the word “strategy” means to Seth.[00:08:33] Real-world examples of good business strategies.[00:11:31] The core ingredients of enacting a successful strategy.[00:12:21] Systems.[00:19:00] Time.[00:23:06] Games.[00:27:30] Empathy.[00:33:04] Don’t try to burn big logs if you only have a little bit of kindling.[00:35:09] Systems don’t start out selfish, but resilient ones often end up that way.[00:40:40] Shortcut shortcomings.[00:43:30] Feedback loops.[00:45:52] The network effect.[00:52:15] Tension.[00:53:40] Affiliation status.[01:00:43] How early successes make later successes more likely.[01:06:05] Volunteer firemen.[01:07:05] Expanding the circle of now and circle of us.[01:09:41] Freedom from the feeling of fear.[01:11:02] Picking customers and competitors.[01:14:24] Guaranteeing attendance while building community.[01:20:45] Community leadership.[01:27:32] Perspective-changing exercises and scaffolding.[01:32:16] The Strategy Deck.[01:35:06] Good decisions vs. good outcomes.[01:39:51] How Seth avoids false proxies in the hiring process.[01:42:10] Gauging acceptance of feedback.[01:45:27] How Seth uses AI.[01:50:25] Enshittification.[01:52:41] Parting thoughts.MORE SETH GODIN QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“When you pick your customers, you pick your future, and when you pick your competitors, you pick your future.”
— Seth Godin

“You don’t get better clients by doing a good job for bad clients, you get better clients by becoming the freelancer good clients want to hire.”
— Seth Godin

“Systems don’t start out selfish, but resilient ones often end up that way.”
— Seth Godin

“If you do average work for average pay, AI is going to be able to do it cheaper than you.”
— Seth Godin

“If you want to make change happen, you have to create tension on purpose. Not stress. Stress is bad. Stress is you’re trapped. Stress is life is bad. Stress is you want to leave, but you can’t. Tension is what happens if I pull a rubber band back and then let go.”
— Seth Godin

PEOPLE MENTIONEDBill GatesHoward SchultzMarissa MayerDonella MeadowsJames GleickH.G. WellsStephen BreyerSergey BrinJeff BezosJack WelchShawn AskinosieIlana GlazerRobert RodriguezRichard GarfieldHelene GodinTaylor SwiftTim CookStephen KingElmore LeonardTina BrownTed SarandosJames ClearGina BianchiniJim KilloranAyn RandRay KrocHenry FordFrederick Winslow TaylorLarry PageWill GuidaraJames L. DolanAnnie DukePete CarrollChip KiddCory Doctorow

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January 23, 2025

Chris Sacca — How to Succeed by Living on Your Own Terms and Getting into Good Trouble (#790)

Chris Sacca is the co-founder of Lowercarbon Capital and manages a portfolio of countless startups in energy, industrial materials, and carbon removal. If it’s unf**king the planet, he’s probably working on it. Previously, Chris founded Lowercase Capital, one of history’s most successful funds ever, primarily known for its very early investments in companies like Twitter, Uber, Instagram, Twilio, Docker, Optimizely, Blue Bottle Coffee, and Stripe. But you might just know him as the guy who wore those ridiculous cowboy shirts for a few seasons of Shark Tank

To purchase Chris’s ranch, schedule a viewing at FivePondsRanch.com.

Please enjoy!

P.S. This episode features a special, one-of-a-kind introduction that Chris recorded of yours truly. 🙂

Listen to the episode on Apple PodcastsSpotifyOvercastPodcast AddictPocket CastsCastboxYouTube MusicAmazon MusicAudible, or on your favorite podcast platform.

This episode is brought to you by MUD\WTR energy-boosting coffee alternative—without the jitters, Helix Sleep premium mattresses, and AG1 all-in-one nutritional supplement.

The transcript of this episode can be found here. Transcripts of all episodes can be found here.

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This episode is brought to you by MUD\WTR! With only a fraction of the caffeine found in a cup of coffee, MUD\WTR gives me all the energy I need without the jitters or crash. Their original blend contains four different mushrooms: lion’s mane for focus, cordyceps to promote energy, and both chaga and reishi to support a healthy immune system. And it’s delicious—like cacao and chai had a beautiful child. I drink MUD\WTR in the morning, and I’ll also sometimes add milk and ice for a 2 p.m. iced latte pick-me-up. I also love that they make monthly donations to support psychedelic therapeutics and research, including organizations such as the Heroic Hearts Project and The UC Berkeley Center for the Science of Psychedelics (BCSP). 

Now you can get 15% off plus a free rechargeable frother and free shipping by going to mudwtr.com/tim. Enjoy MUD\WTR and get a better morning routine.

This episode is brought to you by AG1! I get asked all the time, “If you could use only one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG1 further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. 

Right now, you’ll get a 1-year supply of Vitamin D free with your first subscription purchase—a vital nutrient for a strong immune system and strong bones. Visit DrinkAG1.com/Tim to claim this special offer today and receive your 1-year supply of Vitamin D (and 5 free AG1 travel packs) with your first subscription purchase! That’s up to a one-year supply of Vitamin D as added value when you try their delicious and comprehensive daily, foundational nutrition supplement that supports whole-body health.

This episode is brought to you by Helix SleepHelix was selected as the best overall mattress of 2024 by Forbes, Fortune, and Wired magazines and many others. With Helix, there’s a specific mattress to meet each and every body’s unique comfort needs. Just take their quiz—only two minutes to complete—that matches your body type and sleep preferences to the perfect mattress for you. They have a 10-year warranty, and you get to try it out for a hundred nights, risk-free. They’ll even pick it up from you if you don’t love it. And now, Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/Tim.

Want to hear the first time Chris Sacca was on this show? Listen to our conversation here, in which we discussed early-stage investing advice, traits of successful founders, two differentiators that shifted the nature of Chris’ business, what Chris looks for when hiring, and much more.

