It seems like everyone is working towards a goal whether it be to land a particular job, earn a 6 figure income, find the perfect relationship or buy the perfect house.         Goals are great because they give you direction and purpose, but they can also be distracting. If you are too focused on the big goal, you may stop paying attention to the present moment, ignoring pretty much what is going on right in front of you and investing instead, in the big pay off that you expect to get when you