I have heard over and over again that, "You Create Your Own Reality."  Especially from those who seem to have achieved or acquired what they wanted.  But did they really create their reality or did they open themselves up to embrace reality?Consider someone who is going through the motions, detached, going through their day on autopilot.  "You create your own reality (YCYOR) advocates would conclude that their mundane, routine oriented thinking is creating their normal, routine looking life and