What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Chris Sacca:

Website | Instagram | Five Ponds Ranch

Chris Sacca on Being Different and Making Billions | The Tim Ferriss Show #79Chris Sacca on Shark Tank, Building Your Business, and Startup Mistakes | The Tim Ferriss Show #132Fixing the Planet Is Just Good Business | Lowercarbon CapitalAmong the Best Funds Ever | Lowercase CapitalShark Tank | ABC.comCity of Lockport, New YorkPolarization, Democracy, and Political Violence in the United States: What the Research Says | Carnegie Endowment for International PeaceBoiler Room | Prime VideoTrading Places | Prime VideoVenture Capitalist (VC) | InvestopediaWarGames | Prime VideoWhat Is the Stochastic Oscillator and How Is It Used? | InvestopediaMoney Never Sleeps | QuotronRich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money — That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki | AmazonCharms Blow Pops, Assorted Flavors | AmazonMeet the Mafia: Celebrating Bills Fanatics | WGRZThe Almanack of Naval Ravikant: A Guide to Wealth and Happiness by Eric JorgensonHow is the Democratic Party Different from the Republican Party? | BritannicaFive Teachings from the Japanese Wabi-Sabi Philosophy That Can Drastically Improve Your Life | Omar ItaniAnother Seattle Power Couple Commits to Giving Away Their Fortune as Part of the Giving Pledge | GeekWireCreating Hope for People in Despair | Barton Family FoundationAsk Dr. Gramma Karen: The Secret Word to Avoid Spoiling Your Kids | MommybitesKevin Rose: “Sadly Lost Everything…” | InstagramSpotlight on Wilson, Wyoming | Jackson Hole TravelerHow Super Angel Chris Sacca Made Billions, Burned Bridges, and Crafted the Best Seed Portfolio Ever | ForbesThe Jerk | Prime VideoZillow | Saturday Night LiveThe Latest Wild Zillow Listings | Zillow Gone WildThe Big Lebowski | Prime VideoAmy Schumer Talks Being an Introvert | PeopleThe Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo by Amy Schumer | AmazonThe Psychology of Money: Timeless Lessons on Wealth, Greed, and Happiness by Morgan Housel | AmazonThe Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danko | AmazonBjarke Ingels Group (BIG)A Brief History of Forest Schools Around the World | Growing Wild Forest SchoolWhat Is a 360 Review in the Workplace? | The Balance CareersHang In There, Baby | Know Your MemeKiss Off | Violent FemmesGen X on the Edge: Surviving Childhood | Bridgeworks‘It’s 10 P.M. Do You Know Where Your Children Are?’ | Fox 5 New YorkWhy Gen Z Needs to Learn How to Negotiate | AACSBStranger Things | NetflixH-1B Program | US Department of LaborI Didn’t Think I Was a ‘Free-Range’ Parent…Until the Police Called | TodayClass C: The Only Game in Town | Montana PBSWhy Do Cattle Produce Methane, and What Can We Do About it? | CLEAR CenterAmerica Has a Loneliness Epidemic. Here Are 6 Steps to Address It | NPRThe Addictiveness of Social Media: How Teens Get Hooked | Jefferson Health‘Rawdogging’: A Wildly Obscene Term’s Path to Mainstream Usage | The New York TimesRivers and Tides | Prime VideoLeaning into the Wind — Andy Goldsworthy | Prime VideoThe Apprentice | IMDbI Seem to Be a Verb by R. Buckminster Fuller | AmazonA New Kind of AI Copy Can Fully Replicate Famous People. The Law Is Powerless. | PoliticoThe Moth PodcastMother American Night: My Life in Crazy Times by John Perry Barlow and Robert Greenfield | AmazonGambledore: The Wizard Who Conquered Poker | PokerNews Podcast #866The Godmother of AI on What AGI Means for Humanity | PossibleWill We Reach the Singularity by 2035? | Longevity TechnologyScientists Use AI to Create Completely New Anti-Venom Proteins | Popular ScienceThe Broken Social Contract | Harvard MagazineThe 2008 Housing Crisis | Center for American ProgressCompanies Will Do Almost Anything to Stop Workers Unionizing | TimeThem Belly Full (But We Hungry) | Bob Marley & The WailersWhat White-Collar Jobs Are Safe from AI — And Which Professions Are Most at Risk? | ForbesJobs of the Future: Jobs Lost, Jobs Gained | McKinseyVinod Khosla: 12 Predictions for the Future of Technology | TED TalkThe Real Human Network | WorldThe Artificial Intelligence Revolution: Part 1 | Wait But WhyThe Artificial Intelligence Revolution: Part 2 | Wait But WhyThe Race to Q>1 | Lowercarbon CapitalClaude AI | AnthropicThe 4-Hour Workweek: Escape 9-5, Live Anywhere, and Join the New Rich by Tim Ferriss | AmazonInterview: Tyler Cowen, Economist and Public Intellectual | NoahpinionWe Tried a $60 Massage Done By AI Robots — It Felt Surprisingly Human | Fortune MagazineWe’re Engineering the Humanoid to Make Humans Capable of More | FigureIs It Cancer? Artificial Intelligence Helps Doctors Get a Clearer Picture | AAMCAutonomous Vehicle Ride-Hailing | WaymoThe First AI Legal Assistant, Made for Lawyers | CoCounselAutomatic Bullseye, Moving Dartboard | Mark RoberEight Best Listening Bars in Tokyo for Vinyl Music | Time OutFive Key Findings from the 2022 UN Population Prospects | Our World in DataYacht Rock | SpotifyBilly Billy Billy Scene | Caddyshack“Old Tony’s” | Tony’s on the PierPrefered Nomenclature (Clip) | The Big LebowskiThe Extremely Offline Joy of the Board Game Club | The New York TimesThe Montana State Runout | Big Sky ConferenceWhat Makes TikTok so Addictive?: An Analysis of the Mechanisms Underlying the World’s Latest Social Media Craze | Brown Undergraduate Journal of Public HealthGLP-1 Agonists | Cleveland ClinicCrossFit is for You | CrossFitHow Copenhagen Became a Cycling City | Tools of ChangeWe (Used to) Do It Late | Restaurant BarabbaHomemade Limoncello | Justin Bariball via ARK MediaButlerian Jihad | Dune WikiThe Medium is the Massage by Marshall McLuhan and Quentin Fiore | AmazonUnfuck the Planet | Lowercarbon CapitalA Guide to Talking to the Climate Change Deniers, Skeptics, Worriers, and Newbies in Your Life  | RareProtesters Throw Soup at Da Vinci Painting | BBCProtester Glues Himself to Floor at US Open | NewsweekRussia Tries to Use California Fires to Discredit Ukraine | NPRAfter the Fires: How to Rebuild Los Angeles | Council on Foreign RelationsNot Your Typical Chemical Company | SolugenWildfire Risk Reduction Solutions | BurnBotWhat is Prescribed Fire and Why is it Important for Forest Health? | National Forest FoundationProtecting the Grid Today, Preparing the Grid for Tomorrow | GridwareCalifornia Utility’s Role in Wildfires Under Scrutiny | CNNCalifornia Insurers Will Survive Fires — But FAIR Plan Faces Big Questions | NewsweekRams Paid Tribute to Los Angeles While Taking over State Farm Stadium in Arizona | Sports IllustratedWe Protect and Insure High-Value Property | Stand InsuranceThe AI Platform for Insuring Uncovered Flood Risk | FloodbaseJon Stewart Calls Out GOP Hypocrisy with L.A. Wildfire Disaster Relief | The Daily ShowA Messy History of Egging and Toilet-Papering Houses | Mel MagazineCar Thief Gets Instant Karma (The Final Glitterbomb 6.0) | Mark RoberMartial Arts Supplies | AWMAMcLovin Scene | SuperbadAbandoned Places in Nevada: The Sundowner Motel | Living in Las VegasPlayer’s Ball (Official HD Video) | OutkastNever Lose a Game of Rock Paper Scissors Again! | Abstract AwayThe Hangover | Prime VideoFour Easy Magic Card Tricks for Kids | AboutMagicSeven Easy Magic Tricks for Kids | About MagicThe Rise of the Rest: How Entrepreneurs in Surprising Places are Building the New American Dream by Steve Case | AmazonGOP Gets 85% of the Benefit of Climate Law. Some Still Hate It. | Investigate MidwestThe Anxious Generation: How the Great Rewiring of Childhood Is Causing an Epidemic of Mental Illness by Jonathan Haidt | AmazonThe Coddling of the American Mind: How Good Intentions and Bad Ideas Are Setting Up a Generation for Failure by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt | AmazonGenerations: The Real Differences Between Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X, Boomers, and Silents — And What They Mean for America’s Future by Jean M. Twenge | AmazonThe Coming Wave by Mustafa Suleyman and Michael Bhaskar | AmazonThe End of the World Is Just the Beginning: Mapping the Collapse of Globalization by Peter Zeihan | AmazonWe Are in a “Fourth Turning.” What Does That Mean? | Van NeistatThe Fourth Turning: An American Prophecy — What the Cycles of History Tell Us About America’s Next Rendezvous with Destiny by William Strauss and Neil Howe | AmazonHomegrown: Timothy McVeigh and the Rise of Right-Wing Extremism by Jeffrey Toobin | AmazonStolen Focus: Why You Can’t Pay Attention — And How to Think Deeply Again by Johann Hari | AmazonFour Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals by Oliver Burkeman | AmazonRejection: Fiction by Tony Tulathimutte | AmazonThe Every: A Novel by Dave Eggers | AmazonGreenlights by Matthew McConaughey | AmazonChasing the Scream: The First and Last Days of the War on Drugs by Johann Hari | AmazonLost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes of Depression — And the Unexpected Solutions by Johann Hari | AmazonJon Ronson Four Books Bundle Collection Set | AmazonMoonbound: A Novel by Robin Sloan | AmazonMr. Penumbra’s 24-Hour Bookstore by Robin Sloan | AmazonSilo | Apple TV+Wool: Book One of the Silo Series by Hugh Howey | AmazonHugh Howey, Author of Silo and Wool — A Masterclass on Writing, Unorthodox Self-Publishing, and Living in The AI Age | The Tim Ferriss Show #726Kelly Corrigan Wonders PodcastThe Pirates! Series by Gideon Defoe | AmazonStone Paper | Karst GoodsThe Elevated Aperitivo | DoladiraLuxury Tequila, Refined | Tequila KomosMullet Wigs | AmazonThe Property | Five Ponds RanchZZ’s Clam Bar | Major Food GroupLord of the Flies by William Golding | AmazonSHOW NOTES[00:06:47] Chris introduces me.[00:11:07] Some Sacca background.[00:18:32] Raising pre-teen gamblers and tailgating troublemakers.[00:19:54] Conscious changes and rethoughts since our first interview.[00:26:12] The personal and professional influence of Rich and Sarah Barton.[00:30:18] Property management and the Zen of Kevin Rose.[00:35:12] Zillow Gone Wild.[00:36:58] Simplifications.[00:45:03] Remaining optimistic despite being in the business of saying no.[00:51:33] Living in the finite without +1 obligations.[00:56:54] “Wait, what’s hustle culture?”[00:59:48] The (lack of) trouble with kids today.[01:09:53] Raising kids to solve problems and eschew smartphones.[01:14:15] Rawdogging? You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.[01:16:05] An Andy Goldsworthy aside.[01:16:30] Taking advice from R. Buckminster Fuller GPT.[01:19:13] Assigned reading.[01:20:10] Humans vs. AI.[01:26:20] What happens to people stuck between AI job displacement and a broken social contract?[01:42:38] Counting on the human craving to convene and connect.[01:56:30] What kind of business would a younger Chris start today?[02:00:44] The prescience of The Medium is the Massage.[02:01:39] What does Lowercarbon Capital do?[02:08:44] Projects Chris is most excited about.[02:18:59] Youthful mischief and flim-flammery.[02:24:51] The premise for Chris’ upcoming No Permanent Record.[02:35:25] Cultivating the ability to face (and maybe win over) a tough crowd.[02:39:19] Chris expresses some concerns about this episode.[02:40:24] Recommended reading.[02:45:07] A worthwhile purchase of $100 or less.[02:48:03] Deez Crocs.[02:50:48] Sabotaging potential dates with authenticity.[02:59:11] Parting thoughts.MORE CHRIS SACCA QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“I feel very lucky to have grown up in a place where I had opportunities to commit small misdemeanors. And I had more than one detention. I definitely appeared before the principals on many occasions. Just some light mischief.”
— Chris Sacca

