Yes, we know I'm evil and I don't come here often enough, but I've decided it's time to stop being a good girl and let my freak flag fly. I'm going to say what I want and do what I want and damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead, etc. etc.

But you already do that, Sister Krissie, you say. I know, I know, and I've gotten into a lot of trouble for it over the years. But you know, that's one good thing about getting older - it puts everything in perspective, and things that were devastating a few y...