Tarryn Fisher's Blog
April 25, 2015
Marrow
I ONCE SAW A YOUTUBE VIDEO of a woman beating her baby. I was shocked by how calm she was. She wasn’t being forced; she wasn’t visibly angry or flustered. She sat with her back to the camera, punching, slapping and pinching—over and over while he screamed.
Why did I spend six minutes of my life watching as a child, who could not yet sit up by himself, was brutally beaten by his mother? Because he suffered, and I didn’t want to turn my face away from his suffering. Some might say that you don’t need to see it to know it exists. And while that is true, I felt that if he was hurting, the least I could do was hurt along with him. Somehow, by watching his pain, I was also acknowledging it. I have to tell you, the images of her hand coming down on his skin are ingrained in my memory, probably for as long as I live. He was too little to know that he was not supposed to be beaten. His mother’s harsh cruelty was his norm.
I will not forget him. I will not forget that people hurt each other, or that children suffer for the sins of their parents, and their parents before them. I will not forget that there are millions of people crying out for help at this very moment. It makes me feel hopeless ... like I’m not enough.
To cope with this very aggressive reality, I started typing the first words of Marrow. Because if I could not take vengeance on behalf of that small child, I would have Margo do it for me. Margo and her poetic vengeance. I killed them all in this book: the rapists who took from my friends, the rotting sadists who hurt children, the takers of life, the killers of hope. I killed them and I enjoyed it. And while that makes me equally as corrupt—a murderess in my own right—we are what we think, after all.
I want to make it clear that I believe in justice both in this life and the next. I believe we ought fight for the hurting, open our eyes to suffering. Not just our own, but the suffering around us. Sometimes, by saving someone else, you save yourself a little as well. By loving someone else and expecting nothing in return, we learn to love ourselves and expect nothing in return. Perhaps it is the simple act of doing for others that makes us feel more valuable in our own skin.
I want to implore you not to hurt yourselves. Not to cut your skin, or swallow pills, or drink to drown pain. Not to hand yourselves over so easily to men for validation. Stop feeling useless and worthless. Stop drowning in regret. Stop listening to the persistent voice of your past failures. You were that child once, who Margo would have killed for. Fight for yourselves. You have a right to live, and to live well. You’ll inherit flaws; you’ll develop new ones. And that’s okay. Wear them, own them, use them to survive. Don’t kill others; don’t kill yourselves. Be bold about your right to be loved. And most importantly, don’t be ashamed of where you’ve come from, or the mistakes you’ve made. In blindness, love will exhume you.
I wrote Marrow for all of you who have been hurt, all of you who have been neglected. Because I wanted vengeance.
Love, Tarryn
Why did I spend six minutes of my life watching as a child, who could not yet sit up by himself, was brutally beaten by his mother? Because he suffered, and I didn’t want to turn my face away from his suffering. Some might say that you don’t need to see it to know it exists. And while that is true, I felt that if he was hurting, the least I could do was hurt along with him. Somehow, by watching his pain, I was also acknowledging it. I have to tell you, the images of her hand coming down on his skin are ingrained in my memory, probably for as long as I live. He was too little to know that he was not supposed to be beaten. His mother’s harsh cruelty was his norm.
I will not forget him. I will not forget that people hurt each other, or that children suffer for the sins of their parents, and their parents before them. I will not forget that there are millions of people crying out for help at this very moment. It makes me feel hopeless ... like I’m not enough.
To cope with this very aggressive reality, I started typing the first words of Marrow. Because if I could not take vengeance on behalf of that small child, I would have Margo do it for me. Margo and her poetic vengeance. I killed them all in this book: the rapists who took from my friends, the rotting sadists who hurt children, the takers of life, the killers of hope. I killed them and I enjoyed it. And while that makes me equally as corrupt—a murderess in my own right—we are what we think, after all.
I want to make it clear that I believe in justice both in this life and the next. I believe we ought fight for the hurting, open our eyes to suffering. Not just our own, but the suffering around us. Sometimes, by saving someone else, you save yourself a little as well. By loving someone else and expecting nothing in return, we learn to love ourselves and expect nothing in return. Perhaps it is the simple act of doing for others that makes us feel more valuable in our own skin.
I want to implore you not to hurt yourselves. Not to cut your skin, or swallow pills, or drink to drown pain. Not to hand yourselves over so easily to men for validation. Stop feeling useless and worthless. Stop drowning in regret. Stop listening to the persistent voice of your past failures. You were that child once, who Margo would have killed for. Fight for yourselves. You have a right to live, and to live well. You’ll inherit flaws; you’ll develop new ones. And that’s okay. Wear them, own them, use them to survive. Don’t kill others; don’t kill yourselves. Be bold about your right to be loved. And most importantly, don’t be ashamed of where you’ve come from, or the mistakes you’ve made. In blindness, love will exhume you.
I wrote Marrow for all of you who have been hurt, all of you who have been neglected. Because I wanted vengeance.
Love, Tarryn
June 26, 2012
Hello Leah
I want everyone to meet...Leah! Actually, her name is Tricia and she is the cover model for Dirty Red. I had about ten, gorgeous red heads submit their pictures, but when I saw Tricia, I saw my character. Can't you just see her blowing smoke in Olivia's face?
June 18, 2012
SQEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!
The Opportunist now has its own FAN FORUM!!! As in....NOT SET UP BY ME!
As in...THEY LOVE ME, THEY REALLY, REALLY LOVE ME!
I've been called The Murderess of Love about fifty times this morniing. But, my mood has not dampened.
BECAUSE THE OPPORTUNUST HAS IT'S OWN FAN FORUM!!
Breathe Tarryn, breathe.....
If you have not read the Dirty Red spoiler, The Pressed Penny has posted a copy of it under the "Dirty Red" tab. Please take the time to join this amazing website.
http://www.thepressedpenny.com/index....
As in...THEY LOVE ME, THEY REALLY, REALLY LOVE ME!
I've been called The Murderess of Love about fifty times this morniing. But, my mood has not dampened.
BECAUSE THE OPPORTUNUST HAS IT'S OWN FAN FORUM!!
Breathe Tarryn, breathe.....
If you have not read the Dirty Red spoiler, The Pressed Penny has posted a copy of it under the "Dirty Red" tab. Please take the time to join this amazing website.
http://www.thepressedpenny.com/index....
June 11, 2012
Attention!
First, I would just like to say that I appreiate all of you who take the time to come and review Opportunist. I read every, single, one-good or bad. I love and respect all of your thoughts. I enjoy the 'like souls' who relate or sympathize with Olivia, and I even love those who hate her (probably means you're an honest person).With that said; reviews help Indie authors. Especially, Amazon reviews.
For the next week:
If you leave a review of Opportunist on Amazon, I will e-mail you a Dirty Red spoiler.
If you have already left an Amazon review,rec the book to two friends, and I will send you a Dirty Red spoiler.
If you recommend The Opportunist to three people, and they mention your name in their review, I will mail you a paperback copy of Opportunist.
Send me your e-mail address at [email protected] for your spoiler. I will send it out on the eighteenth of this month.
For the next week:
If you leave a review of Opportunist on Amazon, I will e-mail you a Dirty Red spoiler.
If you have already left an Amazon review,rec the book to two friends, and I will send you a Dirty Red spoiler.
If you recommend The Opportunist to three people, and they mention your name in their review, I will mail you a paperback copy of Opportunist.
Send me your e-mail address at [email protected] for your spoiler. I will send it out on the eighteenth of this month.