“The American social contract is that if you show up, you will get yours. And when you don’t give somebody that opportunity or you take it away from them and you take that ownership away from them and you take their house or you take their store and you take their farm, then you get the pitchforks.”
— Chris Sacca

“The number one thing you can be in this business is unpredictable. … I am known as mercurial. I burn bridges. I will not hesitate to fucking fight you. I wear the stupid shirts. I don’t give a shit about much. I’ve been known to just light it on fire. And guess what? People take me seriously as a result.”
— Chris Sacca

“Most climate investing and green investing … had been basically charitable, concessionary … But we started to actually see the math change to where the unit economics of making shit in climate, making shit clean, were starting to pay off.”
— Chris Sacca

“I think the biggest danger of raising kids with privilege is that they turn out to be assholes.”
— Chris Sacca

“The shit you own does own you. Every single object, at some point, has commanded some of your attention.”
— Chris Sacca

“I’m starting to believe more and more that trouble is actually one of those things that informs all the other things that we do.”
— Chris Sacca

“It just turns out that digging up and burning old dinosaur bones is fucking expensive, and using the sun to power the economy is just fucking cheaper. And that’s not a political statement.”
— Chris Sacca

“Clean, abundant power that is almost free is single digit years away, so that’s fucking great. I don’t even bother fighting with the oil and gas people. It doesn’t fucking matter. In fact, I actually want them to work with us more on carbon capture and sequester, putting more carbon back into the ground. Because they’ve got the trucks and they’ve got the pipes and they’ve got the engineering know-how, and they’re great at it. And so we do a lot of work with oil and gas companies going in reverse. I don’t have political battles with those guys.”
— Chris Sacca

“When you take away agency from somebody, you back them into a corner. So now do that for all the fucking white collar employees. Do that for everyone who stayed in and did their fucking homework and went to college and took out all those fucking student loans and who feel like they have played by the rules. They are the pride and joy of their families, who actually got their degree—in some cases, a master’s degree—who saw their career path laid out for them. And now they see that their life’s work is obviated by a machine that’s just better than them this fucking fast and costs $20 a month.”
— Chris Sacca

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Chris Sacca — How to Succeed by Living on Your Own Terms and Getting Into Good Trouble (#790)

Chris Sacca is the co-founder of Lowercarbon Capital and manages a portfolio of countless startups in energy, industrial materials, and carbon removal. If it’s unf**king the planet, he’s probably working on it. Previously, Chris founded Lowercase Capital, one of history’s most successful funds ever, primarily known for its very early investments in companies like Twitter, Uber, Instagram, Twilio, Docker, Optimizely, Blue Bottle Coffee, and Stripe. But you might just know him as the guy who wore those ridiculous cowboy shirts for a few seasons of Shark Tank. 

To purchase Chris’s ranch, schedule a viewing at FivePondsRanch.com.

Please enjoy!

P.S. This episode features a special, one-of-a-kind introduction that Chris recorded of yours truly. 🙂

Listen to the episode on Apple PodcastsSpotifyOvercastPodcast AddictPocket CastsCastboxYouTube MusicAmazon MusicAudible, or on your favorite podcast platform.

This episode is brought to you by MUD\WTR energy-boosting coffee alternative—without the jitters, Helix Sleep premium mattresses, and AG1 all-in-one nutritional supplement.

Listen onApple Podcasts[image error]Listen onSpotify[image error]Listen onOvercast#790: Chris Sacca — How to Succeed by Living on Your Own Terms and Getting Into Good Trouble

This episode is brought to you by MUD\WTR! With only a fraction of the caffeine found in a cup of coffee, MUD\WTR gives me all the energy I need without the jitters or crash. Their original blend contains four different mushrooms: lion’s mane for focus, cordyceps to promote energy, and both chaga and reishi to support a healthy immune system. And it’s delicious—like cacao and chai had a beautiful child. I drink MUD\WTR in the morning, and I’ll also sometimes add milk and ice for a 2 p.m. iced latte pick-me-up. I also love that they make monthly donations to support psychedelic therapeutics and research, including organizations such as the Heroic Hearts Project and The UC Berkeley Center for the Science of Psychedelics (BCSP). 

Now you can get 15% off plus a free rechargeable frother and free shipping by going to mudwtr.com/tim. Enjoy MUD\WTR and get a better morning routine.

This episode is brought to you by AG1! I get asked all the time, “If you could use only one supplement, what would it be?” My answer is usually AG1, my all-in-one nutritional insurance. I recommended it in The 4-Hour Body in 2010 and did not get paid to do so. I do my best with nutrient-dense meals, of course, but AG1 further covers my bases with vitamins, minerals, and whole-food-sourced micronutrients that support gut health and the immune system. 

Right now, you’ll get a 1-year supply of Vitamin D free with your first subscription purchase—a vital nutrient for a strong immune system and strong bones. Visit DrinkAG1.com/Tim to claim this special offer today and receive your 1-year supply of Vitamin D (and 5 free AG1 travel packs) with your first subscription purchase! That’s up to a one-year supply of Vitamin D as added value when you try their delicious and comprehensive daily, foundational nutrition supplement that supports whole-body health.

This episode is brought to you by Helix SleepHelix was selected as the best overall mattress of 2024 by Forbes, Fortune, and Wired magazines and many others. With Helix, there’s a specific mattress to meet each and every body’s unique comfort needs. Just take their quiz—only two minutes to complete—that matches your body type and sleep preferences to the perfect mattress for you. They have a 10-year warranty, and you get to try it out for a hundred nights, risk-free. They’ll even pick it up from you if you don’t love it. And now, Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/Tim.

Want to hear the first time Chris Sacca was on this show? Listen to our conversation here in which we discussed early-stage investing advice, traits of successful founders, two differentiators that shifted the nature of Chris’ business, what Chris looks for when hiring, and much more.

What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Chris Sacca:

