Kindness

In my Christmas book titled Twelve Days of Christmas, Julia, my heroine, is blogging about her experiment in kindness. What she doesn’t expect is how kindness changes her.


That’s the punch line.


Kindness has a kickback of sorts. When we are kind to others, we are blessed too.


Let me give you a small example.


This past weekend I attended my class reunion. My dearest friend all through school was a girl named Jane. Unfortunately, Jane has MS and lives in a group home as she is no longer able to live independently.  It has broken my heart to see the progression of this illness over the years as it has affected Jane’s ability to move and walk.


Because of MS, Jane couldn’t attend the reunion. She sent a message for me to read to our classmates but I wanted to do more to show her she was with us in heart and we were thinking of her.


To accomplish this, I bought a few poster boards and another friend, Cherie, marked them up with notes to Jane. During the reunion I took photos of our classmates holding up these posters which I then texted to her daughter to show Jane that we were all thinking of her. Later, I brought the posters to the banquet dinner for everyone to sign. Sometime within the next couple of weeks, I’ll deliver the posters to Jane personally so she can read everyone’s notes to her.


Jane’s daughter told me how much it meant to her mother to see the photos of our classmates holding them up. That one act of kindness touched Jane and made her feel that she is loved and was missed.


The blessing for me came as I took the posters around to be signed. As a result, I was able to chat and talk with several of my classmates that I probably wouldn’t have taken the time to visit.


The blessing was two-fold. Jane was blessed and so was I. That’s the way kindness works. Such a little thing. Such a surprise. Such a blessing.


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Published on September 21, 2016 15:50
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message 1: by Lynn (new)

Lynn Esche Griffin What a sweet and special way to include your friend!


message 2: by Judy (new)

Judy Debbie, you are truly an amazing woman, but more an amazing friend! May angels watch over both of you. I am having a rough time right now as we just learned yesterday that my dear husband of 48 years is facing chemo for the third time, as his lymphoma has returned again. Your act of loving, kindness really lifted me up and made me remember that that whatever kindness I can instill in others, including my husband, will not only help them but make me stronger!


message 3: by Amber (new)

Amber Putney I enjoyed reading this book very much. Julia found out the true meaning of kindness by being nice to "Ebeneezer." I found myself not wanting to put the book down, but wanting to continue to read it to find out what their next encounter was going to entail. I don't want to ruin the ending, but that was one of my favorite parts. Keep up the good work. I always wondered where you got your ideas for your characters from.


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