Website | Instagram | Five Ponds Ranch

Chris Sacca on Being Different and Making Billions | The Tim Ferriss Show #79Chris Sacca on Shark Tank, Building Your Business, and Startup Mistakes | The Tim Ferriss Show #132Fixing the Planet Is Just Good Business | Lowercarbon CapitalAmong the Best Funds Ever | Lowercase CapitalShark Tank | ABC.comCity of Lockport, New YorkPolarization, Democracy, and Political Violence in the United States: What the Research Says | Carnegie Endowment for International PeaceBoiler Room | Prime VideoTrading Places | Prime VideoVenture Capitalist (VC) | InvestopediaWarGames | Prime VideoWhat Is the Stochastic Oscillator and How Is It Used? | InvestopediaMoney Never Sleeps | QuotronRich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money — That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. 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Series by Gideon Defoe | AmazonStone Paper | Karst GoodsThe Elevated Aperitivo | DoladiraLuxury Tequila, Refined | Tequila KomosMullet Wigs | AmazonThe Property | Five Ponds RanchZZ’s Clam Bar | Major Food GroupLord of the Flies by William Golding | AmazonSHOW NOTES[00:06:47] Chris introduces me.[00:11:07] Some Sacca background.[00:18:32] Raising pre-teen gamblers and tailgating troublemakers.[00:19:54] Conscious changes and rethoughts since our first interview.[00:26:12] The personal and professional influence of Rich and Sarah Barton.[00:30:18] Property management and the Zen of Kevin Rose.[00:35:12] Zillow Gone Wild.[00:36:58] Simplifications.[00:45:03] Remaining optimistic despite being in the business of saying no.[00:51:33] Living in the finite without +1 obligations.[00:56:54] “Wait, what’s hustle culture?”[00:59:48] The (lack of) trouble with kids today.[01:09:53] Raising kids to solve problems and eschew smartphones.[01:14:15] Rawdogging? You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.[01:16:05] An Andy Goldsworthy aside.[01:16:30] Taking advice from R. Buckminster Fuller GPT.[01:19:13] Assigned reading.[01:20:10] Humans vs. AI.[01:26:20] What happens to people stuck between AI job displacement and a broken social contract?[01:42:38] Counting on the human craving to convene and connect.[01:56:30] What kind of business would a younger Chris start today?[02:00:44] The prescience of The Medium is the Massage.[02:01:39] What does Lowercarbon Capital do?[02:08:44] Projects Chris is most excited about.[02:18:59] Youthful mischief and flim-flammery.[02:24:51] The premise for Chris’ upcoming No Permanent Record.[02:35:25] Cultivating the ability to face (and maybe win over) a tough crowd.[02:39:19] Chris expresses some concerns about this episode.[02:40:24] Recommended reading.[02:45:07] A worthwhile purchase of $100 or less.[02:48:03] Deez Crocs.[02:50:48] Sabotaging potential dates with authenticity.[02:59:11] Parting thoughts.MORE CHRIS SACCA QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“I feel very lucky to have grown up in a place where I had opportunities to commit small misdemeanors. And I had more than one detention. I definitely appeared before the principals on many occasions. Just some light mischief.”
— Chris Sacca

“The American social contract is that if you show up, you will get yours. And when you don’t give somebody that opportunity or you take it away from them and you take that ownership away from them and you take their house or you take their store and you take their farm, then you get the pitchforks.”
— Chris Sacca

“The number one thing you can be in this business is unpredictable. … I am known as mercurial. I burn bridges. I will not hesitate to fucking fight you. I wear the stupid shirts. I don’t give a shit about much. I’ve been known to just light it on fire. And guess what? People take me seriously as a result.”
— Chris Sacca

“Most climate investing and green investing … had been basically charitable, concessionary … But we started to actually see the math change to where the unit economics of making shit in climate, making shit clean, were starting to pay off.”
— Chris Sacca

“I think the biggest danger of raising kids with privilege is that they turn out to be assholes.”
— Chris Sacca

“The shit you own does own you. Every single object, at some point, has commanded some of your attention.”
— Chris Sacca

“I’m starting to believe more and more that trouble is actually one of those things that informs all the other things that we do.”
— Chris Sacca

“It just turns out that digging up and burning old dinosaur bones is fucking expensive, and using the sun to power the economy is just fucking cheaper. And that’s not a political statement.”
— Chris Sacca

“Clean, abundant power that is almost free is single digit years away, so that’s fucking great. I don’t even bother fighting with the oil and gas people, it doesn’t fucking matter. In fact, I actually want them to work with us more on carbon capture and sequester, putting more carbon back into the ground. Because they’ve got the trucks and they’ve got the pipes and they’ve got the engineering know-how, and they’re great at it. And so we do a lot of work with oil and gas companies going in reverse. I don’t have political battles with those guys.”
— Chris Sacca

“hen you take away agency from somebody, you back them into a corner. So now do that for all the fucking white collar employees, do that for everyone who stayed in and did their fucking homework and went to college and took out all those fucking student loans and who feel like they have played by the rules, they are the pride and joy of their families who actually got their degree, in some cases, a master’s degree, who saw their career path laid out for them, and now they see that their life’s work is obviated by a machine that’s just better than them this fucking fast and costs $20 a month.”
— Chris Sacca

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January 18, 2025

Naval Ravikant and Aaron Stupple — How to Raise a Sovereign Child, A Freedom-Maximizing Approach to Parenting (#788)

This episode is more of a debate than my usual interviews. I hope you enjoy the extra spice, and if you like it, please let me know at @tferriss on X. This is a sharp contrast with the Dr. Becky Kennedy episode, and I encourage you to listen to both.

Aaron Stupple (@astupple) is a board-certified internal medicine physician. He focuses on reviving the non-coercive parenting movement derived from the philosophy of Popper and Deutsch called Taking Children Seriously. His book, The Sovereign Child: How a Forgotten Philosophy Can Liberate Kids and Their Parents, gives practical examples of this freedom-maximizing approach to parenting, gleaned from his experience as a father of five. 

Naval Ravikant
(@naval) is the co-founder of AngelList. He has invested in more than 100 companies, including many mega-successes, such as Twitter, Uber, Notion, Opendoor, Postmates, and Wish.

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Want to hear the episode with David Deutsch and Naval? Listen to our conversation here in which we discussed dispelling common misconceptions about science, the four strands and the benefits of understanding them, how quantum computing arose from trying to test a multiverse theory, what a good explanation looks like, how conjecture and criticism can give us a basis for optimism, AI vs. AGI, Taking Children Seriously, and much more.

What was your favorite quote or lesson from this episode? Please let me know in the comments.

SELECTED LINKS FROM THE EPISODEConnect with Aaron Stupple:

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Connect with Naval Ravikant:

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And I Know Nothing About Music.” | 60 MinutesCocolemon — We Are Lemon! | YouTubeCoComelon — Nursery Rhymes | YouTubeElon Musk Streams His ”Totally Not Boosted” ‘Path of Exile 2’ Character, Proves He Has No Idea What He’s Doing | ViceSudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) Symptoms and Causes | Mayo ClinicBreastfeeding vs. Formula Feeding Information | Mount SinaiIs the Food Pyramid Obsolete? | NPRHerd Immunity and COVID-19: What You Need to Know | Mayo ClinicNew Pentagon Report on Ufos Includes Hundreds of New Incidents but No Evidence of Aliens | AP NewsSHOW NOTES[00:08:40] Who is Aaron, and what makes him qualified to dispense parenting advice?[00:13:44] Taking Children Seriously (TCS) and The Sovereign Child philosophies.[00:17:49] The David Deutsch influence on these tenets.[00:22:57] Supporting evidence and long-term case studies.[00:27:17] Ways Naval and Aaron have incorporated these philosophies into their own parenting.[00:31:13] How rules work while parenting for freedom-maximizing.[00:37:42] Why building knowledge beats coercion.[00:43:41] Non-negotiables.[00:46:35] Is this method of parenting only accessible to the educated elite?[00:50:05] Handling sibling conflict.[00:54:41] How do freedom-maximized kids adapt to an adulthood of endless societal rules?[00:58:55] When kids present counter-accountability.[01:00:41] One tool does not fix all.[01:03:52] Putting mistakes to good use.[01:08:00] Homeschooling, unschooling, and socialization challenges.[01:15:56] Building resilience.[01:20:23] Coping with food and drink cravings.[01:25:54] Avoiding the terminology of confirmation bias.[01:31:37] Sports.[01:35:09] Organically cultivating interests.[01:38:11] The pros and cons of traditional schooling.[01:47:24] Parental disagreements and avoiding hypocrisy.[01:57:18] Four categories of harm that come from rules.[02:00:38] The benefits of optional constraints.[02:05:32] Body Electric.[02:07:03] Things you should know before visiting the emergency room.[02:13:18] A hierarchy of knowledge and lessons learned from this conversation.[02:17:19] Tactics for addressing sibling (and spousal) conflict.[02:19:47] Tactics to foster learning.[02:22:54] The best baby (and adult) sitter.[02:26:07] Parenting into the teen years.[02:27:54] Tactics for forming good sleep habits.[02:31:20] Tactics for encouraging good eating habits.[02:37:34] Tactics for freedom-maximizing.[02:42:56] Tactics for minimizing screen and social media obsession.[02:55:29] Too cool for rules.[03:00:14] All information is subject to challenge.[03:03:10] Happiness and creativity cannot be forced.MORE AARON STUPPLE QUOTES FROM THE INTERVIEW

“I think rules give kids a reason to present a false persona to their parents. … It’s a disaster for their own self-confidence. I think it’s a disaster for the parents because kids are entering into this kind of dark contraband world where they’re keeping their parents in the dark.”
— Aaron Stupple

“I want to preserve interests. A kid that’s interested in something, that is absolutely precious and I want to cultivate that. I want to pour fuel on that fire.”
— Aaron Stupple

“Once a problem gets solved to the kid’s own understanding, it’s solved for the rest of their life.”
— Aaron Stupple

“Resilience comes from passion. It comes from an interest. When someone is just absolutely obsessed with some problem, they have the fortitude, the stick-to-it-iveness. Nothing approaches the stick-to-it-iveness of somebody who is just hell-bent on achieving something, building something, creating something.”
— Aaron Stupple

“The typical way of looking at parenting is the question of what do you allow and what do you disallow? … What my wife and I do is we step away from that question altogether and instead view problems as they arise and try to find solutions to those problems rather than appealing to rules.”
— Aaron Stupple

“Every time you force your child to do something, you inevitably set yourself up as an adversary to your kid. … If broccoli is really important, then it’s really important that broccoli is not confused by what your [parental] expectations are.”
— Aaron Stupple

“I think there’s a huge middle ground to relaxing rules. And one easy thing people can do right now is just say that instead of enforcing a rule, we think about it for 60 seconds. Just spend 60 seconds and think ‘Is there some solution to this that gets around this problem?'”
— Aaron Stupple

PEOPLE MENTIONEDDr. Becky KennedyDavid DeutschKarl PopperSarah Fitz-ClaridgeMolly FerrissBryan JohnsonJordan PetersonIsaac NewtonAlbert EinsteinWilly WonkaLulie TanettElon MuskOshoJalal al-Din RumiJorge Luis BorgesJudith Rich HarrisKlaus TeuberThe Wright BrothersWilliam ShakespeareWilliam Butler YeatsRick RubinAbraham LincolnDonald TrumpJoe Biden

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January 13, 2025

MY FIRST BOOK IN 7 YEARS (AND SOME BIG EXPERIMENTS)

“My tardiness in answering your letter was not due to press of business. Do not listen to that sort of excuse; I am at liberty, and so is anyone else who wishes to be at liberty. No man is at the mercy of affairs. He gets entangled in them of his own accord, and then flatters himself that being busy is a proof of happiness.”
— Seneca

“I was always ashamed to take. So I gave. It was not a virtue. It was a disguise.”
— Anaïs Nin

For me, 2025 will be a year of shipping new things. There’s lots in the hopper.

Today, I’m pleased to announce my first book in more than seven years.

It’s been in the works for a long time and is currently 500+ pages. This time around, I’ll be doing things very differently.

The book, tentatively titled THE NO BOOK, is a blueprint for how to get everything you want by saying no to everything you don’t. Don’t let the title mislead you; it’s probably the most life-affirming book I’ve ever written.

It details the exact strategies, philosophies, word-for-word scripts, tech, and more that I and others use to create focus, calm, and meaning in a world of overwhelming noise.

THE NO BOOK contains all of the best tricks and tools that I’ve collected over the last 15 years, in addition to those of world-class performers. Lots of my friends make cameos, and I’m sharing details that I’ve kept closely guarded until now. If you’ve wanted to know how my life and business work with only three full-time employees, this will show you.

What else is different about this book?

– Though I drafted the bones years ago, I brought in a close friend as a co-writer and co-experimenter. This is my first time ever collaborating on a book, and it’s been an amazing and hilarious adventure. I’m thrilled with the results, and I’ve never seen anything quite like it.

– Unlike my last five books, we’re going to first release this one serially, one chapter or a handful of chapters at a time.

– We will also create a community for early readers, who will be able to read and experiment together, support one another, and provide us with feedback on the book. We want people to change their lives with this book, and for that, reading isn’t enough. It must be applied, and we feel that the community, combined with serial release, will help produce real action with real results.

– The plan may change. In keeping with the theme of the book, if the community or serial release turn into more headache than fun, or more emergency brake than accelerator, we’ll renegotiate and try something else.

– To read THE NO BOOK first and get other exclusives, you just need to subscribe to my free 5-Bullet Friday newsletter. That’s where the magic will happen. It’s easy to unsubscribe anytime.

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Now, I don’t want to give too many spoilers, and the exact timeline will be announced soon, but I won’t leave you without a sample.

Two chapters are coming up tout de suite.

But first, what of that collaborator?

Well, he made an appearance in The 4-Hour Body when I force-fed him into gaining muscle, but he’s better known as the ten-time New York Times best-selling author of The Game, The Dirt, Emergency, and others. He’s written liner notes for Nirvana and received hate mail from Phil Collins. He did a decade-long tour of duty at The New York Times, wrote cover stories for Rolling Stone, and almost got killed by an ax-wielding polyamorous lunatic in The Truth. He and I even have the same haircut.

Most relevant here, he busted my balls for not finishing this book sooner, and that’s how we ended up here.

So why don’t I let him tell the story in his words?

INTRODUCTION
By Neil Strauss

The goal of life is to make good decisions.

And decisions are the simplest thing in the world. They just consist of a single choice between two words: yes or no.

Through this binary choice, much like the way a computer builds digital worlds out of 0s and 1s, we create our destiny.

These two options, however, are not created equal. There is just a tiny sliver of the world that we have the time to experience. So, we are called to filter through the nearly infinite spectrum of all that is available to us… and say no to almost everything. The more we can say no to the things that don’t serve us, the more we are living our purpose.

And I am failing at my life purpose.

I say yes to fucking everything.

This is why I decided to help write this book. Not just to help you but to help me reclaim my life.

When I was trying to decide what to share in this introduction, I called Tim for his thoughts.

“Can you think of a recent example where you said yes to something you shouldn’t have?” he asked.

My ex-wife was sitting next to me and it took her 1.5 seconds to come up with an example: “Janet’s costume party tonight.”

We all probably have a Janet in our lives. She is so pushy and persistent, in the kindest and most enthusiastic way, that I have trouble saying no to her. To her, a yes is a legally binding agreement. A maybe is a yes. And a no is the beginning of a guilt trip that ends when you fold and say maybe—which she then takes to mean yes, making it a legally binding agreement. 

“So just cancel,” Tim wisely suggested.

“I can’t,” I replied unwisely.

“See?” Ingrid gloated. “I rest my case.”

Her case was indeed rested. On my guilty conscience.

I grew up in a home where saying no wasn’t an option. A no would get you a stern lecture, a long grounding, or worst of all, a withdrawal of love. So as an adult, I became existentially terrified that every no would come with some sort of blowback, such as losing a friendship, an opportunity, or someone’s good will. And now I give my time—and my life—away, sometimes to people who have been publicly shitty to me. They call this trauma bonding. It’s my specialty.

Not like Tim.

Tim is the master of no. As I write this in mid-October 2023, his text messages have an auto-response that reads:

I’m traveling overseas until Nov 7. If your text is urgent, please reach out to someone on my team. Otherwise, please resend your text after Nov 7 if it still applies. Since catching up would be impossible, I’ll be deleting all messages upon my return and starting from scratch. Thank you.

Deleting three weeks worth of messages! That is boss-level no.

It’s basically saying: The message you sent me is your priority, not automatically mine.

It’s a screaming yes to life.

It is truly an act of courage to not worry about how every single person who receives that text is going to react to being deleted. And this is just a small, everyday example of Tim’s time mastery. Here’s how incredible Tim is at saying no at a world-record level:

Five years ago, he called to tell me he was writing a book on how to say no. He wanted me to contribute an essay to it.

I didn’t have time to help out. So of course I shut it down with these four words: “Yes, I’ll do it!”

I didn’t want Tim to be mad at me or stop asking me to contribute to his books or abandon me as a friend and talk shit about me to Naval Ravikant.

Afterward, I spent a week writing a chapter for his project, and grumbling about how I should be spending the time working on my own book. After all, people pleasers like me live in constant resentment. We blame other people’s requests for our bad decisions.

I finished the essay and sent it to Tim, as did many others. Tim sent some follow-up questions, just to take up more of our time and make sure we regretted our decision, then he did something incredible:

He said no… to the whole book!

He has so thoroughly mastered the art that he actually said no to the book on no. And then went on to return the largest book advance he’d ever been given.

Wow, that was an impressive act of self-preservation. While it may take you five days to read a book, it can take him three years to write and research it. That’s three years of his life he gained back with a single no.

There was just one problem: I needed the book. As did so many others. It’s a war zone out here. Our devices and apps, even some of our home appliances, are constantly studying us, determining how to focus more of our attention on their business models. Under the guise of helping us, they drown us in inboxes, notifications, and alerts, synced to phones, tablets, watches, even our cars. And if you don’t respond to the Janets of the world within fifteen minutes, you get the inevitable “Are you okay?” or “Are you upset at me?” message. Or even worse, the insidious “???”

Whether the challenge is the phone, other people, or our own compulsions, most of us need help saying no to what doesn’t matter and drains our life energy. So, I reached out and told Tim that if he didn’t want to finish the book, I would.

On the condition that he could cancel the whole endeavor anytime he liked with one no, he eventually sent me a 72,000-word Scrivener file of his notes, thoughts, writings, and collected information. I then set about organizing it into a book that would help myself and others live a more meaningful, connected, purpose-driven life by following the path of no.

But simply dispensing rejections isn’t the goal. You need amazing things worth defending. The path of no is also the path of selective yesses. This book is a guide to finding the critical few among the trivial many.

It’s about finding the big yesses in our lives. Just a few. These may be people, partners, projects, places, and passions—yesses so incredibly fulfilling that they enable us to say no to everything else. In fact, you only have to get a few big yesses right to live a deeply successful and joyful life.

The book that follows was put together by the two of us from Tim’s notes and experiences; further discussions and research; lots of hilarious video calls; and contributions from other gurus of no, some of whom actually said no to us. We have included their rejections in the book as templates. Unless otherwise stated, every chapter and first-person anecdote that follows is from Tim’s perspective.

Hopefully by the end of this guide, we can all learn that there is a highway to happiness. And the borders that keep us on it, that prevent us from straying into the abyss of meaninglessness, are paved with the word no.

TORSCHLUSSPANIK
By Tim Ferriss

I first realized I had a problem when everything was going right for me.

The day was May 2, 2007, just after 5:30 p.m. in New York, when I received a phone call I’ll never forget. My editor at Random House wanted to inform me that my debut book, The 4-Hour Workweek, had hit The New York Times bestseller list.

As her words sunk in, I staggered backward and collapsed against the wall in shock, gratitude, and relief. Overnight, I was transformed from a guy begging people to answer his emails to someone on the other side. All kinds of requests and offers poured in. Speaking gigs, interviews, consulting, partnerships, brand deals—it was a tsunami.

Flattered, unprepared, and afraid this might be my only 15 minutes of fame, I said “yes” to nearly everything, especially anything six, nine, or twelve months off in the distance. My calendar seemed like pristine water, clear as crystal for a brief lull. Then I had to pay the piper.

Rarely in the same place for more than a week, I felt more like Willy Loman in Death of a Salesman than a jet-setting rock star. My assistants and I were getting hammered with hundreds, then thousands, of emails per day. 90% of the time, I had no idea how people got my private email addresses. We were drowning.

The irony was that my systems worked great. It was pure operator error.

In the deluge, I had slipped from a mindset of JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) and following my own priorities, to a mindset of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and reactively grasping at shiny objects and shiny people. I was succumbing to what the Germans call Torschlusspanik: literally, “door-closing panic.”

The term comes from the time of walled medieval cities, when the gates would close at night—and any resident left outside would be forced to fend for themselves. Getting through those doors often meant survival.

In survival mode, I panicked. I stopped following my own rules. Once I made the first exception, the game was lost. It was death by a thousand paper cuts.

So, what the hell happened? Why didn’t I see it coming?

These habits are formed early and embed themselves deeply. I come from a family full of lovely and conflict-avoidant folks. This isn’t true for everyone in the extended clan, but it’s enough for my default to be people-pleasing. Or, more accurately, people-fearing—a distinction we’ll dive into later.

Before the publication of my book, with little inbound, the effects of people-pleasing were negligible. I came up with wild plans, went out hunting for opportunities, cold-emailed people to pitch ideas, and knocked things off my to-do list. After the success of the book, with 1000x more inbound, the effects of people-pleasing were catastrophic. The underlying fear and guilt came out in full force and wreaked havoc. I was being emailed and called by a Genghis Khan army of versions of myself (surprise, bitch!), and I didn’t have a playbook. Saying yes to other people’s priorities made mine vanish like sand through my fingers.

It took a while to unwind and figure out that I was doing it all wrong.

Twelve months later, I had stemmed a good portion of the blood loss. It was only possible because I had found a big YES that allowed me to focus and say no to at least 50% of the noise:

Startups.

I used the book’s popularity with technologists to begin investing in and advising startups, and I soon moved to San Francisco to be in the center of the action. The timing was good, and I had incredible luck (Shopify, Facebook, Twitter, Uber, Alibaba, and more).

One afternoon, I found myself in the office of a CEO and friend. His company would later become one of the fastest-growing startups in history. That day, he was calm as usual, despite the chaos and noise of Market Street a few floors below. Once we’d caught up on the latest developments, the conversation meandered into productivity systems, and I asked how he thought about managing email. He spun his laptop around on his desk to show me his Gmail account. Once my eyes adjusted, I stood there slack-jawed, fixated on one thing:

84,000+ unread email.

Smiling at my shock, he said, “Inbox zero is a fallacy.”

Completely unfazed, he went on to explain a few policies he had. He ignored 99% of what came in. For much of what remained, his answer was a short, “Not up my alley. Thanks.”

If 10 different but appealing people asked him to grab dinner, he would invite those 10 people to a group dinner and kill many birds with one stone. 

If he wanted to preserve political capital but decrease contact with certain people, he’d do the “slow fade”: He might first reply to them in 5 days, then 10 days, and then 20 days. “They will stop asking,” he noted. 

Clearly, there were levels to filtering, and then there were levels to filtering. I took a photograph of his 84,000 unread count as a reminder.

Right after that meeting, I created a digital swipe file called “polite declines” in Evernote, a product made by another startup I advised. Starting that week in 2009, if anyone said no in a way that struck me as elegant or clever, I saved it. If a rejection somehow made me feel good, I saved it.  If someone had great policies on their contact form, I saved it. If I came across a trick, tool, or philosophical reset for saying no—whether over a meal, via email, or at the airport—I saved it.

This book contains the highlights from that swipe file.

It’s taken me an embarrassingly long time to implement the advice here, but I’ve found rules, systems, and tools that make life a lot easier. Of course, these strategies apply to dealing with other people, including strangers, loose ties, and family. But they also apply to managing ourselves, especially those glitches in our mental operating system that act against our best interests.

I’ve also found ways to idiot-proof things and bring the lifeboat closer, such that when you do slip into overcommitting (it’ll happen), it’s one step to recovery instead of ten.

This book was originally written like my other books (i.e., Tim tests everything, writes about what works, then publishes), until I called Neil to see how a rewrite was coming on a rough draft.

“Hey, Tim, I’m in Copenhagen,” he screamed over a cacophony of background noise. “I’m at this conference I agreed to speak at, but now I’m hosting the whole thing, and it’s been taking up all my time.”

“That’s not good. I hope they’re paying you well.”

“They’re not paying me anything.” He paused and sighed. “And you’re not going to believe this, but I told the guy running the conference he could stay at my house when he’s in LA next month.”

“You what?! Has this book been working for you at all?”

He stammered a response, and we both came to realize that for a die-hard people pleaser, information and templates aren’t enough. As my friend Derek Sivers puts it, “If more information were the answer, then we’d all be billionaires with perfect abs.”

So, we rebuilt the book from the ground up as a daily, step-by-step experience with readings, exercises, and a complete plan that is relentlessly action-focused.

The first test subject was Neil. As he went through these exercises and steps, he added his own experiences, notes, and struggles. Afterward, seeing the eventual transformation, it’s clear that if you do the work, this book really, really works. The book is designed to meet you where  you are on your no journey and take you further than you think possible.

And unlike most self-help programs, there is no set of one-size-fits-all rules. Through these readings and exercises, you will pick up a toolkit that is uniquely your own, tailored to your specific goals, challenges, strengths, and weaknesses. Some chapters won’t be for you, but some will be especially for you.

The No Book is a Trojan Horse for becoming better at decision-making writ large. Decision-making is your life.

Everything from a job offer to a marriage proposal is a yes to one thing and a no to hundreds of thousands of other opportunities. It’s easy—the universal default—to get pulled into the quicksand of half-hearted yesses and promiscuous overcommitment, ending up stressed and reactive, wondering where your time has gone.

The No Book re-examines how we navigate our finite path. It will help you build a benevolent phalanx—a protective wall of troops—that guard your goals, your relationships, and more, making everything more easeful.

As you get deeper into this book, you’ll begin to realize that how you handle no mirrors how you handle almost everything in life. Dramatically changing your nos will dramatically change your life.

If Neil can fix his Copenhagen debacle and do a 180—which he did—the sky is the limit.

So let’s start building you some wings.

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